Talk Dirty To Me
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Talk Dirty To Me
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Speaker 2:Hello all you sexy beasts and welcome back to Talk Dirty To Me, the podcast for four friends with four different perspectives. Talk Dirty To One Another, and we are all four of us here today. We have Sarah Marie Currie in the house the little vanilla, it's private, it's private. We have Stephanie Slayton, the queen of Spankos. Oh hello, you stole my hello. I love it, Okay.
Speaker 3:Hey, what's up?
Speaker 2:No, I like oh hello. Everybody say oh hello. I just I feel like I usually take other people's language and it's so rare when somebody takes mine that I'm always flattered and Tosen Aufaso the kink oracle.
Speaker 3:Oh hello.
Speaker 1:I follow instructions well.
Speaker 3:You do, yes, you do.
Speaker 2:Let's see, we had a guest. They bailed last minute, which worked out, because I I need a game plan. People, I need a game plan. Tomorrow I have my very first purely domestic discipline client coming over for a two hour session. Three, wow, it is a lady which is fucking fabulous. Love the ladies. She snagged me off that life. I think when I talk to her she's really sweet. She's been to all the usual subjects when it comes to domestic discipline and doming and she's even had one time she was naming who she's seen and one of them she named she had a six hour session with and I was like, oh my God.
Speaker 2:What did you do for six hours I was like I'm stressing out about seeing her for two hours and what I'm going to do and she's like, oh, for six hours. And she just like severe spanking the whole time.
Speaker 3:I was about to say what does domestic discipline mean? Would you like me to tell you? Yes, please, you are the local expert. Is it like washing dishes? Go wash dishes. So domestic discipline is great Nice.
Speaker 2:I'm so good at this.
Speaker 3:It's basically like punishment spankings that have the essence of domesticity, so like you would use something like a wooden spoon or a belt or a paddle, versus like a flogger or a crop, or there's not leather and handcuffs.
Speaker 2:I guess like a spatula.
Speaker 3:Yes that could also be. We call those pervertibles Love it. Yeah, so it's in the wheelhouse of there's domestic discipline in relationships, or like one is the top and one is the bottom and there are rules set and when those rules are broken it's done in a very domestic, like the way spankings are intended for old, for vomit children, but like for adults, concentrally.
Speaker 2:Cool Makes sense Also. Things like writing lines, washing your mouth with soap, standing in the corner holding a book out in front of you, really having one for a long time.
Speaker 3:Does this human woman just want to be punished, like the whole time?
Speaker 2:I don't know. I don't know. We had a phone conversation where I asked what she liked. She didn't like, like it was okay, and the only thing I got was no washing her mouth, that was soap. But scolding and corner time and writing lines and spanking are all okay, but she indicated what she likes the most is just severe spanking. Can one be spanked for two hours?
Speaker 3:I mean, can you spank for two hours? It also sounds like it's going to be hard on you. You know your hand.
Speaker 2:She referenced that she was like you take breaks when you need to. I was like thanks.
Speaker 3:Wow, I love that. She's giving you the like you can just. She's like has a safe word for you.
Speaker 3:She's like just when you get tired, just say I get so curious about these because they feel to me transactional right and I wonder about the, the setup of the scene beforehand, Like with the gentleman that came over, he cleaned and organized your closet right and then you rewarded him. And with this, is there anything setting up the scene Like, is she coming over in a particular role, or is it like hello, hello, may the spanking commence.
Speaker 2:You know, great question. I have that question anytime a submissive comes over to my house and we get started, because I have no idea how other people do it. I tend to have conversations with them first, like a normal person. But I'm wondering with her, since she's like drove to the city from Houston or Dallas or something, she just got here tonight, I'm wondering for her like once she opens the door, she just immediately be like the governess, or like would be in the domestic discipline zone, or if it would be more appropriate to be like hello, we are people.
Speaker 3:This is my house Meeting in person for the first time. That's a good idea to start out that way. Okay, but I don't know. You have to ask her. I would give her a questionnaire, or.
Speaker 2:She'll wait for that. Question year is over the phone.
Speaker 3:When she knocks on the door, just yell at her through the door. Do you want to be in scene already? And if she says do you want to have introductions? Well, I make you tea first, yeah, and then, if she says in scene, open the door like hello and if she says introductions first, open the door like hello. Thank you, that's so helpful that hello is so scary. Hello, hello.
Speaker 2:Hello. Anyways, for all you people who have it's me Done more than I have like for two hours, what like? What in your mind? What is an appropriate thing to do? I literally spank somebody for two hours.
Speaker 3:Well, when I first was looking on the scene to find someone, I found a professional like yourself online and we communicated back and forth and I can send you her email because she asked really in depth questions and I was super stoked.
Speaker 3:She was out of my price range, but she recommended two hours because she was like I'd like to get to know each other the first hour, not in like a romantic or intimate way, but in a way of like, what are your tics, what are the things that you like, so that I can make sure this experience is everything that you want. So I think even like 10 minutes of that in the beginning you could just, and also, like you want to be comfortable for your own edification, right? So if you need to introduce yourself and break the ice that way before you get into scene, it's not all about her. It's about you getting the tools you need to be able to do the best job that you can do for her you know, correct, I asked her all those questions and her stuff wasn't outlandish or out of the ordinary in any capacity.
Speaker 2:Yes, I just don't know like I don't know, does she want to roll? Open your mouth like you're going to speak.
Speaker 1:Do you, did you get out of your previous conversation her ideal motivation?
