Stop "Trying" Harder and Experience Entrepreneurship with Ease and Flow

Hey Ladies! In this episode, I explore why entrepreneurs should stop trying harder and instead focus on experiencing their entrepreneurial journey with ease and flow. Drawing from years of experience, I discuss the pitfalls of the 'try harder' mentality, how it leads to burnout, relational issues, and stress. By shifting mindset towards ease and simplicity, leveraging feminine energy, and being prepared, entrepreneurs can find success without constant hardship. Key insights on becoming, deciding, and preparing to receive success are shared to help you navigate your journey more effectively and joyfully.

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Hey ladies. Welcome back to another episode. Today, we are going to be going over some things that is going to allow you to stop trying harder. As an entrepreneur and be able to start allowing yourself to experience your entrepreneurial journey with ease and flow. I've been an entrepreneur from about 2016, 2017. Off and on, and I've learned a few things and one of those things that I've learned is that you have to stop trying harder. Continuing to try harder is truly the definition of insanity. So if you know what the definition of insanity, insanity means is you are doing the same thing over and over again. And expecting a different result. Oftentimes as entrepreneurs, we have the tendency to tell ourselves that we have to try harder. We just have to do more. We have to try harder at this. We have to stay up later. We have to work longer hours. We have to wake up early. We have to just burn ourselves out by trying harder that we are left with so much feelings of frustration and resentment and burnout. Having relationships. Relationship issues not being able to be present with our family There's so many things that this whole concept of trying harder, you know sleep when you're dead Doing all these kinds of things has caused you to feel and to experience and honestly Kind of resent your entrepreneurial journey When you really don't have to because it's such a beautiful journey. I love entrepreneurship It is one of the best ways as women That you can create something create something that can put so much abundance into your life so much Safety into your life it can create You know, just more permission and more control over your life and say, so with your time and we need that time as well as right. We have families, we have children, we have so many things that we want to do with our lives and entrepreneurship can absolutely fulfill that desire within us that we truly, truly have and not feel so restricted. So I am definitely a rooter for entrepreneurship. However, however, however, however, it can truly impact so many people in such a negative way. And it's really about this whole concept that we have to try harder and try harder and try harder. This is the complete opposite Of not giving up on yourself, right because sometimes doing hard things doing challenging things are ways to create resilience in us is ways to break some kind of some limiting beliefs in us, but trying harder is not the answer. So what if, what if going into this new year of 2025? You can allow yourself to say that trying harder for you is no longer the answer. You've tried harder for so many years and it's maybe gotten you somewhere. It's maybe gotten you incremental results. However, the hardship that is created, is it really worth it? Right? So what if you decided to change that complete mindset and truly believe that you can experience this entrepreneurship journey With feeling ease and flow and excitement because it's so possible. So Why do you need to stop trying harder? So number one, I've already shared that You know, keep trying harder at the same thing Trying harder to stay up late, trying harder to wake up earlier Trying harder to do whatever it is that you are trying harder to do is the definition of Insanity, right? It's just causing hardship in your well being whether that is relational hardship because you're trying to make it, you're trying to make it right. that you're sacrificing things such as, you know, having quality relationships. You're sacrificing time with your, with your partners or your friendship. You're sacrificing time with your children. You're sacrificing time to take care of yourself, your well being instead of, you know, going to work out, maybe you spend that time trying harder on the same thing that you've been trying. Instead of eating properly to fuel your energy You're actually Eating, you know fast food quick food Just so that you can have more time to work on your business. And but what is that causing you, right? That's causing you stress. It's causing you so much emotional turmoil that you're not able to really be in a place of thriving and Excitement you're stuck in this survival mode that I have to try try try but when you're in survival mode, you're not really in a proper place to receive receive things that you're looking forward to like Money coming into your pockets, right? A lot of times we enter entrepreneurship because we know the financial freedom that it can bring us But when you're in a place of survival mode because you're trying hard and hard and harder you're not really in a a space of receiving You're not really in a place of receiving more money into your life receiving help into your life receiving, just being at ease into your life. And so a lot of the times our wellbeing is sacrificed when we are constantly trying harder and harder at something. Have you ever told yourself, what am I doing all of this for? You know, when you stop and take a look around and sometimes your journey is not, You know matching the place where you feel like you should be Because you've been so stuck Pretty much trying harder and harder and harder and you realize you're not getting the results that you've been getting Sometimes it places that frustration in your mind Of why am I trying so hard? What am I doing this for? So