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S3 E8 - Efterårsferie

• Louise Mejborn & Tina Hofmann • Season 3 • Episode 8

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Speaker 1:

We're going to sit here. Try to move your back a bit. Oh, we're going to have to do it. We're going to hold Louis. We're going to put him in the toilet. Yes, you have to sit down. I'm going to have some pepsi, otherwise I can't hold Louis. We have to do it afterwards, louis. How do we do it afterwards? No, hi, louis, can you hear me? And now start. We have to do it afterwards. We have that and we have three little angels to lie down, and lie down on Quiet and calm angels. We don't play that. Are they cats? No, no, we have four of them. We have two. Yes, we have four children and we have four cats. But we have three children and two cats.

Speaker 1:

And think about why I'm being shot from that's because we're through sugar, alcohol, no, and toast and with tomato. But the intention was good. Today I had actually made the snack. I don't normally do that. I'm just going to be out and have some food. It's also good that you suddenly can make the snack, because I was too healthy and then I actually had a little lasagna and tortilla. And what did you get? We got toast. They know what they are and you have to go to so many pans. They're done with toast, yes, and you put tomato in it and you put it in the pan. If you want to see it.

Speaker 1:

When he has a picture, a pose, hello and salt. Do you share it as a story or as a real? Just as a story? No, then you can't see it. It's a sin.

Speaker 1:

No, we're sitting here in the summer house Denmark's biggest storm again in 110 years. You're wearing a jacket. When it's cold, it's just a hot summer. Now there's hot summer over you and I was in the sea in the morning and then it was. It was so hot, you're so hot, you're just running after it and it's cold. I mean it, I really needed to get up in the morning. Really, I've just been waiting for you. It's going to be tomorrow. I'm going to the place. Are you going to the place? Yes, you're just standing up at half past four. Yes, what are you waiting for? What the hell are you waiting for? I'm going to the place where she's coming. Yes, that's it. No, I was down in the pool with us and then Then we went here.

Speaker 1:

What did you do last night? Well, we're on the train now if people want to go. Yes, I actually had children with me at the Fängselmuseet. Do you know that? I don't know. I'm sorry, you're supposed to spend the night with one of the other. Yes, no, but it's actually because the children's time has passed. When we've been up at Fängseled we could really go in and look, and then it's been like this, and also because time has passed and you're looking at it. No, but you know, when there's been food, or I mean, when you get there, I'm going to hear it no, when there's been food or party or Christmas market, they would like to see it there at the museum. But then I think, what the hell are we going to do now? And it's actually mega good, even though they are, yes, six and eight. No, it's actually a good thing. It's actually really good at the museum. Good thing there. Yes, the other recommendation I've slept on their little, what was it called?

Speaker 1:

No, you slept on it yourself. Yes, no, yes, the same as Sara. Yes, everyone knows who Sara is. My friends yes, we were going to party and then we went down to some friends, we went to school together and then I was going to sleep here. I was going to sleep here, I thought it would be fun to sleep there and then we slept on our own Down in the rest room. No, I didn't sleep. No, it was. No, it was nice enough. It was more like we were going to sleep a little at the beginning, when there was a big fog, but then you were going to sleep. No, you were going to sleep, no, no, I slept. I had a summer vacation, maybe not for some good ideas to visit me and then all the possible windmills. No, that's not it. But then the children also had a question when will we come with you to the summer house? We will get that out of this. We have said Five years, yes, and now it was going to be like that. Yes, and we had a good success in summer. Yes, with a success in the overnight Over there.

Speaker 1:

Over there, when we came over to you, I actually had said to it's the nap we're going to bring with us, and then your two fingers and the nap is the least. And then I also said to the nap over there that probably now you're just going to be completely out of the nose and out of the mouth and probably you're not going up now because you're going to get a little wet. And then you go up and then it's like that and we can just run around. So you run around. I got it right away, because then one of you was like that, you know. Then we saw the kids playing Wooo, then they're all scared. Then I was like there's a monster down there, all run a little up and then it became a little bit like that. But they're sleeping now. Everyone should live. So it ended up being a lot of fun. Everyone should just find each other.

Speaker 1:

It was a little bit chaotic and we stood like this. Iroa and Maya, we like to scream high because that's when it's when we grow up. When you do it, the heart does it like that. It's standing in the breeze. Yes, it's like when you're going to be a flyer, if you can imagine that. Yes, that's what happens when the kids come over and stand on a level of two. Yes, as you know, normally it's too many others, but then it just gets stronger in our head. We have a problem with the strength of a sock-mouth in our head. It just stands on the bench. It's always played all the time. No, no. But Mila's also said I think that's a little high now. Hmm, hmm, let's see how that is. But it's like uh, what is it? It's just burning. I'm not standing now on the wind. I think it's actually going really well, but now we're just one day. I think it's actually going well, yes, uh.

