What is it ACTUALLY like to attend a swinger house party? What really goes on behind those closed, locked doors? In today's episode of the New Swingers Podcast, we jump into hot & juicy details about what it was like to attend our very first swinger house party, how we got invited, what it was like walking in the door, the vibe, what the people were like, our thoughts and feelings as we drove to the party together, the kinds of sex play we saw and experienced, and what ultimately ended up going down (*no pun intended!). If you've ever wondered what happens behind closed doors at these secret swinger house parties, click "play" and listen this episode right now!
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What is it ACTUALLY like to attend a swinger house party? What really goes on behind those closed, locked doors? In today's episode of the New Swingers Podcast, we jump into hot & juicy details about what it was like to attend our very first swinger house party, how we got invited, what it was like walking in the door, the vibe, what the people were like, our thoughts and feelings as we drove to the party together, the kinds of sex play we saw and experienced, and what ultimately ended up going down (*no pun intended!). If you've ever wondered what happens behind closed doors at these secret swinger house parties, click "play" and listen this episode right now!
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(YOU CAN ALSO FIND ALL OF THE RESOURCES BELOW AT: https://www.newswingerspodcast.com)
***SEE JUNE'S PIERCED NIPPLES RIGHT NOW ON HER ONLYFANS PAGE, CLICK HERE!
**NEW SWINGER COACHING! Overcome Insecurities Faster & Get Your Questions Answered With Personal Swinger Coaching From John & June. CLICK HERE To Learn More...
*MEET LOCAL SWINGERS, GET THE FREE "SWING-EASY" 2-PG PDF GUIDE! We Show You The 3 Easiest Ways To Find & Connect With Other Like-Minded Swinger Couples In Your Area In The Next 24 Hours (or less, GUARANTEED)! CLICK HERE!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome back to the New Swingers podcast. I'm John,
Speaker 2 (00:02):
And I'm June.
Speaker 1 (00:03):
And today we are going to talk about our first swinger house party
(00:10):
And what it was like, what we learned. There are a lot of people who wonder about these swinger house parties and what they're like and what to expect and you know, show up nervous, just like you do for the first time to a swinger club or anything. If you're new. Most people tend to be a little nervous, and we're going to talk about what that experience was like. And by the way, that's only our very limited experience. Not all ho parties are the same, I would imagine. But I'm happy to say we had a great experience and we're going to go into some really juicy details about how things unfolded.
(00:48):
So not only that, but one of the couples that told us about the house party that was there, they actually forgot this little deck of cards they brought with them. And it's called, what's Your Thing? And it's from, we Got a Thing Swingers podcast, which we've listened to a small handful of their episodes months back when, or last year when we got in the lifestyle. And it's an awesome podcast. We think they're great. We've never met 'em. We don't know. But shout out to the We Got a Thing podcast. Yeah, you guys are awesome. And we've got your little card game here. And instead of doing emails today, we are going to go through a few of these impromptu on the air in front of you in real time, and we're going to see what it's all about. And we don't know what questions are going to be on these cards, but we're going to answer.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Yeah,
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Let's
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Do it. So by the way, as I'm opening up these cards, what was your first thought when we got invited to the house party?
Speaker 2 (01:53):
My first thought probably like, oh, that would be fun. But I mean, my nerves always come flooding in me
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Before I do.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
So I think I was just like, I mean, was excited, but I was nervous too, just because I was like, oh gosh, this is the first time we've been to a house party. We've been in the club and stuff like that. But I tend to get a little bit more nervous when it's more intimate, when it's a smaller setting versus a club. There's tons of people, and I would still get nervous there, but I feel like I was a little bit more nervous just because it was a smaller setting.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
And I think one of the big things with that is it's the human fear of the unknown. It's like people are afraid of things they don't know until they know it and they experience it and they go, oh yeah, that was no big deal at all, but you just didn't know it. You didn't know. So we don't know the rules to this card game, so if we're playing it wrong, which we probably will be. That's all right. We're just going to go through and see what some of the cards say. So, oh, that's a rule card. I don't like rules. I'm not going to read it. Would you ever travel out of state or the country for the lifestyle? And have you ever considered a lifestyle resort? June, would you ever travel out of state or a country for a lifestyle event?
Speaker 2 (03:28):
Well, we've never been to a lifestyle resort, but I would really like to do that sometime as far as meeting, meeting people in the lifestyle out of state, say, I mean, maybe eventually if you and I had been talking to that this couple for a little while, and we really got to know them very well, maybe even did some Zoom or FaceTime calls or whatever, and really got to know them.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
We did that before also with some very good friends of ours in the lifestyle. Some of the first people we met in one of the states that bordered the place where we used to live.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
And you got to know her really well.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Yeah, yeah. So I think yes, I would, we could definitely, I guess I was thinking far away states, because we're up north now, and if we were, it was maybe going down south or whatever. I think it would just depend on if we really got a good vibe for the people, we really got to know them very well, then I think that would be a possibility.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Especially if, I mean, you just kind of make a vacation out of it or something too. Yeah. Here's the next card. How large is too large and how small is too small? This is a question exclusively for June. Oh gosh. Because I, I'm completely straight hetero, so I can't answer this. How large is too large?