it causes you to lose sight of why you're actually doing this which is for we all do this for various different reasons, right? To create financial freedom to be able to get your time back which is something that is really important to me To really be able to experience a more experienced quality of life, right? Not to be so restricted. Be able to have more say so over yourself. But then you start questioning, why are you doing these things? Because you keep trying harder and harder and not getting the results that you need. And overall, your well being. Is the one thing that is sacrificed and well being whether that is financial relational spiritual Emotional. All of those things are impacted when you are Doing the same thing over and over and not getting the results that you need. So that is the number one reason why I say stop trying harder. So the second reason why you need to stop trying harder on this entrepreneurship journey of whatever it is that you are doing towards your business is because it is blocking you from seeing other pathways. So when you are so focused on trying harder on something doing the same thing, whether that is waking up earlier, whether it is doing this one Tasks that you feel like you should be trying harder on. It is blocking you of other pathways so I study a lot about quantum leaping and put into practice as well and one of the beautiful things about this concept Is that there's always an easier path, right? There's an easier path that we can't see. One thing is that success is not supposed to be hard success can truly be easy. But when we are focused on just one way Where we have a mindset on this one way, we have to do this one way trying hard on this one way We're not allowing ourselves to take a step back to see other pathways, and there's always an easier way. There's always an easier way. This blocks your inability to become a person that pivots. So, when you are an entrepreneur, It is so crucial to be able to pivot. What this means is to be able to change direction at any time, to change direction when something isn't working. So, if you're constantly trying to do one thing over and over again. Is not working is not working and if it's if it's showing you that it's not working Over and over and over again again, this doesn't mean you just quit you throw the business away, right? Do you throw the idea away? Sometimes maybe but It doesn't mean quit if you truly believe from the bottom from the bottom of your heart That this is what you that this is this is what you are meant to be doing It doesn't mean quit but it may mean to Pivot maybe pivot your messaging maybe pivot maybe pivot an activity that you're doing, maybe do something different. This is when you have to become and more analytical person. So when you are doing the same thing over and over again, you're not tapping into that parts of you, of your parts of you that is truly you as a woman, right? We are we're women, we're flowing. We are. We are supposed to operate in that feminine energy, but a lot of times this is when you are operating in your masculine energy. So as entrepreneurs, especially as women, we've been hustling, been grinding, and we've been a lot in that masculine energy doing things that we think we're supposed to do in logical order. Trying harder at something when As women when we are able to connect back to our feminine energy We are tapping into the ability to be able to flow to be able to Make changes and shift directions when something is not lining up When something is not working out, it's okay to be able to shift and move directions and a lot of times we feel guilty I'm not going to be able to do anything with that, but it'll feel like, Oh, if I, if I change, if I do something different, then I'm failing, but no, right? No, it's okay to shift. It's okay to make changes. This is how you are going to be able to start to trust yourself with different things. This is what's going to help Quantum leap you in to new levels is when you allow yourself to pivot and look for a different pathway. Something that may be a lot easier for you something that may work more for you and your style how you want to Maneuver your business or whatever and Right. So there's always a way, there's always a different way, but we have to be able to tap into that feminine energy that we truly have. Get back to that, get back to connecting to that, especially as entrepreneurs and be able to allow ourselves to flow, to pivot, to change order, to change direction and, and to open our eyes to what is possible. The next thing is you're not learning, right? So this kind of ties into the second reason is that when you are not allowing yourself to try something different, what are you learning? But when you allow yourself to pivot again, again, this goes back into the second reason is that you are going to allow yourself to, to learn different things. You're learning different things about yourself. You're learning different things about Your business what works for you what doesn't work for you? What feels good to you? What doesn't feel good to you? So what this looks like is You deciding like people always tell you. Oh, you have to wake up at 5 30 in the morning, right or you have to Work up at 4 a. m. Or whatever it is. But then you try it and you do it over and over, but you genuinely don't like it, right? Maybe you are a person who works better at night, or maybe you want, maybe there's a desire within you that you want to wake up at 7 a. m. instead of 5 a. m., But you can't learn about yourself until you allow yourself to do that. That is the beauty of learning how to pivot when you Learn how to do something different and open up a different pathway And you say i'm gonna wake up at 7 a. m And that feels good to you and you get to be more creative and you get to explore this side of yourself and your business And is more enjoyable That's something That trying harder is not going to allow you to do Doing something different is what's going to allow you to open up