We recently enjoyed our very first unicorn who came to our house for a threesome! In the swinger lifestyle, a "unicorn" is a single lady who plays with others in the lifestyle. This is something we've been dreaming about for a while as swingers and our swinger unicorn "Special K" didn't disappoint! She's beautiful, hot, and totally open for exploring each other sexually. In this episode, we discuss not only the hot swinger fun we all had together in our threesome, but also the thoughts and feelings we had leading up to it, the hot sexy fun we all had together, and the ONE rule John made for us after she arrived so that kicking off the sex play felt fun and not awkward! Click PLAY right now to hear all the hot, juicy details!
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We recently enjoyed our very first unicorn who came to our house for a threesome! In the swinger lifestyle, a "unicorn" is a single lady who plays with others in the lifestyle. This is something we've been dreaming about for a while as swingers and our swinger unicorn "Special K" didn't disappoint! She's beautiful, hot, and totally open for exploring each other sexually. In this episode, we discuss not only the hot swinger fun we all had together in our threesome, but also the thoughts and feelings we had leading up to it, the hot sexy fun we all had together, and the ONE rule John made for us after she arrived so that kicking off the sex play felt fun and not awkward! Click PLAY right now to hear all the hot, juicy details!
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***SEE JUNE'S PIERCED NIPPLES RIGHT NOW ON HER ONLYFANS PAGE, CLICK HERE!
**NEW SWINGER COACHING! Overcome Insecurities Faster & Get Your Questions Answered With Personal Swinger Coaching From John & June. CLICK HERE To Learn More...
*MEET LOCAL SWINGERS, GET THE FREE "SWING-EASY" 2-PG PDF GUIDE! We Show You The 3 Easiest Ways To Find & Connect With Other Like-Minded Swinger Couples In Your Area In The Next 24 Hours (or less, GUARANTEED)! CLICK HERE!
GUYS, Are You Having a HARD Time Staying HARD? CLICK HERE & Use The Code "NEW" At Checkout To Get $30 OFF Your Order of FDA-Approved ED Medication So You Can Stay Harder Longer And Drive Your Sex Partners Wild!
***Did you enjoy this episode? Leave us a quick rating & review and SUBSCRIBE so we can reach more people just like you and notify you when we publish the next episode!
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Send us an email at: NewSwingersPodcast@gmail.com right now!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh my God, you're the dirtiest, most awesome wife in the world. <laugh>. We're recording now. We're recording now. Oh, you knew that you hit record. Oh my God. You're the greatest. Well, hey, <laugh>,
Speaker 2 (00:16):
We hit, we were getting some emails lately. She forgot to give me the obligatory new swingers podcast. Blowjob.
Speaker 3 (00:24):
I did.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
And then we started getting emails like, Hey, what the fuck? What about the blowjob? So she hit record and I didn't know. And I'm like, oh, she wanted to record that on the front end.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
You're welcome. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
If you're prude, you probably think that's disgusting. But I'll tell you this, no offense by that, but even though it's very offensive to call you a prude, that's one of the biggest things we see in the reviews and in emails. It's like, oh my God, that's so great. And so occasionally you'll have somebody who doesn't like it or things you're disgusting. And I don't know if those people are getting later. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:02):
But here's the thing,
Speaker 2 (01:03):
But it's to each their own.
Speaker 3 (01:05):
But here's the thing, I don't think those people are listening to our podcast. If they are already prude, they're probably not listening to a swingers podcast. Yeah. Just saying they probably aren't.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Or they just have a different taste and they're very maybe egotistical about it. I don't know. All I know is I'm not sure I've ever met any guy that doesn't like a blowjob. So hey, maybe they're out there. I just, it's don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
Well, welcome to our podcast. I'm June.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Oh yes. And I'm jump <laugh>. Welcome back. And by the way, if you've listened to this before or if during this episode, if you enjoy this, take three seconds right now and go click on Little Stars and give us a rating and review. It takes literally three or four seconds as you're listening to this right now to just scroll down. And if you leave the rating, we'd really appreciate that you just click the Stars. And if you're an Apple podcast at least, and also leave a review if this was helpful for you in some way in your swinger journey. It only takes five or 10 seconds to type a sentence or two and just tell the world what you've gotten out of this and how this podcast has been of value for you and helpful for you because that helps other people just like yourselves, just like you and us, who are new or considering the lifestyle. It helps them had a little easier time than a lot of us did because there wasn't a resource quite exactly like this one, geared specifically towards new people. So you're helping others just like you. You're helping us help other people. So go give that rating review if you still feel inclined. You have something new. June got a new,
(02:41):
What did you do this week,
Speaker 3 (02:43):
<laugh>? What haven't I done? What did you not do?
Speaker 2 (02:47):
What did you not do, kid?
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Well, yeah I got a new tattoo.
