Mammabrønsj - med Irene og Linnca
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Talking to Children and Parental Influence
Speaker 1You know what Tarlak said here ? Tell me . He missed the girl . And then he came all of a sudden . There's a mom . Who do you think he got that from ? Well , it's the one sitting here , right , it's not me . It's me , mom , brunch , marie and Lincoln .
Speaker 1A podcast from Barnardinett . Welcome to the weekly episode of Moundrunch . Today we're going to talk about how we talk to children , because they are I can't say anything else . They are swampers and suck up absolutely everything we say . And it's not an example you start with now , it's a practical example . Dear friends , we have to go in and do it ourselves . Sometimes , when we hear the children talk , are you happy ? And it's both what's positive but also all the negative things that we have , because we have them too .
Speaker 1When the children start to talk a little , I have a tendency to say the ironic part when did I get it from ? I didn't have a clue . It was nice , the cruise ship . Actually , it's so nice I thought it's not . I had to laugh , but then it started . There was a reflection out there when my daughter , now just four years old , says to me that I'm getting a little bit of an amperage . Mom , take the calm cruise ship . And I did that because I had to , but that's what we also found out . We think it's a bit funny that you start to laugh and then you start to think about it afterwards and then you think , yes , we think , is it like when you're 14 ? No , not like that , but I think it's a bit funny Because my son on the 10th says that Mom , you're talking just as well , as best for you .
Speaker 1Yes , that's it . Never thought that I would . No , you say home , I was here . Home , I never say home . And then he started to harass me . Now , mom , what do you say now ? Yes , that's what I said . So they're not just a generation of harassers , it's also been with us and that generation of Absolutely , and that's a positive thing if it's something that's that we're going home , that we're going home , yes , so it's not that kind of . It's not that kind of it's relatively quiet and it's something that's but to draw a little child's heart , and not really that much .
Speaker 1I don't want to look at it in detail today , but how do we talk about others ? And that is , what do we learn from our children and what do they suck up from what we talk about , and how do we form our own ? I think they are also able to form their own and this attitude without a word . I think they understand a lot more than we think about every day , and it's both the same as parents and all the other adults that we are used to thinking about how we talk to our children , and not to mention how we talk to each other when the child is in place , because the one I am actually talking to you about and you know that . So there you see and experience the child a lot , and then you take it with you and we have to , and I'm doing a lot of mistakes . So that's not what this is about , but it's about our awareness .
Speaker 1How do we actually meet or say something ? When one of the young people comes and says that this has been shot or that this has been shot or that this has been shot ? How do we meet ? How do we meet and how is the political correct ? It's not easy . It's not easy . When the young person comes home and says that this young person has been shot , are you trying to find out what has happened ? Why did you beat the child ? What is the child's real purpose ?
Talking to Children About Others
Speaker 1When he was the oldest , I was at a kindergarten in the Russia , I don't remember who , but it wasn't important , and he talked a lot about this , about how we talk about others for the child , and he took an example that has burned a bit in my head . When you're at home with your family this was both when Tesla was so hip you see the blind man and you see the neighbor come home and drive a Tesla . How did you respond In this way ? That's why Tesla was driving . Who has stolen it ? How did he get the money ? He didn't throw it away . The other couple said where is the million ? How do you talk about the events ? How do you say look so cool . When the neighbor finally bought the Tesla , look at the color . It was cool . Oh , what the hell is that ?
Speaker 1How do we put it forward ? It can be that it's about the child's health . It can be about a lot of things , but we always need to say it to the child . We really need to say it . What is money ? What ? Where do we want it ? Have we promised that and what do we teach our children ? Not least , we know the two different things . Should we do something good , or should we trust what they have , or should we leave ugly comments about what they get from new things .
Speaker 1I'm sorry that the episode or what he said . I thought a lot about it and just I could have quickly been on the one side , but I didn't want to be there . I wanted to be on the other side . So that's why I've taken a lot of reflection on how you talk . But then there's something you don't always mean when you're with it and you mean to be unfilmated , but it's just dead-out . We've loaded a car and it's something that's so disqualified in front of you . You drive 50 km in the 80s . It's a bit irritating . A smile , and then it can come A smile or two . For example , are you completely glassy ? And then you choose , choose , my , my delta , and then I had two dark-haired girls in the back seat and a very white-haired girl who probably stills thousands of questions about the day .