the doors of you creating this business This journey how you want to create it. Something that i've learned this year is that You are the boss of your business. Your business is not the boss of you And a lot of times we've been operating from a place of where our business has been Running us I business tell us what time that we have to wake up or how many hours we have to spend on our business or What we need to do what we can't do No, you can't have fun unless you get this done, right? You can create boundaries with yourself, but that's you. But one big thing is that we have to break free of allowing our business to be our boss versus we be the boss of our business, right? So that we can say what we're gonna do instead. And so this kind of takes me into the next reason why you need to stop trying harder is because when you are trying harder, you are operating from your current state of self. You are operating from who you believe you are to be now versus operating from your future self, right? Your dream self, the boss of your business self, the person who is living the dream that she is dreaming about and how she gets to wake up and how she gets to run her business. And how she gets to use her time. When you are stuck. In the mindset of I have to try harder and harder and harder and harder at whatever it is that you're doing You're not operating from that place You're operating from this current state And in this current state is really a place of What your current circumstances are, and that is truly like frustration, right? That is frustration, that is annoyance, that is feeling like you have to be feeling a little bit desperate, feeling like you have to put all this time versus maybe the state that you truly want to be in that future self is relaxed. She is at ease. She is happy with her business. She feels free in her business. She feels joyful in her business. She feels like It's just so easy to maneuver. It is so easy to change directions when she needs to. She knows how to make decisions. She knows how to do this. She knows how to take a step back and, you know, be able to analyze her business and enjoy the process of it. If that's your desire state, why are you operating out of the state of this current state of yourself? trying harder in this current state that you're in is not going to get you to the future state. And my last reason why you need to stop trying harder is going to explain this on a deeper level. So the reason why you operating out of this current state Is that it's not gonna get used to that future state. It's because you are repelling. You are repelling due to the negative emotional state that you are in. I've tried harder for so many years trying hard to be successful, trying hard to make something work. And from my personal experience, I know what that has caused me, just like I explained in the beginning. That caused frustration, that caused depression, that caused resentment towards myself, towards my business, towards my, my passion, this desire. You don't want to lose that desire. It causes anxiety, you know, worrying about the future just anger. Because again, of all those sacrifices that you're making to truly make this work for you. But what that is doing, it is repelling because when you're in a negative emotional state, like just think about life in general, when you're negative towards anybody, They're not trying to come towards you. They're running from you. Everything is energy. Our business, just like our relationship is with human beings, your business is in relationship with you. You have a relationship with your business. Everything that you experience is a relationship. It doesn't matter if it is, you know, a human being or an animal or like you're in relationship to plants, your relationship to the clothes that you wear, your, your hair, you're in a relationship with yourself, you're in relationship to your business. And so when you are operating in a negative place, You're more than likely not truly speaking life into your business, right? You're not truly speaking life into your business. You're not making it feel good. You're not nurturing your business. You're not you know, consoling your business. You're not giving it the good energy that your business needs to thrive. So you're repelling that and negative frustration. All of those things are are repellents. That's what that is. The things that draws things in, the things that attracts the most is being able to be in a state of love, to be in a state of gratitude, to be in a state of joy. Those are top things that truly that truly Attracts things to you. And when you're in this place operating in that, you know, current state that you're in right now, trying harder. It's just going to repel and you're going to keep being frustrated because your energy is in that frustration. You're going to keep focused on, on how frustrated you are and how, you know, just how hard it feel like it has to be. That is going to keep taking you longer and longer and longer to get into that. desired state of self until you actually allow yourself to be in that state despite the current circumstances that you are in. and so it's so important to really focus on, it's so important to get into the emotional state of you already have versus constantly trying, trying harder. so now, now that I went over why you need to stop trying harder is my simple formula that the easiest way that you, I'm not going to say easy. I'm going to say simple. But the simple formula that you can put yourself into position to stop trying harder and to make this entrepreneurial journey feel so at ease and feel so at flow. So number one, so One thing that I want you to do is to decide. Decide today that your business gets to be easy. When you decide that your business gets to be easy, you are going to begin looking for ways to make your journey easier. You're operating your business easier. You are going to stop trying harder. It is something that is just going to come naturally Because once you decide you