Speaker 2:Ah, for wanting to be disciplined.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:No, I think she discovered it later in life that it's something she liked, and then think it has something to do with how she was punished when she was a child. But I don't know much beyond that, gotcha.
Speaker 1:So my like three tracks that I have are you set her up to fail, right, so she comes in and you're like you have an unreasonable amount of time to write this many lines and because you couldn't.
Speaker 2:Five minutes to write 50 lines.
Speaker 1:Yeah, and because you couldn't, then the spanking will begin and then try again, and then you won't be able to do that. And I see One one that gives you the break that you need to that, like, if her motivation is punishment born of, like you know, I felt these punishments were unfair. If that's like unfair is the wrong word I'm looking for, but if, like, it's that tension of like, this punishment is more severe than whatever I did, that setup works. If you could create a situation where she could brat where it's like, okay, I'm going to ask you to do, do you want to do it? Like? I'm going to ask you to do some stuff, take the opportunity to misbehave, and then I'll scold you for it, and then she did say she brats.
Speaker 1:Oh then then yeah, I would say that give her a domestic task or instructions or rules, something that she has to follow. Always. Refer to me as XYZ, you know, sit with your ankles crossed like a nice young lady, whatever, and she can take the opportunity to disobey and misbehave, and then you punish her for that. And then she can just keep bradding or not responding, to be like do you understand why you're here today or what you did today, and she can be like nah, nah, nah, nah, and then you just keep upping the severity from there. If the motivation is purely the pain, then you can just do whatever is fun for you, right Cause, if it's like, I just like the feeling of being in a situation where somebody wants to punish me and I like the pain then do whatever is fun or feels good for you to do.
Speaker 1:If the pain is the motivation, generally the way that I've seen it is that they enjoy it the most when the motivation is like the top is doing. They don't want to think about it too much, they were just like however you want to bring about the pain, bring it and so, and that's always usually fine if you're enjoying yourself the most. But I think if she's said that she likes to brat, just putting her in situations where she can misbehave would be my go to.
Speaker 2:Okay, sweet, I like the idea of having her like do something unreasonable, like write lines an amount of time, she can't get it done and then thank her because she didn't do it. I think that's a good starting place. I just didn't know how to get started and like what other things to do for two hours. This is the same with the preacher. Sometimes he comes over and I'm like what do I do with?
Speaker 3:you.
Speaker 2:Because I just don't have all the apparatus that he would like, like he likes his hands being bound and things like that, and I'm like well, you can hold on to my pole.
Speaker 1:My dance pole. I can show you how to do a double compound real fast and tie people up.
Speaker 3:Okay and I would say your preacher wants something very different, like when I hear your stories about him. It's different than domestic discipline. He's going to want to feel the you're doing this for her own good vibes, so that you are caring, but strict or stern versus usually especially Bratz, I would say or not into the degradation thing at all, they're into the like getting response out of you because you care about them.
Speaker 2:He's not into degradation either, he's just masochistic.
Speaker 3:I think most people in that enjoying type of pain are masochistic. I'm just saying it's more of the like. Some of the things that you've expressed to me, that you've done with this person sound degrading. I'm like a pepper on the penis.
Speaker 2:Whereas, like I don't think that's degrading.
Speaker 3:Okay, torturous, then torturous, yeah, that's not what he likes.
Speaker 1:That's what I'm saying. Terrifying, yeah, that's what I'm saying. The way you said torturous, I was like, oh, I'm just saying that's two different lanes.
Speaker 3:Yeah, no, I'm not going to degrade her. That's not what she wants at all.
Speaker 2:You're going to go to the go��. 를 하 펴�. Formulated Okay, itarian, important, uh not. I just didn't know how to set up an agenda because I'd never done it before for two hours.
Speaker 3:One hour goes by pretty quickly Is she into role play.
Speaker 2:I mean I assume it's going to be at least 50% role play anyways right, so set a scene.
Speaker 2:You're a writer after all, just like like improv it, oh well, yeah, I mean, I'll make something up. It wasn't about like getting in the zone or anything. It was like do you really spend somebody for two hours straight? Is that a thing that happens? What do you do? What are other activities besides spending? Are there the writing lines? Holding a book is like I thought maybe somebody had like other ideas of things that happened during domestic discipline that I wasn't aware of.
Speaker 3:I don't know. I kind of think about it like a workout right, like she's coming over for a two hour workout. You need the warm up and you need the cool down and then you need the hardcore spanking in the middle part, with like a few breaks so she can feel it right.
Speaker 2:Sure, that's still not my question.
Speaker 3:Right, what is your question? Yeah, what is your question.
Speaker 2:My question is like what other activities happen during domestic discipline other than spanking, writing lines, scolding and corner time? You just named them. Is that everything I mean? You?
Speaker 3:said mouth-soaping, but you said she's not into that. So yeah, she's not into that and corner time can take up quite a bit of time. There are also like those I don't know what they're for because they seem torturous for anyone but there's these mats which I guess it's too late to go buy anything like this. But they're like for your feet, I think, but they're kind of spiky and like having someone sit on that after a spanking or having her sitting on something hard, you know, just to increase the pain. What are those mats called? I think they're for like the bottom of your feet, like for pressure or whatever, but they're pretty spiky, but they're definitely in the spanko world.
Speaker 1:What did Miss Trunchbull put the kids in? What was I called?
Speaker 3:Oh, the um the whole the herky the the pokey no.
Speaker 1:The pokey sounds close.
Speaker 3:The pokey's like a Southern jail.
