How To Be Magnetic To Your Dream Goal

Hey Ladies! Today's video I share How to become a magnet to your dream goal

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Hey guys, welcome back to another video Today we are going to be talking about how to become a magnet To your dream goal actually how to become the magnet to your dream Goal So what I want you guys to get from this video Is really start treating your dream goal as if it is your boo thing as if it is somebody that you are you know working to attract to You and the reason why I say this is because As I mentioned before, your dream goal, it is your masculine energy. Your dream goal is in relationship to you, is in a relationship with you. We are in relationship to our hair. We are in relationship to our clothes. We are in relationship to money. We are in relationship to every single thing. And so learning to treat your dream goal as if you're dating, has been one of the most beneficial things for me and pursuing and achieving my dream goals and it has truly helped me become a magnet to my dream goals and so I want to show you how as well so number one and how to become the magnet to your dream goal is become the dream Goal. Become her. So what I mean by this is, I know you heard before, if you want success, then you need to become success. Right? If you want to have riches, then you need to become a rich person. If you want to have this healthy lifestyle, if you want to be physically fit, then literally. Become a healthy person, a fit person, right? If you wanna become a magnetic person, then become the magnetic person. So this is like if you were dating someone or if you wanted to date someone, right? We want this dream man. We want this dream woman. to be this ideal person that we want to have. But a lot of times, sometimes we don't become the person that we need to be to actually attract that dream person. The same thing with our goals. How do we expect to receive our goals, the big dream goals that we have, if we can't tap into who that dream person is. If we cannot tap into us as that dream goal. And so this is a practice, I talk about this all the time, of embodiment, of internalization, of simply just acting as if. This dream goal that you truly want to receive. Who do you need to be to attract it to you? Who do you need to be? Do you need to be a person of specific habits? Do you need to be a successful person already? Do you need to be an achiever already, right? How can you embody these things? How would she act on a daily basis? How would she think? How would she speak? What would she do? How would she show up? How can you become the dream goal? And that is going to allow you. to magnetize your goal to you. You become the dream goal. And so what I recommend doing is write out your goal that you have, and then go and create a list of who you need to be to receive this goal because you only attract what you are. You don't just attract what you want. You attract who you are. So attract who you are by becoming the person. number two, how to become the magnet to your dream goal is to love yourself more than you love your dream goal. This is so, so, so, so important. I've learned this the hard way. I've learned this many times in my pursuit and achieving my dream goals. There are many times that I've accidentally, I've I accidentally love my dream goal more than I love myself. And how does that show up? How can you tell that you are loving your dream goal more than you loving yourself? You are burning yourself out. You are tying your worth to the dream goal. So if you haven't achieved the dream goal, maybe you feel like you're not good enough. You hate yourself when you make mistakes, right? Who we all been there, right? You hate yourself when you make simple mistakes while you are in pursuit of your dream goal, feel super attached to this dream goal. You are in desperate energy, or you're just simply burnt out. And so what this does is actually repel. Loving your dream goal is important, yes. We have to love our dream goal. We have to love it because love is such a strong vibrational energy. It's one of the highest levels of, vibrations that you can actually have. And so it is so important to love your dream goals, but loving your dream goal more than you love yourself, it is just going to repel. Just like if we love a man more than we love ourselves. Again, we probably are. All been there. What has happened? That actually created more of a we chase than attract, right? We're chasing them. There is an imbalance there. They're not really chasing us. They're actually moving away from us it is it creates that imbalance or it makes them feel like you need them and it can cause them to take advantage of you. Do not allow your dream goal to take advantage of you. Your dream goal does not own who you are. It does not validate your worth. You don't need it. You want it. Yes, you love it. And that is perfectly fine. Again, we should love our dream goals. We should love it, right? We're just not supposed to love it more than we love ourselves. The best way to Achieve and pursue your dream goal is to pursue an achiever from a state of love a state of happiness a state of joy Right. Remember struggle love ain't it? What's the point of pursuing and achieving a dream goal or a dream relationship? If it is struggle love in the middle of it because you are choosing to love the goal love the person More than you love yourself It is not it. It is not it. because your goal is going to run away No goal