Supremely Full Of It Podcast

Who you be wit?

December 18, 2023 N.I.M.E & DY3R
Who you be wit?
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Supremely Full Of It Podcast
Who you be wit?
Dec 18, 2023
N.I.M.E & DY3R
We promise you won’t be able to resist joining us for an enlightening and entertaining discussion on love, life, and everything in between. Prepare to laugh, ponder, and question as we share our personal perspectives on the holiday season, the commercialization of gift-giving, and the unexpected scenarios that life throws our direction. We’re bringing humor and relatable insights to the table with our new segment, "Hypothetically," where we navigate through different scenarios like what we would do if a date showed up wearing a waist trainer.

Inevitably, our conversation veers toward the complex world of social media and how it bleeds into our relationships. Can posting a relationship status online influence commitment? How do we navigate the fine line between our digital and real-life selves without letting social media define our relationship? We share personal anecdotes and host an honest debate on these questions, exploring the weight social media should hold in a relationship, and how it can potentially lead to issues.

As we wrap up, we touch on the topic of filters and their role in how we perceive our relationships. We urge you to stay grounded by focusing on solving personal problems within a relationship rather than letting the virtual world cloud your judgment. It’s an episode filled with insightful reminders to appreciate real life interactions rather than virtual ones. So turn off your social media notifications, settle in for some quality time with us, and let’s discuss the modern dilemmas of love, life, and everything in between.
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We promise you won’t be able to resist joining us for an enlightening and entertaining discussion on love, life, and everything in between. Prepare to laugh, ponder, and question as we share our personal perspectives on the holiday season, the commercialization of gift-giving, and the unexpected scenarios that life throws our direction. We’re bringing humor and relatable insights to the table with our new segment, "Hypothetically," where we navigate through different scenarios like what we would do if a date showed up wearing a waist trainer.

Inevitably, our conversation veers toward the complex world of social media and how it bleeds into our relationships. Can posting a relationship status online influence commitment? How do we navigate the fine line between our digital and real-life selves without letting social media define our relationship? We share personal anecdotes and host an honest debate on these questions, exploring the weight social media should hold in a relationship, and how it can potentially lead to issues.

As we wrap up, we touch on the topic of filters and their role in how we perceive our relationships. We urge you to stay grounded by focusing on solving personal problems within a relationship rather than letting the virtual world cloud your judgment. It’s an episode filled with insightful reminders to appreciate real life interactions rather than virtual ones. So turn off your social media notifications, settle in for some quality time with us, and let’s discuss the modern dilemmas of love, life, and everything in between.
Speaker 2:

Hey, yo supremely full of it, ha ha.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2:

Me, me, me, me, me, me, me, me me.

Speaker 3:

Supremely full of it. Ok, supremely full of it. Podcast back with another episode. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying. They call me Dyer and I be the boy nine Holiday season man. Well, yeah, how you feel about the holidays, man?

Speaker 2:

Cash grab, but it's cool.

Speaker 3:

Everybody cheerful and happy man. Yeah, I feel like we, but me. Hey, I hate the holidays. Why you hate it? Ok, I'm not going to say that I hate it, I'll just be glad when it's over.

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

You know everybody like buys gifts and you know when you go to the store there's huge lines and stuff like that. Oh yeah yeah, yeah, but with me, like I don't buy gifts, you know, I give money.

Speaker 2:

But I would like to be on that list.

Speaker 3:

OK, I wasn't going to tell the story.

Speaker 2:

But since you want to say that, I'm going to tell you why you can't be on it.

Speaker 3:

OK, explain OK. When I was a kid, I knew there was no Santa Claus, right, right.

Speaker 2:

Me too.

Speaker 3:

Me too, right, and like I knew, my parents bought the gifts and they would always say don't ask me for nothing else. So me being as a kid, I always thought, yo, these gifts came because they had money to spend. So when I got older, I told myself well, I told myself when I got older, when I started making money, a form of me paying them back was for every year for Christmas, I would give them money.

Speaker 1:

OK.

Speaker 3:

Since I've been I'll probably say since 2007, I've been giving them money every year for Christmas, so that's why I cannot be on that list.

Speaker 2:

Oh, ok, I got you. I got you. I got you. You know what I'm saying. I'm going to tell you I don't like it for real. Ok, they tell you it's better to give than to receive. Well, they, somebody lie. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3:

That's coming from the heart too. Hey, that's crazy. You had to get that off your chest.