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Yeah, you did.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
And it hurt like a motherfucker. <laugh>. It hurt really bad. It is a thigh tattoo, so it's a band around my whole thigh, your left thigh, my left thigh. And then it's an Indian feather coming down off of that because I'm about 20% Indian. So
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Yeah, it's a sort of beaded Indian band going all around your upper thigh and then a big Indian feather hanging down. And they're where the feather comes off at the ends, at the ends of the feathers. Actually, some of the feathers start to break apart into little birds that it looks like they're flying up and away. Yeah, it's really cool.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
And for me, I wanted the birds to come off the feather because I thought it was really cool just to have, it's just kind of proving that I'm healed from all my sexual trauma that as a kid. And so it's just another reminder, Hey, you're healed from that freedom. It just kind of proved to me that's freedom when I look at it.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Yeah, that's why I love about art tattoos or anything really. They're often so symbolic and you can say things or express things in ways and sometimes in words you can't. And by the way, if you want to see that sexy new tattoo <laugh>, just go to June's only fans. Click the link. It says June's only fans. It's right there. It's the first link in the show notes. If you're on a platform where you can't, it's not clickable, just go to the link for new swingers podcast.com. That's also there. And all those links in the show notes are on the website as well. But if you want to see this sexy ass tattoo <laugh> on this sexy ass woman and her pierce nipples, because she pierced her nipples once back and they look good for
Speaker 3 (04:35):
His birthday.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
She pierced her big silver dollar nipples on her 34 double Ds and
Speaker 3 (04:41):
32
Speaker 2 (04:41):
Thir 32 now. Yeah, she dropped about 30 pounds and yes. Yeah, so it's 32 double D, and I think they look even better now. And they always look great though. But yeah, go check out that. And they saw what your 12th tattoo?
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Yes. Yep. 12th tattoo. And it was the worst one for sure, especially the inner thigh. Oh my God.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Yeah, because you have a couple that run across your spine and that you thought that was the worst
Speaker 3 (05:05):
One. Well, yeah. Cause I had electricity come down, but down my leg. Well, I had a little bit of that happen, but I had a little bit of that happen again at this tattoo when he hit certain parts on my leg. I was like, oh, okay.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Yeah. Yeah. Well, in today's episode, we're going to talk about a wonderful experience. We had a unicorn come over to our
Speaker 3 (05:25):
House. Yes, we did.
Speaker 2 (05:26):
And we played. It was our first time doing that. And we're going to call her special K.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
Yes. Well, it's not the first time we played with a unicorn, but it's the first time at our house.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
First time we've had someone come over by herself and wanted to hang out with us and play. So that was a first experience. Tell me how you kind of felt leading up to that.
Speaker 3 (05:49):
Well, I'm always the nervous one. I get nervous with anything new. I'd try. I kind of wish I was more like John and I don't get nervous. I just get excited. But I mean, I was excited too, but I feel like anything new, I try the one that's more nervous and he's always the one that's just like, let's do it. And he's excited.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
I like sex and I'm not ashamed of that. Sex is awesome since I was 12 and I discovered sex, the best thing in the world ever. It's never not been.
Speaker 3 (06:22):
So yeah, I was nervous but excited at the same time because we had met her already previously for a lunch to get to know her and stuff too. So I felt really comfortable with her already. So it wasn't like I was nervous because of her or anything like that. I was just nervous, just because it's more in a more intimate setting. And so for some reason that makes me a little bit more nervous when it's more intimate, like, oh, we're at the club. There's people everywhere, and it's fun.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Everyone's fucking
Speaker 3 (06:50):
<laugh>. Yeah. And so for me it was like, oh, it's at our house, and it's just me and her and John, and yeah. So I was a little bit more nervous.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
I was not nervous at all.
Speaker 3 (07:03):
Of course not.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Of course I was telling Jim, I was telling her, well, you think you're nervous. Imagine being her. Yeah, she's coming over by herself to the house of two people she just met. Imagine if you feel nervous, imagine being earth. That doesn't invalidate your nervousness, but I was trying to help you by maybe seeing it from the other lady's point of view and thinking, oh yeah, maybe I am thinking too much, or I don't know, just trying to help there. Well,
Speaker 3 (07:30):
I had a couple shots of vodka and that helped. And then we all shared wine, so that was, well,
Speaker 2 (07:37):
The funny thing is, before you get to that, she got here and I had told you, I want to pick out what you're going to wear. Oh yeah. And have you answer the door and sexy, wearing something sexy. Now, we didn't know if it was her when they knocked on the door, when she knocked on the door. So I actually answered it just to make sure.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Cause I was like, oh,
Speaker 2 (08:01):
You were dressed an absolute tramp and it was sexy as hell. And I'll tell you this though, when I told you, Hey, I'm going to dress you up. I'm going to dress you sexy for her. I never knew this, but when I told you that, I'm going to dress you up sexy for her. That turned me on in a way I've never known existed. I learned something about myself that day. Yeah. I love dressing June up sexy for other women. Now I've heard other people, other people say, guys, they dressing their lady up for other guys because that's what they're into. If you listen to this podcast for any amount of time, I don't really get anything out of that. I'm not against it. I don't really get anything out of it. But when I told you I'm going to dress you up sexy for her, that was like, oh my God, that was hot. And then I told you what to wear. You put it on, you're doing your makeup, doing your hair before she comes over. And when she walked in and you looked like you did, and she was like, oh my God, you look amazing. And she looked amazing. That whole thing was hot and way to me. I never thought to think something like that would turn me on, but it really did. I love dressing you up Sexy for sexy ladies.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
So you found a new kink?