Nobody wants to run towards a person who hates themselves Unless they're jacked up themselves, right? Nobody wants to do that Nobody wants to run towards a person who neglects themselves. Nobody wants to run towards a person who just simply do not love themselves or take time to love themselves. Who are we mostly attracted to? We're attracted to people who you can see is, is radiating. We're attracted to people who takes the time to take care of themselves, to pour into themselves. We love people like that. Your goal Loves you like that. So love yourself more than you love the goal. So the third way for yourself to become a magnet towards your dream goal, to become the magnet towards your dream goal is to show your goal that you care about it and that is a priority, that it is a priority now. Who is not attracted to a man who shows you that they care about you, who shows you that you can trust them, that shows you that you are a priority? I don't think no one is not attracted to that person, right? No one is not pulled towards that person that just shows them that they are safe. with them, shows them that they are cared for, that they are tru that they can trust them. No one. Trust is one of the most sexiest magnetic things that a person can give to you. Trust and showing that you are priority and showing that you are cared for. So how can you become the magnet to your dream goal? show it that as a priority, show it that you care for it. So how can you do this? simple ways is one. Show up for your dream goal. Show up for your dream goal. Show up on time. Honor your commitment to your dream goal. If you said that you are going to work on your dream goals between this time and this time, then show up. If you say that I'm going to wake up at this time to pour into my dream goal, then wake up at that time. If you say that you are going to do something towards your dream goal, then wake up. Do it because the only thing you are doing is breaking your trust within yourself and trust Trust trust trust when you break the trust of people What does that happen you repel you start pulling away when someone breaks your trust when a man breaks my trust It is hard to get it back. I don't even want to be present. There is no Magnetic energy in there. What what? So ever they have to work double time to get my trust back. You don't want to do that to yourself, right? You don't want to do that to your goal. So become the magnet to your goal by. Building that trust within yourself. You are your dream goal. Your dream goal, you achieving your dream goal, you setting the structure, you showing up on time, you building that trust within yourself, you honoring your commitments is your masculine energy. It is just your masculine energy. We have both feminine and masculine. So you honor your commitments. You have in structure. That is just your masculine entity. You build in that trust within yourself. So the more you do not show up and show that you care and show that your dream goal is a priority, your dream goal is not going to be pulled towards you because you are your dream goal. You are your dream goal and you're breaking your trust within yourself. So that dream goal is not going to be pulled towards you. It's just, it's just, It's just not. So another way in showing your dream goal that it is important to you, showing it that you care about it, is giving it the focus attention that it deserves and leaving distractions alone, right? When someone gives us attention that we deserve, that we deserve, what do we do? We are like, oh my gosh, he's showing me so much attention, you feel safe, you feel, again, that you can trust him the same way, when you know that when he's with you, and he's not dabbling on his phone, and he's not being distracted by this and the third, what happens, again, your guard is placed down, you feel good in his presence, Is the same way give your goal focus time and attention distractions is one of the biggest things that makes us not achieve our dream goals is being distracted And distractions comes in many forms. Distractions comes in forms of yes, show social media, right? Looking at seeing what other people are doing, wasting time, maybe watching TV or just laying there doing nothing. That's simple distractions, but there's also some hidden distractions that you don't even think of. Distractions like, okay, comparison. Comparison is a distraction. Your thoughts can be a distraction. Your emotions can be a distraction. Self doubt. Perfectionism. Limiting beliefs. All of these things are simply distractions. Distracting you from where you want to be. We can control those things. It's just distracting you from where you want to be. So giving your dream goal focus attention and avoiding distractions unnecessary ones is going to Magnetize your dream goals because if your distractions are just negative thoughts negative emotions Again, low vibration. Your dream goal is not going to be pulled towards you. It is going to repel. You are not going to be magnetic. There is no magnetic energy happening when you don't feel good about yourself. When you are sitting in negative emotions, when you are sitting in negative thoughts, when you are sitting in comparison and jealousy, when you are sitting in, you know, perfectionism. There is no magnetic energy in that. So, get rid of it. It's going to help you magnetize, or at least learn to manage it. Learn to, learn how to focus your attention. Just focus your attention on the goal and give it what it deserves.

