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Prenuptial and Postnuptial Agreements for Same‑Sex Couples - Juan Luciano

Juan Luciano Season 4 Episode 370

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From Juan Luciano Divorce LawyerPrenuptial and Postnuptial Agreements for Same‑Sex Couples explores how couples in New York navigate the legal landscape of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, especially within LGBTQ+ relationships. In this episode, we’ll unpack the formal requirements under New York’s Domestic Relations Law § 236(B)(3) and highlight the importance of writing, notarization and signatures in making these agreements enforceable.

We’ll then dive into vital safeguards like full and fair financial disclosure, independent legal counsel, and freedom from duress or unconscionability—principles that hold just as much weight for postnuptial agreements entered into after marriage as they do for prenups. For many long‑term partnerships among same‑sex couples, the timing and history of the relationship bring special considerations—sharing assets or building a family before legal recognition was available tells a different story than more traditional marriages.

We’ll further explore how agreements can redefine separate vs. marital property, manage debt responsibility, and protect pre‑marriage or business assets. Particular attention will be paid to how assisted reproductive technology (ART), surrogacy, the Child‑Parent Security Act (CPSA) and non‑biological parentage intersect with marital agreements in same‑sex families—ensuring your family‑building and financial planning are aligned.

Finally, we’ll discuss the limits of what a marital agreement can do: it cannot dictate child custody or waive child support, and the importance of a second‑parent or step‑parent adoption for full protection across all states. We’ll wrap up with practical tips for drafting a robust agreement, avoiding “DIY” templates that fail to capture the nuance of LGBTQ+ relationships, and how to ensure your love and future are protected with purpose and care.


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