We grabbed a hotel, some vodka & moonshine, and the BEST SEX TOY EVER (listen now to find out what it is!) and we hooked up with another hot swinger couple for our first time (just the 4 of us, naked & f*cking without a care in the world). Find out what unexpectedly happened to June after Vodka shot #5, the thing she doesn't remember telling me to do to her, and which of the ladies was the loudest during sex! There was LOTS of girl-on-girl experimentation this time, click play right now to hear all the hot & throbbing details! ;)
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We grabbed a hotel, some vodka & moonshine, and the BEST SEX TOY EVER (listen now to find out what it is!) and we hooked up with another hot swinger couple for our first time (just the 4 of us, naked & f*cking without a care in the world). Find out what unexpectedly happened to June after Vodka shot #5, the thing she doesn't remember telling me to do to her, and which of the ladies was the loudest during sex! There was LOTS of girl-on-girl experimentation this time, click play right now to hear all the hot & throbbing details! ;)
(YOU CAN ALSO FIND ALL OF THE RESOURCES BELOW AT: https://www.newswingerspodcast.com)
***SEE JUNE'S PIERCED NIPPLES RIGHT NOW ON HER ONLYFANS PAGE, CLICK HERE!
**NEW SWINGER COACHING! Overcome Insecurities Faster & Get Your Questions Answered With Personal Swinger Coaching From John & June. CLICK HERE To Learn More...
*GET THE FREE "SWING-EASY" 2-PG PDF GUIDE! We Show You The 3 Easiest Ways To Find & Connect With Other Like-Minded Swinger Couples In Your Area In The Next 24 Hours (or less, GUARANTEED)! CLICK HERE!
GUYS, Are You Having a HARD Time Staying HARD? CLICK HERE & Use The Code "NEW" At Checkout To Get $30 OFF Your Order of FDA-Approved ED Medication So You Can Stay Harder Longer And Drive Your Sex Partners Wild!
*"VODKA HELPS" T-SHIRTS, CLICK HERE TO GET YOURS NOW!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome back to the New Swingers podcast. I'm
Speaker 2 (00:02):
John. And I'm June.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
And in this episode we are going to talk about our first hot and horny hotel hookup.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
What?
Speaker 1 (00:10):
This past weekend we hooked up with another couple in a hotel and we won't tell what we will tell <laugh> a little bit, at least on this podcast, which is why I can see I'm not a rapper
Speaker 2 (00:22):
<affirmative>.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
So yeah, this was our first time. What I'll say is this, we have had experiences in Swinger's club couple hotel parties that had like 15, 20 people <affirmative>. This was our first one where it was just you and I and another male female couple. And that had an interesting dynamic to it. By the way, if you like this podcast, if you've heard any of this podcast, you enjoy it. Do us a quick favor real quick. It takes three seconds. Scroll down on your phone or wherever you listen to this and click the five star rating or whatever you think this podcast is worth. Leave your rating in review. It takes three seconds to click those stars. Takes another 3, 5, 3 to 10 seconds to leave review. Because what that does is it helps us reach more people just like you who are new to lifestyle or curious about it. And we can help them out so they don't make mistakes or do things that could hurt their relationship that could easily be avoided if they had had this podcast. So if you've benefited from this <affirmative>, do us a quick favor. Click those stars, leave a comment review, helps us reach more people. Anyways, that's my only ad right
Speaker 2 (01:42):
There, <laugh>.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
So yeah, we went to a actually it wasn't a hotel, it was an apartment, it was an Airbnb <affirmative>, but it was an apartment. It was like a hotel, but it was technically, it was an apartment. So I guess our title's a little deceiving.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah, a little bit.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
But hotel, Airbnb, whatever, <affirmative>. So how did this all come about? Do you remember when we met this particular couple?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
I remember when we met for the first time. We met them at the club
Speaker 1 (02:22):
On my
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Birthday. On your birthday weekend. And her and I had fooled around a little bit. She had went down on me and we had made out quite a bit.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Boy, you're jumping right to the good stuff. Buildup
Speaker 2 (02:36):
At all. I did
Speaker 1 (02:38):
<laugh>, no buildup at all. So it's my birthday. We're sitting at the club at this seating area and you're a stripper pole.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Now wait a minute, wait a minute. Cuz you're always telling me when we have conversations, just get to the fucking point and then I'm doing that and then I get this.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
I'm insatiable. There's no pleasing me. It's my cross to bear.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
<laugh>.
Speaker 1 (03:07):
So it's my birthday. We're sitting around this seating area with these couches at the club we go to near this stripper pole
Speaker 2 (03:15):
<affirmative>,
Speaker 1 (03:16):
By the way, I just had a good size glass of dragons milk, which if you've never had that, you get that on draft at the local restaurant. It is great. And so anyways, if I sound like I've been drinking, it goes well. I have been
Speaker 2 (03:30):
Me too.
Speaker 1 (03:31):
So anyway, we're at the club, it's my birthday, kind of celebrating that there <affirmative> and we have some other friends there and this couple shows up and didn't know us, but they knew, I think they were friends of our other friends, they
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Were.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
And so I was like, Hey, come on over. Join us cuz why not? And so we got talking to them, hanging out, whatever, having some drinks. Next thing I know there were cupcakes that the club actually gave us a bottle of champagne and cupcakes. Yes. This whole display on this tray, it was really cool. They did that <affirmative>. And so after a while, I'll just get to the point here, the good stuff. After a while I was eating one of the cupcakes and so was June. And next thing I know June is making out with this lady <laugh>, this beautiful lady. And she, let's just say she was sharing the frosting from her cupcake <affirmative> with her mouth.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
Yes, I was.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
And me and her guy looked at each other and looked at them and went, Damn
Speaker 2 (04:42):
<laugh>.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
And then,
Speaker 2 (04:46):
Well, I think I took a bite and she's like, Ooh, can I taste it? And then she goes in for a kiss and I was like, Oh, okay. <laugh>. Oh, that's what you mean, how you wanna taste it? Okay, <laugh>,
Speaker 1 (04:56):
Fuck. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
So I think if I remember correctly, that was kind of how that happened. And I was like, Okay, cool.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
<laugh>. Yeah. And then 20 seconds later when the kiss was over with, it was like, Oh, I think something might go down on my birthday. And
Speaker 2 (05:13):
I kept getting more icing and putting it in my mouth and then we'd make out more <laugh>.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
The more icing she put in her mouth, the more this beautifully would want June to share. So we're like, well who are we to dash her dreams? <laugh> keep sharing and
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Sharing is caring.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
That's right.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
<laugh>.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
And so eventually that night we went to one of the playrooms at the club and and her fooled around and mm-hmm <affirmative>, me and the husband just, we were just kind of there, kind of there for it. But you both had a good time. But that's how we met them. And then what happened is a couple times we met up just to get to know 'em outside the club setting.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Yeah,
Speaker 1 (05:54):
It's always funny how we grew up. It's like, well you would never have the way we grew up, all conservative, it's like you would never have sex with somebody when you first meet 'em or do anything sexual. You would get to know them for a long time and even then, you know, had to be married. Well this was flipped completely backwards.