Speaker 2:

Somebody lie bro.

Speaker 1:

Somebody lie.

Speaker 2:

Tell that to the person that's always getting stuff. How about that?

Speaker 3:

I'm lying because I know where you're going. Yeah, bro.

Speaker 2:

You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1:

You give gifts. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2:

You give people things, you give money. You know what I mean, and to be a good person, you're not supposed to expect anything back, right, but at some point. But tell that to the people you always giving stuff to, though. Yeah. Oh man Merry Christmas.

Speaker 3:

You be taking the personal, bro. You taking the personal. All right, I want to try something. Yeah, what we got, you know, we've been doing the podcast for like a year now, yeah, and always thinking about ways to grow the podcast and try something new. So I want to try this new, somewhat quick segment. All right, called Hypothetically. So I'm going to give you a hypothetical scenario and then you tell me what you would do.

Speaker 2:

All right, good. I really wish I knew we was doing this. That's why I didn't do it. That's why I didn't do it. I got you.

Speaker 3:

I got you Hypothetically Right. What if you went on a first date with somebody and they showed up wearing a waist trainer?

Speaker 2:

Visibly seeing a waist trainer.

Speaker 3:

Yes, you could just see it.

Speaker 2:

You wasn't prepared. You wasn't ready. Yeah, I mean in my opinion, man, I don't, I would be taken back. I'd be taken back from that.

Speaker 3:

I would think you lying already.

Speaker 2:

Why you say that.

Speaker 3:

Because you got on a waist trainer. That's an illusion. Like you showing up to the interview line, you ain't got the job yet.

Speaker 2:

I mean, but my thing is, how would you show up if I'm like yeah, we about to go to this real nice restaurant? And you showed up in a jogging outfit or something. At least you're being real. That's cool, but I don't.

Speaker 3:

That waist trainer makes everything look tight. Yeah, that's true. It do, it do.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, so she lying already, but that don't necessarily mean that what's up under the waist trainer is a lot. Then why you need the waist. Some people wear it to shape. That's what I heard. You know what I mean. But why come it don't?

Speaker 3:

mean they had some, but why bring it to the date though you couldn't take it off in the car? That's confusing. It's definitely confusing. All right, I just made this one up Hypothetically. What would you do If a woman says she wanted to cook for you and when you came over she was cooking chicken and when you picked up the chicken it still had hair on it?

Speaker 2:

Feathers or hair.

Speaker 3:

Hair, whose hair? This hair, you know the hair that we stick feather Feathers.

Speaker 2:

Ok, thank you. I ain't know what you were talking about for a minute. Hair feathers? No, I ain't the same. Go ahead, bro. Where?

Speaker 3:

you at.

Speaker 2:

The feather don't bother me too bad. Ok, you see feathers sometime when you buy chicken. What was the real thick one, though? But if it was the real thick one sticking out about two or three inches, I would ask you why'd you let that get by? You could have plucked that one. Ok, all right, that's just like the one whisker on the girl's lip you could have tweezed that real quick.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, just the one that looks silky a little bit yeah yeah, the light hit it just right.

Speaker 2:

You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 3:

Okay, but I'm gonna eat the food? I'm not. I'm not gonna lie to you. You ain't never ate chicken with feather on it. Yeah, but I mean if it's still the real thick one nah G.

Speaker 2:

Like the joint you put. They used to put in a hat.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, I'm like nah G, Like you can visibly see this deep fried now and everything. Nah, we good.

Speaker 2:

I got one for you.

Speaker 3:

Okay.

Speaker 2:

If a female invited you over for dinner and she says she's cooking, why don't you come over and eat? And you go over there and she made she fried shrimp, pizza rolls and french fries all in the same grease. You eat that.

Speaker 3:

She fried wait. Is that the meal?

Speaker 2:

Yeah, shrimp pizza rolls and french fries.

Speaker 3:

Is she hood and boozy or something?

Speaker 2:

Hypothetically.

Speaker 3:

No, I'm not eating that whatsoever. And then I'm going in the bathroom and I'm questioning myself like what is your type? Yeah. Like who raised you? Yeah, and how are you going to get yourself out of this?

Speaker 2:

I know it was a hypothetical, but that actually happened to me before.

Speaker 1:

You got to pick a dog. I was like hey, not actually.