Speaker 2 (05:04):
Gosh,
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Eggplant a real one.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Yeah, yeah, for sure. I don't know. I mean, I've always told John he's literally the perfect size for me, and so I don't know, maybe a little bit bigger would be fine, but I don't know. I don't like them way too big because I don't want to be walking funny for a week
Speaker 1 (05:33):
And sore. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:36):
Yeah. So I don't know. I guess maybe I wouldn't want, obviously eight inches long. That's way too long for me. And
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Anything like eight plus.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
And then was the other part of the question,
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Oh, how small is too small?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Too small? I guess probably not any smaller than probably maybe, I don't know, five inches, maybe not smaller than that.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
And what understand, from my research, the average male penis erect, the average, not there are exceptions, but the average, I think the last time this study was done with a few thousand men, the average erect penis was 5.2 inches. And then just I think just a little bit under five inches around in gerth diameter. So
Speaker 2 (06:35):
I think I was talking about length. Length. Oh, okay. Yeah. Yeah, length. I wouldn't want it probably any short, probably any length-wise, I probably being erected, I probably wouldn't want it any smaller than five.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Okay. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:50):
Or close to five. And then I wouldn't want it any longer than probably, I don't know, probably not any longer than, I don't know, I guess, I don't know. Because you
Speaker 1 (07:03):
Dunno until
Speaker 2 (07:03):
You try, I dunno. But definitely not eggplant size. Okay.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Yeah. Not looking to have another baby. Oh my
Speaker 2 (07:10):
God, no.
Speaker 1 (07:12):
What would you do if you saw your partner having sex with someone you don't know at a club or a party? In other words, if you walked into a party, which I don't know, I wouldn't be at a club or party without you, but I guess maybe like, oh, we're upstairs having fun, having drinks, and then people started to head downstairs and maybe you were talking longer than me and I went downstairs where the fun was happening, then you walked down and I was already playing with somebody.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
I guess I don't see that happening because I don't, we play together. But if you did, and that's kind of what I'd probably be upset, because that's not what we agreed to. So I think I would probably be kind of upset like, Hey, I don't mind you playing with somebody else, but we play together. Could you wait, you wait for me next time? Because like I said, we play together, we play with separate people, but we're in the same room together when we play normally side by side, even if we are swapping. So I think I'd be upset honestly, because I'm like, well, that's not what we both agreed to.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Yeah. I think for me, if I walked in on knew again, we would be, in our case, we would be together already. But if it was upstairs, downstairs, and maybe you got started before me, that would be more relevant to this question for our particular situation. Honestly, I don't think I'd be mad because my whole thing would be what number one? Well, we're at a sex party and we're here with one big thing in mind. All of us are. Now, did you get started without me? Yeah. But maybe things got warmed up and you just kind of rolled with it. To me, I don't see that as any real problem for me personally, just because I, I'm mentally just not as hardlined. Like I wouldn't do that to you because I know you wouldn't like that, but for me, it wouldn't bother me because, well, that's why we're here.
(09:25):
And if you ended up just sitting next to somebody that there was a real connection and vibe and it's like, well, we're doing this anyway and John will be down in a minute, well, we're here anyway for that. I guess it just wouldn't bother me that much. And it's not that I don't care or anything like that, you know, couldn't interpret it that way. It's just, I guess I don't try to control things that much, or in my mind I'm not threatened by that because I know what we have is strong and legit. I'm not threatened by that. But yeah, we didn't know that question was going to come up
Speaker 2 (10:06):
My turn to ask.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
And there's more here if you'd like to shuffle through those. Find a good one.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
What is the most extreme bd SM experience you've ever had or would ever consider
Speaker 1 (10:28):
Most extreme bd s m experience I've ever had? Well, it would be with you probably the kink bmb that we had in the city we used to live in. There was a house right in the middle of a neighborhood, big old subdivision. It was like Airbnb, but it was kink bmb. And you walked in the house, the whole fucking house is a sax dungeon. Oh yeah. Every room. The bathroom, I mean everything. And they had everything there.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
And we rented it for three, four
Speaker 2 (11:03):
Hours. It wasn't long enough.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
No. And for at the rate we were paying, I didn't, we didn't plan a staying overnight, but for another a hundred, 200 bucks, we could have just had the whole night. But yeah, we didn't plan that. And we had kids and so they were in school. So we love it when our kids are in school. We like to fuck around.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
That's when the fun times come when the kids are at school, shit,
Speaker 1 (11:26):
Their little asses off to summer camp in the summer too, so we can have friends over.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Right. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
So what's the next one? Or
Speaker 2 (11:34):
It says, would you ever consider,
Speaker 1 (11:36):
What's the most extreme video film experience? Well, I'm more dominant. You're more submissive. So I mean, it would really be whatever you want to try.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Okay. Oh, so for me, it'd be the same thing. It would definitely be there, the b and b that we went. Yeah. And I remember, I think the cool part was one of cool parts was not that I, not that I liked being in the cage that was underneath the bench thing, but being in there because it had the glory hole, and that was pretty fun.