Speaker 1:You go to the pokey real quick to put her in. Just build something, casey. You just build it in Matilda, like the headmistress who was like can I remember that she put them in a closet that has like sharp stuff in it nearby. So, you have to like stand very still in the middle to not get hurt. And I'm like geez it's called the choky.
Speaker 1:There you go. The other thing that you have at your disposal to like to pick up on what Stephanie was saying about you know I'm doing this for your own good is like you've got all the time in between this baking of like justifying yourself, and so I think that works really well. I've had like one punishment-ish type scene that I did, but it wasn't like first banking. It was similar to like the setup I've talked about about. I'm a preacher sent to make sure that you're ready for such and such, and so a lot of the really fun stuff was like justifying the action I'm about to take. So you can have some fun time with that.
Speaker 1:And that hits the domestic spot making them choose what kitchen utensil you're going to spank them with.
Speaker 3:Yeah, like laying implements out on the bed like your poison. Or having her like put them in order from least scary to most scary and then you kind of can move up the line with them.
Speaker 1:That's a good idea. As she brats more and more, I was like more than we're gonna do we're gonna get to the scary one, since you won't seem to listen.
Speaker 3:I like that. You should have our go pick a switch outside too. I don't have this. Yes, you do. There's trees all outside your area.
Speaker 4:They're all right at the bottom of your stairs.
Speaker 3:Yeah, tall grasses. And that'll take some time she's outside and have her do it with one with leaves on it, so then she has to pick those off, like I'm just I'm trying to help you out time for your arm string.
Speaker 3:Well the thing, is like you're so adaptable and you're such a wonderful improviser that I think you're gonna know exactly what to do within the first 15 minutes. You know, like all this pregame stuff is just kind of going into your the back of your brain to pull out if you need it. But I wish you could call us and be like yeah, yeah, I do too, it's going great.
Speaker 1:What do I do next? We'll be sitting in the wings giving side support.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I kind of love the idea of like having a team, team on like camera so they can be like oh, do this do this next Like community sourced discipline.
Speaker 3:I feel like five minutes in your piece. I could read her like a book and tell you everything she'd want to have.
Speaker 2:What a fun game. Community sourced disciplining, I was about to say. Are we? Are we rich Did?
Speaker 1:we just make all our money.
Speaker 3:Guys, we already have that. I'm in that group. We like hang out all the time Nice.
Speaker 2:Nice, all right, I want everybody to know how it goes.
Speaker 3:I'm excited. I'm excited that it's a female. I don't know why I just like that's my personal favorite to play with. Maybe it's just because this is not a dig on men, just there's a safety behind it. I love playing with females.
Speaker 2:I'm excited that she's a lady too. It's hard to get those, yeah, so they're less threatening. Threatening is not the word, but I guess safe they're more safe, more comfortable, I suppose. Yeah, nobody's nobody's going to try to have sex with me. You know, nobody's gonna be like I turn around and have a huge erection and be like well, do you?
Speaker 3:need to do with this. Yeah, what do I do with?
Speaker 1:this Sure. Here's a Serrano pepper. Yes, I do, since you're that's how we'll handle that erection.
Speaker 2:I actually love that. I'm going to keep peppers on hand just for that occasion. Great. So I think you're the hot tips. I'll let you know how it goes. It's going to be awesome, I hope. And then I have a whole bunch of messages in my Fat Life inbox again. I hope everybody enjoys that, because we're doing it and there's some gold in here, so I'm going to read them.
Speaker 3:What's the segment called Casey?
Speaker 2:Casey's Dumpster Fire Inbox Incorrect. Oh, shortcomings, sorry Shortcomings.
Speaker 3:Is the time when Casey reads the messages of shortcomings. They tried real hard to come real long, but they came in short, cool, thank you.
Speaker 1:Nailed, it Nailed it.
Speaker 2:Nailed it, I really want to give this guy's handle because it's so good, but I won't. Could a guy with a foot fetish come and simply worship your feet if he spoiled you a little in exchange, or something?
Speaker 1:I mean that's a good start.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean what is entailed, what is involved in spoiling, right, because probably I will respond to that one. Okay, holy shit, that's what. I said Holy shit, I can't cold read this. I can't cold read this.
Speaker 1:Can I cold read it? I want to do it. Yes, let me show my screen.
Speaker 2:I'm not going to do it. Toastin's going to do it. Hold on, let me figure out how to do this.
Speaker 1:I don't know where I gained cold reading skills, but I got them.
Speaker 3:Yeah, you do. I was like there's no way she's not seeing this because she has not said something to me about this.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, I got it Okay, scroll for me so I know how long we're talking.
Speaker 3:Dang yo. Okay, Sit down, kids. Jesus Gather around children.
Speaker 2:All right, it's like Christmas, let's go Toastin.
Speaker 1:Here we go. Subject my compliments. Thank you, Hello, Ms Goddess Governess. I hope this may find you safe and doing well and enjoying the nice weather. What nice weather.
Speaker 1:Your profile is refreshing and has my attention sincerely and if you may still be seeking and hopeful for the opportunity to make your acquaintance acquaintance and would be very grateful. The thoughts and ideas you mentioned struck a chord and are beautifully suggestive at many levels. Here on this platform, it can be difficult to connect with people who are thoughtful, authentic and understand these interests in a healthy and balanced way, as you suggest so eloquently. There is no doubt that you are truly a rare goddess and can easily see from your profile you are a deeply intelligent, intuitive and thoughtful lady with a capital L, with deep insight.
Speaker 2:You really paked me.
Speaker 1:We didn't nailed it. You nailed it With deep insight when it comes to the femdom lifestyle, your thoughts and ideas are easy to identify with and show the depth and intuition behind the goddess.
