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Balenciaga Drama: Our VERY hot take. Identifying Collective Narcissism and Gas Lighting! How to NOT be easy to control! STOP giving your power away!

Melissa Harris Season 1 Episode 6

Our VERY hot take on the Balenciaga drama. A little more serious episode where we break down the very sick and evil Balenciaga campaign and what this means for us as a society. We also discuss how this ties into collective Narcissism and Gas Lighting and how to identify if your energy is being sucked AWAY from you, making you reactive and easily manipulated and controlled and keeping you from achieving your goals. 

Have you ever been a victim of narcissism? Do you know how to identify it? We break down for you how the narcissist works and how our society's relationship with celebrity culture reflects narcissism: Love Bombing you (making you feel AMAZING and loved at the beginning), followed by lying, giving and taking away attention and love, being unattainable and out of reach to you followed by then abusing you emotionally, physically or spiritually to get you in a weak state. They use you as "supply" for emotions, energy and empathy because they cannot cultivate that on their own. 

Learn about the frog in boiling water analogy and how sneaky narcissists "turn the heat up" little by little on you until you're boiling and can't get out of the situation and then put you in a state of giving all your power and energy away. 

When we can identify this type of behavior and set boundaries around it in our immediate lives with the relationships in our life, we become stronger in identifying it on a collective level. When we can identify it on a collective level, we can STOP giving our power away and that's how we'll see dramatic change in the world...which is what we are here for. 

By cultivating awareness and taking your power back and directing it towards YOUR growth vs pouring it into celebrities and brands, you became "unF*&^with-able" and your growth sky rockets. 

Let's start a new wave of women with morals, integrity who are fearless in standing up for the vulnerable and what's right - we are here for it! 

Our goal for this episode is to bring to light so evil things can't thrive in the dark - and it starts in our own lives. 

DMs are open and we would love to hear your thoughts on the topics of Balenciaga and narcissism...we want to know what you think on all of it.