Speaker 1 (12:12):
So it was a cage, a big rectangular cage that she got in, and there was a big long pad on top of it where I could lay face down, but in the middle there's a square cushion you could remove. And so she was sucking me off that fun from fun inside, inside the cage that I locked her in. That
Speaker 2 (12:29):
Was fun.
Speaker 1 (12:30):
She was a good girl and did a good job. So I let her out eventually.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
And I also liked, sometimes I do like to be dominant, not very often, but I remember I got to spank his ass for a little bit because I know he loves to spank mine and I love him to spank mine, but I got to spank his a little bit too. So that was kind of fun too. And the swing was Aha
Speaker 1 (12:50):
Hot. Yeah. I'm not really into being spanked or things like that, but you wanted to switch it up and, well, let me try this. I'm like, okay, so whatever. But oh yeah, the swing. You fucking loved the swing. Yeah, I
Speaker 2 (13:03):
Did. Oh, and the St. Andrews cross shit, that was my favorite.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
We were talking about this yesterday. Human beings so fucking funny. If you don't know what a St. Andrew's cross is, it's an X shape. It's an X shaped cross that you tie or handcuff somebody to hands of above their heads spread out and their feet and their feet, and then you can play with 'em and they can't do anything. No.
(13:30):
And it's so wild to me because back in the first century, ad St. Andrew was literally murdered and nailed to a fucking X shaped cross. And it's like, man, some guy was murdered centuries ago, killed on an X shaped cross, and now it's named after him, and now we fuck each other on one that resembles it. Yeah. It's like human beings. Human beings are so, we're so funny how we think, we're like, well, I don't want to murder anybody on it today, but I'd love to tie you to it and play with you and fuck you.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Well, the next one, have you ever been taught up or bound?
Speaker 1 (14:11):
Oh, that's vanilla. We're
Speaker 2 (14:12):
Way past that point. Yeah, I know. I'm like, this says it's a level three that did not feel like a level three.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
What is your absolute naughties fantasy
Speaker 1 (14:27):
Naughtiest, absolute naughties fantasy, man. I had to think about that one. But I love anything involving more than one or more women just being smothered in a pile of beautiful women. And I think it might be
(14:48):
Something like this. It's my birthday party. We have friends over, maybe vanilla friends, whoever we have friends over, but then everyone leaves. But then there's two or three ladies that are just lingering, some of our beautiful lifestyle friends. And you come up to me and you say, oh, by the way, your biggest present haven't, I haven't given to you yet. And I say, and I'm, it's something like, well, oh, you're probably going to have sex with me. Well, everyone isn't gone yet. And then you look over at the two or three beautiful ladies and they smile at me, they smile at you and you say, well, they're not leaving yet because, because they are the present. And then we just have a big fucking threesome force or whatever you call it. Orgy. Orgy. Yeah. It, it's me and you and two or three other beautiful lifestyle friend, women friends of ours.
(15:47):
And it's like, but I wasn't expecting it. And it's just a good time. Doors locked, phones are off. And I think that would be super, super fucking hot. And if they're all school teachers or something, that's hot too. I don't know what it is. I don't know if I've said this before on the podcast, but June is my number one. She is the everything. But my additional kinks, what I'm attracted to, my first additional attraction is a woman anywhere from five to 20 years older than me, and I'm 38 who is maybe brunette, and it doesn't matter what color of hair, but I, I've always had a thing for brunette's, five to 15, 20 years older than me brunette and something like a school teacher. There's something about that. I have no idea. Always. I mean, I had teachers, some teachers, when I was in high school, I was like, fuck, it's worth going to jail. No, she'd go to jail because I'm young and she's not. So it was the other way around, but it, there's something hot about a teacher. And then that Van Halen song, hot for Teacher. It's like, it's always been my sex anthem because,
Speaker 2 (17:05):
And I'm a substitute teacher, so that's kind of funny. And an ex preschool, Christian preschool church preschool Teacher.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Teacher, yeah. And so yeah, if you're 35 to 55, you're brunette school teacher who is a sweet lady and likes to have good conversations and you know, sort of take care of yourself and you're nice, you know, don't have to be perfect. I say take care of yourself. You don't have to be a triathlete and you, you're just sweet and you like to please and be pleased and play and have fun. Yeah. I hope we meet someday and we've met some and damn it was everything I thought it would be. That's so vanilla for us now. Wait, wait, wait. Oh, what's your absolute NIUs fantasy? Hello? Sorry, I was looking at the next card. I got lost when you asked me about my fantasy. I'm like,
Speaker 2 (18:00):
What about me?
Speaker 1 (18:02):
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Speaker 2 (19:05):
Well, it's probably the one I think I have mentioned on the podcast more recently because it's kind of the newer one, but it's like a gang bang with you and three or four other guys.
Speaker 1 (19:19):
What is it about that?
