Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Secrets to Getting Real Estate Deals Funded Without Begging or Selling
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“Private Money Explained: How to Raise Capital Without Chasing Investors with Jay Conner”
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If you’ve ever wondered how to break free from the constraints of traditional real estate financing, the story behind Jay Conner’s transformative journey is bound to inspire. In this episode, together with Ryan Watts, Jay opens up about how a crisis forced him to discover a new path that ultimately became the cornerstone of his real estate and coaching business: private money.
Jay’s story starts not with triumph, but with a setback. In January 2009, after more than six years of success relying on local banks and mortgage companies for real estate investments, Jay received an unexpected call informing him that his lines of credit had been shut down. No warning, no explanation—just gone. Faced with this daunting challenge, Jay refused to become a victim; instead, he turned to his network and found the solution through a simple but powerful question: Who could help?
This led Jay to the world of private money, a concept he had never explored and that most people—even seasoned investors—often don’t understand. Unlike hard money, which is institutional in nature and involves brokers and underwriting, private money is sourced directly from individual investors. There are no brokers, no origination fees, and the relationship is built on trust and service.
Jay’s approach is fundamentally different from what most real estate “gurus” teach. He doesn’t believe in pitching deals or chasing funding. Instead, he emphasizes educating his network, sharing opportunities, and separating the conversation about investment from the specifics of any deal. This strategy allows people to see the value and security of real estate-backed private money lending without feeling pressured. Most of Jay’s private lenders had never heard of private money until he explained how it works—how they could earn competitive returns, backed by mortgages or deeds of trust, and enjoy security that typical stocks or funds couldn’t provide.
One of Jay’s insights is the myth that private money is only for the wealthy or well-connected. Instead, he built his lender base from ordinary people—retired teachers, civil service workers, even minors whose parents managed inherited funds. For Jay, it’s about diagnosing whether someone has a problem, like low returns or volatile investments, and then introducing them to a new solution. If an associate is happy with their return, Jay doesn’t push his opportunity, but if they express frustration, that’s where the conversation naturally turns toward private money.
The real benefit of Jay’s method isn’t just about financing deals—it’s about empowering others and fostering relationships based on trust and integrity. He coaches real estate investors across the country to adopt a service-first mindset, focusing on what they can do for others rather than simply on profits. This principle extends to his business model and his personal philosophy: “Enough is never enough when it’s not about you.” Success, in Jay’s view, comes from joy, happiness, and the impact you make serving others.
Jay’s coaching program has produced remarkable stories, helping people retire early, raise millions in private funding, and reclaim their lifestyle. The transformation is clear: private money enables fast closings, greater flexibility, and confidence—allowing investors to make offers knowing the funding is in place.
For newcomers, Jay offers practical resources such as his Curiosity O