Speaker 2:

I mean, we wasn't dating or nothing. You know, I cut hair man, so I was cutting hair and she was like, yeah, I'm cooking dinner, you want something to eat? And when I went in the kitchen, I'm like that's a dinner, like I'm cool. She had a platter of yeah, I'm cool man, there was one whole cookie sheet of just fried stuff all over it, but I'm cool, okay. Okay, we're going to talk about that. I've never had fish flavor, shrimp flavor pizza rolls and french fries in my life.

Speaker 3:

Hey, make it happen, Make it happen, we're going to, we're going to, all right, so we're going to cut that same right there Hypothetically, yeah. So okay, if you have a scenario you know, write it in the YouTube comments or send an email. Man bump that.

Speaker 2:

I don't want to, man, look, give me the truth.

Speaker 1:

I want to know what you've been through in your life personally, bro, like that's what I want to know.

Speaker 2:

Put it in.

Speaker 3:

YouTube comments or or send an email at supremeforummitgmailcom.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I need to know.

Speaker 3:

Okay, anyway, so today's show man. I saw something on social media like a few weeks ago and it's been bothering me ever since. Everything bothers you, it, it, it do when you are at my advanced age of 36.

Speaker 1:

Yes.

Speaker 3:

Everything bothers you. I, I can second that Right. So social media has been around for what? Maybe 15, 16 years, probably, yeah, something like that. Well, it's been famous, or whatever.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, go back to the mind space, right.

Speaker 3:

Right. So I saw something that says if a person doesn't post you, they're either ashamed of you or they're hiding you from somebody else, like they're protecting somebody else's feelings. How do you, how do you feel about that?

Speaker 2:

I mean that could be true. Okay, it could be true In in some cases. Man, you can't do what you want to do on social media if you post in who you with for real. I, I, I disagree. That's a possibility, man, okay, if. If I'm not saying in our cases that's true, but you know you can, you can't wiggle as much as people know who your man is or your woman is. I mean, you're still going to find something that still deal with you, but you know, yeah.

Speaker 3:

Okay, my thing is this why is it that important?

Speaker 2:

that you post the other person you with.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, um, is it validation that you're getting?

Speaker 2:

Uh yeah, I mean, I don't know man. Um, let's do this. Who are we talking about first? What do you mean?

Speaker 3:

Who you talking about.

Speaker 2:

Man or women, Both I get that, but I mean I would say on the female side, uh, in my opinion it's more for attention than anything else.

Speaker 1:

Okay.

Speaker 2:

Cause men they really don't post. You got some men that do it and it looks weird to me, in my opinion, but a man that posts, they uh woman. No, no, no man that posts themselves, Okay, like women. Do you know what I'm?

Speaker 3:

saying I got a couple of selfies, that ain't what I mean.

Speaker 2:

That ain't what I mean. I'm talking about everything you see on on. There is them. You know what I'm saying Posts and blah, blah, blah. X, y, z, blah, blah, blah. You know, generally, men when they post, stuff is something that's important to them. You know what I mean.

Speaker 3:

So I mean my face is important to me, to who Nigga said to me, but so my phone?

Speaker 2:

Did take pictures of yourself and keep it in your phone. All right, I'm just saying man.

Speaker 1:

I mean.

Speaker 2:

I don't have a problem either way with people doing social media, bro, it's just, you know, if I just I do feel like if it's an issue for the person you with, then you need to consider them. Okay, this is my problem.

Speaker 3:

We live like in today's world. For some reason, if you don't want to do something on social media, it's because you don't like the person you with You're, you're hiding them because you're talking to other people, or it's always a reason like a negative reason. Why can't it just be because I want to buy all up in my business?

Speaker 2:

I mean that's, that's. Yeah, I mean, some people move like that.

Speaker 3:

If you see me out in public with the person, that's all that should matter.

Speaker 2:

Some people move that way because Certain people.

Speaker 3:

When you post who you with, that's going to make you look attractive to other people because you dating a certain type of person that look at certain way and if you can pull that person, somebody else gonna be like hmm, why does that person want to be with him or her? Let me find out.

Speaker 2:

I mean, to me that happens anyway.

Speaker 3:

Right. So posting who you with kind of opens the door up for more attention.

Speaker 2:

True, or blow your spot up, right. That's possible too. That could be a reason why some people don't like posting the person they with. Okay, some are ashamed of who they with, then why you with them? I mean, I don't know, but that could be the case too.

Speaker 3:

Right Before social media. What did we do?