Speaker 2 (19:22):
I don't know. I think I like the idea that all the attention is on me, which is why I want to try a threesome with you and another guy that I would love to try soon, but a gang bang is, it's still like, oh, that makes me nervous, but I want to try it. I think it's more of all the attentions on me and the idea of they're waiting their turn to have their chance with me kind of thing. They're waiting to their turn kind,
Speaker 1 (19:56):
They're waiting, waiting to get tag teamed in. Yeah, because you're so hot and attractive and you're worth waiting for so they can have their turn with you as well.
Speaker 2 (20:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:09):
Okay. Let's see here. What is the most attractive personality feature for a new play partner? So I guess it might differ for man or woman. Since you're bisexual, what would you say? Maybe one for each or Okay. Just whatever comes to mind. What is the most attractive personality feature for a new play? Partner, da da da. We're still here, just so nobody thinks much.
Speaker 2 (20:42):
I know. I'm thinking I need a second. What? I don't know. I guess
Speaker 1 (20:49):
What floods the basement when you see it?
Speaker 2 (20:53):
Well, there's not just one thing. There's a few things
Speaker 1 (20:57):
Do
Speaker 2 (20:57):
Tell if it's a guy, I like the military type, he takes care of himself. He's in really good shape. Not that you have to have this huge six pack, but if you do, that's not bad either. But he takes care of himself, maybe prior military or he is just got that bad boyness to him. But he's also super respectful. He's not, I don't know, he's not, doesn't get his ego in there. He's not some macho who like
Speaker 1 (21:29):
A douche bag.
Speaker 2 (21:31):
So somebody that takes good care of himself, but he is also very respectful, very kind, has a sense of humor. That's always a good one for girl. I prefer, but that's not always the case. But I do, my go-to type is long hair, whatever color hair, doesn't matter to me. Kind of slim, kind of like me, takes care of himself. Herself, maybe herself, maybe has, I mean, I really don't matter about the boobs. For me, I just love boobs. So if they're smaller or big, it doesn't matter. I like bigger ones, but it doesn't matter to me. There
Speaker 1 (22:11):
Are no wrong boobs. Ladies, I'll tell you from a guy who loves women, there are no wrong boobs. Your boobs are great the way they are.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
But anyway, my type we're back to my type
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Back to you in the studio June.
Speaker 2 (22:25):
I don't know, I guess she's really friendly. She's not stuck up or anything like that. Just for me, it's like, yeah, she can be the most beautiful woman, but if she's real snobby or stuck up or thinks she's too good, it's just like, okay, that's not attractive. So I think somebody just down to earth takes good care of themselves, likes swimming too, because I do.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (22:53):
So then the question for me was, the question again is, what is the most attractive personality feature for a new play partner? For me, I think it's a wild openness. The woman who is like, yeah, she's a attractive to me in some way, but also her mind is an open book. She's basically, Hey, I'll try anything three times just to make sure. It's like you're not stuck in your head. You're not in a stuck mentality where I only do this. It's not rigid, it's just opening. Who knows what I'll discover, I'll like, and so a woman with a dirty open mind is very attractive to me. Yeah. Oh, this one is relevant. Maybe we'll end with this one for now, and then get to the topic of the podcast. I know people are wondering about, they're wondering what a house party is and what ours was like. June, have you ever been flogged or spanked in a sexual way? If so, describe.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
Yes. The first time that I got spanked was at the club where we used to live. And I got spanked with a paddle by a really gorgeous lady we call Barbie because she looks literally like a Barbie doll. And she spanked me and I was like, oh my gosh, I've never been spanked by a lady before. I remember telling John, I was like, holy shit, that was hot. I really liked that. So he was like, well, do you want her to do it again? And I was like, yeah. And he's like, well go there and ask her. And I was like, oh my gosh. Okay. I was so shy to go over there and do that, but I did. And then she, she's more dominant with women, which I have found a lot of my friends in the lifestyle. I'm submissive both ways, whether I'm playing with a girl or a guy. But
Speaker 1 (24:57):
Your lady friends.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
But my lady friends, a lot of 'em are very, they say they're dominant if when they're with women, well, this one, she was as well. And so she was like, well kiss my paddle. And I was like, okay. So I kissed her paddle and she's like, ask me nicely or however she said it. And I was like, okay. And then she spanked me a couple more times. Well,
Speaker 1 (25:18):
What she did is she said, now turn around, grab that stripper, pull in front of you and bend over.
Speaker 2 (25:23):
Oh, yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (25:25):
So if you can picture this, June was, she was grabbing this tripper pole bent over completely. And this beautiful woman with her paddle was behind her and she lifted up whatever you were, I didn't even know what you were wearing that night, but she was just spanking your bare ass. And you discovered that's where you started to discover your buy side. You're like, I don't know why I like that. I'm like, I know why I liked it, because I'm a guy. You don't know why you liked it, but that's okay.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (26:02):
So thank you to the podcast. We got a thing for that car game. Thank you to our friends who forgot it at the swinger house party, and we will get it back to you shortly. But we just realized that was in there. And so we thought, why not grab a few and do that. So people have ideas about, well, the swinger lifestyle, but then they also have ideas about what a swinger club is like, or what a swinger house party is like.