cut off everything. Decide needs to cut off so you cut off other options. So one thing that I noticed is when I decided that my business gets to be easy, I, my body actually became more aware when things were feeling hard. Again, there's a difference between something feeling hard and something feeling challenging. So when you are getting challenged towards something, this is amazing opportunities for you to grow. It's amazing opportunities for you to learn something. More about yourself to to build more resilience but when I've but my body takes notice of When I am trying hard on and harder and harder on something And it's like Nope, not it It's like nope there is an easier easier way right, so That's one of the first things that you are going to do. Remember what I said You You are the boss of your business. You get to decide today that your business gets to be easy. Your entrepreneurial journey gets to be easy, and this is completely going outside the norm. This is going to make you feel so uncomfortable. This is going to make you feel like this is not common sense because for so many years, for however long you've been an entrepreneur, however long you've been thinking and aspiring to be an entrepreneur, you've probably heard, you probably heard over and over that It requires hard work you have to try hard you have to keep giving it your all You have to do this. You have to do that. What I want you to do is erase all of that All of that All of it, because that is a very masculine way of doing things. Again, entrepreneurship is something that has truly been designed based off a very patriarchal kind of mindset and structure, just the way of doing business and how we approach business. That's the norm, the new norm, the new unfamiliar way to you. Is being able to say no my business gets to be easy Maybe I don't want to work 10 hours a day. I don't want to do that. I get to decide You truly get to decide and whether that makes your business come faster Or slower it is what it is. What is it going to be for you? How is it going to feel good for you? So you get to decide that I get to make my business easy. When that happens, you will start finding ways how to make your business easy. You will also start taking notice of how other people are making their journey easier. When you become aware of something, you become aware of something. When you become aware of something, you become aware of something just like you ever became aware of a model of a car or a word. And now you start seeing it everywhere. You start, you start hearing it all the time. It is the same concept. Not everybody, even though a lot of businesses has been built in a very masculine way, not everybody has built it that way. Not everybody because you've been operating from a very hard place in entrepreneurship. You've noticed other entrepreneurs who always, who also done it the hard way, but when you decide that it don't get, this gets to be easy for you. You I promise you you will start it will you will start finding other people who is Who is doing business who is pursuing something that you are pursuing? Who is in the same maybe niche as you who's in the same type of business as you You will start realizing that hold up They got this business easier They made this business successful in less time They've been able to do this without working some working so so hard And hopefully these people are available to show you how they did it. This is why i'm so big on being Impactful because once you learn something now, you're able to teach others And this is why i'm a coach right because I want to show you how you can create this business How can you can how you can create your dream business in an easier way? Because it is so possible for you Success is not supposed to be hard. So decide today that your business gets to be You Easy All right, and when you decide that if this is something that you want coaching on Then I highly encourage you just go to cleopatrawilliams. com head to the coaches tab and go ahead and book your sessions. So now let's go ahead and get into number two and how you're going to stop trying harder so you are going to focus on becoming. Focus on becoming for so long myself included We've been doing things the backwards way. We are so focused on having something that we start from the having part. We get attached to that having part that we say, I want this, I want this. So I'm going to focus on doing whatever I need to be doing to get that. And we completely abandon, we completely ignore We completely ignore the becoming part of it, which is the most important part. So what I mean by this, for example, have you ever heard? You can't truly have success without being a success first, oh, yeah, it's so good I love chai tea. It's so good Okay, so let me get back And then after being successful first, you're doing successful things based off who you are, who you are now and who you are becoming. So you have to be. be the person that you want to become. Dress like the person that dress like the position you want to have already act like you have the position, right? we're so focused on having, we're trying harder, we're doing the things that we think we need to do so that we can have something. We're just constantly, we're trying harder to have this, when we need to first focus on actually being the person. Who is the person that have what it is that you truly desire to have? Have you have to be her first. You have to be her first. Once you allow yourself to be her first What's going to happen is you are actually you're going to be that future self first and then you're going to start doing things That future self will do You are going to start doing things acting as if and doing the steps that she will take and To have this future that she's going to have but how is she going to do it? What would that person do? So you have to be able to connect not just focus on the having part. If you're focused on the having part, you're gonna think you have to do any and everything to do