Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
From Bank Rejection to Real Estate Success: Jay Conner’s Private Money System
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hQUXwHjkT-0&t=250s
“How to Raise Private Money for Real Estate Deals (w/ Jay Conner) [TJP Ep29].”
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On a recent episode of the Raising Private Money podcast, real estate investing heavyweight Jay Conner sat down with Leo Young for a wide-ranging discussion about the critical art of raising private money. Their conversation illuminated not just the mechanics of private funding in real estate, but also the mindsets and systems that lead to sustainable, scalable success. Whether you’re a seasoned investor or just getting started, this episode offered a masterclass in funding strategy.
Transforming Obstacles into Opportunity
Jay Conner has built an impressive reputation over two decades, rehabbing over 500 homes and transacting more than $100 million in deals. But his journey took a pivotal turn after the 2008 financial crash, when traditional banks pulled his credit lines, and he was forced to rethink his approach. This adversity led him to discover the power of private money—a strategy that allowed him, within just 90 days, to raise over $2 million in new capital, entirely free from the restrictions and demands of banks or credit.
For Jay, the transition to private money wasn’t just about survival; it became the defining catalyst for his long-term business growth and transformed the way he looked at real estate investing as a whole. He attributes his ability to consistently close deals—never missing out for lack of funds—to building and nurturing relationships with private lenders.
Debunking the Myth: "The Money Will Show Up"
A recurring theme in the conversation was Jay’s frustration with the tired real estate trope that if you lock down a good deal, the money will magically appear. Both Jay and Leo agreed that this advice is not only unhelpful but also sets up new investors for unnecessary stress. Instead, Jay advocates for flipping this narrative: get the capital lined up before you hunt for deals. This approach gives investors confidence, negotiating power, and the ability to make offers rapidly, which is crucial in competitive markets.
There’s more capital available—especially post-2020—than there are viable real estate deals. That means investors who proactively build relationships with private lenders hold a significant edge.
A Mindset Shift: From Borrower to Opportunity Provider
Jay discussed the crucial mental shift he made—and now teaches others—which is moving from a mentality of “asking for a loan” to “offering an opportunity.” For most people, the default is to assume that the person with the money makes all the rules. Jay turned this on its head by taking control: setting terms, acting as his own underwriter, and educating potential private lenders about the benefits and security they receive by investing in his projects.
He views his role as more of a teacher than a beggar or persuader. Most of his 47 private lenders didn’t even know what private lending was until he introduced them to the concept. His approach is methodical and based on service—helping regular people put their “lazy money” (funds sitting idle) to work at attractive, secured returns.
Separation of Offer and Deal
A key nuance in Jay's approach is the importance of separating the conversation about the general private lending opportunity from discussing specific deals. He recommends educating potential lenders about the overall offering first. Once they’re on board, only then does he bring them individual deals that meet strict criteria—never asking them outr