Speaker 2 (26:33):
Yeah,
Speaker 1 (26:35):
Probably. I mean, just like we did. Like I said before, because we had never been to one, anything you don't know you have thoughts about, you have this worst imagined scenario that usually isn't in our experience ever the case. But yeah, we met this one couple for drinks and recently, and then before the night was out, they just said, well, hey, we're going to this one party. We'll connect you with a host if you want to go. And I'd had a few drinks or I'm like, yeah, let's do it. Cause I'm always down. And June was more like, well, let's check the calendar. And because she's right, it turned out to work out. We didn't have anything going on. And so we ended up going, we met these people through one of the websites we recommend. If you go to the Swing Easy PDF in the show notes, just click the link either in the show notes or on the website that says Swing Easy, you'll meet couples in your area.
(27:35):
That's where we met this couple. That's how we connected with the host. And as a result, we met, I think six or seven other awesome couples. Yeah, I mean it was really amazing. So go download that. It's totally free. It's working for us because as some of you may or may not know, we moved from a big city to a small town on the other side of the country. So learning how to play both sides of the coin in the swinger game where there's not a big old swinger club, we can just go meet people
Speaker 2 (28:10):
And we literally don't know anybody here. So we're making in, so it's kind of cool. We've been talking about this, just the two of us, about how it's really cool because now we're making friends that we want to make back In our old place we lived, it was like we had all these and nothing wrong with it, but we had lots of religious friends who didn't think we think anymore. And so it's just nice to now live somewhere where we're making the friends that we want to make.
Speaker 1 (28:41):
Yeah. So we got the invite to this house party. We messaged on there and they said, yeah, they looked at our profile, our pictures, and they said, yeah, here's the address, here's the time. But we didn't show up at exactly the time, did we?
Speaker 2 (29:00):
No.
Speaker 1 (29:02):
Oh, it starts at seven 30. We showed up about eight. Why did we do that?
Speaker 2 (29:06):
Because we didn't want to be the first ones there. Just kind of like the club. I remember us getting there at the club our first time ever at the Swinger's Club, and I remember we stayed in the car probably 10 or 15 minutes past time it was opening because we didn't want to be the first ones in. And then of course then I'm like, okay, I got to pee. Let's just go in. So here it was the same kind of thing. We don't want to be the first one showing up to the house party,
Speaker 1 (29:33):
But here's our perspective now, because it was a great party. Everybody was super respectful, nice lot of very hot people, very laid back, no pressure from anybody. So we showed up at eight o'clock and what I wish now that we would've shown up at seven 30 when it started, because they're a couple of couples there that we really wanted to talk to and get to know a little bit more. But we ran out of time. And if we would've been there another half hour gotten there on time, we may have had time to talk to them. And I don't think anybody, well, I, as far as I know, only two of the couples had known of each other. I don't know that the host had met any of us or that anybody there had actually met anyone else. That's my general understanding. So as couples, we all showed up and nobody, I don't think had really, I don't think we known any other couples
Speaker 2 (30:37):
Maybe, but maybe one or two of 'em did. But I don't know.
Speaker 1 (30:40):
So we're up in the kitchen having drinks for probably the first hour, hour and a half.
Speaker 2 (30:44):
And I say that only because I remember them saying the host saying that they did one previous party. So that's why I was like, well, there may have been a couple people, a couple couples that maybe knew, oh, you're right, host. So
Speaker 1 (30:56):
No, you're right. There was one couple we did talk to who said they were at the host first party.
Speaker 2 (31:00):
Okay. Yeah, that's what I thought.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
But I think overall, most of us didn't know anybody, so we're all kind of in the same boat. So we walk in, we got our Bing bag full of toys and drinks and what was it like walking through the door?
Speaker 2 (31:20):
Everybody was really nice. Oh, hey, hi. Hugs. On the first time seeing meeting people, just very laid back. They had food at one of the tables and drinks set up at a different table, and they had just a real nice kitchen, kitchen, dining area that we just kind of all lingered and hung around and just got to chat for a little while to kind of get to know people,
Speaker 1 (31:47):
Which was really cool because there really wasn't anything sexual about that. It was more just, Hey, where are you all from and how long have you been in the lifestyle? There's no creepiness if somebody lingering floating because Ooh, I hope I get to play with you. There was nothing like that. Yeah, I mean, it was all, all couples. It was literally just being at a backyard, backyard barbecue in the neighborhood, except this one ended way better than those usually do.
Speaker 2 (32:20):
Yeah, for sure. Yeah, it was just super laid back. I really liked that. I was super nervous until I had my drink in me, and then I was okay. So once I had my rum in me, I was good.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
And so I, you know, had I think ended up having about three shots of it over the course of the night, which
Speaker 2 (32:42):
Was too much because the next day was bad hangover.
