“Your Spouse Is Not Your Enemy”
Even the most loving marriages go through seasons where everything feels tense. Arguments repeat, emotions run high, and it’s easy to start seeing your spouse as the problem. But the truth is: you’re on the same team. In this episode, we dig into why couples slip into “us vs. them” thinking and how to break the cycle.

We talk about the importance of emotional safety, healthy communication, and choosing connection over defensiveness. You’ll hear practical tools for slowing down conflict, listening with curiosity, and remembering the strengths you fell in love with in the first place. When you learn to fight the problem instead of each other, marriage becomes lighter, more joyful, and more resilient. This episode is a gentle reminder that your spouse is not your enemy — they’re your partner in life, love, and growth.

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Why do marriages fail?
 Most people say the usual: poor communication, lack of intimacy, financial strain, trauma, infidelity. But what if these are only symptoms? What if the real problem isn’t the issues… but the individuals behind them?

In this powerful episode, The Agent of Failure in Marriage, we expose the truth: Every marriage has an agent. You are either an agent of failure or an agent of success. There’s no middle ground.

This podcast is not about theory — it’s about transformation. We take you beyond the surface and into the heart of the matter: the daily choices, behaviors, and mindsets that either build a joyful, fulfilling marriage or slowly tear it apart.

 What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

• The Hidden Reality of Marriage Failure
  • Why money, sex, and communication issues are not the root cause of divorce.
  • How everyday attitudes — pride, silence, neglect, criticism — make one spouse the silent destroyer of the relationship.
  • The emotional, mental, spiritual, and even health consequences of living with an agent of failure.
• The Emotional Torture of Being with an Agent of Failure
  • Walking on eggshells daily.
  • Feeling invisible, unloved, or emotionally abandoned.
  • Self-doubt and loss of identity.
  • The silent erosion of love, safety, and trust.
• The Mental and Physical Toll
  • How unresolved marital conflict leads to stress, depression, and anxiety.
  • Why toxic marriages increase risks of high blood pressure, weakened immunity, and even shorter life expectancy.
  • The psychological damage of living in constant conflict or emotional coldness.

 If You Realize You’re the Agent of Failure…

This episode gives you practical, faith-driven steps to reverse the damage:

• Acknowledge the truth — stop denying or blaming.
• Humble yourself — the hardest words are also the most healing: “I’m sorry. Please forgive me.”
• Seek help — counseling, accountability, spiritual guidance.
• Build new habits — replace criticism with affirmation, withdrawal with pursuit, selfishness with service.

You’ll also learn practical tools like:

• Daily gratitude practices.
• Weekly check-ins with your spouse.
• Small but powerful acts of kindness that rebuild trust.

 If You’re Already the Agent of Success…

The greatest danger is complacency. This episode warns against neglect and teaches you how to sustain joy and intimacy long-term by:

• Continuing to pursue your spouse through intentional acts of love.
• Protecting your marriage from external threats (busyness, social media, toxic influences).
• Celebrating small wins and keeping laughter alive.
• Keeping God at the center — the third strand that makes your union unbreakable.

Marriages don’t collapse because of circumstances alone. They collapse because of the choices of the husband and wife.

So ask yourself:
  Am I the agent of failure in my marriage… or the agent of success?

Listen to this episode now, and begin the journey of transforming your marriage — one choice at a time.

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Are you preparing for a wedding… or preparing for marriage?
In this eye-opening episode, we tackle the most overlooked but life-defining question every engaged or dating couple must answer: “Do you even know why you’re getting married?”

🎯 Whether you're engaged, seriously dating, or simply desiring a God-honoring marriage, this episode will challenge your mindset, break myths, and equip you with the tools and truth to build love that lasts.

🎙️ Hosted by a global marriage trainer and award-winning pre-marriage coach with over 40 years of experience, this 30-minute episode reveals why preparation beats passion — and how ignorance about marriage can lead to divorce, disillusionment, or disaster.