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Oh yeah, absolutely. It
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Was like, Hey, how are you? You like these cupcakes too? Two girls making up next thing the lady's going down on June <affirmative> and it's like, then we go out for drinks and to get food and stuff. What, two or three times? Probably over the
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Next, I think three
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Or next month or so. And they're really cool people. Mm-hmm
Speaker 2 (06:36):
<affirmative>
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Really nice, really cool people. So yeah, you can place actually with people and then become friends. We're proof. We're living proof
Speaker 2 (06:45):
<laugh>. Yes. Yes. And so I had her number, John had his, we'd kind of periodically text back and forth, Hey, what you doing this weekend? Are you going to the club? Or you wanna hang out the club somewhere? So yeah, we hung out two or three more times and I don't really know how it came up to play again. I don't really remember.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
I don't know that I do either.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
That's
Speaker 1 (07:15):
The beautiful thing. If you just click with people and there's a connection, there's chemistry, it just sort of happens on its own.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Well I remember we kind of talked about things that we liked, that we liked doing and then
Speaker 1 (07:29):
You were texting her at one point she was asking, What are you guys into? And then we asked them.
Speaker 2 (07:34):
Yeah. So we were texting back and forth, getting a feel for each other and then even hanging out in person. We would ask things and I would mention things that we like and I vice versa. And I don't really, like I said, I don't really remember exactly how it happened, but we were like, well hey, do we wanna plan you a time where we can play and hang out? Not at the club somewhere different
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Because we, we've had larger setting experiences, the club or the hotel parties that are bigger. But me and June, we've been wanting to explore what's it like to be in a smaller setting, maybe with one other couple or two other couples. No more than three. And people we know <affirmative>. So this was our first small experience just with one other couple, which has its own dynamic to it. It's almost like in some ways you may be more nervous because
Speaker 2 (08:34):
I
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Was you and your partner and then two other people instead of, there's not four or five or six or 10 other people to blend everything together. <affirmative> I wasn't too concerned because I knew that things just flow and that this couple, there was never any awkward silence between us when we'd hang out, grab drinks. But also I knew we had the magic ingredient vodka
Speaker 2 (09:00):
<laugh>,
Speaker 1 (09:01):
Which all it takes is a couple of shots of that with a drink and a mixer to lighten the mood and the anxiety for anybody it seems, at least for us. And no, don't worry, we'll get to June's vodka story in a bit <laugh>. But yeah I remember him and I were talking, you and her had gone to the restroom or something cuz that's what ladies do for some reason. And it was kind of like, I had told him I think, well hey, we're free during the week during school hours. Our kids are at school <affirmative>, we make our own schedule. And he is like, Oh man, that doesn't work for us. And he said, Weekends work for us. I'm like, Oh man, we can't do weekends cuz we have kids and they're home. And so we're like, well let's try and maybe find a hotel or a place.
(09:52):
It's like a hundred to 130 bucks or so, 150 bucks, we'll split it 60, 70 bucks each, whatever <affirmative>. And so that's what we ended up doing and found Airbnb in a great part of town, which actually was four minutes from where they live. Come to find out <laugh>. But I found the place <affirmative> and so we were just kind of talking about we, what the ladies did before, they enjoyed that and they both want to do that again. So it was just a matter of booking details and confirming and you know, were texting back and forth about what we like and our boundaries, right?
Speaker 2 (10:27):
Yeah. I said, well we like to play with girls and we like to play with girls together. We don't do full swap but we do like to do parallel play. Things like that. Soft swap, things like that.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Yeah. June's not generally into other guys. It's really, really independent situation and picky if she is, but generally not <affirmative>. So we made that real clear up front. But the thing about that kind of scenario, some people might look at it and go, oh well gosh there's a lot you can't do. But at the same time you can play with the partner. You came with <affirmative> and that's a hot scenario when you're laying on the same bed as another couple. They're doing each other. You're doing each other. The girls making out
Speaker 2 (11:19):
<affirmative>,
Speaker 1 (11:20):
Like no guy lost there. <laugh>, nobody lost. But before we get to that, we were trying to think of, well gosh, what could we do to kill the time? Well we get there. I don't know, you just show up and be like, Hey everyone, how you doing? Let's get naked and fuck
Speaker 2 (11:37):
<laugh>.
Speaker 1 (11:39):
I dunno, we have a little more class than that.
Speaker 2 (11:41):
So
Speaker 1 (11:41):
What were some of the activities that we planned and did?
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Well,
Speaker 1 (11:45):
We had drinks.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
We had drinks. What did we have? Vodka of
Speaker 1 (11:53):
Course. Hundred proof vodka.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
June's into that hard shit.
Speaker 2 (11:58):
Yeah, we'll get into more of that in a little bit. She's
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Another girl.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
<laugh>, but vodka. And then they brought I forgot was some kind of moonshine I think it was they had, which,
Speaker 1 (12:12):
So this is gonna be a good party.