it. But what would this person do? What would your, your idea of a successful entrepreneur as a successful business owner, what would she do, right? And you embody her now. You internalize her now. You show up as her now. You pour into her as you are now. And then you do things, do things, not just for the sake of trying harder. not just for the sake of having but you are doing things Because of who you are. Because of based off who she is You are doing things and when you allow yourself to do things This is going to put you into another place that i'm going to get into And part of this formula of getting into a place of stop trying harder so that's just the second part of stop trying harder And then i'm going to explain into a little bit deeper of why this is so important on your path of allowing your allowing your entrepreneur journey to Be an ease and flow. So the third way that you are going to get out of this mindset of trying harder is I want you to get prepared. So this is so important. Don't wait until you think something is going to happen for you to start getting ready. No. So if anything that I learned from very successful people is that they were already getting prepared. And so when the opportunity came up, all they had to do was be in position to receive it. That is it. So don't wait, wait until, for example, someone is ready to buy. From you for you to set up your link for someone to purchase from you. So this is something that i've heard before i've heard this many times on my journey You And that has been don't create something until it sells. So like don't create a course until, you know, someone, someone buys it. Don't create a product until you have a waiting list. Don't create, like, don't put something out until people are ready. But honestly, And i've Tried that way And I tried it hard and harder, but let me tell you from experience where that has gotten me and why I truly beg to differ so in my experience that has caused me to actually lose desire to create something. It took me from a place of acting as if and being to being in a place of waiting mode to being in a place of just waiting for someone else being inactive. And why I beg to differ again is because I'm huge on quantum leaping. I'm huge on acting as if, if you want to quantum leap your journey, you have to sometimes go against common sense. You have to sometimes be illogical. The logical way, the logical thing to do is yes, right? Wait for someone, you know, don't create a product until you know you have an audience. Don't write a book until you know you have people who want to buy from you. Absolutely not. What I want you to do is learn how to already create the outcome. Create the outcome. Take the quantum leap This is you acting as if you already have. What is going to help you get out this mindset? Of you have to keep trying harder to do the same thing or you have to keep waiting for people No You're going to get prepared By already having the outcome ready you are going to write the book you are going to create the course You are going to do everything that's going to put you in position to receive it When it is ready to be received. That is it. This is this is the formula I know you're probably thinking well, what does this have to do with trying harder? this is going to be that this is the formula to get you out of Being in a place of trying harder and to actually put you in a place of Receiving because I don't want you to wait for you to To have everything in order. I don't want you to wait for people to be ready to Buy from you or to listen to you or wait for you to have a following or wait for you to have an audience For you to follow your desires. For you to create Your desire and put your desire in a place where it's ready to receive. Because you are going to lose that desire You're going to lose that desire. I promise you, you're going to lose that creative, that creative place that you're in, where you have this idea and you want to do it, but then you stop yourself because you're like, I don't have the audience. I don't have the following. No, you want to just create it. Listen to your body, follow your desires and allow everything else to catch up, allow everything else to catch up. You're going to, this is you creating the outcome. This is you being illogical. It doesn't make sense. No, it doesn't make sense. But guess what? When you do this, You are going to put yourself in a position where then you can get into a state of expectation. Okay. You're not in a waiting. You are going to allow yourself to get out of a waiting season to be in a season of expectation. All right. And so that is, let me see if that's the following, the next one. Okay, and so this is the place of where you are going to be this is going to help you get out of a state of Trying harder. Doing the same thing over and over and over again or trying harder to have success. You don't have to try hard. You do not have to try hard. Success gets to be easy.Doing the steps that I just gave you When you do these steps right you get prepared You focus on becoming and you decide that your business your entrepreneurial journey gets to be easy You are going to put yourself into a state of expectation This is the key. This is the true embodiment of a confident Woman, all right. This is a true embodiment of a confident entrepreneur when you are able to You you are the person you became the person you're doing the things that this successful woman Is doing right the successful entrepreneur You created that outcome already. You're not waiting for people to you know to buy your desires No, you already created it. They're gonna buy it when they buy it You don't follow what's going to come when they come. But now because you did this, you get to get yourself out of the state of trying harder and you, now you get to just focus on being expectant. You're being, you're doing, and now you get to expect, right? Now you get to put yourself in a position where you can trust yourself. You trust and you know all as