Shedding the Corporate Bitch
Welcome to Shedding the Corporate Bitch – the podcast that challenges the status quo and empowers bold professionals to ditch outdated expectations, rewrite the rules, and rise into leadership on their own terms.
Hosted by transformational coach and unapologetic truth-teller Bernadette Boas, each episode delivers raw insights, unfiltered conversations, and practical strategies for ambitious corporate professionals, executive leaders, and HR trailblazers who are ready to level up—without selling out.
Whether you're navigating toxic cultures, battling burnout, or aiming for that next big role, this show is your weekly dose of motivation, straight talk, and real solutions that get results.
Follow now—and start shedding what no longer serves you, so you can build a career and life that actually fits you.
Shedding the Corporate Bitch
How Your Emotional Pace Shapes Trust, Stress, and Outcomes
This episode dives into one of the most overlooked yet influential leadership skills: emotional pacing—the speed, tone, and intensity of your emotional responses in meetings, conversations, decisions, and crises.
As the transcript reveals, your team’s nervous system mirrors yours, and your emotional tempo has measurable effects on engagement, cognitive capacity, stress levels, and trust. Leaders who master emotional pacing don’t just communicate better—they transform culture quietly and powerfully.
Through research-backed insight, real-world examples, and actionable strategies, this episode breaks down how emotional pacing works, how it impacts high-performing teams, and how you can intentionally shift your tempo to lead with clarity, stability, and credibility.
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Key Talking Points
• Why every leader carries an “invisible metronome” that shapes team performance.
• How your emotional tempo—fast, reactive, calm, or flat—affects trust, engagement, and stress.
• Research from Yale, Stanford, and Gallup on how leaders’ emotional tone influences team outcomes.
• Why your team shouldn’t have to adapt to your emotional pace—and what great leaders do instead.
• How to pre-decide your emotional pace before tough meetings, decisions, or conflict.
• Practical techniques: pausing, breath work, voice pacing, body language calibration, and post-interaction emotional audits.
• How intentional pacing creates psychological safety, resilience, and high performance.
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Key Time Stamps
00:00 – The Leader’s Invisible Metronome
01:00 – Emotional Pacing Defined
02:00 – When Leadership Pace Becomes “Too Much”
03:00 – What the Research Says
06:00 – Overreacting vs. Underreacting
10:00 – Real-World Example: The Underreactive VP
15:00 – How to Deliver Difficult News Stabilizingly
17:00 – Celebrations & Positive Energy
18:00 – High-Pressure Decisions: The Power of Pausing
20:00 – Conflict & Difficult Conversations
22:00 – Techniques for Managing Your Pace
31:00 – Final Leadership Reminder
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Call to Action
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Your team doesn’t just hear your words—they ride your rhythm. Lead with the pace that elevates everyone around you.