Speaker 2 (12:14):
Which I mean John said he didn't even have a lot and it was so fucking strong.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
I never had moonshine and I had maybe one and a half shots worth total. And I was already getting, my chest was getting red and heated up and I'm feeling it in my chest. I'm like, holy shit, I need to slow down on this. So they brought that, It tasted kinda like a real sweet red, jolly Rancher. It was a little too sweet for my taste, but it was real powerful.
Speaker 2 (12:46):
Yeah, I think for me it was sweet and it was sour, but it was had the real alcohol, strong aftertaste. And that was what was kind of like
Speaker 1 (12:56):
Off putting you.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
Yeah, I don't really a long strong aftertaste of alcohol.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
She just wants the effect not to taste.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Exactly. <laugh>. So we have sex games that we, they're card games and so we're like, well we could play that we that we bought about a month and a half ago.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
Now if you don't know what a Sian is, it's basically, it's number one, it's an orgasm machine for women. They run about a grand, but we're the investment, if you like to have orgasms, <affirmative>, they like to have friends over and have a lot of friends to have orgasms too. That's a great way to make friends <affirmative> who doesn't an orgasm.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
Exactly.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
It's kinda sadly the lady, you'll sit on it sometimes there's dildo attachments of different sizes if you want and if you don't want, there's just the rubber nub on there.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
It also has at least the one we have and ones we've tried before, it also has a spin setting two. So if you have a delta on it spins around inside you. Oh yeah. So I don't really care for that, but I know some women do. But for me it's more of just the vibration that gets me there.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
<laugh>. Yeah, there's like a one to 11 or something setting for intensity and the vibration, 11 being the strongest <affirmative>. June always starts at seven or eight. I'll start on three or four to be nice and she'd be like, she'd just look at me. What the fuck? Get this thing going
Speaker 2 (14:22):
<affirmative>. I'm doing thero. Come on trying
Speaker 1 (14:25):
To be a gentleman. She's just get me to the fucking moon baby
Speaker 2 (14:29):
<laugh>.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
So yeah, we had vodka moonshine, we were drinking that <affirmative>. We had the card game, which, well the cian we had the card game which we played before the Cian <affirmative>. And that was sexy questions. Just que great sex questions that are icebreakers about, have you ever done this or have you ever done that? Or if this was the scenario, would you ever do that? And basically you can tell the truth. It's called truth or drink. It's right there on the desk.
Speaker 2 (15:02):
Yeah, that's
Speaker 1 (15:03):
Right. And it's the red deck. There's four or five decks, different colors. It's the red one. It's the only fun one.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
It's the spicier one that we like <laugh>.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
And so it's a great icebreaker to talk about sex. And so basically we're all drinking and June gets this idea that what led to, well you brought linger to put on, you were in a dress at this point and
Speaker 2 (15:33):
I wore a sundress and then I brought lingerie to change into with
Speaker 1 (15:37):
Me. It's a bra panties that are neon purple and pink. And they glow.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
Yeah, I bought 'em for the glow party that we went to. Yeah,
Speaker 1 (15:44):
At the Swinger Club <affirmative>. So you wore that with these leather boots that have these really skinny round heels. But they're high
Speaker 2 (15:55):
<affirmative>, high heels.
Speaker 1 (15:55):
Yeah. Those are super
Speaker 2 (15:56):
Sexy, real pointy.
Speaker 1 (15:58):
At one point that's all you were wearing and fuck that was hot.
Speaker 2 (16:02):
I don't remember that.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
Yeah, we'll get to that <laugh>. But so you're like, boy I, I'm getting changed. I'm getting, you know, stand up and you're like, Woo, shit. You know, stood up and you're like, wow, the room's spinning. You're like, I'm going to put the linger on <affirmative>. Well then she goes in there with you.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
She does <affirmative>. Oh okay.
Speaker 1 (16:20):
Okay. I better say this now since we're getting to this point of the story. <laugh> June had about a total of five shots.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
I will never have that much ever again.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Five shots of the hundred proof vodka <affirmative>. And she pretty much doesn't remember 75% of this entire event. She was a fucking wild woman sexually. So I much prefer
Speaker 2 (16:45):
What
Speaker 1 (16:46):
No she didn't. Yeah, she blacked out. She doesn't unconscious at all during this. She just doesn't remember it.
Speaker 2 (16:51):
I literally don't remember about 85% of it.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Yeah. So you got up and
Speaker 2 (16:56):
I remember getting up to change
Speaker 1 (17:00):
And do you remember coming back out?
Speaker 2 (17:03):
No, I don't. Two minutes later. Two I don't. Two minutes later I don't
Speaker 1 (17:07):
<laugh>. Well you came out and this hot bran panties and June is like five seven and skinny with 34 double D's. 32, 32. You lost weight. <laugh>. So she looks fucking banging. She's wearing these black fucking boots with heels, I mean boner medicine to the core <laugh>. And as you come out from the bathroom, which is in the master bedroom <affirmative>, you come out through the bedroom door back into the living area where we are and you grab the side of the door cuz you kind of stumbled <laugh>. Well the other lady, she was not undressed yet, but she had her black lingerie on underneath.
Speaker 2 (17:55):
Oh I do remember the dress she was wearing. I do remember her peeling her dress off of her cuz she had the lingerie. I do remember that part. Yeah. Okay. She had her hot black lingerie on underneath her dress.
Speaker 1 (18:08):
So she took hers off.
Speaker 2 (18:09):
Okay. I do remember that.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
You're standing there grabbing the doorframe, <laugh> trying to stand up straight and you're laughing. Oh, she comes over and she kind of stumbles into you and you're both pressed up against each other in the doorframe laughing your asses off <laugh>. And next thing you know you're making out again. Right there standing in the doorway. And you always said you've always, one of the biggest comments you told me about her <affirmative> from the first night. You said, That woman is a great fucking kisser,
Speaker 2 (18:40):
Which
Speaker 1 (18:41):
I've never gotten to kiss her yet. Or I don't know if I will.
Speaker 2 (18:44):
Maybe not.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
It tip ends if she's into that and if he's okay with that <affirmative>. Cause I like women period. So I'm not picky, but I just said it to say June has told me she's a great kisser and so you two are standing there sucking each other's faces and God, I haven't said that since
Speaker 2 (19:02):
The second. I know. I'm like, how old are we? I know
Speaker 1 (19:05):
13 and a half again.