well. You trust that you are going to receive because you've been being because you've been doing Based off who you are You prepare the outcome already You know, you're about to have this you already created the have. Be do have is as simple as that. To get you out of trying hard and allow your entrepreneurship to be an ease and flow. All right. This is where you are going to truly get into receiving mode. Your journey gets the flow to you With ease, you get to sit back and allow yourself to receive with ease, not saying do nothing. Again, you have to be able to be a person that pivots, right? Be a person that pivots, be a person, a person that analyzes, that sees different ways, find an easier ways, But you're trusting yourself. You're allowing yourself to say, you know what? I've been being this successful person, being her. I've been doing what it is that she will do and i've already created the outcome. So now all it is I have to do is give repeat rinse and repeat do this process and detach detach from the outcome. Your attachment to having your attachment to This goal is what's keeping you in a choke You hold. Is keeping you depressed is keeping you frustrated is making you resent Your business is making you resent your journey. Right. Your attachment to this this goal You can achieve this goal with ease and flow You can achieve this goal with honoring your time. You can achieve this goal with With sleep You can achieve this goal and still be present with your family. You can achieve this goal and still Have a healthy relationship with your partner with friends You can achieve this goal. Yes, there are sacrifices, but this is your business You get to decide the type of sacrifices that you want to make, and the type of sacrifices that are unavailable to you. This is it. This is your business. All right. This is where you are truly going to find peace on your entrepreneurial journey. Okay, it is not meant to be hard The all the internal hardship that you are going through It does not have to happen. Even though some of the things that we go through on this journey, again, is to create resilience, is to create new levels of us, is to teach us things about ourselves, is to teach us things about pivoting, and Becoming a better person is teaching us so many things So we can't stop certain things to happen, right? Certain things are going to happen for our lesson but Constantly just trying harder and harder and hard on the same thing. What is that truly doing for you? Right? So again, just like I asked you in the beginning of this video What if you decided today? That You can just stop trying harder altogether. What if you stopped trying harder and you just allowed your business, your entrepreneurial journey to be a journey of ease and flow and inner peace? What if that happened? Like truly think about what that can become. And I know that is truly possible. Is an internal belief, is a mindset shift that you have to take. In order to believe that this is possible, just stop trying hard altogether and you will start finding ways to make this path just easier for you. Is so possible. All right. So just to kind of rehash what I went over. Already, the reasons why you need to stop trying harder is because one trying harder is a definition of insanity and it's causing you so much hardship in your well being. Well being is key to a successful entrepreneur journey. There's no sense in getting to your goal You can absolutely get to your goal Right by trying hard by doing it hard and hard and harder It might take forever. It might get a sooner, but guess what? How is it going to feel internally when you receive that? Right? two, it is blocking you from seeing other pathways. There's always an easier way. Number three is that you are not learning when you are stuck on trying harder. You're not learning different ways because you're not allowing yourself to look at different ways. Number four is that you're operating from your current state of mind versus the future you trying harder. Your, your future self, your entrepreneurial future, you dream, you entrepreneur is not trying harder. She has that ease and peace. And so maybe you need to be at ease and peace. Okay. And number five is repelling you due to that negative emotional state that has been causing you. And then the formula of how to stop trying harder. The simple formula to get in there is number one, decide, decide that this journey gets to be easy for you. You're building your business gets to be easy for you. Creating ideas gets to be easy for you, Creating content or whatever it is building a product gets to be easy for you. It gets to be easy You just decide on that and watch how you will find ways to make it easier. Number two is focus on becoming becoming Not just focused on having. We've been doing things from a backwards place from having and then doing and being and it's just absolutely not there. I think once we have this, we're going to be able to be successful. Once we have the success, we're going to feel like we're successful already. It doesn't work that way. You have to be first. You have to be a success first and then you have success first. That is it. Number three is get prepared, already create your outcome that you're going to have and just allow that to be, is already ready for you. And four is get into a state of expectation. You already know what's going to happen. You don't need to keep trying harder. Alrighty. So. If you like content like this, then I would love if you can give me a thumbs up and comment. If you want to be reminded of when new episodes come out, then head to the link in the description box where you can sign up for my newsletter where I will send weekly reminders of when new episodes drop. if you want to get coached on this as well, then just head to cleapatrawilliams.com and go to coaching. And ladies, that is it for this episode. Until next time I truly hope this episode blessed you. I hope it helped you and thank you so much for listening have a good day guys. Bye