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So the fourth way that you can become the magnet to your dream goal is to speak love, speak life, speak gratitude over your dream goal. This is so, so, so important for you to do. So saying things like, you know, I love you dream goal, towards your dream goal, whatever it is. I love you. Thank you so much for being here. Thank you for choosing me, right? Your desire, your goal was given to you. It chose you. If it wasn't for you, you would have never even received that desire. So thank you. Thank you for choosing me. I love you so much for choosing me. I love you because you love me back so much. Thank you for wanting to take care of me. Thank you for wanting to give me a better life. Thank you for being in my life, Showing that appreciation to your dream goal for choosing you. Thank you for making me happy. Thank you for bringing me joy. Thank you for bringing me passion. Thank you for wanting me back just as much as I want you I love you. I want you You know speaking life to it dream goal. You are amazing dream goal. You are such an inspiration Dream goal, you are this dream goal. You are that Speak life to it is in relationship to you. What happens when you speak to a person like that? They want to be around you. They want to do for you. It's the same exact, Thing so speak life into your dream goal. It lifts them up. It lifts your vibration up. It lifts your dream goal Vibration up it wants to give to you it wants You so speak to it and watch it become a magnet watch you become the magnet towards your dream goal Just showing it that attention giving it that love and actually Feeling it. Feeling it is so, so important. Feeling is the secret. So while you are saying these things, one thing that I love to do is when I'm right, cause I write these things out and I also say it. What I love to do and this is so important for you to do it as well especially If you want to start visualizing especially if you want to learn how to just Really bring your dream goal to life really be able to achieve it Is there learn to get into the feeling of having it the feeling of the words that you are speaking So if you are speaking, thank you for taking care of me, especially if you have a dream goal that is going to provide you with Finances provide you with income that you've been wanting to have a dream business, right? Thank you dream business for taking care of me feel as if you are You are provided for. Feel the love that you are getting. Feel it. Feel it. Feel it. Feel it. Feeling is truly the secret. Because if you can feel it, you can experience it. Because you're already experiencing it when you are feeling it. This is why. If you've read, um, like, Think and Grow Rich, right? This is why he speaks about how love, how sex is one of the highest vibrations is because it is feelings, like, your feelings is raised higher. So if you can feel it, you can experience it because you're already experiencing it when you are in a state of love. So, I'm going to be talking about how to express your feelings. So, just feel it. Because words that have no feelings behind it, they're just words. It doesn't mean anything. That's like when someone's saying, I'm sorry to you and you can feel that there's no emotion behind that. It means absolutely nothing. If someone says, I love you and you can't feel it, it means absolutely nothing. You can feel it. Right? So feeling is very, very important. All right, this actually brings me to my next point Which is number five and how to become the magnet to your dream goal Is to visualize your dream goal visualize your life With this dream goal in it pretty much what I was just saying before about speaking life, but actually feeling it but visualization includes So, one of the greatest things that you can do as you are wanting to pursue your dream goal or if you are already in pursuit of your dream goal and you are ready to achieve it. One of the greatest things that you can do is yes. Get a vision board. The reason why I absolutely love vision boards and I've had multiple things come true, um, like becoming a peace speaker. I remember looking at my vision board one day and I was just like, I achieved that. Oh my gosh. Why? Because visual. So, yes, we are supposed to write things down. This is so, so important. But when you can tie a picture to something, your mind sees things in pictures. Your mind can really put things together when there's pictures tied to it. So one of the things that I love to do when I have my vision board is cut my face out If there's space then I print out pictures um, and then If it is a picture of a person, right, if it's not like a material thing, like a car or a house, if it's a picture of a person on it, just like speaking, what I would do is just cut my face out and post it on top of that person's face. Because what does that do for me? I can actually see it. When I see my face, I can see myself there. And so what I do, I have it on my phone. I have it on my computer. What I do is I look at it every single day. I open up my phone every single day, open my computer. I just take maybe five seconds, 