Speaker 1:

Then you should ask me what I've done. I've only ever trusted once that we could go home if we could just lie down. Well, that's what he's been up to. Yes, that's true, there's a lot of respect. I don't know if my children. I've probably trusted them a little too many times. I have to admit, I'm also a mother and I know all the places where you're standing. You don't have to trust your children. You have to uh, uh. They're going to be disappointed by your feelings. So now, when you're in the voice of the feelings, you can go on to tell your children how they're going to get out of there, how they're going to get out of there, and then I start to trust them. Yes, with me going home. Yes, but I always get that yes, yeah, what are you going to ask me now? No, what have you done wrong?

Speaker 1:

Peter? He was a father, and then we had him up to fly Not that I was with him, but we gave him a flight tour Because he had talked about me and Peter in 2006. When we were, you must have seen how long they've been together, but we did this in October 2006. How long ago was that? I don't remember. I think it was about 17 years ago, yes, then he talked about flying helicopters. You said it was a helicopter. No, it wasn't a helicopter, but I couldn't just make it, so it became a plane where I could sit for two. He was up to do that. He was up to do that. I thought you were going to go with me. No, I mean, I had probably in my mind a thing. It could be that there were four seats. It was useless, yes, but it wasn't. No, it wasn't. I'm really happy for him getting the tour and he got the experience. He was happy.

Speaker 1:

It was a hard thing to give away. I can just remember, if people can remember the time, I was 40. I can't remember that, but those who have just heard the podcast can remember how I was a little off when I was 40. Peter was a completely different person. He was more calm and I thought it was a little hard to be 40. I thought it was hard to be there and get some gifts. So it was just like saying you shouldn't come, just let me come. And then I wasn't scared because someone wouldn't come and I shouldn't send anyone to be there, but I could take care of them. I need to send something, just send something. It's not a problem to send something, yes, but you should not send anything. And then you're there. So he was happy.

Speaker 1:

It was a little gift. It seems like there's something missing. No, there was just a few friends passing by. They asked if they had to look at them and it was really nice, but it could be a little difficult when but it's not everyone who has it, no, and then I think, what power does Tristan have? Is he in balance with that? And am I in balance? I think Peter should go around. He should go around the world. You should go around the world, you should go around the world, yes.

Speaker 1:

And then it becomes like this I think so too. If it hadn't been for the day, I would have just had a birthday only four. It's a little bit of a gift for the day that the children are sorry that they are with guests, I think. What do you think about the adults? I think you're right. We're not adults with guests. No, so that's just what we're used to. So that's what it means when you start to come to guests and then you have to be with them on the couch, and it's a bit exhausting to be with them, and then you have to make food, or have you ordered food? That's really just. You should have done it earlier. You should have done it earlier. You should have done it earlier. And then it becomes like this what are you stressing about? I think it's. It's like this.

Speaker 1:

The other day I say to myself can we get a vacuum before someone comes? Why do you need a vacuum? Why are there things in the woods? Is it stupid? No, it looks really weird. There's a little bit of a difference. They don't see it, yes, but they do. I know they look under my eyes. Seriously, I think it's really weird. I think so too, but it's just that I say it high, I can hear it. Well, it sounds stupid. Why the hell is it so exhausting? Then it's up, but how the hell do you get away from it? I don't know.

Speaker 1:

I write with a follow-up. The other day we were sitting and writing some reels Between the two of us. She's sending a reel. That's what you have to communicate with. Yes, you send a video of the dog and the cat. And then we're sitting and it's like a forever video how you can get how you've spiraled your children through trauma. If you didn't get control of it, you would have come through generations Really low and then Low tongue. It just made you a little bit of a tongue and then you're back in the back of your tongue.

Speaker 1:

What does it say? What do we talk about? That's not true. Well, I'll send memes to each other. I should say something, but it's just about Clipkondi. What the hell did we talk about? We talked about party guests. No, it's completely different. What the hell did we talk about? You can just see how it's been said. But it's a nice sentence. It's just a nice sentence. It's a nice sentence. I completely forgot what do you think it says? It's not that important. Well, I'll just say it In relation to the role of parents, how to be and how to control their children's trauma.