Speaker 1What's glassmanism , mom ? Why is glassmanism in your brain ? You get it , I'm not kidding . No problem , it's fine , you know . No , you understand , he's a bit slower , you know , yes , but how do you know that glassmanism is in your brain ? It's fine , I also often have to . It's not allowed to park here . It's not like it's really fine when we're here . There's someone in my family who never forgets the song I had from a long time ago and I said to them I'm going to park here , mom , I thought it was a bit . It's a bit like the underground glassman . It's fine . You also have some elderly children , so you get that glassman , the underground glassman , after you were in it . It's in the ground and that's a real mirror , you know . And as we started the episode with Young people are swamps . Yes , yes , yes . And they show you . And it's not just what we say to them , it's all in the environment , all of this stuff .
Speaker 1A colleague told me about his son . I have to tell you the story was fantastic . A child who lived on . He loved milk and he could drink more ice to his mom and he always had to hear don't drink it with milk , don't drink it with milk . That was his . He actually brought milk with milk and he also learned how to drink milk . So he had a glass of cola and he took a glass of cola with both hands and a big smile . Today , mom , today I can drink milk . It's a new video , totally the same , because you shouldn't drink milk with milk . It's not like you drink it with cola , it's just that . But they learn . This child was three years old and I think that just to be able to drink for three years works like that . You get completely fascinated , fantastic .
Speaker 1And I would like to tell you something about what we as parents , or what influence we as parents , have , what we do and say and how we say it . I think I have a lot to say . I want to assume that there are so many families I can use myself as an example . My daily life is quite free at home with us . Everyone at home should eat and sit around the table and we should talk together , and when we have a call , we can talk about things . And how do we talk about others ?
The Importance of Communication and Values
Speaker 1We have examples of how you started talking about the child who is beating you . This is when I came home and said that it is a child who is beating the child and I said , yes , but mom , the child didn't learn to play with him . The child wanted to play with me and wanted to do that , and then he thought that he was going to beat me up to get in touch with me , and then he felt that I was getting a little bit touched . I think it was a very nice saying of me on 5 . Because she has been catching a lot At the same time . They can catch everything , of course , but there are not all the people who beat you up to make you bad .
Speaker 1No , and how are the people , as parents , like you ? It is not allowed . But is that the child that we beat all the time ? Or is it one that looks young and mine , and tries to find out what the next year is and that is very quickly done and thrown away at the beginning , yes , yes , when you come home and say , yes , he is a child , yes , he is a child . But what is the young thing ? Yes , it is not . But what happened ? I am a little younger now . No , you are older . Yes , I think you are younger .
Speaker 1Yes , but I think you are talking about each other , Look at each other and who cannot have one in their own way . Or look at TV yes , you can sit like this . You can sit like this when you are tired . You have to be comfortable . It is just the small comments that you do not think about , which are so easy to say Without doing it yourself . Yes , you do it yourself and work with it a lot .
Speaker 1I think it is important that you are aware . I think it is important that you look at me . Yes , but it's so difficult and it's it's so embarrassing to be at home on the other side of the house . It's important to talk about it . I'm just kidding , this is a bit of a joke . He's never driven , no , no .
Speaker 1Or we talked about the parents never seeing each other . They're never involved in anything . And then they hear the young ones your parents never saw each other . It's not the same , but it's been a bit of a shock . It's not completely healthy . It can be a year-long thing because they haven't driven two-way , two-way training and it's always felt like that . But it's only two , for example , and it's very nice that they're stigmatizing the other kids Because they're young , they're very sensitive and it's very unhealthy .
Speaker 1And then it's like we also talked about what I say and the way I say . It is very annoying . And one thing is , when they're three or four or five years old , they remember and they take it to themselves and they get older and they use it more actively because that's what they've learned and heard . And when they're ten , fifteen years old , it's not as easy to change that . It's not that . So this goes a bit on the value of the values , because how do we think about those around us ? Absolutely , and we wish that our children will have good values and values , good people , and that's the reason we want to have that episode . Be very aware of what you say , how you say it and the attitude you use when you talk to others . Not least , be brave and be brave and the children hear it themselves . When you think that it's not much of a deal , mavrish do you hear it on podcast , youtube and Spotify .