Speaker 2 (19:07):
Oh
Speaker 1 (19:07):
So yeah, you guys are there and then you come back over to the couch. But when you go to sit down, you actually both end up sitting on the floor. Oh
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Really?
Speaker 1 (19:16):
And there was there an L-shaped couch that we were playing this game on. We were all sitting on the couch L-shaped. You and I were on one side of the L, They were on the other kind of facing each other. Well she ended up somehow at the corner of the L, on the floor in the middle. Well then you ended up somehow sitting basically on her lap between your legs with your back against her. So you're laying your back up against her and turning around, laying your head back on her and she's grabbing your face. And you two are making out. Huh?
Speaker 2 (19:48):
I do not remember this.
Speaker 1 (19:49):
Sitting there fist bumping each other. Dude, we hit the fucking jackbot. Like this is the best Saturday ever. <laugh>.
Speaker 2 (19:57):
And I have no can talk recollection. I have no recollection of this at all. <laugh>
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Man, you'd be so horny right now if you did.
Speaker 2 (20:06):
Oh my gosh. It sounds hot. I just, no memory.
Speaker 1 (20:10):
<laugh>. Yeah. So from there, what we did was, at that point, pulling another card out, trying to have a conversation, everything was just starting to kind of go to shit conversation wise. Cuz you two were so drunk. And so I was like, Hey, how about that Sian yo. And you're like, oh yeah. So she'd never seen a si and heard one. So June's like, fuck it, I'll go first because that's what June does. <laugh> June loves going first in that thing. <laugh>. And so you actually had your bra panties on while you're doing it this time.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
That's weird. That's the first,
Speaker 1 (20:46):
Yeah. Bullet. And the thing is thing, it's really loud. Kinda sounds like an engine. So cuz it vibrates so strong. I actually put a pillow or a couple pillows on the floor and set the si on top of it. But it was still so loud. So after you wrote it for a minute, I was like, shit man, this is a condo apartment building. People beneath us probably hear this. Yeah, I don't mind get a knock on the door <laugh>. So we need to get a house next time we do that. But <affirmative>. So I'm like, hey, let's go put this on the bed. It's up off the floor, whatever. So we go in there, we go into the bedroom, I plug in the si in, you jump on top of it. Except this time you took your panties off, you took everything off every, you're wearing everything or you're wearing nothing except your black boots with the round tall four inch heels. You're
Speaker 2 (21:43):
Welcome.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
It was fucking hot,
Speaker 2 (21:45):
I don't remember. So
Speaker 1 (21:47):
Yeah, you sat up riding a horse, you opened your legs up, sat on that saddle. That si. And I started, started on seven or eight setting. And you're on that. I lubed it up already cuz you put some lube on it, it feels better. Yeah, it does. And you've got your eyes closed, you're kind of rocking back and forth on it, grinding on it. And then this girl comes up behind you and she hugs you from behind and she's like grabbing your boobs, she's kissing your neck, you're reaching your, you're turning almost all the way around with your head and you guys are making out while you're riding this thing. Again, me and him were just standing there fist bumping, going, dude, fucking jack
Speaker 2 (22:29):
Cop
Speaker 1 (22:30):
<laugh>. And we're just letting you two enjoy yourself. And
Speaker 2 (22:37):
I have no memory rotting that Sian <laugh> none.
Speaker 1 (22:41):
It's a damn shame. I know. That's why I'm doing all the talking. Otherwise I let her do talking. But she doesn't know what the fuck happened.
Speaker 2 (22:47):
I don't,
Speaker 1 (22:48):
But what's important is that she was in a safe place. Yes. I was there. I only had a couple of shots and so I intentionally did not have a lot. So she was in a very safe setting by the way. Yeah. We don't recommend drinking off your ass until you can't remember anything. No. You know, don't wanna do that.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
I'll never do that again.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
So anyway, you get done and then she gets on, I wash off the rubber piece on the seum, sterilize it with the sex toy cleaner, wash it a second time, dry it off, bring it back out, put it on the seum and she gets her cian ride, her debut, her ma in voyage on the sene and she gets on it, it sounded like three maybe.
Speaker 2 (23:30):
Oh really?
Speaker 1 (23:31):
Okay. And she was starting, she was moaning, riding it, grinding, making noises. Her eyes are going to the back of her head. And I'm like, damn. She gets here way fast compared to June. <laugh> <laugh>. And then you came up behind her and did the same thing to her that she
Speaker 2 (23:51):
Did you,
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Okay. Okay. You grabbed her from behind and you were caressing her boobs, you were kissing her, She was crying out. She, she's really loud during sex. And so she was really vocal most of the time, which I think is super fucking hot <laugh>. And as you were behind her, both your arms wrapped around her and she's grinding this thing and you're kissing her, she's reaching her right hand back behind her and she's rubbing your CL with her right hand. And I saw her bring her hand back up and she put her whole hand almost in her mouth and got it wet and then put it back down there on your CL and was rubbing you. Oh, okay. So I grabbed the bottle of Astro Glide and I'm like, well shoot spit dries fast. I know that cuz I'm a pro at this. And so I'm like, <laugh>, I took the Astro glide, got some on my hand, rubbed it all over your cl and your pussy. And then I said, I told her, I said, Hey there's, there's lube there now. And she reached back again and we didn't need more from there. So I'm sitting there, I'm helping
Speaker 2 (24:51):
<laugh>. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (24:52):
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Speaker 2 (25:48):
<laugh>. Cause she I did. No, I
Speaker 1 (25:50):
Did. Or she did? No, no, she did.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
Oh she did? Okay.
Speaker 1 (25:52):
She kinda rolled off of it like holy shit. And didn't realize she was as close to the headboard as she was <laugh> and so kind of bumped her head. Not hard, just a little bit. And that was pretty funny.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
You said there was something else too that happened, but I don't remember, Did I ask you to spank me or something?
Speaker 1 (26:11):
Oh shit. How did I forget that?
