Dr. Trina Read: It's Not You, It's This - Why Long-Term Couples Lose Desire and Exactly How to Get It Back | #187

Here's a truth most couples need to hear: women in long-term relationships don't lose interest in sex. Sex just becomes uninteresting. And if nothing changes, boredom quietly turns into apathy, which Dr. Trina Read will tell you is the single biggest threat to your sex life. Dr. Trina is a sexologist and bestselling author with 25+ years of experience helping women in long-term relationships thrive after the honeymoon stage ends. In this special episode, she walks you through her Five Pleasure Secrets of Satisfied Couples, plus three things you can try tonight.

WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:

• Why spontaneous sex might actually be the reason your sex life has gone flat
• The research-backed case for quality over quantity in the bedroom
• What "erotic threads" are and how to build them every single day
• Why so many women experience delayed sexual response and what actually helps
• How to desire your partner out loud again (and why it matters more than you think)
• The Yes/No/Maybe list exercise that reveals what you both secretly want
• Three things you can do tonight to shift the energy with your partner

VIDEO VERSION, LINKS & RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE CAN BE FOUND ON THE WEBSITE: https://www.sexreimagined.com/blog/5-pleasure-secrets-satisfied-couples 

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