🧠 In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

✅ Why your “why” for marriage matters more than your feelings
 ✅ The 5 silent dangers of entering marriage without purpose
 ✅ Why most marriages fail—and how you can avoid their mistakes
 ✅ How to discern if you’re marrying potential or proven patterns
 ✅ What preparation looks like for emotional, spiritual, and covenantal success
 ✅ Red flags when your partner resists premarital growth
 ✅ The biblical blueprint for building a marriage that mirrors Christ
 ✅ How coaching and intentionality can save you from heartbreak later

📌 Episode Breakdown:

• 0:00 – The Marriage Mistake Most People Make
• 2:30 – What Does It Really Mean to Know Why You're Getting Married?
• 6:00 – 5 Dangers of Not Knowing Why You’re Getting Married
• 12:00 – Modern Marriage Motives That Lead to Regret
• 16:00 – Why So Many Marriages Fail (and How to Stop Yours From Being Next)
• 19:00 – Why Preparation is Non-Negotiable
• 22:00 – When Your Partner Doesn’t Want to Prepare — Now What?
• 25:00 – The Life-Saving Benefits of Pre-Marriage Coaching
• 28:00 – Final Words & Your Pre-Marriage Mindset Shift

📖 Scriptures Mentioned:

• Proverbs 24:3 – “Through wisdom a house is built...”
• Ephesians 5:25 – Marriage is a reflection of Christ’s love
• Amos 3:3 – “Can two walk together unless they agree?”
• James 1:5 – Ask God for wisdom in decisions

💬 Listener Call to Action:

If this episode challenged or helped you, don’t scroll away.
 ✅ Drop a comment: “I choose to prepare for a marriage, not just a wedding.”
✅ Share this with your fiancé, your friends, or your small group.
✅ Subscribe for weekly relationship and marriage insight that can change your future before it begins.

Because marriage without preparation is a setup for heartbreak.
But with wisdom, vision, and faith — you can build a marriage that doesn’t just last, but thrives.

🔔 Subscribe now for more:

• Christian pre-marriage coaching
• Marriage transformation stories
• Relationship growth tools
• Emotional and spiritual connection strategies
• Real talk for couples who want more than just a ceremony

Love doesn’t make marriage work. Preparation does.
🎧 Let this episode be your first step toward a covenant that endures.

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Are you married, but feeling alone?
Do you and your spouse share a house, bills, and parenting — but not your hearts?

This episode is for couples who feel more like roommates than soulmates. Whether you’re 20 or 55, if the passion has faded, the late-night talks have stopped, and your marriage is surviving but not thriving — this episode will awaken your connection and give you the tools to turn things around.

🎙️ Hosted by an award-winning marriage coach with over 40 years of experience, this session offers faith-based and psychological insight into why emotional disconnection happens — and how to fix it before it’s too late.

🔍 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

✅ The 5 silent killers of emotional intimacy in marriage
 ✅ Why many couples become emotionally distant and stay stuck
 ✅ The difference between physical presence and emotional presence
 ✅ Signs your marriage is in "roommate mode"
 ✅ How small habits, screens, and unspoken pain sabotage closeness
 ✅ Real steps to rebuild emotional safety and restore warmth
 ✅ Why prayer, love languages, and micro-connection moments matter
 ✅ How to reconnect weekly with emotional check-ins (and what to ask)

🧠 Key Takeaways You Can Apply Immediately:

• Simple strategies to rebuild trust, affection, and communication
• Daily and weekly tools to increase emotional safety
• Real advice on how to touch without expectation
• How to speak your spouse’s emotional language (not just yours)
• How to invite God back into the center of your marriage

📌 Perfect For Couples Who Are:

• Feeling emotionally distant or disconnected
• Arguing less but also loving less
• Constantly busy but rarely bonded
• Struggling with unspoken resentment
• Longing for deeper emotional and spiritual intimacy

📖 Featured Scriptures:

• James 1:19 – “Be quick to listen, slow to speak…”
• Ecclesiastes 4:12 – “A cord of three strands is not easily broken.”

💬 Listener Call to Action:

If this message spoke to your heart, don’t just nod and move on.
 ✅ Drop a comment: “We choose to reconnect.”
✅ Watch or listen with your spouse this week.
✅ Share this episode with another couple who needs hope.
✅ Subscribe for weekly emotional & spiritual marriage coaching that works.