Speaker 2 (09:15):
I found a new kink. Who? To thunk it. Yep. So then when she came in, we had some wine,
Speaker 3 (09:25):
Well, actually she had a shot of vodka too first.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Well, because we had the wine there. And then you joked with her and said, oh, I just had two shots of vodka. And I said, yeah, I had one too. And she goes, oh my God, do you have any more? Yeah. And I'm like, yep, how many do you want? And so she had a couple. She was only here for a few hours, and so we didn't want to overdo it. But it was funny because she laughed when you told her I had a couple shots of vodka. She's like, oh my God, do you have any more <laugh>? And we're like, yeah, you want some, we're happy to share. And then we had some wine. So we drink some of that, some cabernet. Then we do, as we were drinking wine, we had a card game.
Speaker 3 (10:05):
Oh yeah. We had a card game that we play. It's a really fun one.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
It's a sexy card
Speaker 3 (10:12):
Game. It's a sexy card game. Yeah. So we did that.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
Do you remember what the card game does? What it tells you to do? You want to tell 'em?
Speaker 3 (10:18):
I think it's called Truth or Drink or something like that. So you have to answer the card or you have to drink, but we make you drink either way. <laugh>, when we play it well,
Speaker 2 (10:29):
We all answer every question. <laugh> on the card, and then we all drink regardless. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (10:35):
So we played it, whoever was card, they would read the card and answer it, but then we all answered it too. And then I had bought chocolates and we bought, bought her flowers.
Speaker 2 (10:48):
Yeah. Well, yeah. We brought <laugh>, we bought her some flowers. We really wanted to make her feel loved and care about and wanted and appreciated.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
And
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Yeah, that's always important to us. We love to make people feel good and we really mean it. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (11:01):
Yeah. So we bought her some flowers. I picked them out and I was like, okay, if I really like those, then she probably would too. So it was easy. And then I bought some chocolates and John made a rule of like, Hey, if you wanted some chocolate, you have to let somebody feed it to you.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
Yeah. You're not allowed to feed yourself chocolate. Someone else has to feed you. So
Speaker 3 (11:21):
That was hot.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
And that's where the heat really turned up right after. Well, she fed, you were chocolate first, if I remember. And right after that, well, you have chocolate on your lips and in your mouth. It escalated quickly because it's like now it's like, oh. She's like, can I kiss you? Can I kiss someone that chocolate on your mouth? And it all went uphill or downhill in a good way. It all started escalating quite quickly
Speaker 3 (11:52):
Because then you gave her one or something. Or I
Speaker 2 (11:56):
Gave her one and then she fed me one. And then we're all, we have chocolate on our lips. And then we're like, well, we each have had chocolate and we've all kissed each other, but not at the same time. So we there,
Speaker 3 (12:14):
We did a three-way kiss, and those are hot.
Speaker 2 (12:17):
We found that's a really hot way to kick things off. I mean, we're pretty new anyway, but we found that kind of gets things going. But if you want to feed each other chocolate and you're not allowed to feed yourself and then be like, Hey, who wants to do a three-way kiss? That heats it up even more.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
Yeah. Yep. Yeah. So we did that and we did the car game and then we did the chocolate. Let's see
Speaker 2 (12:47):
I think that was it for downstairs.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
I think that was it for downstairs.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Now, before we jump into the rest of the episode and about this great experience and how it went and lessons we took away from it which the whole thing was absolutely great. By the way, we want to share a couple of emails with you. We love to share these emails with you because these are questions that come in from people just like yourself. And they might answer questions, maybe you've thought or wondered about yourself or maybe you didn't think to yet, but you do wonder. So here's the first one. Subject line is great podcast. Well, thank you.
Speaker 3 (13:22):
Yeah, thank you. Hello, John. And June, you have a great podcast that has been very informative. Thank you for taking the time to put it together. Well, you're welcome. And thanks for listening. My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for about a year and a half and have enjoyed the journey. My question for the two of you is on an earlier episode, you mentioned that you currently don't kiss other couples, which is obviously each individual couple's choice or preference.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
Now stop there real quick. We must have said that if that's what they heard. Or maybe they're confusing us with another podcast. I don't remember saying that ever,
Speaker 3 (14:00):
Do you? No. Because I remember earlier in the podcast, we had talked about our first time that we had kissed other people. So maybe, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
I mean, we've grown a lot too, so maybe we're just forgetting we said that. But I guess just, I'm only making this point, I guess just to say for the record, not against kissing other people, but maybe earlier on we were and we just forgot we said it or something. Yeah, I'm not sure. But presently that's where we're
Speaker 3 (14:26):
At. It says, however, I am one that needs the kissing part to feel connected. So how would you suggest to an individual like myself that if this scenario happens where the other couple, ie the wife isn't comfortable with kissing, that I can polite full, fully step away from the other couple without coming off as a jerk or something along those lines. Thank you. And again, great show.
