The Bold Move Goal Getters Make to Build Confidence & Flourish in Multiple Areas

Hey Ladies! In today's I share the bold move, goal getters, high-achieving women make that expands  their confidence in multiple areas of their life. 

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Hey ladies, welcome back to Confident and Thriving Podcast. So today we are going to be talking about a power move. Okay? So this is a power move that most confident women make. That helps them go out of confidence and into confidence, and it is very simple move that can literally change. Change the trajectory of your confidence, change the trajectory of your audacity, your boldness, and that power move is simply choosing, choosing to. Not have confidence in something so that you can grow in confidence in, in a specific area of your life. So you probably heard, in order to get comfortable, you have to get uncomfortable, right? It is literally the same concept. Now, the difference here is that it is a choice. And simply, this is literally the price of admission in order for you to truly get the desires of your heart for you to. Own the things that you want to own in life, right? And so the reason why this is a bold move, the reason why this is a power move is because when it comes to choosing, when you make a choice to do something. It is you stepping out of being passive and is you stepping into responsibility. It is you stepping into, um, like authority over you, ownership over what you want over your desires. It is you taking ownership of the direction that you want your confidence to go in the level of confidence that you receive. Right, and because confidence is a seed, it is a muscle something that you have to consistently maintain over and over and over again. And so choosing to do so is going to help you quantum leap your confidence. Way faster than allowing yourself to just be. And so the reason why this topic even came to be is because there is a area in my business. Where I am going to choose to become confident. There is an area in my business where I'm literally going to choose to just not be confident in. I'm choosing to be uncomfortable. I'm choosing uncertainty. I'm choosing the, the, um, I'm choosing embarrassment. All of these things so that I can grow in confidence in this specific area that I want to, and that area is to become even more visible, to become even more seen by going live. Okay? And so what that means for me is that. Yes, right now, currently, you see this video, this video is prerecorded, which means that after the recording is done, I can go and edit. I can go and, you know, take out mistakes that I make. I can go ahead and do, I can even do retakes while I am currently recording this video. And that is a comfort level that I've been in for the past maybe two and a half years since I've been showing up online. And so I want to take my confidence to another level in the realm of visibility. And going live has been something that's been on my heart to do for a little while now, and it's simply because I wanna be able to connect with you guys a lot more. And so if you're listening on podcasts right now, um, listen, come subscribe to me on YouTube so that. When I go live, you'll be notified. We can have a conversation, we can talk, we can connect, um, during the live videos, the live episodes that I'm recording. And so that is something I really wanna do is be able to connect with you more and also. Just gain confidence in, um, just gain even more confidence in speaking skillset. And so why I'm doing is also why I'm sharing this with you because I don't have to share this, but why I'm sharing this with you is because I. It is really important to me to wanna live by example. I don't wanna just tell you guys to be doing this, make bold moves, get outta your comfort zone, and you don't actually see me doing it right. I wanna live by example and I wanna show you that it is okay to. Choose to be uncomfortable. It is okay to choose to be not confident in something and shaky because that choice that you're making is gonna be that power move. It's you deciding, okay, like I'm not confident in this right now, but I want to be, so I'm gonna take responsibility and choose to do this in the most uncomfortable way. I'm gonna choose to do this, you know, imperfectly, like with some doubt, with uncertainty. I'm gonna choose to do this so that I become confident one, a lot faster in this. Because remember what I talked about is that when you move towards confidence, confidence moves towards you. The faster you start taking bold action, the faster you start creating momentum is the faster that confidence will be, will, will begin to move towards you. versus when you are passive. When you are a passive and you're just allowing things to just be, they will just be right. And so when you are just allowing things to be passive and when you're not in the control, like you're not in the driver's seat of the direction that you wanna go in, then you can go either direction, right? And more times than not, it will be in the direction that you don't want it to go. You just kind of leave it to be. Just kind of hope for the best and hope that one day you become confident in the area that you wanna become confident, like it's just gonna just magically move towards you and appear. But that is not how, like building confidence work, right? I talk about this all the time. Sad. It is, you know, is belief. There's action, there's giving yourself love and proof. There's also multiple level, multiple levels of confidence. And I probably will create a video about those levels of confidence so you can kind of see what level that you are in. It could be one level, it