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Fight Night | Pastor Chris Kouba

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Every relationship fights.
The question is not *if* you’ll have conflict. The question is whether your conflict pushes you closer together…or farther apart.

In this message from Song of Solomon 5–6, Pastor Chris Kouba walks through one of the most relatable moments in the entire book: a fight between two people who deeply love each other. Through their conflict, Scripture gives practical wisdom for communication, expectations, forgiveness, reconciliation, and fighting for your relationship instead of against each other.

This message covers:
* Why conflict in marriage and relationships is normal
* How unmet expectations create tension
* The difference between responding and reacting
* Letting God work in the middle of conflict
* Why forgiveness matters
* How healthy couples repair quickly
* Fighting *with* your spouse against the real enemy

Whether you’re dating, engaged, married, healing from relational hurt, or praying for future relationships, this message is a reminder that conflict does not have to destroy intimacy. God can use it to deepen it.

📖 Scripture References:
Song of Solomon 5:2–6:13
Ephesians 6:12
James 1:19–20
Ephesians 4:26–32
James 1:2–4

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