Speaker 2 (14:51):
Well, thank you. That's a great question. Yeah I'm glad he is looking ahead for any obstacles you may face. My easy answer to that is discuss it before you play when you're meeting together, maybe for lunch or coffee, discussing playing before you actually meet to play. I'll say, I'm a kisser. I love kissing. It's a big part of my thing. Are you two against kissing other people? Yes or no? And if they are right there, you can just very politely just, okay, well that's a really big deal to me. If that's a non-negotiable of yours that we might not be a good fit to play just because that's something I need. But I fully respect your wishes to either do or not do that. But that's something you cover up front before you get into the playroom.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
Well, yes and no because we've played at the clubs before and we've not spontaneous and it's spontaneous, which is my favorite. That's true. Cause then I'm not nervous. <laugh> true. So for me, I would say we always ask with anything that we're going to do anyway. So I guess it usually always starts out kissing anyway. Typically. Not always, but I mean maybe that might be the best thing too. If you're at a club, like a swinger's club in your one in the couple's, like, Hey, let's go play in the back room that you could talk then about it before you start playing. Or you're just asking, Hey, can I kiss you? And so there's that option too because yeah, if it's a couple that you're planning on playing with, but if it's a spontaneous thing, the swingers club that we like to go to, a lot of that's more spontaneous right there in the moment, in the heat of the moment kind of thing. Hey, do you want to go back to a room? Well maybe discuss it right before you play is an option. Or as you're doing things, you're asking everything ahead of like, Hey, can I kiss you? Can I do? And then that kind of weight you, you know that too.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Well, yeah. If you're playing with somebody and you're just starting and you ask, can I kiss you? And they're like, no, I'm not really into that, or that's kind of a boundary of ours, doesn't mean you have to walk away. I mean, if you can do other things that you enjoy with those people it's not like you're dedicated the whole night to those people. Let's say if you're in a club or a hotel takeover, there's something you might play for 10 or 15 minutes and be done and then go find someone else to play with if that's what you want. So the big thing is just asking bef, it goes back to consent asking before you do. And that also kind of covers your concern about this because if that's a big deal to you, maybe she doesn't want to be kissed, but she loves having someone go down on her and you go, man, I love doing that.
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(18:37):
So here's one more email, then we're going to get back to our unicorn story. Who came over to our house.
Speaker 3 (18:44):
This one says, hello, no name please. And my wife and I are in the lifestyle and I'm bisexual. So
Speaker 2 (18:51):
This is a guy who's married to late who's bisexual. Okay.
Speaker 3 (18:55):
And so I'm bisexual and my wife wants to have a baby now. I have been fixed for 10 years now. My boyfriend is not fixed and he is bisexual and he's single. My wife wants me to ask him if he can help us have a baby. How do I bring this up to him? Wow. That's a really, really good question.
Speaker 2 (19:18):
Yeah. Yeah. That's not a question you just answer off the cuff. Fuck.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
That's
Speaker 2 (19:25):
Hard. Yeah. There's a few different angles into this that you need to consider. I mean is is, let's say you just threw faith to the wind and you did this and you and your wife, you and wife have a baby, and the baby's not yours. Is that ever going to cause trouble between you and your friend not just in your friendship but also legally? Could anything ever come up because someone else's paternity and biologically the father and not you? What does that mean? What if your marriage didn't work out well? Who pays child support? Or who's whose kid is it or
Speaker 3 (20:13):
Is the boyfriend? And what if you and the boyfriend break up
Speaker 2 (20:18):
And then he wants to take that
Speaker 3 (20:19):
Kid away? Me, he wants to take the kid from you because
Speaker 2 (20:21):
It's his kid and not yours. Yeah. No, it's hers also, but and but not yours. There's be honest, there's lots of red flags all over this. I mean, I'm not a mental health professional. I'm not qualified to give professional advice for me. I understand what they're wanting to do. I mean, I would say if you know people well enough and you've known each other so long, and that's a way around doing something, because I, having a kid's a big deal to people, and a lot of people can't have kids. And so I understand where they're coming from and wanting to do it this way. And I'm not saying it would always not work out. But on the flip side, when you do something like this, there are about eight or nine different major pathways where this could go into destruction, not just currently. What if something in her likes him more than you, or she starts hanging around him more than you or confiding in him more than you, and then they have a baby together, and then you feel like you've been pushed out of the equation and they're together now. And then on top of that, like I said, legally, whose kid is it? And what could that mean if you stay married to your wife for the duration of that child's life, or if it doesn't work out and and your wife split like I said, who pays child support? Who gets the kid who gets custody, who
Speaker 3 (21:55):
A lot of questions.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
I can't say do this or don't do this. We're not qualified to say that and only you can say that, but you need to be very, very open and clear and transparent and
Speaker 3 (22:09):
Lay all this shit on the table.