Speaker 1:

What do you mean by growing up? You give that to the children and they have to share it with you when they grow up. It's so down and then it's like what do you do? What do you do? How do you control it? You have to write and she also writes a little bit. It can't be written to her because she's a coach. It can't be written to her. But yes, I would like to answer, but you have to give her 5000. No, then it can be just as much. And then it was just as important as I thought. No, but it's a kind of constatation. And then how do you share it with them? Fuck, I think it's hard. It's so hard. How the hell do you get away from it? How do you become a better mother? How do you stop being so stressful?

Speaker 1:

I feel a little bit at the same time. You just have to say a little bit at the same time. But at the same time I also think that for each generation that goes, we also get a little better at the same time. That says hi to you too, because I'm French, but hi to you is what you have to do. You have to fall for it. You do some stupid things that have to be commented a little too fast, or commented a little too much, or some things that you know are stupid, but at the same time we are more together with our children, and then we can do so many other good things. Yes, we have to be a little more lenient towards ourselves. Yes, I think so too.

Speaker 1:

I also think this fairy is a little bit of a perfect mother. No, it's not. I mean, I'm a French fairy, a completely crazy fairy, and I haven't done that. No, do you have that? No, but there is also the thing that we have to say that from the last time we have actually taken the middle of it, we have actually taken the medicine from Tristan. He has been out of the medicine now, in the middle of it now, and it just wants to. We just see our son Suddenly. We actually see his eyes, that he is happy, he is like he can I mean, he can't really flip it but he got some really sick red red blood and you know, it just became so hard to be in that we thought now we have to take care of each other. And then, when we take the medicine from him, the last of his sins and to now, just a moment, we can see that he has that. He can smile and he can be humorous in any way and he has been open to being with people.

Speaker 1:

I think I'm actually all scared. We have a medicine for three years, and it's not to say that the room was built on one day but he was completely fine. No, he was not. But suddenly he's woken up, or what do you say? He can feel it himself, but try to think about all the side effects that you have had on the new medicine and that I had on the new medicine. We can give an expression for I have it like this it's just a child, right, I know he's a big child, but at the same time he's a little heavier, but he doesn't really feel it. No, he's that, and then it will probably come out in some kind of breast milk.

Speaker 1:

Yes, I think it's actually very scary and you know, we ask the teacher at the school, in relation to all the children there on the new medicine, how many of them are really in it. But that's not really what they're doing now. They're on it but it's not really where it works optimally. No, okay, but there's more to it than you think. When you think about it, then I just don't want to. I don't mean to say that I don't have a statement of a medicine or a certain kind of medicine. You can have your own attitude to it, but I can just feel that and it's certainly a useful thing for him to come back to school and that he can sit down and listen.

Speaker 1:

But I really think about it. You can't give a child medicine to sit in a if you want to see it as a box. You can't drop it down in a box with medicine and then expect that it will make the lines. So probably give the medicine as well and then sit down and do the line-up. I don't know what the line-up is and if I don't divide, I can't do it in a row. I can't do it 22 times 717, I don't know what to do. I can't do it in a row, as you said, because I've been with Peter for a long time and it's the worst for me at home when I ask people how old are you? Yeah, but you know what. I'm 42, so it can be, you can do it. It can't be 32. Exactly, I'm 42, so it can be 32. I can't do it in a row and I'm so bad at it.

Speaker 1:

If you don't want to, I can teach you how to take a pill and then and that's what I think if you want to give the child medicine to be in it, if you can't give the medicine to us and then do things if they're sad. I'm still sad, I'm still sad, I'm still taking the medicine for life, but I can still. I still can't do the food. Why don't you let the food be planned? I have to. So I have to have a toast if possible, but honestly, with things that are much sadder, I still can't do it. So I really started thinking well then you give them the medicine because they can be in it. They can't be, and I know they have to be in school and they have to be focused, but they can't sit still, so they have to help with it.

Speaker 1:

How is it going with the school now? Well, he's got it hard and it's his fault and he's not stupid. He's got a dog, but he has so much to sit in that class with. They've been 27 children in the class, 75 children. Yes, they're 77 children in a class and it can be a storm, but it's very long and it's sad. He works fine in the free quarters, but he goes around a few more years, but what more years? Because I don't know what I'm looking at and feel it, and but I think well, yes, I know I can go with you, after my own understanding. That's my phone number and I'm going to bed Now 22, 44.

Speaker 1:

Well, he's got a lot of children and that's the sense you have to let him say everything. You have to let him say when you're going to bed and you're not going to bed and you don't know when it's going to help. Well, that's a good thing when Instagram is down, but there's more time, you'll have more, I think. Just go and get the rest of the water. Well, that's what's going on. But when there's something I'm giving, I'm not giving you Instagram, but now, so now. So, yes, it's about getting back to the medicine. So it's just that we have a much more happy ring after the sphere has gone better and there have been discussions and fights, but that's just what everyone thinks.