Speaker 1:We get it Deep, intuitive and rare, and your interest and approach make perfect sense on how things should be All of it is very natural to me and must admit, your love of control and power and the enthusiasm you have for these wonderful femdom interests resonate with me. On this end you will find someone very passionate with a curious intellect and, most importantly, a commitment to continued growth in the femdom lifestyle to the fullest potential. To me, this is the only way to live. I've been both blessed and lucky to have integrated this into everyday life with compassionate, sadistic and intelligent dominant women over the past 15 years. Yet I know the best days are still ahead. Every day is a learning experience, with so much more to learn. That is the beauty and motivation of this lifestyle, especially when you find chemistry and build a friendship. Doing so, this is, this is adorable. No doubt you get many responses and hope. This is one that at least you may enjoy.
Speaker 1:I've always felt communication and honesty are essential to any relationship, and more so in this realm where power and control are handed over with delight. The femdom lifestyle I'm sometimes going to say femdom lifestyle is the natural way for me and essential to a healthy, happy existence. I believe you are either wired for this or not, and if you are, it makes it easy to embrace all aspects the power, service, control, adoration, pain and endurance and behavioral changes that are all positive, along with the wisdom and guidance of female authority. It's exhilarating. I've also a deep appreciation for ladies with a capital L who believe in teaching true endurance based suffering, and goddesses who are genuinely deeply pleased and excited by delivering such intensity.
Speaker 1:Female domination is a wonderful thing, with so much to learn and many beautiful things to explore. I'd be grateful if you can consider my reply. As someone who is sincere, passionate and giving, believes in chivalry and also driven slash, goal oriented and grounded in all aspects of life, I'm capable of the dedication, support and friendship to build something solid. Please know I don't have any expectations, but can promise on this side you'll find someone genuine in these endeavors and always respectful of you and your time. It's obvious you are a lady with a capital L of depth and understanding who is straightforward in her interest and concepts.
Speaker 3:For my side that's.
Speaker 1:I'm sorry you scroll down and there's so much more yeah yeah, he's hitting a lot of these contentions, yeah, repeatedly. For my side, that's motivating. As I was once told, giving pleasure can be its own reward and I see it easily where my devotion, service, suffering and adoration would reflect positively for you and hopefully could lead to a deeper bond over time. There's so much to explore and my interests are many, from sensual foot worship, tease and denial, face sitting, queening, scent training, role play and playful puppy training that escalated to the reasonable corporal, including blinding, building endurance and stamina in areas of impact, cbt that's cock and ball torture, spanking, paddling, whipping, etc. There's no greater beauty than a woman who adores affection and attentive personal service, body worship, ass worship and creative GS training. As I've come to learn and appreciate, these can all be meaningful daily activities.
Speaker 3:What is GS training GS?
Speaker 1:I don't know.
Speaker 3:GS training kink, I look at it.
Speaker 1:Hmm, these can all be meaningful daily activities. I've also experienced, safely, a good amount of CBT techniques stretching weights, dash 12 pounds a humbler, damn a ball crusher and impact in Chastity 2 and love sensibly, going further with someone who enjoys the same concept. I'm also not one to intentionally do something to irritate, but rather believe it's a woman's right to use a corporal activity when and how she wishes. In terms of limits, I have some very clean, safe and will not do anything unsafe, unhealthy or illegal and simply desire to be with someone who would respect that as reasonable beginning guidelines. I'm a work hard, play hard, professional gentleman who is kind, compassionate, generous and respectful and seek those who are similar and engaging without all the drama you typically find online.
Speaker 3:I've also been fortunate. I think GS means golden shower If I'm there.
Speaker 2:There is, there. It is Unparenly Ceremony to the rescue.
Speaker 1:Hello, thank you Drama you typically find online. I've also been fortunate to have had many good experiences where this was integrated into everyday life and I've even done long, extended weekend type sessions with a group of Femdom ladies. It's amazing when three to four dominant women get together and can share energy and ideas. The level of training and intensity and being able to really push yourself in a positive environment is amazing. That's, for me, provided a foundation that solidified the female dominant lifestyle is natural and necessary.
Speaker 3:Wow, that me thinks the Lady Doth protests too much. I'm sorry. When you spend a hundred different ways to say you like strong women, it feels weird, you know, or I believe that women should be empowered. I'm like, yeah, so do I. I don't know why you keep yelling it at me. I was curious if it was maybe chat.
Speaker 1:No, too many, too many grammar and too many words like odd mistakes like doing pounds with a pound symbols Not something that she would do.
Speaker 3:And when he was saying 12 pounds, he means he holds 12 pounds on his penis.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, 12 pound weight hanging from those balls.
Speaker 3:And that's safe.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean, if you work up to it, you get used to being able to do it. As long as it's not like attached, the skin stretches enough to do it, and as long as it's anchored in a place that isn't going to rupture something, you should be fine, no matter what life may send along, on this end you will find someone positive, motivated and passionate. You've told us about life with many interests, from travel, dining, music, sports and art all the interests I enjoy giving of myself to grow in a relationship, as well as growth within your mutual DS and Femdom interests. I can honestly say seeing the smile on the face of a lady who appreciates my endurance, anticipatory behavior and effort to evolve means the world to me, as can encourage both her loving and powerful personas, along with essential and sadistic sides. I'm a Down to Earth person. You mentioned approximately 5'11", 210 pounds, blonde slash blue.