Speaker 1 (32:46):
It was a hundred proof, but I only had one shot because I wanted to be coherent. This is a new environment, and plus if I have too much alcohol, my brain just doesn't sexually function, and I didn't want to get to that point where I couldn't perform or do something. Yeah. So eventually people started going downstairs, which we were told by the host is where the real fun happens. Yeah. Do you remember, what did it look like? Describe the scene essentially what it smell, look, feel like.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
I don't remember what it smelled.
Speaker 1 (33:23):
I don't think it had a smell, I'm just
Speaker 2 (33:24):
Saying. But I remember walking down and it was really dark, dim lighting. They had couches, they had a couple couches I think, and then they had a bed to the right as soon as you walk down the stairs because it was down in their basement area and they had porn going on the tv. John didn't tell anybody, but he told me. But we brought our cian with us. And so as we're chatting with other people
Speaker 1 (33:57):
And the
Speaker 2 (33:58):
Host and the host, I mentioned, oh, yeah. Or I had just kind of asked like, whoa, well what kind of stuff do you guys have? And she's like, oh, we have this and this and that. And I just kind of was like, have you ever tried a cian? And she's like, oh my gosh, yes. Once she said, oh, I wish we had one. And I was like, well, actually, we brought ours and it's in our car if you want us to get it. So she's like, oh my gosh. Yes, please. So John went downstairs before, I think a lot of people were down there yet to set it up.
Speaker 1 (34:32):
I set it up near the fireplace, which gave off some great little ambience of light. It was dimming there enough where you could see people's faces, but it was dimly, so it was just kind of this really seductive cd, but classy feel the basement was done, was very comfortable. Yeah. Again, nobody acted weird or acted out of line. Again, this is our only our first house party, so we can't speak for any other house parties that take place. This is just our first and one experience. Yeah. June, you rode the Cian for a while and first. Yeah, first. Well, it's your toy. You had to demonstrate how it works, but
Speaker 2 (35:16):
Oh gosh. Yeah. So I started the party off,
Speaker 1 (35:20):
And by the time you're done with that, people are already making up a close off. It kicked in a Hager fest. We've learned that in any environment, in a lifestyle, once women start getting aroused, you don't have to worry about what's going to happen next. Stuff just organically starts to roll, clothes come off, people start kissing the couples. All of us as couples, I think started off playing with our own partners and kissing and touching, and then you would notice a couple would come and they would sit down next to you on the couch and they'd make out there, and then, oh, her leg rubbed yours. Or they sit down and go, Hey, how you doing? Or, I remember one couple who we ended up playing with, they were real, they had this massage table there in between the couch and in the king size bed, and they were making out and playing on that with each other.
(36:19):
Then they came and sat next to us, and as they were walking right over in front of us, and I remember looking at her and saying, Hey, you all look like you're having a good time. And they laughed and they sat down and they're like, yeah, that's a good tongue. And I were blowing me for a little while. I was on the couch and you're on your knees. And then eventually you got on top of me. And I think this is something I learned, I think, or I was thinking to myself, man, I see other couples playing together, but we're here on the couch alone. Did we do something or are they just busy? Or maybe they were nervous. We were a little bit, I don't know. But I thought, well, we're number one. We always know we can play with each other and have a great time.
(37:12):
What I noticed was once you and I started having sex on the couch, you were riding on top of me. Yeah, I was pulling your hair back. So your face was facing the ceiling and you were riding on top of me. I noticed, I think it was that couple and maybe another one, they kind of stopped what they were doing, or they both started looking. And I thought, oh, maybe this is getting someone's attention. So I kind of saw that after we got really into it with each other, I think it sort of attracted other couples instead of not that, or maybe that's just when they saw us, I don't know. But to me, it seemed like nobody else really came around until we really got into fucking and got real heavy. And then they came and sat right next down to us. And the lady, this beautiful, beautiful brunette, totally my type, she's on the couch next to me, her husband's doing her and June's on top of me.
(38:13):
And so I'm sitting on a couch next to this beautiful lady, and she does this whole, the yawn thing you do in high school and you're in the movie theater and you put your arm around date shoulder. Well, she did that to me and then grabbed the back of my head and started making out with me. And from then on, it's like, okay, so I mean, you're riding on me. She's making out with me. She was telling me what she likes, and I saw what she was doing, which I won't go into too much detail, but she was doing something that you like, but in a way that you don't prefer it. But she liked it in a different way. And so I noticed that. So I reached over and I just started doing what she was doing and then checking on her, Hey, is that okay? Is that too hard? Is that, and she was like, no, that's great. And so then I looked up at one point and you and him were making out while you were on top of me, and he was doing her. And I just thought, Hey, this is kind of an awkward sideways angle on the couch. I'm trying, her and I are kissing and we're all sideways. So I just asked 'em, Hey, do you guys want to go over to the bed? And we did. And they're like, yeah, let's go. Yep.
(39:23):
Then we got over there and you know, were with him. I was with her. We did a full swap, which we've only done a couple times up to this point, and was really, I mean to me it was a really hot experience. And I remember you saying it was also,
Speaker 2 (39:39):
Yeah, it was fun.