Speaker 2:

Nothing.

Speaker 3:

You were seen in public.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, nothing.

Speaker 3:

We rode with the windows down. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2:

I mean that's because you didn't have a choice though.

Speaker 3:

I mean, yeah, you did. You could just went out at night time. I know people who only go out with this and that at night time. I know that Ouch hey.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I mean, I don't know man, in my opinion man it's. I would love it is for attention.

Speaker 3:

But when did you have to post me on your social media become that important Like? Has the world changed that much to where you have to do that?

Speaker 2:

I think people placed it in the same category as commitment, like they feel like once you do that, you are all in and committed.

Speaker 3:

Do they know that you can still cheat?

Speaker 1:

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 3:

Like if you can post your significant other and still cheat on the side. You a cold piece of work, boy.

Speaker 2:

My thing is, man, you will never really know somebody real intentional, Like it's, it could be a flex, at the same time as being the opposite though. Like you'll never know, like you could say, okay, you can post your girl and be like and say this is a flex, this my girl, I love her, blah, blah, blah. You know what I'm saying? Give her all the roses you can give her.

Speaker 2:

And at the same time you can post your girl or not post your girl because you don't want the attention, right? But somebody may view that like you said is you don't really care about that person. If you won't post them on social media, I mean, you just will never know somebody's real intention behind doing it and not doing it.

Speaker 3:

But I guess what I'm asking is why is this so important though?

Speaker 2:

It shouldn't be. It shouldn't be that important. Now I can say this it shouldn't be important to no one else than the person that you with.

Speaker 3:

But still, why is it that important? All right, let me ask you this Would you care if your wife posted you?

Speaker 2:

No, I don't care.

Speaker 3:

I don't care if my girl posts me either, because whether she do or don't, that doesn't change our relationship.

Speaker 2:

I'll tell you what I do care about when you get done though.

Speaker 3:

Okay, well, I'm still seen out in public with her. Just because she posts me on her social media doesn't mean that she claims me behind my back.

Speaker 2:

Now that I'm thinking about it, though, is it more so of them wanting to post you, or is it about people that you know on social media to see the fact that they're with you? So, to answer your question, it's more for them than it is for you in the first place. But yeah, I don't care whether I get posted or not. The one aspect of social media I do care about, though, is, like I said before, it's, in my opinion, all about attention. So let's just say, your girl takes a picture of herself, she posts. It gets all of these likes you look good. Blah, blah, blah. That's what I say.

Speaker 2:

Men and women mix of people and then gets upset at you and say you didn't like my photo.

Speaker 3:

That's what I have an issue with. Why do you have an issue with that?

Speaker 2:

Because you sought out attention from everyone else before seeking the attention where you should have got it from in the first place.

Speaker 3:

And then you were like, why does the like matter? So much you didn't have 100 people like it. How?

Speaker 2:

do I have?

Speaker 3:

to. So if I don't like your picture, that means that there's a problem with you. That I have. Yeah, that's what they say.

Speaker 2:

But I'm with you though. But my thing is if you really wanted to know my opinion, maybe you should have asked me first. So maybe, before you put the picture up, send it to me first, so I can say how you look first.

Speaker 3:

I just think, for some reason, if you don't want to do something, there's always something negative behind it, where it could just be. I like my privacy.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, some people just want to be private and that's cool.

Speaker 3:

Like there's a difference between keeping secrets and being private.

Speaker 1:

Now.

Speaker 3:

I will say this.

Speaker 2:

That goes out the window when you're not private about your problems in your relationship. So you can't screen private and then go to social media and say, guess what she just did or guess what he just did. Now that's out the window.

Speaker 3:

Okay if you're in a relationship in real life. Is having single on your profile does that matter?

Speaker 2:

I think. So that aspect, I do think, need to be changed. I mean, you don't want to, and if you don't want to change it, then that's a big issue in my opinion.

Speaker 3:

What if you didn't have no type of status on it whatsoever?

Speaker 2:

I think that's the issue too. The same way that you can post how you was feeling yesterday or where you've been, or a quote that you like or somebody else's, it's just as easy to go change your status. You do have people that will go on social media and get the filter and through people to see who they can't talk to, and if you make yourself accessible, I think that's an issue too.

Speaker 3:

But I mean, even if you don't make yourself accessible, people still hit on you. That's true. So if you don't know how to handle it by saying that you're in a relationship, what difference does it make?