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Ever wondered if conflict could be the key to a stronger, more fulfilling marriage? This episode of the Married Life Management Podcast challenges the traditional view of disagreements as obstacles and explores their potential to deepen connection and love within relationships. As someone who has navigated the complexities of marriage alongside my wife, I, Coach Chindah Chindah, share personal stories that illustrate how embracing our differences has brought us closer. Unpacking insights from the renowned Gottman Institute and the Journal of Family Psychology, we delve into why ignoring conflicts can spell trouble and how facing them head-on can transform your partnership into a resilient and harmonious bond.

Navigate the path from conflict to connection with practical strategies and heartfelt advice. Discover the importance of creating a safe space for open and honest communication, where respect and understanding take the forefront. This episode highlights the power of empathy and self-awareness, allowing couples to see misunderstandings as opportunities for dialogue, leading to deeper emotional intimacy. By learning to appreciate personality differences and leveraging them to foster growth, you'll gain tools to resolve issues without causing harm, ensuring that your love endures and thrives in the long run.

Turn challenges into opportunities for growth and unity with actionable steps from my book, "Conflict to Connection." This episode not only promises to strengthen your marriage but also invites you to join our community for ongoing support through Married Life Management's resources, including books, articles, and online courses. Engage with us on social media and in our free Telegram groups, where you can find encouragement and updates to help you build an extraordinary and satisfying marriage. Let conflict be the catalyst for a more loving and connected relationship.

I will like to continue the support and ensure your marriage soars each day as God has designed it to be. This is why I am inviting you to join:

• Our 'Love Without Drama' Couple Marriage Satisfaction Masterminds for continuous marriage renewal throughout your life together by clicking Here. Don't settle for less.
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

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On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about why we must not avoid dealing with all sorts of traumas in our lives. 

Trauma can be an extremely distressful and upsetting experience that has lasting consequences in an individual's life. Recognizing and responding to its impact is essential in moving forward and healing; unfortunately, many avoid their trauma out of fear, shame, or a lack of understanding on how best to handle it.

Ignoring trauma in marriage can be extremely damaging. Unaddressed trauma from either partner can create conflict, communication breakdown and an overall lack of emotional intimacy - making it crucial that both partners identify and address any trauma intentionally to ensure a strong and fulfilling relationship.

Identification of trauma can be a challenging task, but it is crucial that you first recognize that you have been exposed to it and its effect. Watch for patterns of behaviour, emotions, or thoughts related to trauma; seek support from a therapist or support group and seek counselling services as necessary in order to work through your experience and develop coping mechanisms.

Finding solutions proactively is also essential, meaning actively searching out resources and support systems to assist with healing from trauma, such as therapy, self-care practices or support groups. Keep in mind that healing from trauma takes time, patience and perseverance - you need not do it all alone!

Avoiding trauma may seem tempting, but doing so could have lasting repercussions for individuals and relationships alike. It is vitally important that trauma be identified and addressed deliberately in order to move forward and build healthy and fulfilling relationships - with proper support and resources, healing from trauma is achievable.

I believe after listening to this episode, you will identify your trauma and fins solutions for them.

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On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about Anger And Disagreement Is Good In Marriage.  I share why we must be reflective and intentional in dealing with anger and disagreement because spousal anger and disagreements can be caused by various factors, including communication breakdown, financial issues, differences in priorities, trust issues, differences in parenting styles, mental health issues, and stress and fatigue. By understanding the root causes of conflict, couples can work together to resolve conflicts and maintain a healthy and happy relationship.

Anger can be a good thing in marriage if it is managed and expressed in a healthy and constructive manner. Here's why:

1. Helps Identify Issues: Anger can be a signal that something is not right in the relationship. By acknowledging and addressing the underlying issue, couples can work together to improve their relationship.
2. Encourages Communication: Anger can prompt partners to communicate and express their feelings, which can lead to a better understanding of each other's perspectives.
3. Facilitates Conflict Resolution: When anger is expressed in a healthy and respectful way, it can lead to a resolution of conflicts and help to strengthen the relationship.
4. Promotes Growth: Working through conflicts and disagreements can help couples grow and mature as individuals and as a couple.
5. Improves Emotional Intimacy: When partners communicate and work through conflicts, they can deepen their emotional connection and intimacy.

It's important to note that anger can only be a positive thing in marriage if it is managed and expressed in a healthy manner.  Couples can benefit from learning healthy communication skills and anger management techniques to help them effectively express their emotions and resolve conflicts.