Speaker 1:

And then it's more of a muskeleton than it is in the family. You can't see me doing a ghost sign or what it's called. What's it called? You know? Well, yes, a situation sign, a situation, ghost orientation, canine ear or what, but it's better than it is. But I just had a tooth better, or, and I also think Peter is someone else who talks, so it's also a bit harder to be in. And what can you also say about that? That before maybe one uncircle was left. Then I became an I-U-Wender. Then I became an I-U-Wender with children, and then it was done. But now it's better with the triplets and then I can play better, and then it's done.

Speaker 1:

Yes, and Sylvester also suffers in another way. One thing I think we should have in mind is that now I have the idea of having a good sleep. Then Mila, stine, the eldest, and then Sylvester, my youngest, who has to sleep together with the young girls, and then Mila, who has to sleep with you, and then they lie down on the bed and just to see how long Sylvester has been in bed. Mila has a cold body and wants to. Yes, but you know he also sleeps in other places and I should understand if he has a cold body. It's normal to have that. But Sylvester, he's a bit.

Speaker 1:

Mila, try it now and then try to get help from each other, and it actually helps to get it better. He's lying there saying these things and he's keeping his mind. I think it's just great that he can do that and that's because we've said to Sylvester many times just let him be, it's not enough, pull each other in, and then you know, you can just feel that he's a bit long and at the start Mila doesn't take it in, but he takes it in, but then it's better to be there Three minutes. So in my head it's been five hours, but it's been three minutes, and then he actually falls down and then they just lie down and listen and then he's in my imagination. No, it's really good.

Speaker 1:

I'm really happy that that you don't have to be afraid of the fairies. Of course, I still think that you're out of routine and I think that's still important. It's hard, but that's not why I'm afraid of the fairies. I really used to be afraid of them. No, it's still real. Well, I can understand that, yeah, but was that what you could hide from? Yes, it's strange that you don't have to go up to something. I think that a good day can be a bit long. That's why I'm taking them to the prison instead, if you could, because I think we'll be broken up. We can't just do things like that. We can do it with the Sylvester, and I think that the hands generation is broken by Corona. I think that Sylvester and Milas are free. They haven't been updated. No, they go to the first class, no, second class. Tristan goes to the third class. He has experienced some things under Corona that he has experienced.

Speaker 1:

What was it called? They were separated from each other. Yes, exactly, they were just in the children's prison at that time. Did the children's prison go to Nullle? No, they both went to Milas. Yes, nullle went to Milas. They didn't go to the prison with masks. They could have gone to the prison if they had. Yes, they could have. They went to the prison with masks. They went to the prison with masks. Yes, and it's good.

Speaker 1:

You bought a prison in Milas. Yes, but you have to go to the prison. It's like an old-fashioned prison, I don't know. It's like a school. You have to see it. It's a bit hard. At that time it was a bit hard.

Speaker 1:

Yes, at that time you were colored in my underwear. It was actually yellow. Yes, it was pink. Yes, it was just yellow. Now we are colored in your underwear. What did you say? We will do that. What was yellow and black? It was black to the Milas.

Speaker 1:

Tristan went to the prison with his color underwear. What the hell is that? There was no soap. You also colored your underwear with chlorine. Yes, I remember you were colored in the upper terrace, can you? Yes, you can. You stood and casted it so it became flat.

Speaker 1:

Yes, I can On the plane. I would have been sad if I were a mother. Yes, it's a sure experience. I can hear you. I can hear you. I can remember that now. I remember that when I was growing up. I can't tell you that. Why are you standing there? Hold on, I don't know if you have ever had a child when you were a child. We just talked about it. We didn't have the power to cast this.

Speaker 1:

I read an article. What was it Yesterday With a woman? She had a child when she was a little girl. She loves her children all over the world. She would be so sorry if something happened to her. I'm curious to know what's going to happen. If she knew how it was, she wouldn't have had a child.

Speaker 1:

No, I have to say I can feel that there are people who write in the inbox you want to have children. If you know how it was, I write to people that I actually want to. You want to have a child. No, I don't. I don't want to have children. I don't want to have children.

Speaker 1:

They have already learned a lot, it's true, but how hard was it? I don't hate having children. It's so hard. I didn't know it was so hard. I have more freedom to be myself. I can't take my freedom, but when I said that it was only when we had to give out the 100. There was only 6 left. Yes, I have just learned a lot.