could be multiple levels. It is okay, but there's multiple levels of confidence and, um, I probably will create a video about that. However, growing confidence is really like a seed, right? It's, it's pretty much a seed. So just like, um, it's kind of like watering a plant. So just like what a plant, right? In order to grow it into something healthy, beautiful. You have to consistently water it. You have to nurture it. Um, you have to maybe talk to it. You have to do the, the choosing, the intentional things to make the plant blossom, the garden blossom into what you know that it can be. You know that it's possible, right? That seed is already right there. And so just like with confidence. It's the same thing. You have to water your confidence by choosing, by being intentional, by, um, intentionally nurturing it, by doing the things that you know is going to take your confidence levels up. And so that's just one example. You can think of it as building muscle as well, right? When you're in the gym and you know you want to work out, you wanna build muscle, you can't see the muscle yet, the confidence is there. That seed is there, the muscle is there, but until you consistently go and you nurture it, and you. You, um, do the workouts, it grows a little bit and a more, a little bit and more and more until it becomes strength, until you can physically see it, right? And so again, like when you are consistently doing nurturing and you are watering in, in that space and time, you can't really see. You can't really see what's happening. All you can do is believe. All you can do is choose to continually show up. Choose to be uncomfortable. Choose to, you know, put, choose to be uncomfortable. Choose to lack a little bit of confidence and choose to nurture it until one day you see the results. And that's exactly the power move that you can absolutely make. Today, right? Like today is simply just making a choice, a decision it to just say, I choose to be uncomfortable. I choose to not be confident in this area so that I can get confident in it, but I'm gonna water it every single day. I'm gonna continue to plant teas of confidence. I'm gonna continue to water it. Every single day and that is your power move right there. That is your bold move because the key in a key ingredient in building audacity, building courage, building boldness is simply intention. That is one ingredient is being intentional. And when you can move with intention. Then you intend to go in the direction that you wanna go in. And it is way easier to get to the place, get to the level of confidence, get to the space in your life where you feel like, damn, I'm really confident in this. Because you intentionally move in that direction. You have to know where you're going. And when you know where you're going, you get to choose wisely. You get to choose and choosing is simply your responsibility. It is your responsibility to say, I'm, I'm choosing to be uncomfortable. I'm choosing to be non-confident in this so I can grow confident in this. And I think is, in order to have something, we have to have, not something, right? Like we all start from having not before you learned how to drive, you didn't know how to drive right before you learned how to talk, you didn't know how to talk. Everything is a path of development. You get to develop your confidence faster by simply choosing, right, build that muscle, grow watering that plant because the seed is in there, the seed is in you. I talk about innate confidence all the time that it was there since we were born. We were born to be. We were born to grow. We were want to develop over time, and that is something that you can do by simply choosing, okay, so. I hope, I like, I wanna make sure, like, I hope this message like really got to you. Um, let me know in the comments if like there is a spacing area where you really wanna choose to just lack confidence. Like I'm gonna choose to just not be confident in. So that you can grow confident in it. Like what is the area? Is it speaking up? Is it dressing how you wanna dress? Is it, um, taking certain classes is starting your business. Like what area in your life that you are going to just not be confident in so that you can grow and confidence. All righty. also. I wanna invite you ladies to my one-on-one, um, coaching offer. It is called Bold Moves. It is a seven week confidence coaching package. And so what this means for you is that you will. Start making bold moves, you'll start making bold moves towards your desires, your goals, your vision, your passion. And so the real value with that is that you will become confident way faster in the area of achieving your goals, and ultimately, like you will feel unstoppable to achieve anything that you desire to achieve. Because when. You one can give yourself living proof through both action, then you will realize your potential, what you're capable of, and start unlocking even more possibilities and opportunities for yourself. And I know that proven to yourself what you are capable of and what you can achieve is something that really matters, right? and so I'm gonna go ahead and leave the link in the description box for you to go ahead and grab your spot. If you have any questions, you could just go ahead and email me. All the information will be in that link. Um, other than that, ladies. Again, choose discomfort. Choose to lack confidence in something so that you can grow in confidence. Your confidence is in there. It is simply just a seed that is ready to be watered, ready to be nurtured, and you can plant even more competencies in there as well. Alrighty, and so that is it for today's episode, ladies. I'll see you in the next video. Bye.