We never had the 'I knew you were the one moment' but here is how we found out (with Jake Stammer)

In this episode, our host Kyia Mochitani invites her fiancé Jake Stammer on the podcast to share the quiet truth behind their love story: they never had a single, crystal-clear moment when they knew they were meant to be. Instead, their relationship grew gradually—through prayer, patience, consistency, and Christ at the center. From navigating long-distance to walking through seasons of grief and growth, they open up about the small moments that built a deep, lasting connection. Together, they challenge the cultural (and often Christian) pressure to have a dramatic “aha” moment and offer encouragement to anyone wondering if peace, not sparks, might be the real sign of something holy.