I believe after listening to this episode, you will agree with me that anger and disagreement is not completely evil emotion. You can use it to thrive in your marriage and all its benefits are for grabs for both parties in the marital union.

I will like to continue the support and ensure your marriage soars each day as God has designed it to be. This is why I am inviting you to join:

• Our 2023 Couple Marriage Satisfaction Masterminds for continuous marriage renewal throughout the year 2023 by clicking Here. Don't settle for less.
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

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 On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about EThe Difficult Spouse In A Difficult Marriage! 
What are the SIGNS OF A DIFFICULT POUSE?

It is possible to have a difficult spouse in many ways. Each person will experience different signs. These are signs that a person is likely to be a difficult spouse.

1. Emotional or verbal abuse. A spouse that is difficult may use verbal and emotional abuse to control or manipulate the other. This may include criticizing, belittling, or insulting their partner as well as gaslighting and making them question their reality.

2. Control and manipulation: A spouse with a difficult relationship may try to influence their partner's thoughts, actions, and decisions. You might see them using manipulation techniques such as withholding information or affection, threatening to end your relationship, or making you feel guilty for not doing what you want.

3. Unresponsive and uncooperative: A spouse with a difficult relationship may be unresponsive, uncooperative, and not willing to communicate, make decisions, or solve problems. They may be unwilling to hear their partner's viewpoint, dismiss their concerns, or compromise or find solutions.

4. Infidelity: A cheating spouse can either be emotionally or physically abusive. This can cause great emotional pain and distrust in the relationship.

5. Inability to feel empathy or compassion: A spouse who is not able or willing to help their partner may lack compassion and empathy. They may be indifferent or disinterested in their partner’s happiness or well-being or even enjoy causing them distress.

6. Inconsistency. An inconsistent spouse can be difficult to predict what their partner will do or how they will react. This can lead to uncertainty and insecurity within the relationship.
It is important to recognize that every relationship and each person are unique. If you believe your spouse is acting out of control, it is important that you seek professional help to resolve the problems in your relationship. Remind yourself that change is possible and many couples can improve their relationship through counseling, therapy, and other support.

Listen, subscribe, share, and let us learn about marital transformational tips together.

• Our Couple Intimacy Masterclass is here. Click  HERE to register for this 4 weeks transformational boardroom-to-bedroom reconnection masterclass.
• You can plan to join us in America or the United Kingdom for our Reconnection Couples Retreat in 2023. 
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

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 On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about Every Marriage Has A Narcissist. 

I share why we must be intentional in finding out how to manage and deal with a narcissist.
A narcissist is someone who has an inflated sense of self-importance and a lack of empathy for others. They often seek constant validation and attention and can struggle with feelings of insecurity and vulnerability. These traits can manifest in a variety of ways in a romantic relationship and can have a significant impact on the quality of the marriage.

One of the most common ways narcissism can manifest in a marriage is through a lack of emotional intimacy and connection. Narcissists often struggle with vulnerability and may have difficulty opening up to their partners emotionally. They may also prioritize their own needs and desires over those of their partner, leading to a lack of empathy and consideration in the relationship.

Living with a narcissist can be emotionally and mentally draining for the partner. They may feel constantly invalidated, dismissed, and unimportant. This can lead to feelings of low self-esteem and self-doubt and can make it difficult for the partner to assert their own needs and boundaries

• Key Highlight
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  • Who Is A Narcissist?(00:03:09)
  • Symptoms of A Narcissistic Behaviour(00:06:40)
  • Border Line Between A Self-Absorbed Narcisist And Self-Love  (00:15:46)
  • Practical Ways In Dealing With A Narcissist (00:23:45)
  • God, Prayer And Narcissism (oo.41.08)

In conclusion, every marriage has a narcissist, whether it's one or both partners. Narcissistic traits can manifest in a variety of ways in a romantic relationship, including a lack of emotional intimacy, manipulation, and control.

Listen, subscribe, share, and let us learn about marital transformational tips together.

• Our Couple Intimacy Masterclass is here. Click  HERE to register for this 4 weeks transformational boardroom to-bedroom reconnection masterclass.
• You can plan to join us in America or the United Kingdom for our Reconnection Couples Retreat in 2023. 
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

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On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about Sex Positions and Orgasm. 

