Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Automating Real Estate Success: Private Money, Marketing, and Mastermind Tips From Jay Conner
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“DS67 | Finding deals before anybody else does | Jay Conner”
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In today's competitive real estate landscape, innovative funding solutions can be the difference between scaling your business and hitting a financial plateau. On a recent episode of the Dwellynn Show, Ola Dantis sat down with Jay Conner to unpack the practical strategies that have propelled Jay to success as a “private money authority.” Drawing from decades of experience, Jay shared not only the nuts and bolts of his funding system but also actionable tips on lead generation and building lasting relationships in real estate.
Jay’s business journey is rooted in small-town North Carolina. Despite focusing on a market of just 40,000 people, he’s managed to build a seven-figure business, primarily refinancing single-family homes and overseeing commercial projects alongside his wife, Carol Joy. What’s remarkable about Jay’s story isn’t the volume of deals—he averages just two to three properties a month—but the consistent, sizable profits that each transaction yields. Over the last year, his average profit per deal reached an impressive $64,000. This higher per-deal profit means he doesn’t have to play the numbers game; instead, he targets quality, high-yield projects.
A significant pivot in Jay's career came when he transitioned from relying on traditional banks to leveraging private money. This shift not only gave him control over his business's financial destiny but also allowed him to design a system where money isn’t a constant constraint. His approach is grounded in attracting, rather than chasing, private investors—an attitude he encourages others to adopt. Rather than pleading for funds, Jay underscores the importance of presenting a compelling program that speaks for itself and naturally draws interest from potential lenders.
One of the most effective marketing tactics Jay employs is the yellow letter campaign. Unlike generic postcards, his method uses personalized, hand-addressed letters—designed to look like notes from friends or family—which dramatically increase open rates. These letters are especially effective with absentee property owners, targeting those tired of managing tenants and looking for an exit strategy. Jay is meticulous about controlling the mailing process, ensuring letters are sent from his local zip code and handled by a trusted provider, emphasizing accountability and personal touch every step of the way.
For those new to the concept, Jay clarifies that private lenders are regular individuals—often from his existing network, new warm contacts, or those referred by current lenders—who invest their capital or retirement funds in real estate deals. More than half of his lenders use self-directed IRAs, which means investors can have control over their retirement funds and potentially earn higher returns than conventional investment vehicles.
From the perspective of the private lender, there are three key reasons for choosing Jay’s investment opportunities: higher returns than traditional banks, security through documented and conservative loans, and protection from market volatility. Unlike stocks, where the principal can fluctuate dramatically, the principal amount in Jay's deals remains stable until repayment. The deals are structured to be both safe and transparent, with clear documentation such as promissory notes, mortgages, or deeds of trust, and proper insurance and title coverage.
Jay highlights the value of authenticity, collaboration, and education in building a sustainable real estate business. He encourages regular engagement wit