Speaker 2:

Right, but it's not because you made yourself available, though.

Speaker 3:

I mean available, not available. You still don't get hit on, that's true.

Speaker 2:

That's true, but you still did everything you needed to do, especially when you're supreme, go ahead, talk it.

Speaker 1:

All right bro.

Speaker 2:

No. I'm just saying that's like say you get married, you get a ring, y'all get married, you got a ring on the finger. You're going to expect her to wear the ring right?

Speaker 3:

If she works with her hands, she should have it around her neck or something. It has to be on her somewhere. It has to be visible, like visible, huh, why, what you mean? Why I'm asking you. I'm asking why I'm coming in hot. What the hell? No, because that's. What does it say? The ring is a representation of our love, or something like that. So that symbolizes me covering you to some degree. Okay.

Speaker 2:

But she got to have it on her person though.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, because you mine.

Speaker 2:

But the ring isn't going to change any aspect of her character how she behaves when she's not with you, the way she moves when she's out of your sight all the day, bro. And that's the point None of it does, and check this out, have you ever heard that more married women get hit on more than single women? Yeah, why.

Speaker 3:

Because they got something to lose. No, I think that If you're looking at it from my point of view no, not your point of view, I'm just saying from the point of view of somebody outside of your marriage.

Speaker 2:

It's easier for them to deal with somebody that's married because they don't have to deal with nothing else. You know what I'm saying. We can do what we do. You go back home to your husband. I'm going to go do what I do.

Speaker 3:

And things get messed up. You got something to lose.

Speaker 2:

And you absolutely right. But the ring ain't going to protect that. But what the ring does do is people that do have integrity and character and morals and values. They won't even attempt to try to hit on her because she got a ring on her finger. It still filters out something, even though it's still going to happen. And that's the same with the status is, if you're in a committed relationship, people just scrolling by where it says here goes suggestion because of somebody else. You know Right, it's they. Oh yeah, yeah, you know dire, look like this. Let me see what they type it up.

Speaker 2:

You know what?

Speaker 3:

I'm saying Go ahead.

Speaker 1:

You can blimp head this bug boy. You can fit it cap type right now. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2:

You're about to break them head bones. Go ahead but yeah man, they might look at it and be like, oh he in a relationship. Let me, okay, she pretty, let me, all right, let me move on. You feel me, they don't want the drama.

Speaker 3:

So now, or they could be like you know what. I could take him, though, and that may be the case. Yeah, that may be the case. So, basically, what I'm saying is none of this stuff stops anything.

Speaker 2:

No, but it stops some things? I don't think it. Do you do, it, do you do.

Speaker 2:

Only you can prevent, that's true, these holes, and, but it's still about numbers. It's still numbers, though. If you, if you got, if you got 30% of people just talking to anybody, you had 30% of people hitting on you and your status won't stop that. But if it, if it defends against 60% of people actually doing it, it helps. That's all I'm saying. Now, how would you feel about the person you would change in a status or not, if it still says single? And I'll give you one status that everybody has a problem with, but it's complicated. Yeah, I hate being a written. Oh, no, no, no. Status, no, no, no, I'm not saying for me.

Speaker 3:

What I'm saying is I'm.

Speaker 2:

I'm supposed to, but I'm saying if the person you was with it went from single to complicated, you would have a problem with complicated.

Speaker 3:

Not what I wouldn't, because I'm still single. I don't care what you put on your, I don't care what you think, but okay, my, I can't control what you do. But my thing is this I've been in a relationship before where neither one of us had the Relationship status thing right on our page. Mm-hmm, like there was nothing there, right? So I don't really care, because in my opinion it doesn't do anything, because if somebody wants you, they still gonna hit on you.

Speaker 3:

I agree, I know, I agree with you so and plus, if I see you acting single, posting stuff like you single, then you gonna be single.

Speaker 1:

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 3:

I agree I.

Speaker 2:

Do I agree with you? That's just how I feel but at the end of the day, it's not up to you, it's not Just up to them, yeah. Okay it's up to them. I put it if you, if you want to wipe somebody up and they say, that's cool, I love you, we'll get married, but this is what I need you to do for me. It's up to you to do what they asking you for. Yeah, I. Mean I'm and I bet you won't put as complicated.

Speaker 3:

I just alright. The whole is complicated thing.

Speaker 2:

Why was that even?

Speaker 3:

Like what was that in bro?