I share why we must be intentional in finding out how to satisfy our spouse's needs by practicing THE PRINCIPLES OF SEXUAL INTIMACY AND COMFORTABLE SEX POSITIONS FOR MUTUAL PLEASURE DURING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.

Pleasurable sex is an important aspect of a healthy and fulfilling marriage, and comfortable positions can play a significant role in achieving this. Not only do comfortable positions increase physical pleasure, but they can also enhance emotional intimacy and connection between partners.

One of the most important things to consider when choosing a sexual position is the comfort and pleasure of both partners. This includes taking into account any physical limitations or restrictions, such as back or knee problems, and finding positions that accommodate these. Some positions, such as the missionary position, may be less physically demanding and therefore more comfortable for some individuals.

Another important factor to consider when choosing a sexual position is the level of intimacy and connection desired. Positions that involve more physical contact and eye contact, such as the face-to-face position, can foster a deeper emotional connection between partners. Positions that involve more physical separation, such as the rear-entry position, may be more suitable for those who prefer a greater sense of independence or privacy.

Experimenting with different positions can also be a fun and exciting way to spice up a sexual relationship. The "woman on top" position, for example, allows the woman to control the pace and depth of penetration, which can lead to increased pleasure for both partners. 

It's also important to remember that comfort and pleasure are not mutually exclusive and that there are many ways to make a position more comfortable without sacrificing pleasure.

In conclusion, pleasurable sex is an important aspect of a healthy and fulfilling marriage, and comfortable positions can play a significant role in achieving this. Experimenting with different positions can be a fun and exciting way to spice up a sexual relationship while taking into account physical limitations and the level of intimacy desired. 

• Our 2023 Couple Marriage Satisfaction Masterminds for continuous marriage renewal throughout the year 2023 by clicking Here. Don't settle for less.
• You can plan to join us in America or the United Kingdom for our Reconnection Couples Retreat in 2023. 
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

Thank you for listening.

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On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about Foreplay's Secret Of The Bible.  I share why we must be intentional in finding out how to satisfy our spouse's needs by practicing UNCONDITIONAL LOVE from the heart with full selflessness.

Many marriages are not experiencing the full potential of exploring each other's erotic powers. We rush love-making as if we are being pursued and hunted.

You need to start by finding out and then, practicing ways to satisfy each other without judgment, criticism, and being sarcastic. Each spouse deserves to enjoy sexual fulfillment just as much as the other spouse.

It's important you understand your personal urges by knowing your sexual responses and needs. For each individual, what turns them on and what puts them “in the mood” can be different. It also vastly depends on gender. For males, the sensuality and erection stimuli often stem from visual/ sensory cues, whilst for women, it’s often some sort of deeper connection that arouses them.

As you aligned at different levels of intimacy, you must selflessly stalemate your spouse's erogenous zones, to discover what is working and what you must do more, to take them to their sexual heaven.

Key Highlights

• Don't Take Your Spouse For Granted. Enjoy Him Or Her Now, Before It's Too Late. (02:02)
• Foreplay Is The Bedrock Of Having An Incredible Sex Life (07:08)
• Unconditional Love: The Foreplay Secret Of The Bible (09.48)
• Intimacy Fuels Foreplay Tremendously(16:50)
• Your Erogenous Zones Are Not For Show But For Erotic Touching And Stimulation. (31:51)
• Your Body Was Provided By God To Be Explored In Holy Matrimony: Allow It To Be Touched And Explored For Deeper Treasure Hunting Exercise.
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• Take Intentional Action Today By Acting With Unconditional Love (45:00)

I believe after listening to this episode, you will agree with me that sexual satisfaction is for both genders in the marriage. Sexual healing and all its benefits are for grabs for both parties in the marital union.

I will like to continue the support and ensure your marriage soars each day as God has designed it to be. This is why I am inviting you to join:

• Our 2023 Couple Marriage Satisfaction Masterminds for continuous marriage renewal throughout the year 2023 by clicking Here. Don't settle for less.
• Our 2023 Mature Single Marriage Preparation and Understanding Mastermind Group will help you to discover the secrets of starting well and building on that when you tie the knot with your future half. This will be one of the best things, you have ever done for yourself as a mature single adult in 2023. Click Here to join.
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

Thank you for listening, un

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On today's episode of Married Life Management Podcast, I am talking about Sexual Satisfaction Is Only For Men.  I share why we have such a huge gap between the intimate fulfillment of a man and a woman in a matrimonial relationship. This gap is what researchers called THE ORGASM GAP.

