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Flowers on Tuesday | Relationship Advice
🤍 Hosted by Maureen Evelyn
You're not asking for too much. You're just tired of being the one who plans, texts first, and wonders where it's going.
Every week on Flowers on Tuesday, Maureen Evelyn and her husband Niklavs answer your real questions about dating and relationships, the ones you'd only ask your group chat at 1am. Age gaps. Red flags. Situationships that won't define themselves. Why he went distant. What to say when you want more and don't want to scare him off.
The difference here: you get both answers. Hers and his. Most dating advice is women guessing about men. On this show, you hear it straight from one.
Maureen is the founder of Alora, a dating and relationship app that's answered over 100,000 questions from women who were done guessing. This is that, out loud, no games, no tactics.
Just warm, direct advice on building the kind of love where he shows up without being asked. Unprompted. On a Tuesday. Flowers in hand.
New episodes every week. Send us your question and we might answer it on the show.
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Flowers on Tuesday | Relationship Advice
Why this dragon fruit strategy makes men obsessed with you
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If you've been trying to change him, hint at what you want, drop suggestions, hope he'll finally "get it" this video is for you.
I'm sharing the dragon fruit rule: why the women who feel calm and chosen in love aren't out here trying to fix, soften, or rewire the man in front of them. They're doing something completely different, and once you see it, you can't unsee it.
Download Alora, my app for women who want to feel calm, chosen, and confident in love: https://alora.love/7dayfreetrial
Trying to change a man is one of the fastest ways to lose yourself, lose him, and lose the peace you're actually looking for. The exhausting part isn't the relationship. It's the second job you've taken on of managing his behavior, his communication, his consistency, his effort. You weren't meant to carry that. And the wild thing is, the moment you stop, everything shifts.
By the end of this video, you'll understand:
Why trying to change him is quietly draining you (even when it "works")
What to do instead when he's not showing up the way you want
How to tell the difference between a man who's growing and a man who's not your match
Why the women who stop trying to fix men end up with the most consistent ones
What "treating him like a dragon fruit" actually means - and why it changes everything
This isn't about settling, lowering your standards, or pretending things are fine when they're not. It's the opposite. It's about seeing him clearly, deciding if he's yours, and stopping the exhausting work of trying to turn him into someone he's not. The calmest, most chosen women in love aren't the ones doing the most. They're the ones who stopped doing what was never theirs to do.
If you've ever felt like you're carrying the whole relationship, overthinking how to "communicate it better" so he finally hears you, or wondering why you feel more like his manager than his partner, save this video.
Watch the video on Youtube here: https://youtu.be/mEL89TFhfco
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