Speaker 2:

like I don't even know why they even put that on like you, either interrelationship, single or married.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, what I see is complicated.

Speaker 2:

That just mean you in a situation ship if I'm with you and I see it's complicated you will be single.

Speaker 3:

I Probably, I can probably guarantee you that when they have is complicated there, they're not friends anymore, they're blocked. Hmm, that's just my opinion.

Speaker 2:

Possible.

Speaker 3:

He's alone here. I know, bruh, it's rough it out on the mic, bro, I don't know what's going on.

Speaker 2:

He's joints turning gray man.

Speaker 3:

But I Just think we, we, it's too much stock in social media. My social media is not your, your whole relationship. For some people it's they life bro. Like you could post the most happiest pictures in the world. Hell, look at Will Smith oh Sorry, will who? I'm just saying, if you, they post the happy go lucky pictures, sometimes videos and all this other stuff. But Like, just cuz you look happy on social media does not mean you happy in real life, right?

Speaker 2:

That's true, I I agree so.

Speaker 3:

Like I know, certain people who don't post a husband or wife or their kids. They know that they there, the outside world knows that they there, but they don't post them. And there's nothing wrong with it. That doesn't make their marriage or relationship weak or anything.

Speaker 2:

I agree with you, bro. I agree with all of it. That's what I'm saying. I agree if that's what y'all decide to do that's what y'all decide to do. But I'd also think if one person has an issue, it's your job to make sure they don't, especially if you don't care about it.

Speaker 3:

I mean, I feel you, I just think, if okay, say you don't care about social media, right, right. Which I really don't, I know you don't.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I don't. I don't post nothing, I know you don't yeah. I don't man yeah.

Speaker 3:

I know you don't. I was about to say something plausible, but I was about to say catch what I'm throwing. But pause. Damn. You know what I'm saying. But all right, Say you don't care about social media and then your wife asks you why don't you post on social media? Why don't you post me on?

Speaker 1:

social media.

Speaker 3:

And you be like cause I don't post anything? And then she said well, post me. And you be like for what Right? You know, you're my wife.

Speaker 2:

And I can say this though, are you done?

Speaker 3:

I'll let you finish. How do you think she would think you're coming off?

Speaker 2:

She would have a problem and you're going to come off as you actually do care when you say you don't, and that's what I was just going to say. You can't say you don't care about it, but then there's an aspect you do care about. So if you don't care, it wouldn't be an issue. Just post it.

Speaker 3:

What if she didn't like what you posted about her?

Speaker 2:

Tell me what to say That'll kill all that. What do you want me to?

Speaker 3:

say she would be like why? Why I gotta tell you what to say, why I gotta tell you what to say?

Speaker 2:

I'll write it and you prove for it before I post it. You know what?

Speaker 3:

I'm saying it's always going to be a problem.

Speaker 2:

I mean it will be, but if you don't care about it, don't make it more of a problem than it is.

Speaker 3:

I just think it's like back in the day we just went out in public, that's it. Besides, we know, hey, this my girl, this my man.

Speaker 2:

That's it. I think it's more. I think it's such a big thing now for real, because social media made it easier, way more easier, to cheat bro. It links more people together that are never be linked together ever in life. You got instant access to everybody. You got instant access to their life phone numbers. You can FaceTime them. I hate Messenger, bro, for somebody to just hit the video call button on me bro.

Speaker 3:

I'm going to do that one day. Just see what she does.

Speaker 2:

I'm the king of putting my thumb over the camera so my screen be red. You feel me, but I think that's why more people won't their relationships on it, because it's easy to get away with everything.

Speaker 3:

Why would you be friends with a person you're cheating with?

Speaker 2:

Because you don't know them.

Speaker 3:

I'm just saying you don't know who they are. You don't know them Cover all areas, though.

Speaker 2:

You might have met them on there already, though you may talk to them on there, because it ain't just hard copied in your phone for real.

Speaker 3:

You ever I know you haven't put, I don't know I might have, you haven't, you ain't on social media. I get you right there Say you was a season cheater Season, all right, and like you was talking to this one chick and actually you are in the hit before. And then one day you got her Facebook and you see she had a new friend because for some reason you're keeping tabs on her friends. And you see you go to her new friends and your girl pop up. Does your heart fall to your butt and then come back up, or do you just keep going like you know what? All right In the head, she ain't gonna say nothing, dang.