Many marriages are struggling because the ultimate secrets of sexual fulfillment in their marriage are not fully implemented and experienced. This episode will show you- The What, The How, and The When to start enjoying your intimate life like never before.

It's important you understand your personal urges by knowing your sexual responses and needs. For each individual, what turns them on and what puts them “in the mood” can be different. It also vastly depends on gender. For males, the sensuality and erection stimuli often stem from visual/ sensory cues, whilst for women, it’s often some sort of deeper connection that arouses them.

Given the visual urges of a man, it’s a no-brainer that men are attracted to their wives. Similarly, for women, a thoughtful conversation and talking about feelings can be the ideal foreplay.

Key Highlights

• The missing link between male and female sexual satisfaction in marriage (02:43)
• What is the average time it takes a male and a female to climax during sexual intercourse? (05:37)
• Sexual response circle of a man and a woman in marriage (07:26)
• Why do we have this orgasm gap in marriage? (10:13)
• Types of orgasm to explore in your marriage (17:39)
• The Erogenous Zones: Male and Female (22:40)
• Common Sexual Challenges In The Bedroom (24:28)
• Benefits of sexual satisfaction in marriage (31:45)
• Secrets of long-lasting sexual satisfaction in marriage (35:30)
• Plan, prepare and participate in making your sexual life great each time (40:20)

I believe after listening to this episode, you will agree with me that sexual satisfaction is for both genders in the marriage. Sexual healing and all its benefits are for grabs for both parties in the marital union.

I will like to continue the support and ensure your marriage soars each day as God has designed it to be. This is why I am inviting you to join:

• Our 2023 Couple Marriage Satisfaction Masterminds for continuous marriage renewal throughout the year 2023 by clicking Here. Don't settle for less.
• Our 2023 Mature Single Marriage Preparation and Understanding Mastermind Group will help you to discover the secrets of starting well and building on that when you tie the knot with your future half. This will be one of the best things, you have ever done for yourself as a mature single adult in 2023. Click Here to join.
• Obtain our award-signature marriage satisfaction online course. This program is nicknamed The MARRIAGE ENCYCLOPEDIA OR MARRIAGE BIBLE. You can have the entire program for lifetime access for a small fee. Click HERE and get on board now

Thank you for listening, until the next episode. Remain blessed.

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Marriage is sup[pose to be fulfilling to both parties and so is sex as well. When sexlessness is less and love is less, then, the marriage might be needing to uplift and spark a revival.
 
Marriage and love are like carriage and horse. But, marriage and sex are not entirely connected, especially when sex is less and less your relationship. A sexless marriage is where 9 or 10 sex encounters happen in a marriage within a year.
You might say, I am not interested in the number but, it matters too because, if you are enjoying something, you won't do less of it, right?

There could be many factors causing this state in your marriage today and you must pay attention to this episode.

I will try and answers these common questions below in this episode today:
 
Why would a woman stay in a sexless marriage?

What is sex and what is sexless?

What does sex in marriage look like?

What does normal and abnormal sex in marriage look like? 

What To Do If You Have A Sexless Marriage 

How it feels to live in a sexless marriage 

Should I Be Worried About My Sexless Marriage?

Are You in a Sexless Marriage? 

How damaging is a sexless marriage?

What are the effects of a sexless marriage on a man or a husband?

What are the effects of a sexless marriage on a wife?

Should a man or woman stay in a sexless marriage?

Why would a woman stay in a sexless marriage?

If you and your partner feel disconnected or more like roommates than lovers, then, you must act now before it is too late. I have given a lot of reasons, effects, and what to do to fix this in your marriage. 

Talk with your spouse about how this and not be ashamed. God created sex for us and it will sad if you have the opportunity to enjoy it and you are missing out. Discuss the causes—without blame. “It’s important not to put the burden on the partner who has the lower desire. Both of you have to meet in the middle.” If a health issue is a culprit, see your doctor. Couples counseling or sex therapy can also help.

Listen, share and download to help your marriage thrive and help another spouse to build a healthy sex life too. 

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Episode 4: Marriage is not biblical.

Just thinking about this topic, what comes to your mind first? What are you thinking about? 