Speaker 2 (26:13):
I don't remember this part either, which I love when he spanks me, but I have no memory of this either. <laugh>
Speaker 1 (26:19):
<laugh>. Yeah. June likes getting spanked because, well you said it makes it feel like you're owned, right? Or branded, You belong to me, it's the mark. Yeah. Or something. Explain that real quick.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
I like being spanked or wearing the collar with the leash thing because I feel like that makes me feel like I'm wanted, that I'm his property. Property. So when he leaves a hickey, which I have a new brand new hickey, it still is. I do remember asking do remember saying, Oh shit, that's gonna leave a hickey when that Saturday as well. Which I still have it and I love it but I love when he brands me. So if he spanks me, if I wear the leash in the collar, if he leaves hickeys on me, it makes me feel wanted and loved and his property kind of feeling. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:15):
Well, and the thing too is a lot of people are embarrassed by hickeys you. If you don't have a fresh one, you basically tell me to give you another one. Yeah. You wear a badge of honor in public. I do. Tell me about why, what you feel, what's behind that. A lot of people are embarrassed to go, Oh my gosh, there's a hickey on my neck. But you're walking around. I hope someone asks me about that. <laugh>. I mean, yeah, you're an exhibitionist, so you like to be watched during sex. But
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Yeah I don't know. I guess it's just a way of people seeing it and I can be like, Oh yeah, that was my husband <laugh>. He left me that Mark
Speaker 1 (27:55):
<laugh> 17 years and we're still fucking good
Speaker 2 (27:57):
<laugh>. I don't know. I guess it's more of like, Yeah, my husband did that. I like it.
Speaker 1 (28:04):
Okay. I dunno. So go out of rewind if you're old enough to remember what that means. <laugh>, you grew up in the eighties and nineties or before. Let's rewind out of the bedroom, back to the living room where we were drinking and June and her friend were falling all over each other.
Speaker 2 (28:21):
<laugh>
Speaker 1 (28:22):
June starts. There was a question in the deck cards about being spanked. Oh. Or something of that nature. <affirmative>. And so it came up and you were telling him how you love getting spanked, everything you just told us.
Speaker 2 (28:37):
I remember answering the question
Speaker 1 (28:39):
And then you're like, like, Hey John, get the paddle. You brought the paddle, right? You're almost panicking. And I'm like, Yes, I brought the paddle. I bring that fucking thing everywhere <laugh>. Cause I know better.
Speaker 2 (28:52):
Exactly.
Speaker 1 (28:53):
And I keep my bitch in line. <laugh>.
(28:56):
Just kidding. You're not a bitch. I mean, Yeah, not typically your daddy's little whore, which is way more complimentary. Yes. At least in your eyes. Yes. So anyway, she's like, Well go get it. So I reached all two feet across to the end of the couch, into the bag, and I got the pad off and you're still in the hot, that hot pink and purple bra panties at this point and with your black boot heel boots on. Okay. And so you basically just rolled over on the couch and from a sitting position to rolled over to where your knees are on the floor, your stomach and chest are on the couch cushion. And your face, your face is touching three things. The wall, the back couch, cushion, the edge of it, and the arm, the back of the armrest against the wall. So your head's back in the corner and you're sticking your ass out and you're like, Spank me <laugh>. And I'm like, okay. And June, she likes it hard, but if it's insane hard, she'll call me by my real first name instead of a fun name. That did not happen at all by the way. So okay. I did it kind of hard <affirmative>. And the couple was the other couple's like, Oh wow, that's hot. Then you're like, You just yelled, spank me harder motherfucker. Wow,
(30:20):
<laugh>. Yeah, you don't normally get like that. I'm like, You want it harder? I'll do it, but I'll do that for you. And you're like, fucking spank me. I'm like, okay. So I'm just wham. And this paddle is so fucking loud. Yeah, it is. Even the other couple gasped, they looked at it and they're like, Oh shit. And I'm like, Hey, she asked for it <laugh>. And then you're like, Oh, that felt good. You're like, fucking do it again. And there's this big red mark from the paddle on your ass.
Speaker 2 (30:50):
It says slut
Speaker 1 (30:51):
And it says slut on the paddle and it says it backwards. So when you spank someone's ass, actually the word slut appears on their ass. <affirmative>. So I'm like, Okay, you want it again? You're like, Yeah, fucking do it again. Do it fucking harder. You were onto something <laugh>. So I'm like, okay, if you want, so wham, I do it again. I ended up doing it seven or eight times across both of your ass cheeks. And the other couple was like, Oh my God. And it got so loud, this the paddle slapping your ass. I was actually concerned somebody was gonna hear it and think someone's getting abused or something. <laugh>. Gosh. But you kept going, fucking do it. <laugh> fucking harder. Fucking span me harder. You know that all you got. And I'm like, Okay, I can really lay into it. And then the last one you're like, Oh, okay. And we all laugh and then, but I'm like, Hey, you like that, right? Cause I just saw you. I wanted him to know you were telling me yes. You're like, Yeah, I love it when he brands me and it marks me, makes him his,
(31:54):
And I'm just like, Amen. I'm over here in the corner doing a left-handed sign of the cross if you grew up Catholic like I did, and God bless this woman <laugh> and thank you for her over there in the corner saying, Our father's in Hail Mary's cuz I'm gonna need forgiveness for this night. But
Speaker 2 (32:11):
Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1 (32:12):
<laugh>, how good it was. So anyway, yes, that's what happened.
Speaker 2 (32:16):
So we wrote, we both rode the ses and then what happened? You and her did, Me and her
Speaker 1 (32:21):
Then in you and her were already naked. So she laid down on the side of the bed and him and I stood all our clothes on. She laid down on the side of the bed and stuck her head off the side of the bed. So she was facing the side of the room upside down. So she was on her back head at the edge of the bed with her head hanging off. So he just walked up and he unzipped and put his dick in her mouth, <laugh>. Then I was on your side. So I'm like, Well hey, that looks like a good idea. <affirmative>. So you were looking at me going, get on top of me, get on top of me, grabbing at me, get on top of me <laugh>. Well I got all my clothes on and you're like, Well take 'em off. I'm like, okay, <laugh>. So him and I were both still closed at this point, but even though we were getting our dicks sucked, I was on one side, she was on the other. And speaking of getting your dick sucked, June just had a lapse in judgment. And she's blowing me as we speak. Oh wow. God bless America. <laugh>.