Speaker 2 (22:11):
Different scenarios that could pop up. Don't hide anything. Don't be bashful to say anything and discuss it openly with all parties involved, everything on the table because you don't want any little shadows in the darkness with this. That could grow in the darkness over time, over years. That could destroy or your relationship or your friendship with this person or the kid's life if you went through with this.
Speaker 3 (22:39):
Yeah,
Speaker 2 (22:40):
I mean,
Speaker 3 (22:42):
Fuck, that's a really tough one.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
I mean, is it basically getting in vitro, like artificially impregnated but just instead of going through the medical expensive process, is it just, Hey, come fuck my wife
Speaker 3 (23:00):
And we'll have, except it's, it's his boyfriend though, that would be doing it. That's what I'm saying. There's a lot of, well, what if they break up?
Speaker 2 (23:08):
Well, yeah, that's what
Speaker 3 (23:10):
I'm, so
Speaker 2 (23:10):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying. So
Speaker 3 (23:11):
I don't know. Ooh, that's rough.
Speaker 2 (23:14):
Yeah, we don't want to, obviously we're not qualified to answer that question, but I did want to address it because at least having some sort of outside perspective on both sides, again, we're not even qualified to answer that, but at the same time weigh the benefits and consequences, all possible scenarios that could come up and
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Being open and honest.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
I mean, that's be open, honest with
Speaker 3 (23:38):
Everything. That's all. That's my only suggestion.
Speaker 2 (23:40):
You might even get a lawyer involved if you decide to go through with it once the baby's born, whose baby is it legally, who is it belonged to, who is legally the father? Things like that. And different contingencies and things that come up. A lot of times when you're in a situation that's important, very in depth like this, and it's very important to you, a lot of the times you don't see real far down the pathway of life and what the domino effect could be later on What the blind spots. Yeah, you're, you're on your own game board, you're in the picture. So it's hard to see the frame. You're so close to everything going on in your life. And so we'd just be very open with things and consider all those future possible consequences. And you say, well, we would never get divorced. Well over half of people who get married say that and it doesn't work.
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And so not to say yours wouldn't or that would ever happen. We don't know you, but a lot of people, most people get married, don't plan on getting divorced yet over half of them do. And so same thing with a kid not obviously isn't not a marriage divorce thing here, but as far as staying together or not. So be transparent, open future planning down the road if you do this. And in fact, he doesn't even say does it say, my wife wants me to ask him. So he isn't even asked him. I mean, you must know this person well enough. Consider how you would ask if it's something you're wanting to explore. And some people might look at this and go like, oh my gosh, what are these people doing? And I get that. But also you look at people who get in vitro, they go to the medical place, they're literally having another woman's, literally having another guy's sperm just put in or threw a syringe or a tube instead of really having sex with another person, which me at a very primal level, I look at that and go, okay, so pretty much the same thing's happening.
(25:42):
His spunk, his sperm is going up in this lady, this guy's sperm is going in. That woman, whether it's in a medical place or whether they're just swapping or this, for example. I mean, it's actually not that different except for the means by which, and the cost and all that stuff. I mean, just as a practice, it's not that different. You're not saying you should do one or the other. I'm not saying that. I'm just saying bare bones. What's the difference? Because I know we had this conversation before about someone we knew and I was like, well, what's the difference? She's paying all this money, thousands of dollars to get inseminated or whatever you call it. How's that different than just fucking the guy who, who's sperm she's taken in? I, not that she would have to, but what's the real, we were talking more on a moral level because people, a lot of times in a more of a conservative or faith community would say, that's okay to do with the medical way, but they'd be actually just sleeping with the guy. But either way, his stuff is going new.
Speaker 3 (26:46):
Either way,
Speaker 2 (26:47):
That baby is going to be you and that guy. So I don't know. I hope that's helpful.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
Yeah, I hope so.
Speaker 2 (26:53):
But yeah, so that's the end of that. For the emails, back to the unicorn experience, we had a unicorn, if you're just tuning in Kumar to our house, a very beautiful, wonderful lady.
Speaker 3 (27:04):
Special K. Special
Speaker 2 (27:05):
K is what her we're calling her.
