33. Tiny Home Living and Setting Boundaries - Hiply Practice with Tudie

I love this conversation with my friend and fellow life coach Tudie. She is feeling tarry about setting boundaries around living, working and bartering with her landlord. We talk about her needs, the universal hiply needs for love, peace and freedom. Listen for the following hiply tools and concepts, tarry feelings point to unmet needs and blurry boundaries. How do I determine what my needs are.  the it's okay technique, and the concept of trying to stop fighting with reality.. The Hiply process says noticing is the first step and Acceptance is the second and most important step. Once we accept what is happening and stop fighting with reality, we create space for the third step - to get creative and try something different.

Because when we heal ourselves we heal the world. Join me in making a difference, one Hiply moment at a time.

Clean pain vs Dirty pain - clean pain is what's actually happening, dirty is the stories we tell ourselves.

Boundaries - what are your red flags, where is the line in the sand, how do you keep the bartering/ landlord/ childcare relationship clean. 

Tudie needs boundaries around space, time and resources with her work/bartering situation. 

Proactive communication - come up with systems so we can respect each other's boundaries. 

3 basic needs of peace, love, freedom. Peace - space, Love - connection and Freedom is space and time to be yourself and do what you want.

My favorite Tudie quote - "This is not utopia, this is earth". And It's okay.

All Tudie wants is to shine a light, to know at the end of the day that she's shining a light.

Judging the judgment is like adding tar to tar, double extra sticky stuff.

Claudia Williams

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