(33:35):
I love being me <laugh>. So anyway, <laugh>, I basically had one knee up on your pillow near your head with my pants zipped and you're sucking on me. Well then you're get on top of me. You were sucking me for two or three minutes and you're like, you're get your clothes off <laugh>. So I'm all like, Yes, <laugh>. So I got all my clothes off, I'm naked, you're still sucking me. He starts taking his clothes off, she's on her knees on the floor, blowing him by the window. He's standing up and everyone's having a great fucking time. <laugh>. And then there were times where I would just, you and I were doing what we were doing with each other, but then I would see them do something and I'd be like, Oh, we should do that. A position or something like that. Or she had her head off the side of the bed.
(34:25):
So I was like, Hey, turn around, you do that. So then we were doing that and then they had a different position and I'm like, Oh, that'd be fun. And then at some point you ladies ended up head to head, Your feet were facing opposite directions, but you were face to face in the middle of the bed and you were so you were upside down to each other kind of. So if you're laying head to head, but then you're both, you have your feet off opposite edges of the bed, but then your heads are in the middle <affirmative>, but you scooted a little closer so you guys can make out and suck each other's tits and play with each other. Well he was fucking her. Wow. While you and her were making out and I was fucking you. Wow. You and her were making out.
(35:15):
Okay. I did feel a hand every now and then. That wasn't yours. <laugh> and his, I'll say that. <laugh>, it had some nails on it. It was a feminine him. <affirmative>. I could feel a leg cuz I was fucking you. And we all ended up in this pile in the middle of the bed, four of us, you and I facing one way, them facing the other way head to head. And I felt her grabbing my leg and grabbing my ass at some point, which was super hot. And she's a beautiful woman, <laugh>. And so that was super hot. I didn't touch her back he didn't touch June. I didn't touch this other lady that wasn't part of our predetermined agreement. We had talked about what we do or don't do. And so a lot of things in me wanted to touch back, but I knew that we hadn't talked about that. So I didn't <affirmative>, but hey, if a woman's gonna touch me sexually, who the fuck am I to fight? And I was like, that shit. So was just grabbing, kind of grabbing ass and leg because her <laugh>, the top of her head, the side of her face was right next to my thigh and I was kneeling on the bed, fucking you <affirmative>. And you were making out with her and she was sucking you and I, It was all this big pile. <laugh>.
(36:34):
Again, I would let June tell a lot of this story, but she doesn't
Speaker 2 (36:37):
Remember it. I really only have bits and pieces. I do remember at one point I'm on top of you fucking you and I'm kissing her.
Speaker 1 (36:48):
Yeah. So what happened there was,
Speaker 2 (36:49):
I do remember that for a minute.
Speaker 1 (36:50):
So him and I were both laying in the bed, each of us, on one side of the bed, she climbed on top of him call. It's called cowgirl. So she's on top mounting him then. So you jumped on top of me and you're both riding on top of us right next to each other at the same time. <affirmative>, that's often called parallel play also, where you play with another couple, but you're both playing with each other or you're next to each each other on the same bed. Whether you're swapping soft or heart swapping or not at all. So yeah, you're riding me. She's riding him, then you're making out with her. I mean it was like <laugh> a great fucking time.
Speaker 2 (37:35):
<laugh>
Speaker 1 (37:36):
That probably, gosh, I don't even know how long that went on for. Maybe. And we just did all kinds of shit. <affirmative>. I mean nothing in the world existed except for those. That moment there was no phones in the room, there was no alarms going off <affirmative>. I didn't know what time it was. I didn't give a shit. It was like that present moment lasted probably an hour to two hours and it was fucking hot. <affirmative> and well, yeah, then it did start to get fucking hot in there. Yes. <laugh> a whole lot of heat generating in that room. So yeah, that's after a while they finished and me and June were still going at it. You and I probably went at it for another 10 minutes. It felt so good being inside you. I didn't wanna get out <affirmative>. <laugh>. I think you were just afraid to stand up. <laugh>
Speaker 2 (38:37):
Probably, even though, like I said, more than half the night, I don't remember. But yeah, probably.
Speaker 1 (38:44):
Oh yeah, you were a fucking sexual animal in there with her and me. Oh
Speaker 2 (38:49):
My gosh.
Speaker 1 (38:49):
That it was fucking great. So yeah, they up, they started getting dressed, things like that, <affirmative>. And we did probably 10, 15 minutes later we were still working on each other. And it was good. <laugh> I, they got ready and he started cleaning some stuff up. So once I came out, So that was nice. We shared the responsibility of there wasn't that much of a mess there. But yeah they're cleaning stuff up and the ladies were just like, Woo. That was fucking great, wasn't it? I just like, Yeah, another Saturday.
Speaker 2 (39:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (39:38):
But it was fun.
Speaker 2 (39:39):
It was fun. I mean, yeah, Ed, fun. From what
Speaker 1 (39:43):
You recall, from what you recall, it was fun.
Speaker 2 (39:46):
Yeah. The stuff I remember was great, but all the other stuff I wish I could have actually remembered it so I can remember it.
Speaker 1 (39:54):
Now here's the thing too. You were pretty nervous
Speaker 2 (39:57):
About. I
Speaker 1 (39:58):
Was going into this, What are we gonna do first? Or we, when we all first get there in the beginning, how are we gonna transition from, Hey, how's it going, How is your week to taking our clothes off and making out and fucking each
Speaker 2 (40:14):
Other.
Speaker 1 (40:15):
But then something helped you and it instantly made things better. What was that thing?
Speaker 2 (40:22):
Oh, I think it starts with a V and ends with an A. It's
Speaker 1 (40:25):
Like a Russian drink.
Speaker 2 (40:26):
I think it's vodka. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:28):
Hundred proof Russian vodka chip. Yeah. Two or three shots at first. No, you had four
Speaker 2 (40:32):
Actually. You gave me four shots. The first drink, then you had the second one. And then I said, Hey, I want one more shot.