Speaker 1 (39:40):
I know for you it's, you think more than I do,
Speaker 2 (39:43):
Way more than he does. I kind of wish I get really frustrated sometimes because I'm like, why can't I just not think about things like you? You just go with the flow and whatever. But I'm always the one that's really, that's why I like him being dominant over me because I get out of my head, but it was like, okay, here we go. Didn't really talk about anything ahead of time. So that kind of was made me a little bit more nervous too, because usually with any couple we play with, we kind of like, Hey, this is what I, but him and I didn't talk about anything, so I was a little nervous.
Speaker 1 (40:19):
You just kind of roll with it sometimes.
Speaker 2 (40:21):
And we did. I mean, it was fun. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (40:28):
And we are still kind of new to the full swapping thing, and when you say about me, it just doesn't bother you. Don't get in your head. Maybe it's part of being a guy, I don't know. But the best way I know how to boil it down is just I like pleasure. And whether I like it or however we're experiencing it, it doesn't mean anything to me in the sense that I don't believe there's some deeper underlying meaning that would mean something about me that would be negative. If it feels good, I do it, which is interesting. I was always told growing up, if it feels good as evil, that's the biggest bunch of horse shit in the world. If it feels good, it's fucking fun. And everyone walked away having had a great time. After things cooled down,
Speaker 2 (41:22):
He ate me out and I had a small orgasm. And then after that,
Speaker 1 (41:27):
The other guy, not the other guy, not me
Speaker 2 (41:28):
With the other guy. And then that's when after that, we like fucked and stuff after that. But yeah, I mean now that it's been several days, I think it was fun, I think. But I just feel like because it's still so new, doing that full swap, that's why I was a little like, oh, how do I feel about this afterwards? And then I'm like, okay, it's been several days and I can say that it was a good time, it was fun, it was enjoyable, and it didn't take away from what I have to keep reminding myself is it didn't take away from what John and I have. That to me, I think is a big thing that I've really had to work on myself mentally is like, Hey, just because he's playing with some other lady, that doesn't mean anything about me.
Speaker 1 (42:28):
It truly doesn't.
Speaker 2 (42:29):
And he's told me that millions of times.
Speaker 1 (42:32):
And the same with you, if you're playing with another lady or guy, yeah, that's not a knock against me,
Speaker 2 (42:37):
But that is something that I am still working on. I feel like I'm better, but I'm still trying to get that last little bit from the church out of my head. Okay. I just have to, honestly, at this point, it's just, I have to just remind myself, Hey, this is just fun. And it doesn't mean anything between, it doesn't take away from what me and John have. It's just extra fun. And then it was really awesome because we talked to a few other couples after that, but the sex, when we got home, fuck.
Speaker 1 (43:15):
Well, describe what you mean by fuck. How was the sex when we got home?
Speaker 2 (43:22):
Really hot shit. We couldn't keep our hands off of each other, which I mean, I mean, I feel like it's usually like that anyway, but it was on, kicked into high gear big time.
Speaker 1 (43:33):
It was how great it normally is, plus 10 x it was. It was fucking wild. We could not control ourselves.
Speaker 2 (43:44):
And then he came. Then I was like, yeah. And then I was like, okay, go get my vibrator. I need to have the orgasm.
Speaker 1 (43:52):
And I'm like, yes, I missed it.
Speaker 2 (43:54):
Yeah. Then I came really hard with him too. You
Speaker 1 (43:57):
Came really fucking hard. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (43:59):
So your Oh, oh, and Anne, he forgot to mention this. When I was on the Cian, two other beautiful blondes came up and started kissing on me and making out with me at the same time as I was on the cian and
Speaker 1 (44:16):
Licking. Licking your nipples.
Speaker 2 (44:17):
Fuck. That was hot. Yep. Licking my nipples, making out with me.
Speaker 1 (44:23):
What was really great, well, again, first of all, this goes back to like, oh, why do you need other people? We don't need other people. No, but people would think, oh, that wouldn't enhance your sex life at all. Or your relationship. We don't know how to explain. But the lifestyle has definitely enhanced our relationship relationally, communication wise and sexually. And we were doing great before it. We don't know how to explain why it's been so good to us. I'll tell you what's really cool though. There was a couple we didn't play with, but I hope to because she was beautiful as well. After everyone started, just everyone was already done having sex and kind of worn out. People starting to filter out. There was a couple that came and sat on the bed next to June and I, oh, who we did not play with that night, but we were laying there naked.
(45:19):
They walked up naked and sat down. The other lady was laying on the bed next to me and he was sitting on the end of the bed at her feet, kind of like you were near me. And we just start talking. Casual conversation you would have if you just met somebody at the beach that you sat next to, except we're all just sitting there naked, talking, having just very casual conversation, nothing sexual. And they seem so much like us as far as just being normal people. If you don't know any better than you not run the lifestyle, you expect swingers to be these wild weirdos. Yes. Who just want to fuck your brains out, which can be really fun. But I was about to say, which, that can be fun, but it's like, oh yeah, I do this for a living. He does that for a living and yeah, here's our experience and yeah, we've been doing it this long. We've been married all these years. And it's like you're talking, we were talking to ourselves in a different form and we're like, I'm just thinking, where have these people been our whole lives? These people are just awesome.