Speaker 1:I guess that means blonde blue eyes and in decent shape, blonde eyes and blue hair. Maybe I believe this goes beyond the physical. Sincerity, trust, communication and conviction to beliefs carry more weight, along with chemistry, which always leads a natural path. Also, in single professional, a non-smoker can travel and host and feel. This is just the beginning. If you can enjoy someone with these qualities and a warm-hearted person, perhaps there can be the basis to explore things. Most importantly, I feel humor is extremely important in everyday life.
Speaker 3:This is the most serious thing I've ever read.
Speaker 1:I do not feel humor is extremely important in your everyday life, but maybe this whole thing is a joke and that's this deep cut. I feel humor is extremely important in everyday life and gravitate to someone who can smile and enjoy things. Thank you again for your consideration and hope you have a great day.
Speaker 2:Stephanie, you said, you know this person no.
Speaker 1:You're just in my account and you were looking. She knows the person below it, I think.
Speaker 2:I live at 24 seven. He's looking for a lifetime relationship. That's that's. This is a big commitment out the gate Friendship and mistress. His his profile doesn't really say anything interesting.
Speaker 3:He didn't say anything interesting and that whole big long thing. He said I like things and stuff and sex and stuff. No, except femdom, femdom.
Speaker 2:I am unclear on what, like what, his actual request was. He wasn't like can we chat? Can we meet for coffee? I would like to be tied up and spit on.
Speaker 3:I don't even know how to respond to this. He would like femdom, femdom place.
Speaker 1:He wants the femdom lifestyle with you, intuitively and intelligently.
Speaker 3:I'll take five femdoms. Lifestyles please.
Speaker 1:So this, you know, it seems like he's a from the age read it. So he's an older gentleman. So I think this might be like a boomer email problem. So I think he's just like in his brain.
Speaker 1:He's like I'm sending a professional email with every detail that I can concoct about every single thing, because for someone it looks like he's got, he's been on it for a while but he hasn't looked like he's done a lot of fetishes. So it seems like not computer savvy and like internet culture savvy in general which is why savvy or editing savvy.
Speaker 2:It feels like he had an assignment to write.
Speaker 3:Maybe he had an assignment to write for his real femdom and it was like write another lady a 3000 word essay and he just like phoned it in with adverbs.
Speaker 1:I don't know, See, I think genuinely is enthralled I think he's genuinely enthralled by you and just overdid it Like he just kept typing and was just like. I just want to say everything I'm thinking and feeling on the hopes that you'll respond, Cause what I read from this, with his like no actual action item, is like I just want to present to you. I'll be a good sub. Please talk to me.
Speaker 3:Yes, right, how old is he? 52. I'm sorry that's not too old to know how to write good and speak good Many to talk and talk good yeah.
Speaker 1:Well and sex.
Speaker 3:good, I don't, I don't, I don't think he does any of those things.
Speaker 1:He has the potential. Like he has read this, it seems like he's got a lot of experience.
Speaker 3:Does it.
Speaker 1:I mean he's, he's lived the lifestyle on a day to day basis.
Speaker 3:You know weekend trips with more than three or four dominance, and so like surely these strong, beautiful femdom femdoms would have taught him how to approach other fem? I don't know. I just can you take your screen share off, Casey, so I can stare at your face?
Speaker 2:You're beautiful. Yeah, we're not done. Looking at my inbox.
Speaker 3:Oh, I'm so sorry. I'm sorry, oh wait I can take it off.
Speaker 2:Where'd Stephanie go? Bye, stephanie, stephanie.
Speaker 3:I also love how easily threatened I get when people approach Casey Like I'm like how dare they write this to my Casey, my Casey, that's my Casey. Do I want her for any of these things? Absolutely not. Does she deserve a well written piece of literature? Yes, she does. I'm, I'm. I appreciate that Cerberi. I'm not very compassionate towards this lovely human who did his best.
Speaker 2:He, he clearly put in a lot of time trying to write I don't know what to say All the correct things Like I don't like to since that appropriate. There's no action item here and this is a lot Like he's selling himself. He's like I am healthy, I like to travel, I can host, I can come to you, like he's giving me all these options. He's like selling himself, trying to sell himself really hard, but it seems like already really committed, you know. Like he's like let's jump in and be together forever.
Speaker 1:Yeah, the major red flag for me on him is that it doesn't seem like you want to have like a relationship and he seems to be like really hoping that y'all will be like an item.
Speaker 2:Yeah, which is that's a good point, and what a funny thing Like this is his resume to be in a relationship, like I've never been submitted a resume, or like a like a application to be my boyfriend.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And on it he wrote people skills, yeah.
Speaker 2:I have them. A lot of the things he listed are laborious to me, like, and I think again that's a problem by and large with submissives often who say their service subs, they want things done to them. They don't actually want to be of service. So he likes cock and ball torture. He wants his balls to be tortured. Will he clean my dishes? Probably not enthusiastically, I mean, that could be incorrect. He seems very thorough so maybe he would. But I just anytime list somebody lists off is a submissive and they list off a bunch of things they like. I'm like. But what could you do for me?
Speaker 3:Right, that's what you want to do for me. Well, okay, hold on, I'm just going to devils advocate for a second. If they are tributing to you is that is? That where the thing would be for you. They give me tribute.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, no, tribute is totally acceptable. Okay, and we'll take tribute in exchange for crushing a man's balls. It's an easy yes.
Speaker 1:Yeah. You know, you know my overarching general read of it and being like I'm afraid he wants to be in love with you. I'm afraid he already is in love and has the shrine going.
Speaker 3:You know he's outside your window right now.