Speaker 1 (40:39):
You didn't need it.
Speaker 2 (40:40):
I did not need it. I should have have stopped at three. Honestly. I won't do five again for sure.
Speaker 1 (40:46):
By the way,
Speaker 2 (40:46):
We now I know.
Speaker 1 (40:48):
And by the way, we don't, we're not saying, Hey, you should become an alcoholic.
Speaker 2 (40:53):
No.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
And be irresponsible. But here's what we learned. If you're nervous and you're new to the lifestyle, if you like vodka,
Speaker 2 (41:02):
It
Speaker 1 (41:03):
Helps mix it. Vodka
Speaker 2 (41:04):
Helps, it
Speaker 1 (41:05):
Does. And mix it with pineapple juice or your favorite drink <affirmative> and have a measuring cup or a shot glass. So how many shots you're taking. Yes. And after you got, I think you said what you're about halfway through that cup, you had no anxiety or inhibition. You're like, you weren't nervous about fucking anything. Yeah, yeah. So you're halfway through the cup. And so that's why if you look down on the show notes, we have t-shirts and memorabilia that say vodka helps because what we discovered, vodka
Speaker 2 (41:42):
Helps. It does.
Speaker 1 (41:44):
So yeah, don't drink so much, you don't remember anything.
Speaker 2 (41:46):
Yeah, I won't do that again.
Speaker 1 (41:48):
But you live and learn. Yeah. But hey, there's great merch there. All kinds of merch. It says vodka helps. It's funny, <laugh>, you go to a party, you're wearing a shirt that says vodka helps. People are gonna love you because they're gonna go, Wow. That's the damn truth. <affirmative>. Yeah, we're thinking of creating another one. Maybe it says vodka makes me brave. Oh yeah. Because that was something June said, <laugh>.
Speaker 2 (42:07):
It does though, for me anyway. It does. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (42:14):
And
Speaker 2 (42:15):
As well, and I've been trained to stay in but good shape. And I love wine, but every time I drink wine it's like, oh, the next day I gained another pound and a half, gained a pound and a half back. So yeah, I found that vodka, I can have that with the Zevia drink and no calories.
Speaker 1 (42:34):
Zevia is a no calorie, no carb. There's like nothing. It has a natural Stevia sweetener
Speaker 2 (42:39):
And there's tons of different flavors and it tastes really similar to what it is. There's a creamy root beer one, there's all kinds of So good. Creamy. Creamy.
Speaker 1 (42:49):
So moist and creamy. So we do that to not put on the pounds cuz wine is sugary <affirmative>. But yeah, probably. I remember you telling me you're about halfway through that cup. It wasn't a big cup, it was the size of a whiskey glass. Like a full size, not a little one, but a regular thing. You drink scotch out of <affirmative>, but maybe an eight ounce, 12 ounce cup. But yeah, after you were halfway through that you were just like, I'm feeling good. And it was then we knew that her clothes were about to come off <laugh> and all was well in the world as it should be. And it was destined to be <affirmative> destiny, destined to be. And so what did we learn from this whole experience
Speaker 2 (43:42):
That June will never have five shots of vodka ever again. <laugh> too much for me. <laugh>
Speaker 1 (43:49):
And Sucks is awesome.
Speaker 2 (43:52):
Oh yeah. Obviously that's a given. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (43:54):
So I'll tell you the big thing we took away though, I know we mentioned this earlier, but it was a smaller, more intimate play setting <affirmative> that brought its own little nerves for you at least. Yeah, I really care.
Speaker 2 (44:07):
No, you're like, I'm excited. I'm like, why am I always, I'm, I'm always the one that gets nervous or well
Speaker 1 (44:12):
Nervous. Being nervous and being excited in a lot of ways. It's sorta the same emotion. It's just kind of how you perceive it and express it. So mm-hmm. <affirmative> don't feel too bad about that <laugh>. But yeah, there was a little bit of that there. But see we had gotten to know this couple, we hung out what maybe three times from, gosh, anywhere from two to four hours
Speaker 2 (44:37):
Each time.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
Yeah, each time before we did this. So we got a good feel for who these people were. We felt comfortable.
Speaker 2 (44:44):
I wasn't nervous about, it wasn't me being nervous of meeting just with them. It wasn't them that I was nervous about. It was the fact that it was a more intimate setting of just us with one other couple in a more intimate setting and had never done not at the club with a whole bunch of people.
Speaker 1 (45:04):
So tell me, how did you like this compared to the club scene with more people? Did you like it more or less or in both? Just in different ways.
Speaker 2 (45:18):
I don't know. I, I guess really I like both. I like the more intimate setting. Okay.
Speaker 1 (45:26):
What did you like about the intimate setting?
Speaker 2 (45:28):
Well, there was no distractions. No, it wasn't like I was distracted and couldn't get there or something. Which I mean, I'm sure I probably did, I don't, don't remember if I did come or not, but I'm assuming I probably did.
Speaker 1 (45:45):
By the way, you were more vocal in those three or four hours. We were having sex in this room at this little party. You were more sexually vocal than I ever heard you in 17 years. So it was fucking hot. So it was good. But with the distraction, well there's no music. Yeah. Well that was louder, distracting <affirmative>. There were no strange guys trying to reach in and touch your leg. And I didn't have to look at him and go, Hey dude, you didn't fucking ask <affirmative> and call 'em out. You didn't have to worry about that. It was a safer setting. You knew you had nothing to worry about. You didn't have to have all those other distractions or some guy walking by going, Damn, he's been going down on her for 10 minutes. Why isn't she there yet? With you being able to hear that actually happens. Yes, I did. Some single guy at the club was like, he didn't understand apparently how an orgasm works. It's like a wave that builds up. So it takes a few minutes if you're going down on a lady. Well June heard that and then she's like, What the fuck? Get the hell outta your
Speaker 2 (46:43):
Dumb ass. I was
Speaker 1 (46:44):
So mad she was getting there and then that and she's like, What the fuck? Just totally derailed your thought process.
Speaker 2 (46:48):
It did.