(46:28):
Mean, the sex was great, the whole sex environment was awesome, but just talking, being able to lay down on a bed, you and me, or sit on a bed with another couple naked, having general casual conversation and it's not weird. Yeah. There was something so cool about that. It really was, I, I don't know how to say this. It felt like natural. It's like this is how we were made to be. And it's almost like we've been conditioned to not be that way, but it felt so normal, yet it was a new experience, but it felt like an experience that was, it's kind of built into us. I don't know if that makes sense. If you try something new for the first time and then you realize, I feel like I've done this before, or I was that this is a part of me, I'm made to be this way. Yeah. That's a really epiphany. That's a real amazing experience and thing to think about.
Speaker 2 (47:32):
And then I was just going to say, yeah, we ended the night going home together and fucking rabbits and then coming, both of us coming really hard and super hard. And I love it when John comes inside of me when he has so much come that it's like, I can feel it. Go up there.
Speaker 1 (47:52):
Super
Speaker 2 (47:53):
Soaker. Oh my God, I love that so much. That's my favorite. You're
Speaker 1 (47:56):
Welcome.
Speaker 2 (48:00):
And yeah, then yesterday we're like, oh, we should make a sex room.
Speaker 1 (48:11):
We literally woke up, was it the next morning or two mornings after the party?
Speaker 2 (48:15):
I
Speaker 1 (48:16):
Don't know
Speaker 2 (48:16):
When it was. I think it was a couple days, a couple mornings later. We had
Speaker 1 (48:20):
Had a couple days to marinate mentally and sexually. And we woke up and we were just like, we had this one room in our basement. It's pretty good size and it's not finished, but we, let's just make a sex room. And of course, we've seen that Netflix series, how to Make a Sex Room, which has given us all kinds of ideas. Now
Speaker 2 (48:43):
We're rewatching it and getting all kinds of ideas.
Speaker 1 (48:48):
And so we are currently building that. So hell
Speaker 2 (48:51):
Yeah, we
Speaker 1 (48:53):
Will keep you posted. I'm the progress of that and
Speaker 2 (48:58):
I'm excited.
Speaker 1 (48:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (49:00):
So fucking having a St. Andrews cross, I'm just saying,
Speaker 1 (49:05):
Oh, praise be the Lord. I'm over here doing the sign of the cross backwards. I'm like, I don't know what to think of this. I grew up Catholic. But here's the thing with the sex room too, and I know this episode's not about that. We should do it, do episodes about it and we'll keep you posted. But the sex room, first and foremost, as you were saying yesterday, is for you and me. Yeah. It's our unique place for us to go to shut out the world, close the door locking key, and I fucking own you in there.
Speaker 2 (49:42):
Yeah, you do.
Speaker 1 (49:44):
And you like
Speaker 2 (49:45):
It. Yes, I do.
Speaker 1 (49:47):
But it's also for when we have friends that want to come over because right outside that door, outside the house is our hot tub. Yes. That faces the woods and the sunset. And so yeah, there's plenty of good times to be had there. Oh yeah. But yeah, first and foremost, it's ours. It's got our touch, but it's something that we also want. We're making it big enough and accommodating were we could probably have four to six other lifestyle friends over who want to enjoy it with us as well. And we really love that sharing aspect, no pun intended, because
Speaker 2 (50:24):
Sharing is caring
Speaker 1 (50:25):
Swingers, love sharing each other, and yes, and they're swinger spaces and just the house party the other night. So yeah, if you want to find people in your area in the next 24 hours or last guaranteed, you can connect with people basically right now. You can find them and search them out. Go to the show notes or the website, newest swingers podcast.com or just go down on the show notes and click that link that says, swing Easy. Find local swingers in your area in the next 24 hours or less. Guaranteed. This is how we found the one couple that we met for drinks, who then told us about the house party, introduced us to the host, and then we met five to seven other couples. And we've probably we're keeping in touch. We've kept in touch since the party, I think with three or four of 'em. And so we have just create group texts between the four of us, the other couple, and then we keep in touch and yeah, it's great. So that's how we're doing it. So that was our very first swinger horse party experience. And we hope if you have one that your experience was just as hot as ours or even more,
Speaker 2 (51:37):
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Speaker 1 (51:44):
They are. And she has some new ones. She just some new nipple rings in. Oh,
Speaker 2 (51:49):
Last
Speaker 1 (51:50):
Week? Yeah. Yeah. Well, let's see, what did they say again? The one on one side, it says, one nipple has a ring in that says, fuck me. And the other, which is black, and then the other one is red, two red hearts. And it says, come here, see you M, come here. If you don't go to her only fans for any other reason, go check it out. Link is the first link in the show notes so you can see what I'm seeing right now. And enjoy yourself. Hey, motorboat.