Speaker 2:

At the pit you said you did say cheat, huh, yeah, I mean you might want to contact that person immediately Like hey who sent who the free request? Yeah, bro, like what you doing, man, like nah, but, but see, but that's why social media whack bro. Yeah, yeah, it is man. That's why it's whack.

Speaker 3:

You remember the movie how to Be a Player?

Speaker 1:

Yeah.

Speaker 3:

Do you think he can get away with that right now?

Speaker 2:

Heck no.

Speaker 3:

Man Bruh.

Speaker 1:

Nah.

Speaker 2:

But especially not with these type of phones, bro Right.

Speaker 3:

No, but speaking of how to Be a Player man, this is popped in my head. Why do we act like? Why do we let slide that this man didn't take a shower in between sex?

Speaker 2:

Hmm, didn't show that, did they? No?

Speaker 3:

they did not, bro, they didn't show that he went from one juice box to another juice box, bro, with the same straw, with the same straw. No Niggas was trying to come back there, bro. The final thing on the whole, social media is the bad rock of your relationship. If you find yourself having arguments over social media, would you delete it?

Speaker 2:

I wouldn't have a problem with it.

Speaker 3:

Okay, if you was on social media like that, would you delete your Instagram or Facebook for a boyfriend or girlfriend?

Speaker 2:

It depends On. It depends on what direction we're going and it also depends on if, which you asked me to do, you willing to do to.

Speaker 3:

Okay.

Speaker 2:

I respect that yeah.

Speaker 3:

My thing is, this social media isn't really that important. It's not. It's not at all To end the relationship over.

Speaker 2:

It can be, though, but it shouldn't though. It sure can be, because some people use social media to stay connected, and some people use social media for evil.

Speaker 3:

For evil, for evil. Can you give me one evil thing?

Speaker 2:

A black book, that ain't a black book.

Speaker 3:

I do know certain people who have hit a majority of their Facebook friends. The majority, yes, yes, the majority and that's crazy.

Speaker 2:

All those juice boxes with the same straw.

Speaker 3:

With the same straw.

Speaker 2:

Congratulations.

Speaker 3:

Probably got spit balls. All right, all right. Final thoughts.

Speaker 1:

Probably still had to. Never mind, I'm done.

Speaker 2:

You remember when you used to rip the little straw off the juice box in a piece of the plastic still be stuck on the straw.

Speaker 3:

Yeah, you had to turn it in. I hope you wrapped it up my friend.

Speaker 2:

I hope you kept a piece of it on there, it was always the hard part in the middle yeah, it was Pause. Yeah, All right, man oh man you got any last thoughts, just find one juice box and be happy with it.

Speaker 1:

All right.

Speaker 3:

Drunk Media is not the foundation of your relationship. It is only a place where you can post snippets of it, but it should never come in between two people to where somebody feels like they're being hidden. If that makes sense, whatever. If that makes sense, whatever, because I don't understand why people do that.

Speaker 2:

I mean, I just say social media is what you make it and social media will be whatever you and your partner deem it to be.

Speaker 3:

If you ashamed of the way your person looked, just throw a filter around there, bro. Anyway, motivation, throw a filter around it Smooth skin.

Speaker 2:

I was about to say something, but I ain't gonna do it.

Speaker 3:

Say it no. Say it, bro.

Speaker 2:

No, it was your comment, bro, say it. Hey, bro, look, if you gotta throw a filter on them to post more social media, then why are you okay with going?

Speaker 3:

out with them in public, bro. If it's at night time, I told you. I know he did it.

Speaker 2:

He said it wasn't me, it's those filters.

Speaker 3:

Anyway, you want to go first, or you? I don't have anything. I never have anything, I'm going to make this up. Go ahead. There's nothing wrong with being the problem, as long as you're willing to work on that problem.

Speaker 2:

Okay, one fish, two fish, red fish, blue fish.

Speaker 3:

Nick-knack paddowack, give a dog a bone.

Speaker 2:

Stay off social media and stay at home. Boom 89.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, oh man, they call me Dyer, and I be a boy nine it's the Primi Fuller podcast.

Speaker 3:

Yes, sir.

Speaker 2:

Thank you, we out. Hey man, I don't know dawg, he said, put a filter on.

Speaker 3:

Post all your pictures on there. Dang Get some baby pictures. Just raw face, raw face.

Speaker 1:

Ha, ha, ha Ding dong.

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