10 seconds to just look at it and see myself there. When you can visually see yourself there. Your goal becomes attractive to you. Visualization your imagination Is so powerful. The first thing that god did was imagine imagine us and brought that imagination to life, right? So imagination is so powerful powerful. Anything that you can imagine in your mind, you can bring to life. Anything that you can imagine is going to magnetize you. This is why they say thoughts eventually become Your experience because maybe it won't happen tomorrow. Maybe it won't happen today But in a few years or a few months eventually they manifest So this is why they always say manage your thoughts as well. Not just your mouth because your thoughts turn into reality your thoughts Because they have pictures on it. Pictures where you feel, especially if you are feeling an emotion, can manifest into reality. So, You want to attract your dream goal. You want to bring your dream goal to you. Start visualizing your life with it. Ooh, it's going to be so good when I have this, right? Get giddy about it. Like, oh my gosh, like, think of that time of when how good is going to be when you experience it. sit there and visualize it. one of my favorite visualization meditations is from, is from Bob Proctor, is on the Mindvalley, YouTube channel, but it's by Bob Proctor. It's like a 20 minute visualization, and it is super easy. So good. That is one of my favorites to sit there and visualize. So visualize your dream goal. Visualize your life with it. Visualize yourself having it. Visualize yourself experiencing it. Visualize how it's going to feel and it's going to magnetize it to you. Thoughts create. You want it to magnetize your dream goal by just thinking juicy thoughts of your dream goal. So the sixth way to become a magnet, to become the magnet to your dream goal is to get excited when you're working on your dream goals and make it as fun as possible, and the reason why is because there's so many times and I used to be a person that do this is, uh, I have to do this, uh, I have to work on my business, uh, I have to work out, uh, I have to do this. Who wants that? Nobody wants to be an obligation. Nobody. Your relationship, your goal is in relationship to you. Your dream goal, just think about it as there's a man that you are dating. How would he feel? How would you feel if you felt like an obligation to somebody? You will not feel good. You will actually pull away. I know would actually pull away because that doesn't feel good. When you feel like an obligation, when you don't feel like The person is excited to see you, right? Nobody wants that. Your dream goal can feel that. Your dream is just energy, literally. You do not want to be working on your dream goal, feeling sluggish, feeling burnt out, feeling bogged down. What is that? What is that? Nobody wants to feel that. Your dream goal does not want to feel that, and it absolutely does. So when you are working on your dream goal, what can you do? Get excited, trick your mind and the most important way of, you know, getting excited when you are working on your dream goal. For me, here are my two ways is I mentioned one already is pour love on yourself. Give yourself time and space, starving that goal a little bit. So that when you come back, it can be. You can be excited. You can be ready because you gave yourself. time. You gave yourself self care. You gave yourself time to pour on yourself, but the second way is to think of it as is to think of it as a gift. You are working on a gift that was given to you to you, right? This desire, this goal, again, it was given to you. We don't have the goals of everyone else. Not everyone has the same goals. And so if you have a goal that was given to you, it is yours. It is yours to bring into. For a wish and it is yours to have and so when we're not experiencing any gratitude towards it when we're experiencing burnout and frustration and negative feelings towards it, it can really start showing as a sign of. I'm not grateful for this goal. I'm not grateful for this dream goal. This dream goal maybe is not for me. Maybe I shouldn't been given this desire. I felt that before. I felt that many times where I felt why was this dream goal? Why was this desire given to me? Right? That is not a good feeling to have. That does not magnetize your dream goal to you. It doesn't. It does not. If you want to achieve your dream goal, then Work on getting excited, do the things that's going to help you get excited. Like, make it fun. Right be Playful, how can you be playful as you pursue your dream goals, right? How can you make it a fun experience for yourself? We're not always going to feel motivated. We're truly not But how can you romanticize this process? How can you? Romanticize your goals. How can you make it a fun experience for yourself? for you. There's multiple ways to make it a fun experience for you. For me one of the ways that I love recording I love recording sometimes what I lit candle I love Dancing right before I start recording I love to play some good ratchet music before I start recording sometimes some dance music