Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Automate and Delegate: Scaling Real Estate Investing with Private Money and Systems
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“How Jay Conner Raised $2,150,000 Without Banks (Private Money Secrets) | Ep 54”
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Navigating the world of real estate investment often feels like a delicate balancing act between finding the right deals and securing funding. For many investors, the challenge isn’t just identifying promising properties—it’s having reliable sources of capital to act quickly when opportunities arise. In a recent episode of the Bigger Life podcast, industry veteran Jay Conner shared the game-changing strategies he uses to consistently fund his projects and keep his business growing, even in challenging markets.
At the heart of Jay’s approach is private money lending, a strategy he credits as having the single greatest impact on his success. The power of private money is in its flexibility and accessibility. Unlike traditional bank loans or hard money lenders—which are often restrictive and laden with fees—private money allows investors to deal directly with individuals who have idle capital. These individuals, often referred to as private lenders, benefit from higher returns on their funds, while investors like Jay gain access to capital that isn’t limited by credit scores or the bureaucratic limitations of financial institutions.
Private money is distinct from the more common syndication or hard money models. While syndications pool many investors into a fund and require compliance with SEC regulations, Jay’s approach is more personal and approachable. It's built around one-on-one relationships where each loan is secured by a specific asset, such as a single-family home or small multi-unit property. This asset-backed debt provides security for lenders while simplifying the process for borrowers.
One major advantage of private money is the speed and freedom it provides. Jay’s business model is flexible enough to close deals in as little as seven days, an edge that has helped him win opportunities others might miss. Since shifting his acquisition strategy, Jay now sources nearly all his deals off-market, drawing motivated sellers through targeted Google and Facebook ads, as well as carefully crafted direct mail campaigns. Having capital ready to deploy means he can give sellers the fast closings they often desire, making his offers more attractive.
Jay emphasizes the importance of getting the money lined up before hunting for deals. He educates potential lenders—often people who have never heard of private lending—by hosting luncheons and workshops. By adopting a teacher’s mindset and focusing on adding value, Jay builds trust and creates genuine win-win scenarios. Many of his lenders are sourced from his personal and professional networks, but he also expands his pool through local networking groups and self-directed IRA events, where individuals are already seeking ways to deploy their retirement funds for better returns.
Automation and leveraging a skilled team are key components in scaling his business without being overwhelmed. Jay’s organization is lean but operates efficiently thanks to a combination of talented staff and technology. A dedicated acquisitionist qualifies leads, supported by a CRM that integrates every touchpoint, while an AI assistant screens and schedules calls with sellers. A project manager and bookkeeper round out the core team, leaving Jay free to focus on high-level decisions and the aspects of the business he loves.
The impact of this system speaks volumes: Jay operates with a small core team, relies on streamlined automation, and typically spends le