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IADGAF
Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy.
This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.)
This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck.
It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.
IADGAF
The People Pleaser’s Guide to Losing Yourself (and How I’m Finding Me Again)
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“Excuse Me, Am I in Your Way — in Life?” - me LMAO
Okay but…seriously. Why am I saying “sorry” to the chair I just bumped into? Why am I overthinking that text I sent 3 hours ago? Why am I mentally writing 12 versions of a message just to make sure no one’s offended by my breathing pattern??
In this episode of Becoming Wild, I’m diving headfirst (with grace) into the beautiful, burdensome art of being too considerate.
I’m unpacking where it comes from (hi, childhood conditioning), why we do it (survival, approval, trauma... whew), and what it actually costs us when we make everyone else’s feelings our full-time job. Spoiler alert: it's EXHAUSTING. Also: you're not alone.
Let this be your loving nudge to stop editing yourself down to be digestible. You are not a disclaimer. You are not too much. And you sure as hell don’t owe anyone an apology for being your full, radiant self.
Take a breath, press play, and let’s start reclaiming our space unapologetically.
#peoplepleaser #peoplepleasing
