Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
The Three Keys to Successfully Raise Capital for Real Estate Deals with Jay Conner
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***Guest Appearance
Credits to:
https://www.youtube.com/@FuquanBilal
“PFREI Series Episode 141: Jay Conner”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LZG3uHXDWtI&t=1s
Raising private money is a powerful lever in real estate investing, but many investors—especially those just starting—find themselves facing significant roadblocks. In the latest Raising Private Money episode, Jay Conner and Fuquan Bilal discuss not only the critical importance of private money in deal-making but also the mindset shifts, practical steps, and relationship-building essential for success.
The Mindset Shift: Teaching, Not Begging
A central theme from Jay Conner is the need for a fundamental mindset change when approaching private lenders. The traditional approach to raising capital often feels like chasing, persuading, or even begging, which instills fear of rejection and desperation. Instead, Jay Conner encourages investors to become educators. By teaching rather than selling, you build trust and reduce anxiety—both for yourself and potential lenders.
This teaching approach involves explaining what private money is, how it operates, and the security that comes with investing in property-backed loans. It’s crucial to outline the program, the interest rates, terms, and how investors are protected. When investors understand the process, they become confident participants rather than skeptical bystanders.
Building Relationships and Networks
Relationships are at the heart of raising private money. Jay Conner's career was transformed when his access to traditional bank financing suddenly dried up. Forced to find alternatives, he leveraged his personal and professional networks—reaching out to contacts from the church, the Rotary Club, and business groups—to introduce them to the private lending model. His approach resulted in raising over $2 million in just three months and ultimately increased his business's profitability.
What stands out is how Jay Conner is not dependent on lenders who already understand private lending. He positions himself as a trusted advisor, cultivating long-term trust and transparency. As a result, his private lenders often refer new prospects, and his capital pool continues to grow—even when market conditions shift.
Overcoming Common Challenges
New investors often struggle with three main challenges: the wrong mindset, fear of rejection, and lack of confidence. Jay Conner emphasizes the importance of owning the "real estate between your ears" before expecting to own real estate out in the market. Investors must approach conversations with confidence, conviction, and a servant’s heart.
Confidence comes from mastering the private lending program; knowing how it works inside and out ensures conversations are natural and engaging. For those who worry about having no deals or experience, Jay Conner points out that lenders are secured by the property. With proper guidance, a new investor can safely structure their deals, and the lender's risk is mitigated.
A useful tip for conversational starters is the "Did you know?" question. Sparking curiosity can lead to discussions about the benefits of self-directed IRAs and how private investors can earn significant returns, sometimes even tax-free.
Navigating Market Headwinds
The episode touches on how market fluctuations—such as rising interest rates, changing investor sentiment, and increased volatility—have impacted private lending. For Jay Conner, the foundational relationship and education-based model has shielded him from market slowdowns. His lenders, having confidence in the security and returns of real estate-backed deals, remain engaged even during