Halloween! Har det kommet for å bli? Og må vi forholde oss til det? Vi kan vel si at holdningene våre endret seg drastisk fra før vi fikk barn til etter. Står du i noen Halloween dilemmaer?
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Halloween! Har det kommet for å bli? Og må vi forholde oss til det? Vi kan vel si at holdningene våre endret seg drastisk fra før vi fikk barn til etter. Står du i noen Halloween dilemmaer?
Abonner på Mammabrønsj på Youtube eller der du hører på podcast. Kom gjerne med innspill til hva du vil høre om. Du finner Barnehagenett på websiden barnehagenett.no og de fleste sosiale kanaler. @barnehagenett - Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, Youtube
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You don't have to wear it if you don't want to there's no need and you have to wear it at parties as well. Without it, you can't wear it. Not everyone likes it, not everyone likes it, but they have to wear it and it has to be a part of society in a way. Welcome to the weekly episode of Mamma Brunch. I don't know if you're familiar with it, but it's actually about external factors. And now the topic of Halloween is coming up.
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What is your relationship to Halloween? My relationship to Halloween is zero, really. Do you mean from before or now? Before I got a child, I didn't want to engage with the kids. I thought it was something cool American traditions, cool things, more shopping, more. That was the only thing. And then the little girl in me who loves to do stuff like that, I actually have a chance to do something fun. I'm not really into that, but the little girl died pretty quickly. My relationship to Halloween was zero. It was light and I don't dare to care.
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But that's what's good about Halloween. It's something you can do physically if you're not a fan, and it's a part of external factors. I actually experience that there are some people who respect it Maybe some, but I don't think it's like that. Maybe not, I think you're blowing your mind and you're getting a little careless. But it's our responsibility as parents To talk about something if you're big enough to be out and about, and if you're not big enough you have to be, by the way, engaged parents we talked about before. Right and easy. What do you think about Halloween? Well, I experience that it's before and after a child. But right and easy, and we just have to say it, dear friends, we choose to dedicate this episode to Halloween. So it means that it engages and that it's a bit of a nuisance, and it doesn't just engage us. No, you see that it engages everyone Without the will. And it's not long, or it's pretty long.
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We were at the shopping center. I had my children because they wanted to talk a little, like we do very often. But, yes, they wanted to talk a little. Yes, great, then we would go to H&M because we had to do something new New clothes and there they had a Halloween hat, like a hat. I know it's so cool. Is there someone who found this hat? Yes, I found it, and it should be taken as a present Because you should go trick or treat. But is this one good? Yes, because she has her own money. Yes, okay, yes, that's the word. I'm not going to talk about it. Then you use your money in your savings? Yes, because we have orange clothes at home. Yes, but orange is not good enough. No, it's not like that. But that says a little about how big Halloween is going to be. That it's the point. Now they have more colors. Yes, but I agree.
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Previously I thought that Halloween was something like this American tool that I didn't want to be on. But the time has gone and Halloween has come. It's been the first year and that's what I found. Thank you, without you.
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With you, jenny, you can be so irritated, but it will come in handy, and it's the most fun for both the young and the society to get on with the party. Absolutely, I think so, and I'm totally in love with party people. I'm not that bad, no, but I've been the one who should have been there. I have, I have. But then it's these kids. We've had so many young people who get to do the most strange things, but there are a lot of kids behind the scenes. I think there's been a change in society Because there are a lot of people I've been introduced to. I'm now inviting you to a Halloween party and a meeting with a meeting and a party. It's going to be groups that are invited to the party I'm sure that it's either older groups or groups based on knowledge and then they eat together, they do something social and then they go out on a date. It's a bit embarrassing to ask for a kiss or a hug, and if you don't kiss on the door, it's not that great. But there are a lot of nice people behind there that make society strong and you get a lot of experience that you can talk about. And the young people are moving forward. They talk about it for a long time.
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Mom, we shouldn't be scared, or maybe they're scared themselves, maybe they're going to be 10. Yes, maybe 10. But if he says it in front of you, you have to remember that I got my face as a teenager and it's almost the end of the year. It's fantastic, but you don't have to be so scared. It's about getting out, and we know that when you get out, you also go into a role and then it's all allowed, or it's easier to be yourself.
