When You’ve Grown Past Your Coach/Teacher

Explore the evolving dynamics of mentorship with Joel and Rick Malm as they dissect a Zen proverb and biblical wisdom to uncover whether we ever outgrow our mentors, or if the relationship simply transforms. They discuss aging, wisdom, and the essential role of the Holy Spirit in guiding life decisions.

In This Episode:
00:00 Outgrowing Mentors: A Zen Proverb

04:03 Growth, Crystallized Intelligence, and Trust

08:24 The Need for Wise Counsel

12:50 Surpassing Mentors and Humility

Key Takeaways:
* Examine the Zen proverb: “When the student is ready, the teacher appears; when the student is truly ready, the teacher disappears.”
* Understand the biblical perspective from Luke 6:40 on mentorship and becoming like the teacher.
* Recognize the shift from relying on external mentors to trusting the Holy Spirit for guidance.
* Appreciate the crystallized intelligence and wisdom that comes with age and experience.
* Maintain humility and openness to counsel, regardless of experience level.

Resources Mentioned:
* Luke 6:40: https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke%206%3A40&version=ESV
* ESV Bible: https://www.esv.org/
* Hiking the Clouds (book): http://hikingtheclouds.com
* Strength to Strength by Arthur Brooks: https://www.arthurbrooks.com/books/strength-to-strength/
* The Chosen: https://watch.thechosen.tv/