sometimes it depends on the mood some sexy music sometimes because I want to turn myself on. I want to get myself excited because when I show up, I want it to feel fun. I don't want this to feel like an obligation. And so what can you do for yourself? Can you do a little twerk session before you start, you know, working on your dream goal? What can you do to make it fun? Put on some lipstick, put on some heels while you're working on your business? Like what can you do? to jazz it up a little bit, to make it exciting. What can you do? And that's going to truly help you become the magnet towards your dream goal. Overall, what I want you to get from this is to really start looking at this as a relationship, as a relationship. You're dating as you are working to, you know, to draw someone into you. What can you do to get this man obsessed with you? Right? You want to get your dream goal obsessed with you so that attracting it, achieving it doesn't feel So hard it feels easy It feels like it's right for you Maybe there's a little challenge and that's okay, right? We we have to grow we have to learn but how can you make this one of the greatest experiences that you can have and that is looking at it and making it a process of just dating, falling in love. And that's going to help you become the magnet to your dream goal. And so if you want to start pursuing and achieving your dream goals in a way that feels authentic in a way that feels Like a romantic relationship in a way that feels good to you And you're not stuck in struggle mode trying to achieve this dream goal Then I happily invite you to my 90 day coaching program. It's called the goal achieve her program where it is created for ambitious queens like yourself who's ready to go from dreaming to achieving So if you want to join this program I have a special offer for those who join within the next two weeks Because we are starting on february 22nd Then go ahead and click the link in the description box. It is your time to become a goal achieve her. This is your year And I'm, just so excited to be able to support you And guide you in becoming and goal achieve her. All right, so the link is in the description box and ladies Before we go, you know, I love to rehash so that you can have something to follow back up on. So the first way to become a magnet to your dream and goal is to become the dream goal. Become the dream goal. You are your dream goal. And so in order to really magnetize your dream goal to you. is to learn how to become her, become success, become an achiever, become rich, become everything that you want to achieve, become. You become her first and then you have whatever you want to have. The second way is to love yourself more than you love your dream goal This is going to be crucial in your pursuit of achieving your dream goal. Love yourself more Yes, you love your dream goal. It's important to love it, but Not at the cost of you neglecting yourself. Number three is to show your dream goal that you care about it and that it is a priority. Honor your commitments, honor your time, build that trust back within yourself, build that trust so that your dream goal can trust you with what it is that it wants to give you. That's how you show your dream goal. It is a priority. Number four was speak love, speak life, show gratitude, show that appreciation. It's just speaking life. When you speak life, you magnetize. When you speak life, you're thinking from an appreciative mode of gratitude. Love and gratitude is one of the highest frequencies there. So, lift your vibrations and attract your goal to you. five was to visualize your dream goal. Visualize your dream goal. Keep it on your mind. Mental pictures. Yes, we write out our goals. That is very, very important, but to take it a level up, this is why we do vision boards, is to put pictures of everything that you want to achieve or your dream goal that you want to achieve. Put your face to it if you can, and really see yourself there. Look at it every single day because out of sight, out of mind. And when something is out of mind, it doesn't get achieved. So. visualize and visualize as much as possible, right? Because thoughts do create reality. What you're experiencing today, you thought about years ago. And so this is why it's so important to visualize what you want most, visualize that dream goal, so that you can actually attract this to you more than other things that you don't want. And then number six is to get excited about your dream. Go get excited about it. Make it fun. Don't make it feel like it's this obligation Make yourself feel like this is a gift. It's a gift to you It is a gift to others because the more you pursue your dream goals Guess what? You build more confidence in yourself. You feel better about yourself and that Benefits everyone else it benefits everyone else around you Right because you can have big dream goals small dream goals, but it can change your life And so look at it as a gift to you. You got that dream goal. Not anyone else that dream goal was given to you so it is a gift to you, right, so Ladies, that is it for today's video And until next time bye