Speaker 3 (27:07):
Yep. Okay. So we did the drinks and we did the chocolates and we did the games.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
And just to recap, you were not allowed to feed yourself
Speaker 3 (27:16):
Chocolate? No, we fed each other chocolate. You're only allowed to turn in the chocolate kisses, which were awesome. Three-way kisses, which were awesome and hot. And then we took the game and the show upstairs,
Speaker 2 (27:28):
We took it upstairs to one of our bedrooms,
Speaker 3 (27:31):
And I have a cian and she has never been on one. So
Speaker 2 (27:35):
Now explain what a cian is in case people listening aren't aware.
Speaker 3 (27:38):
A cian is this awesome vibrator that is kind of a saddle that you sit on and there's attachments if you want them. And
Speaker 2 (27:50):
Dildo dildo
Speaker 3 (27:51):
Attachments, like dildo attachments or just a little nub one I like to use. But the attachments, you can even make it to where it twist inside of you. It rotates inside of you, the dildo as it's vibrating or you just can have it just vibrating. And for me, I just don't really like the dildo because I don't know, they're just not very comfortable. Those ones aren't. And so I prefer just the little nub with, and then just the vibration and
Speaker 2 (28:19):
The nub actually is it press is up against your CL when you're straddling it.
Speaker 3 (28:25):
And I'm a huge clit stimulator. And he does, when he eats me out, he doesn't do any no fingers, none of that. It's only just the clit stimulation. Oh,
Speaker 2 (28:37):
What? She just has this, your eyes just got huge and you go, oh, and I have no idea what you're about to say.
Speaker 3 (28:44):
Oh, I ate out my first girl and it was with special K. Yeah, I had never done that before.
Speaker 2 (28:51):
Yeah, you went down on a girl.
Speaker 3 (28:53):
I did. John walked me through it and he's like, do this, this, and this, and don't stop doing that and that. And I was like, okay.
Speaker 2 (29:01):
Not to jump ahead, but
Speaker 3 (29:03):
I'm sorry, but I just was so excited. No,
Speaker 2 (29:05):
No, no. Let's just address it while we're there because that was a huge thing. You had asked me a couple months ago. Yeah, Hey, would you ever teach me how to go down on a lady? And I'm like, let me pray about it. Amen. And we never got to it, but you were kind of kissing her down there on the thighs or whatever. And I was like, Hey, come here, do this. I kind of just grabbed you and said, Hey, your face is already an inch from it. You're like right there. Like, Hey, come here, do this.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
Well, I like to be dominated anyway, so when he does that, I'm like, okay.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
Yeah, she, we've also found she loves it in the sexual moments when I tell her to anything, if anything I tell her to do, it doesn't matter. She wants to be told what to do. Yep. She will just do it. It doesn't matter, almo, it really doesn't matter what it is.
Speaker 3 (29:50):
It really doesn't. The thing I've found that I am a way overthinker. And so what has worked for us and has been a whole lot of the issues is because I've been overthinking so much that I found that after all a few of these really big fights we've had, it's because I like him to be dominant and I like him just to tell me what I'm going to do. And so when he did that, I was like, oh, that's hot. Okay,
Speaker 2 (30:17):
You're already right there. I'm like, Hey, just here, do this. And so I kind of put my hand on the area, revealed the clip. I said, look, that's it. That's all it is. Now do that and put your mouth on it and run your tongue up and down five times at a moderate pace and then go left and right twice and then up and down five times and then left and right twice. And just keep doing that until you drive the woman to an orgasm. And so again, that was a technique I learned from a guy who is a porn star. And I don't talk about that much on here. I've only talked about it a couple of times, just whenever people have asked about it. But for years I wondered how to do that. And he was like, just do this, this, and this. So that's all I told you to do. And yeah, it worked really well on her. And that's the one I do on you all the time. That works really well.
Speaker 3 (31:07):
Yeah. Yeah. So I Sorry to jump ahead, but I was like, oh yeah, that was new.
Speaker 2 (31:13):
We don't mind you jumping ahead at all. We don't mind. But yeah, so I got you dressed up sexy for that. Turned me on. Yeah, we had some drinks. Three way kids moved up to the bedroom. They got in the cian. I don't think she'd ever been on one.
Speaker 3 (31:28):
No, she hadn't. So we were like, well, do you want to go first? Do you want me to go first? And she had asked if I could go first. So I was like, okay, sure. June's like,
Speaker 2 (31:37):
Hell yes, I'll go first.
Speaker 3 (31:39):
So I went on it for a little while and I think she came behind me and was kissing on me and grabbing on my boobs and stuff like that.
Speaker 2 (31:46):
We found that June really loves it when she's on the lium, when another naked lady like Neils behind her and wraps her arms around her from behind and plays with her boobs and just touches her and caresses her and the other woman behind her that her boobs are pressing against your back. Yeah, you are super, super turned down by that.
Speaker 3 (32:10):
Yeah. I don't know why, but I am. Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 2 (32:12):
So that's what she did for
Speaker 3 (32:13):
You. And then I did the same thing when it was her turn.
Speaker 2 (32:18):
And that was hot because I was laying there in and out of my thing because you all were giving me a double blow job somewhere in there. Oh yeah. I don't know if it was before or after. It's all kind of a pleasurable blur.
