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136. Uncomfortable truths I had to face in fat loss [these sting]

• Hilary

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I’m getting real and raw about the uncomfortable truths that changed everything in my fat loss journey. If you’ve ever found yourself stuck, making the same excuses, or looking for a magic answer outside yourself—this episode is for you. From using food as comfort, to the “busy” excuse, to finally owning up to what really needed to change, I’m sharing it all—plus the hard-hitting mindset shifts that set me (and my clients) free.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

  • Why I had to stop using food as my therapist—and what I did instead
  • How I finally faced the truth that my results were about my choices, not my hormones, age, or metabolism
  • The “busy” excuse, and how it was keeping me stuck (spoiler: it’s not time, it’s priorities)
  • The real reason tracking food felt so overwhelming, and how I stopped letting it sabotage me
  • More hard-hitting truths you might be avoiding—plus the freedom that’s waiting on the other side
  • How radical honesty (not perfection) is the foundation for fat loss and self-love
  • Why community and accountability feel uncomfortable at first, but change everything

 

 

Episode Breakdown

00:00 Welcome to the Podcast

01:13 Getting Vulnerable: The Unspoken Truths of Fat Loss

05:05 Comfort Trap: Food as Therapy

16:53 Facing the Reality: It's Not Hormones, It's Your Diet

21:29 Overcoming the 'Too Busy' Excuse

23:17 The Overwhelm Lie: Logging and Tracking

29:01 Facing Uncomfortable Truths

32:54 The Importance of Accountability and Support

36:57 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

 

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