Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Wealth Elevator Insights: Lane Kawaoka Explains Levels of Wealth After Million Dollar Net Worth
When it comes to achieving true financial freedom, there’s a vast difference between chasing hype and building a repeatable, trustworthy system. On a recent episode of “Raising Private Money,” Jay Conner sits down with Lane Kawaoka—an engineer turned real estate powerhouse—who has raised over $200 million in private capital and owns more than 10,000 units. Lane’s journey isn’t just impressive in numbers; it’s a how-to guide for investors ready to scale thoughtfully, avoid rookie pitfalls, and reach financial independence.
From Corporate Engineer to Real Estate Leader
Lane Kawaoka’s introduction to real estate investing wasn’t marked by overnight success. Instead, it grew from years of disciplined learning, starting with investing in single-family homes as early as 2009. Eventually, he transitioned from his high-paying engineering job to focus full-time on real estate, not because it was easy, but because he saw the power of repeatable systems. As Lane began raising private money, he relied on building strong relationships, first with friends and family, then expanding outward, always putting trust and alignment at the forefront.
Breaking the Million-Dollar Ceiling
Many new investors gather their first million through hustle—buying rentals, flipping properties, and leveraging local relationships for their first private loans. But what gets someone to one million often won’t get them to ten million and beyond. Lane’s “Wealth Elevator” framework breaks down the journey into distinct floors.
The first floor involves building a solid base through savings and owning rentals. The second floor ushers in accredited investor status, where access to more lucrative, risk-managed deals becomes possible. The third floor is where investors with $3–4 million net worth begin to focus on preservation, shifting from aggressive growth to capital protection and diversification into vehicles like T-bills, life insurance, and private money lending.
Those in this second-floor space—the million to multi-million range—still need to take calculated risks. Simplistic “set it and forget it” strategies no longer suffice. Instead, these investors must evaluate deals with a discerning eye, balancing risk and reward as they work towards their ultimate financial freedom.
Systematic Decision-Making and Honest Conversations
Unlike many in the industry who pitch investments by inflating numbers and projecting excessive optimism, Lane prefers a system-driven, data-first approach. When considering a deal, he and his team start by examining raw financials—rent rolls, profit and loss statements, and cap rates—without manipulation. They look for conservative assumptions, such as cautious reversion cap rates and realistic rent escalators, instead of painting a rosy picture.
Importantly, Lane prioritizes transparency. He discusses not just why an investment could succeed, but openly points out possible risk factors. This willingness to “test the deal before looking at the answers” builds authenticity and long-term trust with investors. He draws a clear line: if a prospective investor requires constant reassurance or isn’t comfortable with the possibility of loss, private placements in real estate may not be the right fit.
Alignment Over Aggressive Pitching
The essence of Lane’s capital raising philosophy is simple: alignment. He treats raising money as a process of mutual fit, not of one-way persuasion. Potential investors are encouraged to think carefully about whether their personal goals, timelines, and risk tolerance align with the realities of multifamily deals, private lending, or syndications. Lane’s team offers open communication and a clear-eyed view of both the protections and limitations of their investments. Rather than pushing for a sale, they aim for every investor to go in “eyes wide open,” knowing both the upside and the possible storms ahead.