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The play is completely different. Thank you, that's what I'm talking about and because you're still playing. You're still doing it. Yes, I think so. No, I think so. It's a nice thing. Yes, till has already found his suit, you're clear. Yes, yes, havels suit from the one who made it. It's a bankers' suit, so it's Havels suit. Yes, yes, mine is Princess. She's a nice and good princess actually, so it should be a nice joke. Yes, I think it's nice. You're nice, are you? We have to play on it. Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, but what do you plan for the day?
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We start early. Yes, that's right. Why us? We have a friend family with children who are older and younger than us. Yes, I'm very much the same, and that's the reason we live at home. So nice, it's the same for the family. But since they were two, I think they had a Halloween party at home.
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It starts early. Yes, it starts early, and you were there because their children were three. Yes, exactly, and they get a lot. They start at a large part of the kindergarten and there are the five-year-olds. Wait, hello, let's have a chance to talk about it. You're not going to go to the kindergarten for a long time, are you? No, not at all. Then you'll be expelled.
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And what do you get for that? What is it? Yes, so, but it's very nice. Yes, it's the last place we eat and drink together and have really good snacks. No, we started like so white last year and then we went up to the garage door and got out of there Because then it was one of us that had to get dressed up. It's cool, but it's about starting small. We also started there and learning to think, yes, I should have gone up before I had to go. I'm a little sick of that. I'm thinking about it.
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I started at a young age with the idea that it was a really tight schedule. Now the young people have a wine glass with a hand up. They look like they're drunk. It's like 50% after Halloween, so I bought it today. That's the fruit glass. We start there.
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It's completely different, yes, but what is good is that it can actually be used over the years, and that's also a little cool. With Halloween, people go inside all in and they put both the house and the entrance party and the hags, and it's completely different. It's completely different. We had a NABO where we lived before A completely fantastic people and regardless of which year it was actually, it's all about Halloween or Christmas or whatever it is, and they always invited us to Halloween parties to grow up oh cool. And the Halloween party. I'm not completely there yet. I haven't completely managed to transform Halloween in the same way, but it will come too. It will do that. I thought about it a little earlier. He's a little bit on a halibut after Halloween, so we can buy one thing each, one new thing each year, and we have a Christmas tree and a Christmas tree. I have that, but it can be used over the years.
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Just to say that it's important to think about how to make yourself. I think it was last year you had to make a little bit of a love story. How did you do that? A completely normal love story. You just take a paper towel and put a string on it or you tie a little bow and a ribbon and then you play the games and I think it's great. But it's not that much to add Before. It's fun, but this is also about engagement and that they're so interested in the children and it's a bit of a hassle.
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I've actually bought myself a costume. No, I'm not. What are you going to wear? To quote your child, I'm going to wear a nice hat. A nice hat. Yes, it's supposed to say that there's a black hat and then a white hat, so we do it relatively simple More than good enough. But there's more than good enough. And there's what's added Again that they're going to process. It's a process she already has and that's what she's going to do, so you don't have to do it so much. You are not. It's just this with a little makeup on, so you can use what you have from before, and I'm happy with that. Yes, white make-up is a great choice for makeup. You don't have to do it much.
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But one thing we have to focus on at home is that you don't have to wear clothes if you don't want to. There is no need. And you have to wear it at parties as well. No, I don't. Not everyone likes it. Not everyone likes it, but they will have to wear it and they will be a part of the society regardless. They will have to include it.
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Yes, we both predict that at home and in children, regardless. So we don't want to exclude anything, absolutely not. Or do you want to? That's a good one, but it happens. Yes, it does In reality. No, it happens, but we have to grow up in that way. That's just so. It's so weird Our answer. And we want everyone to have a beautiful Halloween, regardless of you and me and someone else with us wanting it to come or not. Has it come? And now it has come to be, so it's just to be with the party, to be with the party. But is it easy? Yes, it is. How are you doing? But beautiful Halloween, good Halloween, good Halloween. And please listen to more on Podcasts on YouTube or Spotify. Thank you.