Speaker 1:I want to build this fairy tale dream. It's just that he has no skill set for representing himself online. I find it likely that he's just fine and has experience and like will be, you know, similar to preacher, and like respect and discussion, and he's just bad at representing himself online because a lot of the, a lot of the essence of everything that is in there, just poorly delivered, is like. I'm not here to be dramatic. I'm serious about this. I'm committed, I want to do things. I find what you do, I believe in it in a spiritual way and I'm looking for like beautiful experiences and it seems like we're of like minds and I would love to take the next steps to see if that's true. You see how that was. Four sentences.
Speaker 2:And you wanted. I feel like, because we go through my inbox, our audience is going to be like I have no idea how to type messages, because they hate every single one. I feel that way too.
Speaker 3:We're just doing it for the, for the, the likes and the subscribes and the and the pokes and the and the dance polls, which is my new alliteration for penis, not alliteration, euphemism there it is, but that is not what everybody on that life is doing it for. Some people are genuinely looking at it for that, but I feel like the other red flag to me is your bio says not that much. So how could he gauge all of these?
Speaker 2:things about you? Great question Also you don't see my face like right? I mean, yeah, your body.
Speaker 3:It also sounds like he's he's typing what he thinks all all women want to hear. You know, I don't know.
Speaker 2:I've been thinking that too as well.
Speaker 3:I was wondering if you got it in your goddess hecate account. I didn't get that goddess Icate. He kept calling you goddess too. So is he a stalker? Not so, no, it's just listening A family. How did he know and like yeah maybe, I think.
Speaker 2:I think it's more likely that this is a copypasta that he just sends to all dominance, because it's strange that he used goddess in this. It's a count one, that's clearly not this is not a femdom account, right? That's the other thing. This is the great point You've just stumbled on. The correct weirdness here Is that in no way does the account he emailed have anything to do with femdom cock and bull torture. I mean, what is your bio say? Any of those things? It says a strict disciplinarian with a loving hand.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean has my cash app.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 2:My next message is subject near austin and the messages. Check out my picks and profile.
Speaker 1:That's the whole message.
Speaker 3:Yep no no.
Speaker 1:Jesus.
Speaker 3:The answer is no.
Speaker 1:I will not be doing that.
Speaker 3:Those are the ones we should read online, because that is not acceptable. No, back to that other super long message. I can understand him calling you goddess, though, because it's like. He's like. What do I use to describe this human goddess?
Speaker 2:Correct, that's all now we can move on. You're right, you're right. And what was? I know that's true? Is that word?
Speaker 1:I mean he's right about all of the wonderful things that he said about you.
Speaker 2:Yeah, 100%, and all of those regards. I think it's copypasta, though yeah.
Speaker 3:I do too.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's copypasta or a panic type.
Speaker 3:A panic type. Yeah, like a 3 am here I go, there is crack my knuckles. There is one other possibility because of the last sentence of it saying I think humor is really important. Like that, he thinks that this is a hilarious message. It's a small percentage.
Speaker 2:Who would take that much time to write a message like this? Just?
Speaker 3:to be like I'm not.
Speaker 2:I'm not. I'm not think I disagree, but like I don't have time for that kind of joke. It's insane.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that's.
Speaker 3:That is a bit that you asked me to commit, real hard to tell me one person who wouldn't read a message that long, like I would still read it because I'd be like I've never seen a message that long, and even a real life email.
Speaker 1:That is. That is a dating app. Move right, like if I want to stand out and someone's inbox I type a lot like I'll. I'll put in two paragraphs for like tinder messages, because you're gonna read it. Interesting because you, I mean, we watched us the hard delete ones that are just one sentence and we've read every single one that's more than two paragraphs.
Speaker 2:I mean, if it was a creative one sentence, if it was a worthwhile one sentence, I would give it some time at thought. But check out my profile. No, don't check out my profile.
Speaker 1:My go-to move was to like start an improv story with someone on tinder. I used to be my jam, which I literally my first message would literally be like once upon a time a squirrel on a mission got the acorn that he finally realized would be what is his greatest goal ever?
Speaker 2:and people would respond with the next line.
Speaker 1:It's some people and then you know that that led to like fun conversations at least. Amazing that almost everybody at least returned an lol or a question mark like what the fuck is this? It's like? What are you talking about?
Speaker 2:Who are you? I don't have anything else interesting in my inbox or replies to earlier. Wait, what's this one say? Love your strict, dominant photos. Regards.
Speaker 3:Thanks, I may have some weird ones.
Speaker 2:Let's see, girl Recently. Let's see oh yeah, and this is one I didn't delete last time but should delete this is a good time to remind everybody that we have a patreon.
Speaker 3:Hello and.
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Speaker 3:No, yeah, is it true?
Speaker 2:Nope. No acting acting acting, acting, yeah, yeah, yeah. So we thank you everybody who is currently a supporter and supporting us on patreon. We really appreciate you and love you. Oh, I have a question from Aaron, our patreon subscriber and my friend who I'm always talking about on this podcast. He asked what size? Dowel. What size dowel do you use to not leave marks?
Speaker 3:Oh, oh, I would have mentioned it I talked to the church elders?
Speaker 2:I don't. I don't know that, because we mentioned it in the podcast. It went out just as.
Speaker 3:I assume a small one, right like a thinner. I talked about it because it was the second episode of shiny happy people, which is the documentary about the duggers. If you have religious trauma, massive trigger, warning to watching it. If you're a spanko especially, I had to turn it off at the second episode. It was far too much for me. Incredibly disturbing, incredibly creepy on so many levels of preachers Showing parents how to spank children. But they speak about the dowels on there. It's like the width of a glue stick. I know that that's pretty thick.
