Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
Are you a real estate investor who’s tired of missing out on deals because you don’t have the money to fund them? Maybe you’re just starting in real estate, overwhelmed by all the conflicting advice, and wondering how to break through.
Or you’ve done a few deals, but your business feels more like a hobby than a reliable source of income. If you’re struggling to take your real estate business to the next level, this show is for you.
Welcome to The Private Money Show with Jay Conner, where we cut through the noise to give you the truth about real estate investing—and the tools you need to succeed. Most investors lose out on 87% of real estate deals simply because they don’t have access to the money to fund them. But what if you could change that? What if you could fund every deal you wanted, eliminate your competition, and grow your business faster than you ever thought possible?
Each week, Jay Conner—the Private Money Authority—shares exactly how to raise private money to fund your deals, close more opportunities, and build a thriving, consistent real estate business. Jay has been in the trenches of real estate investing full-time since 2003, and he’s still doing it every day. He knows what works, what doesn’t, and how to help you stop chasing bad advice from so-called “gurus” who haven’t done a deal in years.
In every episode, you’ll learn:
- How to find and raise private money to fund your real estate deals on YOUR terms (no banks, no hard money lenders).
- Strategies for creating consistent deal flow and turning your investing business into a reliable source of income.
- How to structure deals with private lenders and create win-win relationships that benefit everyone involved.
- Real-world, step-by-step advice from investors who’ve been where you are and completely changed their game using private money.
This isn’t theory or fluff. It’s the real deal. Jay and his guests break down real-world deals, showing you the numbers, the challenges, and the solutions, so you can see how to apply these lessons to your own business. Whether you’re brand new to real estate, struggling to find consistency, or a seasoned investor looking to scale, this show is your blueprint for success.
Why Listen to This Show?
Because it’s not just about making money—it’s about building something bigger than yourself. Jay believes real estate is a tool not only to create wealth but also to make an impact. This show is for real estate investors who want to leave a legacy, help others, and give back to their communities. It’s for people who know that success isn’t just about the bottom line—it’s about what you do with it.
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels, stop missing out on deals, and start building a business that gives you freedom and fulfillment, you’ve found your tribe. Imagine what your life could look like with unlimited access to private money. Imagine the deals you could close, the income you could create, and the impact you could make—not just for yourself, but for others.
This is your moment. This is the Private Money Show.
Tune in now, and let’s get started.
Raising Private Money with Jay Conner
How to Protect Yourself With Asset-Backed Debt and Win at Real Estate Networking
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In the ever-evolving world of real estate investing, understanding the nuances of private money lending can make the difference between success and costly mistakes. In a recent episode of Raising Private Money, Jay Conner, together with his Mastermind members, unpacked core principles and practical strategies for leveraging private capital, staying compliant, and scaling investment projects.
Asset-Backed Debt: Your Shield Against Regulatory Headaches
A foundational concept for private lenders is asset-backed debt. Crystal Baker clarified what this means: every deal is collateralized against a specific property, giving each private lender a direct secured interest in physical real estate. This method distinctly separates private lending from unsecured debt, which typically draws the attention of the SEC. By structuring all deals as asset-backed, investors effectively avoid complex SEC rules, such as requirements for multiple “touches” or long-standing relationships with lenders.
Chaffee-Thanh Nguyen added that it’s possible to have multiple private lenders on a single property, provided each maintains a clear lien position—as banks do with first and second mortgages. Because there’s no commingling of funds, and each note is secured and discrete, these arrangements remain outside stringent SEC regulations.
Mastering Loan-to-Value and Protecting Your Lenders
Crystal Baker also emphasized the importance of total loan-to-value (LTV). When evaluating a potential deal, investors must calculate the LTV based on the after-repaired value of the property, never collateralizing more than 75%. For example, on a property worth $200,000 after repairs, combined private loans should never exceed $150,000. This creates an essential equity cushion, significantly reducing risk for both the lender and investor, and ensuring everyone’s interests remain protected.
The Importance of Proper Due Diligence
Both Chaffee-Thanh Nguyen and Jay Conner underscored the critical role of title searches when bidding on foreclosed properties. Relying solely on the surface value of a property can backfire if hidden liens or outstanding mortgages are discovered after the purchase. Jay shared a real-life example of an investor who purchased a property at a seemingly bargain price, only to receive a foreclosure notice linked to a preexisting $100,000 mortgage. The lesson is clear: never skip a thorough title search before closing any foreclosure deal.