Speaker 1:

We shouldn't have made this podcast. We shouldn't have made this podcast. We had not been so thirsty, we had not been given the 100. We have not been given the 100. I have been so better. I have been so much better. You also thought I was super. Some of the better things have been. We had not been super. We should have not talked about it. I don't think we had that. We should have been scared.

Speaker 1:

It's just to say that they feel like they are good friends. You think that the way they are made is just People get to see them in a nice way. They look perfect, lovely and it's also, but they feel like they are good friends. Yes, it's because they look so happy. They look so happy. They look so happy. It's so cute. It's like they are inside a holed bag. I think they are inside.

Speaker 1:

No, it's true. Yes, do you think it's brave to stand up? Yes, I also feel that I can understand young people's concern. When you get a diagnosis and you think I have 22 children, I have to agree when you know it's so brave. I'm sorry to say, I know it well. It's not sure if the child is pregnant. No, there is a big risk of the child being pregnant. 40% of the child is pregnant. Yes, it is, and I know that it's not so sure if you have a husband who has it, but the certainty is great. The certainty is great. I just heard about the podcast with Annu Saran where Metaconelli said I can hear she has three children. The two of them have it now, and where she is pregnant.

Speaker 1:

I don't know, but I think now I have two children the one with the H it's sure we are three siblings and the one with the H, and therefore there is also something about me that thinks can it be true that we all need medicine to take care of the kids? Can it be true that we can be full of food on a whole family? If we don't have it, then there is no such thing as the child is pregnant. And now it's not because I'm going to, it's because of my own arrangement. But the H is also going to be something. Can you give me an opinion? It should be strange if we all could not fit in the boxes Because we have a hole in the head. Is there a hole in the head? I think there is also a time when it comes to the H.

Speaker 1:

It's simply different from person to person. You're not just talking about the super power, but it's also invalidating. We are missing the diagonal to create the overview of the world. You can see that we are different, but it's the same thing. We box, but it also depends on how the wheelchairs are around. I'm thinking about school or work or what kind of adult you are, and there are so many things to say about it. I agree with you. I still think that when you look at, you can look at. It should be a summary of the background of the sphere.

Speaker 1:

I think there is also something to say about medicine. The sphere is a bit smaller. I think there are thoughts about it. I'm not sure about medicine. It gives me peace, but you just have to say as you say, what should you say? Yes, I think it's possible.

Speaker 1:

Tristan, who I saw as a four-year-old who had just forgotten his eyes and was out in the burning sea. I see that now. He's now a little bit old. There's some time for him to save himself. I'm not going to let him save himself again. There is something that has been taken from friends and social relationships because he has been so into himself, and then I can just get a little bit confused about what. There are also things in our lives that we take medicine today which it dulls you, which is it's a form of you take something for your bad luck. Can you really give it to children? No, but it's wrong, because I just hope that some of you are sitting there You're saving me from all your mistakes. I don't want to feel it's wrong. I'm not going to tell you if it works for me and blah, blah, blah. I could just say that it doesn't work for Trista. We'll try to see what happens. We've given her a chance in the past two years. How do you say that? A gift? I just I just see some other eyes today than I did just for a year.

Speaker 1:

Since we started the podcast, it's actually been over 7 years now, because it was actually after the atmosphere we were over, where we pressed the button. No, it can't be. No, we can also talk about the atmosphere, because it could be exciting to hear what we're doing. Nothing, we were in the room alone. We started the season. I'll talk to one of you who's heard it all both of you for two months. Well, when she didn't know that at all, either If you're right so, or maybe something went wrong. Well, I just have to work on the Sunday as usual. Yes, all the time you always have to work on Sunday. You know what? It's a bit scary. There's no reason to work on Sunday. Or the tax office. It's a good thing. It's going to be legal in the city. We just don't have to play. We can't do that. Then we have to read something to play. It's a big deal. The ending I think it was a bit fun to play with Uncle Reia today, a very high-pitched game.

Speaker 1:

I don't know if anyone has tried it. I want old pills, I want pizza. I think it was a high-pitched game. How can you play with that? It's not going to be that high-pitched. Well, so it's your children's fault. No, but you have more children. It's more high-pitched. No, the bridge is higher. I think it's the uncle Reia. I think it's higher. I think it was a lot. When the children were going to school, I went out and got a toilet paper. I thought it was a game. I thought it was a game. I'm not going to play with the bridge. I'm going to get a mother's pillow. I thought it was the stress. You didn't think that it's because I played it so many times. I don't know if it's the bridge, it's not Uncle Reia's bridge. We have to play. I think we have to play and play the rules, and we can't do that. We can't do that. So we have to get back to the children. Yes, we can do that, we can do that. They look out there forever.