Speaker 2:Yeah, maybe it's because it's thicker that it doesn't leave marks. I think they're lying.
Speaker 3:The dowels we described as being 12 inches to 18 inches long in the diameter, the size of a quarter.
Speaker 1:According to abc church members.
Speaker 3:Oh, jesus Christ, a quarter. Yeah, that's fat, that's a fat. I can't be right.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that doesn't seem hold on on a lot bigger than a cane, so maybe that's why it doesn't leave marks, right?
Speaker 3:No, it just breaks your spine and tailbone, just breaks your stand, no big deal, just it just paralyzes you from the waist down. Oh, it's really sick. See, go watch that documentary toes him.
Speaker 1:No, I did not yet.
Speaker 3:Who? I'll just say this it makes Hillsong look like they did nothing wrong. It's iblp, which I had never heard of. I had never heard of that sector of Christianity. You said ip, lp, I be as in boy, l and then p as in paul. Oh, if the FBI is watching me google search things, I mean they'll have to come to the podcast and know that we're against anything.
Speaker 1:Institute and basic life principles. That is a terrifying title, Totally yeah.
Speaker 3:I'm telling you this. So this is what the dugger. You know, that family, that 19 kids and counting they're 19 kids and they had a show on tv and their names were all like jettadiah Jonas oh yeah, my partner may be the whole duggers reality tv show. Well, I will say this the least disturbing part about the whole documentary is the brother that touched his little sisters.
Speaker 1:So that's a rough start, yep. Anywho, you inspired me and I went through some of my fed lives and I found a couple of interesting gems that I've had before that I've never talked about, that, that were interesting. If people would be into into that, yeah, so most of these come from, like I'm in a couple of groups. Uh, most of the time I get messages from one of them called austin pussy lickers, so I have like a post in there that, like I will come dude this non-recipically if you want. So one of the times someone requested a dm in that post. So my first message is you requested a dm and their response is hey, yeah, I saw your post. I cannot accommodate you tonight, but I'm looking for help kind of an odd request and I said I just sent $15 because I don't believe in talking to goddesses without offerings.
Speaker 1:Oh my god and so the in their profile is like, set up to like. They have a snapchat prominent and like that. They said that's just generally. If I see that, then I do that. They said hello, thanks, I've agreed to be a surrogate for a married gay couple. They will be driving into town next week and again the following Monday we will be artificially inseminating. We will use this, a rinse, and then I'll wear a soft cup after to hold it in place. The thing is the best way to ensure the pregnancy takes is if I orgasm, which they cannot do for me.
Speaker 1:And I can't take anyone else's sperm in the process. Would you be willing to give me an oral orgasm after inseminating Whoa?
Speaker 3:whoa, whoa.
Speaker 2:What? Why can't she use a toy? This is crazy.
Speaker 3:Artists to be toast, and it needs to be a king on his knees. We're artificially inseminating a la the house in home. That's a thing.
Speaker 2:I feel like they're just doing it.
Speaker 3:The old-fashioned way, but with a sir like an egg with an egg baster, turkey.
Speaker 1:There it is. They hand you a semen syringe. Yeah, you do some squirting.
Speaker 3:I I'm gonna have to google it.
Speaker 1:I mean, it's exactly what it sounds like.
Speaker 3:It's like and it works.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3:If the sperm gets up in there it can get to the baby. And what if? So you just take the risk of what if the woman is like oh, I'm attached to this baby, now I'm keeping it Usually, how do you get around that?
Speaker 1:Usually there's a contract done beforehand. So it's like it's similar to like an adoption process, so like I don't know how deep they went, but I've heard of married gay male couples. They mix their sperm, they put it in a syringe, they get a surrogate. They usually pay them and write a contract about it and then they inject both of their sperms in there, which I mean it's only going to be one of them, yeah.
Speaker 1:It's only going to be one of them, but it feels like it's both of theirs and you know the surrogate gets paid and gives them the baby, and I've heard of that like that turning into like creative co-parenting situation too. Yeah for sure that didn't work out because we couldn't find a place to do it, so that one didn't happen. But I was like interesting quest.
Speaker 1:This next one is a couple posted a questionnaire, a 23 point questionnaire to fill out about like how you want to interact with us and our couple, and I'm reading this one because I find this response to be so funny. So the first message is me answering all questions. Your name, tosen, age 34, favorite positions I love being ridden doggy style, driving a leg while you lay down on your side. Do you think I'm hot? Yes, I do. Would you have sex with me? Yes, I would, though I do prefer outer course and oral in general. Lights on or off your preference, would you?
Speaker 3:have to be drunk. Wait, did you say outer course? Yes, what's that grinding?
Speaker 1:Yeah, like grinding ass jobs, hand jobs.
Speaker 3:What's an ass job?
Speaker 1:Sorry, I also know what ass job is Sliding your dick between the butt cheeks.
Speaker 3:Oh, outer, outer. What is it called? Outer center, course Outer course. It's kind of like isn't there a term? Titty fucking right, but it would be booty fucking.
Speaker 1:But titty fucking is a foreign word. Of course it's different. How about buddy?
Speaker 3:How about butty fucking?
Speaker 1:It's referred to as hot dogging or an ass job.
Speaker 2:Oh my God, if these names could make it sound any better. Love it.
Speaker 3:I would like a hot dog and a tossed salad, please. What?
Speaker 2:Are you tossed a salad? You know I'm horny. You toss a salad before you do the hot dogging, and then you don't have to do the cake yeah, oh my God, I just never want to be in a situation where you like how do you like be sexy and say you want a hot dog me.