Marriage is not biblical. This is a statement of a particular mindset and it will determine how your marriage thrives or not if you're married and even if you are not married.

It's a statement of a belief system and mindset. Your belief system, your actions, and your behaviors will be directed based on that statement. So the way you are going to behave, the way you're going to act and the way you are going to do things with your spouse on a daily basis would depend on the belief system you have behind that statement.

 And when someone says marriage is not biblical, obviously, it's very clear that they are coming from a place or a theory that disputes or distorts the biblical standard of God's plan and purpose for marriage.

 And I can tell you there are a lot of theories out there, which are all unfounded about God and about marriage. 

And we have so many of them written everywhere. You see them in different books, on YouTube, and on social media. They write in order to discount the fact that there's no God. And when you say marriage is not biblical, you are completely saying there's no God. 

You're saying that there is no deity, there's no super-intelligent designer and then your theory and your belief system would definitely oppose anything that God has said about marriage.

These theories are all products of men, finite minds, and foster the attempt to find God through human reasoning and the so-called scientific approach they have deployed in order to interpret their theories. such a mindset will not act based on biblical views.

So, think about what is driving your behaviors and actions toward your spouse each day. If your belief system is not rooted in biblical standards, then, you will surely experience what God has not designed for your marriage.

Another aspect of this episode is, where I and my wife shared our 14 lessons about our marriage. This will encourage you and help you to keep working on your selves each day.

We are hoping that this last episode from the Season of -The Unpopular Truth About Marriage, will bless you. Make sure you share, download and be an implementor of all you have learned in your relationship.

God bless you indeed.

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 Marriage is critical for world longevity but singleness is more directed to human impact and exploration.  Many people are married but trapped and lost in it because they had no purpose and core life discovery while they were single person. No real joy springs out of the well of constant impactful living. Some married people would be better off if they remained single for life.

If your marriage scares people and it doesn't make people delight in marriage, then your marriage is causing an international marriage reputation disaster. Honestly, it is better if you were single. However, you can turn your marriage around if you are ready to change your ways and start to build a life of significance.

all my single people, make sure you are not idle or waiting to be discovered. Go and discover yourself in a place of purpose and service. Don't rush to marry, otherwise, you might be rushing to come out again. But it might be too late for you. Marry intentionally and not because someone wants you to marry.

Marriage is a big deal and a God’s idea

Life is all about seasons of "singleness," which are seasons of preparation. In that season of preparation, you need to know what to do & how to handle yourself. Josh gives you the tools from the Bible so that you can make the most of those seasons. And once you've made it through that season you'll be ready to be selfless & complement others around you.No matter where you are in life, you can become significant for God and for humanity.

If you don't begin to see singleness as a gift, you are ready to get into the gutter tomorrow. Embrace it and come up higher to a place of amazing lifestyle through singleness.

Because many times we ignore the power, the advantages and the benefits of being single. Being single isn't a cause, and just because you chose to be single doesn't mean that you should live a lonely life.

You should live an obscured life, unproductive life, unfulfilled life. Everything in life has its seasons. So that is why as a single person, it is important for you to know that being single is a blessing. And if you utilize the opportunity and this time of singleness, you can have one of the greatest marriages you can ever think about. 

As you listen to this episode, make sure that you are not staying away from your season. Be active in your season and do your best to live an impactful life. 

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Marriage prepares you to be happier. You must be happy before you marry. Happiness cannot be tied to be a behaviour of your family. 

If you’re getting married with your own happiness as your main goal, you will be disappointed in a severe way.

Marriage is not about your happiness, it’s not even about you. It’s about love—which is something we choose to give time and time again. It’s about sacrifice, serving, giving, forgiving—and then doing it all over again.

No wonder we choose divorce overcommitment. Because often, we’re choosing “personal happiness” over real commitment, over real love.

They say marriage teaches you more about selflessness than you ever wanted to know. I have definitely found that phrase to be true in my relationship with my husband. Because at the heart of it, real love is all about sacrifice. About the giving of yourself, in ways big and small.

It’s about offering forgiveness when you’ve been hurt.

It’s about giving your time though it’s not always convenient.

It’s about sharing your heart when you’d rather hold back.

It’s about cleaning the kitchen after a long weekend, even if it’s your least favourite job.

