Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Automation, Private Lenders, and Mentorship Tips with Jay Conner
***Guest Appearance
Credits to:
https://www.youtube.com/@BucksOutsideTheBox
“Ep. 198: Jay Conner's 10-Hour Work Week for 7-Figure Success.”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TGRzyNBkO6Q
On the recent episode of Raising Private Money with Jay Conner, Jay joins Brian Davis on the Buck Outside the Box podcast, where listeners were treated to an insightful discussion on scaling a real estate business through private funding and automation. Jay’s perspective, shaped by decades of investing experience and over 475 rehabs, offered actionable strategies for both seasoned investors and newcomers hoping to build a profitable portfolio.
Jay’s journey in real estate began in the early 2000s, transitioning from the mobile home business to single-family house investments in Eastern North Carolina—a smaller market with a population of just 40,000. Despite the locality’s modest size, his business has been able to consistently produce high margins with average profits now exceeding $82,000 per deal. His career illustrates that significant success in real estate does not require operating in a major city; it hinges upon execution and business fundamentals.
Early on, Jay relied heavily on local banks to fund his deals, building the business around a substantial line of credit, as was common practice before the 2008 financial crisis. The downturn provided a pivotal challenge when his credit was abruptly withdrawn during the crash. Instead of stagnating, Jay viewed this hardship as a catalyst for growth, prompting him to explore private money—a mode of funding that would forever change his approach. In less than 90 days, he successfully raised over $2 million from individual private lenders, a sum that allowed his enterprise to not only survive a tough market but actually triple its growth that year.
Private money, as Jay delineates, is fundamentally distinct from hard money. Hard money lenders operate as brokers or firms, pooling investments from individuals to lend out as secured loans, and often tacking on origination fees and higher points. In contrast, private lending is conducted directly with individuals—friends, family, or acquaintances—eliminating the middleman, junk fees, and ultimately giving the real estate investor much more control over terms.
For Jay, these private lenders are treated like banks, safeguarded with promissory notes and mortgage protections, but they enjoy greater returns than traditional CDs or savings vehicles. He has steadfastly offered his 47 private lenders the same attractive interest rates since 2009: 8% in first position or 10% on rehab funds, with no origination fees.
One vital insight Jay shares is the mindset and approach required to attract private money authentically. Rather than chasing after people for cash or approaching the conversation from a position of need, Jay frames the opportunity as a service—teaching others how they can achieve above-average returns safely and securely, often without even referencing a specific deal in initial conversations.
This educator's mindset builds trust and credibility. He recommends avoiding raising money at the last minute or in desperation, but rather proactively educating potential lenders on how private lending works and benefits them.
Automation is another key pillar of Jay’s business. By leveraging both human resources (including an acquisitionist who has managed his seller contacts for over 18 years) and technology, he has built a systemized, self-running operation.
Jay’s involvement in the business is now less than ten hours per week—all possible due to careful delegation and the adoption of customer relationship management (CRM) software. This proprietary software streamlines