Why Youth Competitions Build Mental Toughness And Real Skill

We explore why competitions are essential training for young athletes and how short, consistent mindset work changes results. A tough Spanish Cup reveals mental gaps, and simple tools like visualization and story reframes fuel a quick rebound to finals.

• competitions as training, not just results
• pressure exposing mental weak links
• the Spanish Cup setback and lessons
• visualization as a core practice
• story reframes to stop spirals
• five-minute mental routines at home
• thinking small first, then expanding goals
• focusing on process over podiums
• using frequent events to gather feedback
• building motivation through controlled wins

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Transcript

Competitions As Essential Training

The Mental Game Revealed

A Hard Lesson At The Spanish Cup

Finding The Weak Link: Mindset

Parents Adding Mental Practice

Visualization And Story Tools

Small Steps, Big Shifts

Results, Motivation, And Next Goals

Compete Often, Focus On Process

Community, Questions, And CTA

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For each sport, when your child wants to become competitive and really get into the competitive aspects of it, it becomes competitions are a necessity, not only as far as to see the levels of your kids, but for the actual training process. And probably in the beginning, a lot of times competing should not even be considered will they win, will they not win? What will their, you know, how will they rank? It has absolutely nothing to do with that because competing is training on its own, right? So when your child is competing, when they are doing competitive sport for what whatever it could be, rock climbing, any stream sport, any mainstream sport, it's a whole training in itself, right? Because the mental aspect, right? The mental training that you need to develop happens a lot of times during these competitions, right? Because that's when all those demons really start to come out. And when your child's mind, the mental toughness is strong enough, they could visualize, they could see what is actually holding them back. And that usually happens during competitions, because when they're training and practicing competitions, it's never the same thing. Because when they're actually brought into a competitive environment, a lot can happen. And one thing that we did notice was when our youngest son, who's been doing quite well on these smaller little competitions, these smaller little competitive circuits, we went to the Spanish Cup, right? Which is all of the top climbers, competitive climbers in Spain in all categories. And my youngest really let his mind just be take over, right? He literally became a servant to his mind. Um he started to go into all the wrong places. Oh my goodness, I've been winning. Everybody expects me to win. Oh my goodness, how are those guys? How about those climbers? They've been climbing for so much longer, they're so much better than I am. So on and so forth, to the point where he literally drove himself into this really weak state of mind. And what happened was he didn't even make it to the finals, and he certainly was able to at least make it to the finals. That, like his level is high enough for that. However, one thing that we did recognize during these competitions and the training, and this is the beauty of competitions, is you start to recognize the weak links, and one of the weakest links is mental toughness, mental training, and mental training, mental everything is 80 to 90 percent of any sport that your child is part of, or anything that we do, more or less, right? It's all in our heads and it's how strong we are there, but that doesn't happen. Nobody's born being a mentally tough person. It takes years of training, but you need to apply that training. So, one thing that we recognize is teams, you know, when you're training with your teams, especially in the beginning, you only have maybe one or two or three hours max several times per week. So you don't really have that time to focus on that mental training. A lot of times it might be like less than 5%, right? When it should be at least 50%. So, as parents, we have that capability of putting it in to their training session. And gratefully, instead of my son going down the rabbit hole of feeling sorry for himself, he actually recognized that it was his mind that brought him to his knees, right? That didn't permit him to move on to the finals. So I've been doing this for years. I've been learning for my own specific for my own personal development, the different way to become mentally tougher and to train myself. So, one thing that is one of the most strongest and probably the most probable thing that has worked for athletes is visualization. So we started to implement different mental toughness exercises, right? So I have an entire podcast on five top mental toughness exercises that you can do with your kids today. All right, and it's super important. I'm I've got actually quite a few of them, five for each, and then one to summarize or to give you like a quick idea of what would work and how to put them all together, and then I break it down. And these are doable. My son is 13, and my 19-year-old has been doing it as well. And it's interesting because we just took one little thing, we just took, we plucked one out, which was another visual, it was a visualization, right? And we had another, we had another competition coming right up. So a couple of things actually. It wasn't just visualization, it was also telling stories. Again, I really go into that, and we chose to do those two things. When we're talking about training, it's less than five minutes, right? Like, because they really can't, a lot of times people don't understand the mental training and all that. So you want to start slow. Five minutes was all that we started with in the beginning, and it was amazing because for the next competition, all that craziness that was going in his head, he was able to reframe it, re-or write a different story about it, and he was able to get into the finals because that's all he actually visualized, right? So that's another thing that I talk about is thinking small versus thinking big because kids have a tendency to go smaller when they think, and that's okay. And I have an entire podcast talking all about thinking big, anyways. So it was amazing because he got into the finals, right? He didn't make it to the podium, which was something that he actually wanted, but he was too scared to visualize and to think like that. However, that gave him so much more motivation to continue the visualization, right? And it's amazing what that what it could do for you, anyways, guys. Competitive competition training, that's what you actually get from, right? So the more competitions you do, the more your child is prepared for the actual competitions. And within a couple of years, if you're also applying all these mental trainings, the sky is the limit. So go for it, put them into all competitions, make sure you do not focus if they're gonna win or not, but make sure you focus on what is important to them and how they are reacting to what is happening because that's what it's all about. It's about that mental toughness and training because you're already doing the work with preparing them for the actual competition with their skills. Now, I would love to hear what are you guys doing? How do you manage this competitive training? What do you think about doing many competitions? I would love to hear your idea of it. Remember, this takes a strategic village to raise athletes, and this is our place to talk all about it, to see what works, what doesn't work. Some for some people, one thing works, for others, it doesn't. This is the place to do it, all right? And also, if you enjoyed this podcast, please like, subscribe, share with your friends. Let's get the conversation going.