Speaker 3 (32:31):
It was a kind of all of a amazing blur of things we did. But yeah, we did double blow job with John
Speaker 2 (32:38):
And the SY was right against the side of the bed, so
Speaker 3 (32:41):
It was easy to just move from the cian to the bed.
Speaker 2 (32:44):
And that was super hot. Two were both amazing at
Speaker 3 (32:47):
That. Oh. And we did the double dildo. She had never, I don't think she had ever done that either. And I haven't never really liked done it with any other person besides Barbie. So
Speaker 2 (32:59):
And she sort of ran the show with that. So this was your first time of not laying there and getting it, but also kind of being in charge with it? Yeah.
Speaker 3 (33:10):
Well, I think at first she was on top of me doing it, and then we switched and I was on top of her doing it. So at some point we had kind of switched and we were both doing the more dominant part
Speaker 2 (33:22):
And it was really hot. I was holding it in so it wouldn't slide out of you off. And it was vibrating the whole time. And I'll be honest, I mean, June, you and I have had amazing sex for almost 20 years. It's been good. I don't know if it's because I wasn't the one pleasuring you that I noticed this, but I've never seen you go that wild and loud and sexually just lose your shit, throw your voice to the wind. <laugh> screaming, fuck me, come all over me and just moaning. Maybe it's because I'm the only other person I've ever, I'm usually in the act with you, and so maybe I don't notice as much, but when I was holding the dildo double dildo in place for you all, and you were grinding and riding each other, you were just, you were losing it. You were just, I mean, horny as shit just like loud. I'm like porn star loud, but not fake.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Well, he got hot videos and pictures too. I think we posted it like a hot picture on my only fans.
Speaker 2 (34:25):
Yeah. I'm telling you, you need to go to this girl's only fans. You want you. Yeah, it is on there. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:29):
Oh my God. A hot picture of her going down on me. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (34:33):
And so again, go check out the only
Speaker 3 (34:36):
Fans.
Speaker 2 (34:37):
You'll see some hot stuff on the, it's the first link in the show notes. June's only fans.
Speaker 3 (34:43):
Also, I know there's another picture from Christmas time when me and Barbie were making out. She sat on my lap. Oh my God. And we made out too. So there's lots of really hot pictures and videos on there. So yeah, I'd check it out
Speaker 2 (34:59):
If you don't know what June looks like, she's just as hot as she sounds or depending on how you think she sounds probably hotter than she sounds. And yeah you're going to be blown away when you see this woman. And if you do the only fans thing, you can do the free one, but there's only a few pictures on there. And then there's other stuff you can pay for to get, or she has the monthly subscription, it's like nine bucks, 9 97,
Speaker 3 (35:26):
And you
Speaker 2 (35:27):
Get everything.
Speaker 3 (35:29):
You get all of it,
Speaker 2 (35:29):
Videos, pictures, all the updates.
Speaker 3 (35:32):
So to me, it makes sense to just do the 9 99 because if everything that I have on there is, if it's on the free one, you can't get it. You can't see most of them. Every once in a while I'll post a free one, but most of them I are their pay. You have to pay for it.
Speaker 2 (35:47):
And well, with someone else's, when I was kind of testing out the platform, I wanted to see what some of these other ladies were doing. Why not spinning, spending 20 or 30 bucks on five or six pictures in a video. Whereas if I would've just subscribed for nine or 10 bucks, I could have had that plus a year's worth of their content backlog. And you literally can cancel any time. You literally just click cancel, it cancels it immediately. It's easy to do. You're not tied in or stuck in anything. That's one thing I like about only fans. They make it very easy to cancel. It's not confusing. It's very easy to do. You're not going to only get roped in and charge more. Nothing crazy like that. Well,
Speaker 3 (36:27):
Back to special K. Yes. Back to did the double dildo and then John and her played how
Speaker 2 (36:36):
Was that for you?
Speaker 3 (36:38):
That was better this time around. I know that the last time we had done the threesome, I, I think I got a little uncomfortable only because she was on top of you and I didn't know what to do. And so this time around that was not the case I had when that happened. I think I just started kissing her or kissing you. I don't remember exactly
Speaker 2 (37:01):
Touching her rubbing, just kind of doing
Speaker 3 (37:04):
That was involved somehow. I was still kissing on you or or whatever it was, but I didn't feel that at all this time around that was not there at all.
Speaker 2 (37:14):
And we knew that from last time because you didn't know where you were going to find yourself in that position of for a minute or two feeling maybe a third wheel, what do I do? Well, we knew that this time. And so you kind of planned
Speaker 3 (37:26):
For it. And so I kind of planned better for it. Okay, what are some things I can do if she gets on top of him and they're kissing, well, what can I do? And so I think I got behind her and was kissing on her boobs. I don't remember honestly, because again, I feel like I had a little bit too much to drink.