Speaker 1 (46:49):
But that didn't
Speaker 2 (46:50):
Happen here. No it didn't. So I mean, I guess in a way I probably do. The more intimate setting is, as long as it's a couple gotten to know, I don't wanna just, Hey, let's go to the hotel. We just met you that night at the club, let's go the, I know some people do that and that's fine for them, but for me personally, I feel most comfortable with getting to know the couple a little bit more before we do something like that.
Speaker 1 (47:16):
There's something about knowing people, even if 'em just a little, you've gotten a feel for 'em. Yeah, there's something to me at least, it's more satisfying, it's a better experience. Now, don't get me wrong, we fucked and played around with people at the club that we just met and they were fucking hot. And that was a great raw, carnal sexual experience. It was hot <affirmative> I was making out or doing other shit. There's some very beautiful women that I remember you and I both played with and that was fun. But there are also a lot of people there. I think that would've been even better if it was a private setting and we gotten to know 'em a little. Yeah there's just something about when you get to know somebody, I don't know exactly what it is, but when you get a feel for who a person is, you get to know 'em a little. It it's, it amplifies the experience. It just makes it even better
Speaker 2 (48:12):
I think so. Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 1 (48:14):
It adds to the pleasure of the physical, sexual pleasure. There's something else that just sort of sprinkles on top of it seems.
Speaker 2 (48:24):
Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 1 (48:27):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (48:28):
So for us it's, we prefer that at least to an extent. But yeah, I don't know. What about you? Which one do you prefer, John?
Speaker 1 (48:38):
Well I know that you're an exhibitionist. You like being watched. So that big room at the club with the big picture windows in the giant round bed, you love getting fucked and played with on that thing. Cuz you love being watched <affirmative>. So I like doing that for you. That's not really my go-to. Yeah.
(48:56):
But I'm happy to do it because I'm doing it with you and it's fun either way. I think I like the private setting better. It seems more controlled. I can control the temperature. It's not too hot in there. I can control the sound. It's not too loud in there. I can control how many people are there or not there because mm-hmm <affirmative>, there's not just tons of random, loud people like talking about their fucking work week three feet away while you're fucking each other. Trying to have a good time <affirmative>. But also there was a little bit of performance anxiety when we, real early on when we got into the lifestyle. Cuz I had never really been naked around anyone. But yeah. And I'm not embarrassed. I have a pretty good body, pretty good size Johnson. So <affirmative>, not to sound like a douche bag, but I'm just saying I'm not real insecure about that cuz it is a pretty good size.
(49:53):
So it's not like, oh no. But at this point, early on it was like, people are gonna see me. But there came a point like that at the intimate party we had just a other couple <affirmative>. There's a part of me that just went, Who gives a fuck? It's just the two of them. We gotten to know them. Yeah. There's no threat there. And I didn't care. And I think actually doing that, I feel like next time we go to the club, we're in a more public setting. I don't feel like I'm gonna have any issue being there naked or staying hard.
(50:34):
Because one of the reasons, and we can do an episode on performance anxiety later if a guy can't stay hard. But one of the reasons that happens is because you get in your head, you start thinking about other things and then your dick is like, Oh, you're not paying attention to me. I guess I'll pack up my balls and leave now. And so it starts getting soft and smaller. You're like, Whoa, whoa, whoa. Wait. No. Yeah. Well I gotten that some sex coaching from porn star named Eric Everhard. Great dude by the way. And he had talked to me about some of these things cuz it was such a new environment for me at the club where it wasn't like I was afraid of things. It was just such a shock. It was getting a bucket of cold water on you in a hot shower.
(51:20):
It's like, whoa, I've literally only been in front of my wife and now there's all these people. It was like I didn't know what to think, <affirmative>. And so my mind was kind of spinning. Well I think I say all that to say, being in this smaller setting with this couple we got to know a bit, wasn't there. I had that moment where I'm like, eh, who gives a fuck? And it turned out there was no reason to give a fuck. Everyone's bodies are their bodies. It no one really gives a shit. I mean, unless the person you're with wants a certain kind of body, <affirmative>, it doesn't matter. We all come in different shapes and sizes and colors and whatever and there was no issue there. And so now going back to a bigger setting, what June likes, cuz she can get watched and she loves that.
(52:10):
I don't think I'll have any issue. Just because for some reason that was what helped me, I think, get past some of that was some of the advice I got from Eric. But also practicing it in a small setting. And now in my mind it just kind of seems like a non-issue. Like you did it once, you've done it a million times kind of thing. Well good. I did the smaller setting for that purpose, kind of getting up that next rung of the ladder <affirmative>. But also, I mean if I can go to a state fair or I can stay home around a campfire with four or five of my closest friends, I want the smaller setting.
Speaker 2 (52:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (52:49):
And so that's just me. So it kind of applies here too. <affirmative>, I do the smaller setting with people we know or a little bit, but I'm always up for exciting new experiences to try at the club in front of people. And who knows, maybe I'll develop just as much of a ex exhibit. How do you say exhibitionist kink as you maybe, who knows <laugh>, you might see us on porn hub someday. Who?
Speaker 2 (53:16):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (53:17):
Blurred faces and all
Speaker 2 (53:19):
<laugh>,
Speaker 1 (53:20):
We wearing a mask.
Speaker 2 (53:21):
Oh my gosh. Yeah. Yeah. I think I do. The more I talk about it and think about it, I think I do the more intimate setting better. But I do the club setting for meeting new people maybe going into the big room to do things, to be watched and then just being on the dance floor. So those are kind of the three things I like when we go there. Those are the three things I like to do well, I like to meet more people cuz that's where we met this couple was at the club. And if we wouldn't have went that day, we wouldn't have met them. It
Speaker 1 (53:58):
Was on a Wednesday <affirmative>, which there's usually fewer people, which the advantage of that is you can actually talk to people who are there a lot easier than a Saturday night, which is just banging and slamming and loud still great. Just a whole different
Speaker 2 (54:11):
Vibe. Oh yeah, definitely different vibe.
Speaker 1 (54:13):
Yeah. And so you never know who you're gonna meet. You hit it off and get to know and just fun times happen. So
Speaker 2 (54:21):
Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (54:23):
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