It’s about choosing to respond with love when you’d rather respond in anger.

It’s about offering a listening ear, when you’d rather tune out or go to bed.

It’s about putting someone else’s needs and desires before your own.

It’s about giving up that last bite of cake, just so your spouse can enjoy it.

It’s about laying down your rights, to make way for the rights of another.

The list could go on and on, but it always ends with the same formula: You before me. And we before I.

We live in a world that despises the sacrificial side of marriage and tries to wish it away. They teach to strive for power, control and the upper hand in a relationship. They tell us to do what feels right, and not to tolerate anything less. They fool us to thinking that love is about doing what makes us happy. And the second we feel less than happy, they encourage us to bail, to abandon ship and to stop investing.

But they’ve got it all wrong.

Because the more we give, the better we become. Real love is not self-seeking, and it will always cost you. It will cost your heart, your time and your money. It will cost your comfort, your rights and your pride. It will cost you to “lay down your life” for the life of another. And only those who learn to die to themselves are the ones who get to experience the resurrection power that comes with it—resurrection into real love, into real life, and into meaningful relationships.

God's desire is that we are happy in Him and that His words are our bedrock in all matters of marital standards. Focus on building yourself up in God and see Him transform your life from the inside, that helps you to give what is in you. 

As you listen to this episode , make up your mind to focus on God and him only. Happiness and peace will become your default.

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Married Life Podcast: Episode 1- Marriage Is Easy

 Marriage is meant to be for two fully functioning adults and we are to uphold it with great honour and esteem it highly. We celebrate human-to-human marriage and not animal marriage, it has to be between a man and a woman, from a heterosexual perspective as designed by God.
This first episode explains all the 12 episodes that will coming every week on Saturday by 9AM.
Please find the 12 episode topics below for your mental excitement and mental disorientation

• Season 1: The Unpopular Truths About Marriage
• Episode 1: Marriage Is Easy
• Episode 2: Marriage Doesn’t Bring Happiness
• Episode 3: Marriage Is Better Than Being Single
• Episode 4: Marriage Is Not Biblical
• Season 2: The Unpopular Truths About Marital Sex
• Episode 5: Sexless Marriage Is Normal
• Episode 6: Sexual Satisfaction Is Only For Men
• Episode 7: Foreplay Secret Of The Bible
• Episode 8: Sex Positions And Orgasm
• Season 3: The Unpopular Truths About Narcissism
• Episode 9: Every Marriage Has A Narcissist
• Episode 10: The Difficult Spouse In A Difficult Marriage
• Episode 11: Anger And Disagreement Is Good In Marriage
• Episode 12: The Healer And The Healed Spouse

These 12 episodes will challenge you to build a healthy  marriage.

 God had created marriage with certain precepts, principles and values to guide us in building a great marriage. These principles work if we follow them in Spiritual obedience and submission to God.
However, your marriage becomes hard when you approach the marriage from an unrealistic perspective.  If you distort, discard or refuse to follow the principles he lied down, your marriage will exhibit the symptoms of a hard marriage.
Let us list out the symptoms of a hard marriage:

• Constant daily misunderstanding due chronic lack of personal differences
• Consistent Sexless marriage due to revenge or spousal punishment
• Deliberate emotional unavailability due to addiction to work, purpose, business etc
• Blaming one person for all the issues in the marriage
• Regular infidelity and affairs with side sick and aide horses
• Acting as a secret agent and suspicion of your spouse due to insecurities
• Holier thou attitudes and religious fanatism
• Ex and in-laws' domination and control of significant affairs of the marriage
• Unforgiveness manifesting in resentment, stonewalling and silent treatment
• Spousal aggressiveness and domestic violence
• Spousal disagreement on major aspects of the marriage leads to separate living and agendas
• Prayerlessness and no spiritual connection among the couples
• Lack of support and hindering each other growth
• Competition and policing of each spouse due to lack of trust
• Avoiding stepping on each other's toes and hence, bottling up hurts and pain inside
• Using divorce and separation as a weapon to win arguments
• When you love and spend more time with other women outside your marriage or submit to another man willingly than to your spouse, then your marriage is hard.

If your Marriage is hard is because you are hardened. A HARDENED SPOUSE IS DIFFICULT TO DEAL WITH. when the wife

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