Unique Advantages of Private Lending
Jeffrey Jackson illuminated a key advantage for investors using private money—they can “get paid to buy houses.” By structuring the transaction so rehab and acquisition costs are funded upfront through closing, investors often receive surplus funds to finance renovations without out-of-pocket spending or laborious construction draws. Unlike institutional loans, private capital typically doesn’t scrutinize credit scores or require personal guarantees. As Crystal Baker noted, the security and trust come from the collateral itself and strong equity positions, not the borrower’s creditworthiness.
The Power of Networking to Serve, Not Just Profit
Networking remains one of the most powerful growth strategies for real estate investors. Chaffee-Thanh Nguyen encouraged attendees to shift their networking mindset from “what can I get” to “how can I serve.” Real relationships form when investors focus on helping others—whether by sharing knowledge, making connections, or supporting new members in professional groups. Crystal Baker echoed this approach, crediting networking for her business’s success and growth. The panel agreed that volunteering, welcoming newcomers, and focusing on connection over transactions create the relationships and trust needed to thrive.
Compliance and Best Practices
To safeguard everyone involved, transactions should always route funds directly from private lenders to closing agents or attorneys—never to individual investors. This protects both parties and keeps everything above board. Crystal reassured investors that private lenders can reside in any state; the only legal requirement is that the deal is properly handled by an attorney in the property’s state.
Final Thoughts
Through clear strategies and adherence to best practices, private money lending opens doors to financial freedom in real estate. By focusing on asset-backed security, maintaining healthy loan-to-value ratios, conducting precise due diligence, and always leading with service, investors can build robust, mutually beneficial networks and scale their businesses for long-term success.
10 Discussion Questions from this Episode
- What are the key differences between asset-backed debt and unsecured debt, and why does asset-backed debt keep the SEC away, according to Crystal?
- How does having multiple private lenders on a single property work without violating SEC regulations, as discussed by Jay Conner and others?
- Crystal explains the concept of "total loan to value." How does this concept protect both the investor and the private lender, and what is the recommended threshold?
- Why is it crucial to perform a title search before bidding on a foreclosure property, and what real-life consequences can occur if you skip this step?
- In what ways can real estate investors "get paid to buy houses," and how does private funding enable this strategy?
- What are the benefits of using private money for rehabs compared to institutional or hard money, especially regarding construction draws and credit checks?
- Why do private lenders typically not require personal guarantees or credit checks, and what protections do they have instead?
- Who is "Murphy" in the context of real estate investing, and what are some concrete strategies Crystal recommends for preparing for unexpected setbacks?
- The concept of "networking to serve" is emphasized throughout the episode. How does this approach differ from conventional networking, and what advantages does it bring to raising private money?
- What are the pitfalls of relying on national foreclosure reporting services for lead generation, and what alternative methods does Crystal recommend for obtaining up-to-date and exclusive foreclosure data?
Fun facts that were revealed in the episode:
- No Credit Checks Needed: Crystal shared that when working with private lenders, there’s typically no need to run credit checks on borrowers. Private lenders rely on the property's collateral and the built-in equity cushion to secure their investment, making credit scores mostly irrelevant.
- You Can Have Multiple Private Lenders on One Property: The episode explained that, similar to how a house can have both a first and second mortgage with different banks, you can structure deals with more than one private lender per property—as long as all liens combined stay within the recommended 75% loan-to-value threshold.
- Networking to Serve, Not Sell: Jay Conner and Crystal emphasized that successful investors should network with the mindset of serving others rather than just handing out business cards or pitching deals. Approaching events with curiosity and a desire to help builds more meaningful and productive relationships.
Timestamps:
00:00 Using multiple private lenders
05:43 Understanding the loan-to-value ratio
07:31 Pitfalls of bidding at auctions
12:33 Navigating the property closing process
14:45 Understanding collateral and equity cushion
16:36 Explaining personal guarantees basics
21:41 Networking with a servant's heart
24:26 Importance of networking skills
26:54 Embracing the Connector Mindset
32:39 Setting up a protected lending system
34:41 New private lending regulations
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