Speaker 2 (37:42):
You only had a couple shots, but
Speaker 3 (37:45):
I had that and wine. Yeah. So it was a kind of mixture of both.
Speaker 2 (37:48):
That's
Speaker 3 (37:48):
True. But I just heard myself say wine. Yes. I'm from Texas.
Speaker 2 (37:54):
Yeah. <laugh> house telling guy. Yep.
Speaker 3 (37:57):
But yeah, and
Speaker 2 (37:59):
She was absolutely great. Yeah, she was so fun. She was so hot.
Speaker 3 (38:03):
It was really cool. After we got in playing, we just kind of sat on the bed and just all chatting and talking for a little bit afterwards.
Speaker 2 (38:08):
And I kind of laid there naked, head pillow talk, kind of sitting around talking about whatever
Speaker 3 (38:14):
Hoof and whatever,
Speaker 2 (38:15):
Who even knows.
Speaker 3 (38:17):
And then we're like, oh my God, our kids are going to be here in 10 minutes, so Kyle need you to leave.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
Yeah, we're here in school. Buses go by. You're like, oh shit.
Speaker 3 (38:29):
So
Speaker 2 (38:30):
We didn't didn't boot her out.
Speaker 3 (38:32):
No, no, no, no. But
Speaker 2 (38:34):
We all got dressed and packed things up and mm-hmm. Got her flowers and everything like that. Yeah. In fact, you were just talking with her today. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (38:47):
So we're going to meet up tomorrow to hang out. Who
Speaker 2 (38:49):
Knows? Maybe we'll, we'll have her over again. Something. Yeah. I mean, I really enjoyed her. I think she's an absolutely great lady and we both had a genuinely good experience with her. And that's really important that everybody kind of has a connection and there's no weirdness or
Speaker 3 (39:04):
There was none of that at
Speaker 2 (39:05):
All. And I've heard stories, we've heard horror stories of people playing and someone gets mad or jealous, and I hope we don't run into that. And we might at some point, who knows, but we haven't yet. And with Special K, that was not the case.
Speaker 3 (39:23):
No, not at all. It was great. The whole thing was awesome. And like I said, I ate out my first girl.
Speaker 2 (39:30):
And how was it, what was going through your head when you put your mouth down there and you started licking on her clip? What was going through your head?
Speaker 3 (39:38):
I think I just focused on trying to please her. I stopped worrying about my nerves and oh my gosh, am I going to this am I don't like this or any of that. I think I just focused on pleasing her. And the fears and anxiety kind of just went away.
Speaker 2 (39:58):
Yeah, that's interesting. We have fears and anxieties, but when we're actually doing something, when we take action, those things, I would say for me at least 90% go away if you just do something. If you just take an action. Because then your brain isn't focused on the fear of the unknown and the imagined worst case scenario. Instead it's focused on what's actually happening. And it's usually just fine in our experience.
Speaker 3 (40:27):
So it was like, I mean, I didn't put my tongue up way up there in her or finger her or nothing like that. I just stayed on the cl,
Speaker 2 (40:35):
Which 90% of women, I'm told studies 90% of women orgasm through CLT stimulation. About 10% is through actual penetration. And sometimes there's a variation of both a combination, but you're pretty safe bet if you go on a lady's CL that you're going to please her because that's most women statistically speaking.
Speaker 3 (40:55):
And so I'm not really ready to do that part yet. But hey, that was my first time and it was nice. It wasn't bad. I just focused on pleasing her and
Speaker 2 (41:06):
Yeah, it was fucking hot. Oh yeah. I got pictures and video.
Speaker 3 (41:11):
Yeah, you do.
Speaker 2 (41:12):
We even, shit. And then we all shared 'em out to words. And I even played with some of them in an app that made 'em like cartoon. And we sent a few of the ones I retouched that way and she was like, wow, holy shit. It's like, oh my God, those
Speaker 3 (41:29):
Are hot.
Speaker 2 (41:29):
Yeah, we're like cartoons. It's like fucking,
(41:35):
Oh, it was fun. Yeah, it was technology. Well, hey, we hope you've enjoyed this episode about our first experience having a unicorn come to our house. We had a good episode or a great episode, we had a great time with her. We hope you enjoyed this episode. Again, give us a rating and review. It takes three seconds. Go click those stars. If you've gotten something out of this episode, if it was helpful in some way. Yeah, just go leave a review. It's like five more seconds and just say how this helped you. It helps us reach more people like you and help them. And if you have a question for us and you would like us to anonymously answer potentially hear on the podcast, we do that a lot. Send us an email at new swingers podcast gmail.com, new swingers podcast gmail.com, and we'd be happy to answer your questions if we are able and even gather more information if we don't have an answer and try to get you an answer or connected with some source that has information you're looking for.
Speaker 3 (42:30):
Yeah. Thanks for listening guys.
Speaker 2 (42:33):
And swing for the fences, <laugh>.