Speaker 3:I mean, Casey, you just made that sound sexy. So I'm like lean into it.
Speaker 1:There's no way that that will determine.
Speaker 3:Can there be a new segment called Casey? Makes it sound sexy, even though it shouldn't sound sexy.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:Every single sentence that Casey says. Well, some of them are going to be sexy, yeah, but I'm going to use really hard stuff, like hey for public insight, yeah Good.
Speaker 3:I'll do it, I'll do it. Or like tax, like tax clauses. You know we're like reading from the Bible.
Speaker 2:Actually it's pretty sexy in there. Yeah, Pretty steamy. Go on, Tosen. What's the rest of your message?
Speaker 1:So question number seven would you have to be drunk? I don't have drunk sex with people for the first time. Would you take a shower with me? I love showering before play. I sweat fairly easily and love getting a shower right beforehand. Have you ever thought about having sex with me? I have now. Would you leave after? Would you leave after or stay the night? I would leave. I have a family and tend to like to sleep at home. Do you like cuddling afterwards? Of course, Condom or skin. If I'm penetrating anything other than mouths, condom, but I like to perform oral condom lists. Do you give oral pleasures? Yes, to both penises and vaginas. Do you like to receive oral pleasures? Absolutely. Have sex on the first date? Yep. Would you kiss me during sex? I'm down. I'm not super into kissing in general. That's not accurate. I don't like kissing people I don't know.
Speaker 1:So, do you think I would be good in bed? Being good in bed is about communication and, given the thoroughness of this, I'd say yes, three-some Totally. How many times would you like to come? One or two, probably. Do you like foreplay? Yes, can we take pictures of the act? Yep, will you post this so I can fill it out for you? Sure, how you feel about anal? I love butt stuff, giving and receiving.
Speaker 2:Butt stuff I sent that whole message.
Speaker 1:Okay, sorry, go ahead.
Speaker 2:No, no, I just am delighted.
Speaker 1:Send that whole message. Their response want to fuck the male.
Speaker 2:What Like she wants to fuck the message.
Speaker 1:No, no, no. She's asking me do I want to fuck the male?
Speaker 2:The male, the male, the gentleman Like her partner.
Speaker 3:A couple posted this questionnaire.
Speaker 2:Okay.
Speaker 1:The woman's account posted the questionnaire saying where a couple here's pictures of the bucket list and I was like I'd say if that's the only activity. Not so much Topping man isn't my favorite sex act, but I do do it with a condom, for example. Something I would thoroughly enjoy is I named some things. Then at this point this is the guy. I can tell this is the guy answering and he says it would be me. Initially I said gotcha. I'd say probably the first time I just prefer Earl Oral.
Speaker 1:And then we just it turns out that this is a was a weird guy and he was like it didn't work out, we didn't hang.
Speaker 3:I hate that. And then he responds to you thoroughly and beautifully, answering all of those questions. It's like he just responded with the letter K.
Speaker 1:K. Yeah, that's the reason I held onto that one Cause I was like um.
Speaker 2:And that's not even a sentence. Will you fuck the male? I was like do you want? She wants you to fuck her bills? What?
Speaker 1:Want to fuck the male. I'm like not really so this one, not now. Again is posted in like an Austin worship group or personal worship group. So their post was ambiguous about whether they were down with just oral. So my first message was I don't know if being your oral worshipper is in your wheelhouse, but I'd love to go down on you with no expectations of reciprocation and that's something you're into Again.
Speaker 1:The post that I'm responding to says DMs are fine and things like that, and the answer response was like two weeks later. Two weeks later was would you want to come fuck me? Right now I live in near the arboretum Followed by another message I want you to come in my mouth and I'm like um, and then I didn't see that message for like probably another, like month or so.
Speaker 3:Wow, Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow Wow.
Speaker 1:Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, okay yeah.
Speaker 2:So how many years?
Speaker 1:have you learned? Yeah, I learned a lot of things and I have learned a lot of things, but I've been around for about two last years so far what we call casual encounters. When, like in my most unsafe era of being a slut, when I was just answering casual encounters on Craigslist back in the day.
Speaker 2:Craigslist yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I was like oof, that was a dumb time.
Speaker 2:But yeah those were some of those Dilarious, amazing. Well, I think we should wrap it up.
Speaker 3:Yeah, what a fun catch up day. I'm glad that we got to catch up.
Speaker 2:Thank you all you sexy beasts for listening in to another episode of Talk Dirty to Me. We will be back next week, hopefully with a guest. I'm having a hard time getting guests. I'm in a bit of a drought but I'm hustling for it. But if you tell me what you want, I will do my best to get them. Or if you are what I want, come say hello, please. Anyways, until next time, let's all Write better, Write better.
Speaker 3:That's all right better, amen, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye.
Speaker 4:Talk Dirty to Me is a podcast by Little Renegade Films.
Speaker 3:It stars Sarah Marie Currie Casey Sammie Casey why do you sound real sexy while you do it? Do I? No, why don't you? Oh, why don't I? Yeah, like you, remember how you read your synopsis and just like yeah, oh you want me to do it like that?
Speaker 4:Yes, Okay great, okay Genius, okay Talk Dirty to. Me is a podcast by Little Renegade Films. It stars Sarah Marie Currie, casey Sammie, tosin Alifaso and Stephanie Spiegel, with silent contributions by Taylor Novak. Title and closing themes by Tosin Alifaso. Follow us on the social medias at Talk Dirty to Me Pod, and for more of our offerings go to LittleRenegadeFilmscom.
