Confident & Thriving
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Confident & Thriving
What Happens When You Decide To Own What You Want Unapologetically
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Hey ladies, welcome back to another video with me, Cleopatra. In today's video, we are going to be talking about how audacity. Is activated with you making one honest decision. This video is specifically for you if you feel very indecisive and you've been maybe indecisive and starting a business or hesitating to launch yourself online and you're going back and forth wondering if this is for you, you're back and forth. Between the doubts and the anxiety. by the end of this video, you should absolutely feel activated to begin owning exactly what you want. And so this one honest decision that you are going to make is I decide that this is what I want. This is a very powerful, bold move and this is something that is gonna keep your a audacity activated as you begin to take bold action. So in today's video, I'm going to go over five things that happens when you make this one decision. Does one honest decision that this is what you want. And so before I go ahead and get started and going over the things that happened when you make this shift, I just released today. My new course is called Activating Audacity, and this is a course where you become the woman who own what you want, and do so unapologetically. So it's a confidence transformation course specifically for women who have desires, who have big dreams, visions, things that they've been holding off being hesitant about, and they just need that confidence transformation that boosts and boldness, and to activate that audacity to become the version of yourself who own everything that you want without apology. it just released today, however. My birthday is tomorrow, so I don't know when you're gonna see this video. If you see this video tomorrow, that means today is my birthday but I'm gonna have a birthday sale for the weekend. It is gonna be 15% off. All courses. And so the code is going to be B day 15. I'll go ahead and leave everything in a description box, also put it on the screen for you to have. The cell ends April 6th. So if this is something that you wanna do, if you're ready to tap into the identity of a woman who owns everything that she wants, then go ahead. This is. For you. Okay, let's go ahead and get started. So one of the things that happens when you decide that this is what I want. So one of the things that happens is that you, you stop neglecting yourself. You stop abandoning yourself and you start feeling seen by you. So a lot of times when we are not owning what we want, it is a form of self abandonment. It is a form of self neglect. And so this keeps us low on confidence because we're not truly living authentically, we're not truly given, we're not meeting our own needs. And so when we are not living authentically, that means that we are not truly CN ourselves. Have you ever heard that phrase To be love is to be seen. And when you can really see yourself for the things that you desire and you decide that this is what you want, it is a form of self-love because you are you're no longer neglecting the things that you desire, the things that you want when you decide to own it. So you truly begin to feel seen by you, and that helps you step into that to a great level of confidence. There is multiple levels of confidence that I do go over in the activating audacity course, but you step into a level of confidence of freedom and freedom. A freedom level of confidence is where you feel free to truly just. Be yourself, right? You see yourself, you're living authentically and it is a beautiful phase to be in. And so when you can say, this is what I want this then you begin to live in a more free state of you and you begin to express that freedom level of confidence. Okay, So a second thing that happens powerfully when you decide that is what I want, this is what I want, what it, whether. whether that is to start your business, if you are ready to launch yourself online, if you are ready to take up space, if you are ready to make any bold decision. When you decide that this is what you want, something happens. Is that restlessness diminish? If you have been experiencing feelings of restlessness. It is simply because you can get the desire out, the desire that you want out of your mind and into action. Restlessness is a effect of you not owning what you want anytime. I don't own what I want anytime. I play small Anytime I'm like, Ooh, I'm not fully claiming it. There is buildup, rest, restlessness inside. And that can cause like you, constantly ruminating about the what ifs. Constantly thinking, oh my gosh, what if I regret this? Or co constantly maybe the rest of watching other women doing exactly what it is that you want to do. But you yourself are not owning it. That causes restlessness, right? Internal turmoil jealousy comparison. So when you begin to own what you want. Things like restlessness, diminishes, and peace of mind increases. So the third powerful thing that happens. When you decide that this is what I want, the business I wanna start is what I want I want that. I wanna show up, I want to share my voice. When you decide that this is what you want to do, what happens? You get anticipation. Anticipation is a feeling inside that is created by imagination, that is created through burden and desire. And what happens when that anticipation happens? It increases your level of certainty, it increases your level of action and it increases your level of frequency. So you're, so we all have an energetic vibration when you are not owning what you want. Your vibration is very much low in terms of the frequency of you getting the thing that you want. Why is because you not only what you want, there is something internal that's going on that is saying, either I don't deserve this, or I don't know if I can have this. That means that frequency is very low. You're very less likely to receive it. But when you own what you want, something shifts inside and that frequency increases. This is what I want. So it makes you more it makes it more likely for you to receive it. Now, I do wanna preface that it doesn't mean that you will receive it because you actually have to take the action. You actually have to withstand some of the setbacks you have to withs. Stand, the things that happen on the route to getting there. However, the frequency of that expectation of that anticipation, because you decide that this is what you want, makes it more likely for you to receive it. So a fourth thing that happens when you begin to own what you want, when you decide that this is what I want, something happens here you're. Mine expands, right? Your mine expands. So you start seeing opportunities. You start seeing different pathways for you to receive what it is that you want. Because you're no longer shut off to what it is that you want. You mind opens up creativity, sparks, ideas come in. Your ideas cannot come in, I promise you. I've had three businesses. One failed. I had a business where I was a online reseller. Second business was a dance business that failed before I even got started in my current business. Now as a coach And so anytime you do not own what you want, your ideas cannot surface. It can't surface. It can't surface. Be one because your mind is cluttered. There is no freedom. There's no peace of mind, and creativity only really comes when. You have this peace of mind. It cannot come with a clutter mind. It may come, but it won't come as vibrant as it can. And so you won't really see the different opportunities at different pathways that you can really, make it what, make what you want, truly come to life in the way that you desire to do. But when you can say, this is what I want this, I wanna be a speaker. I want to create courses. I want to, start a podcast. I wanna have a business. Then your awareness just expands. It expands because now you're open to receiving exactly what it is that you want. Okay, so the fifth thing that happens when you decide that this is what I want, you begin to close the door to what it is that you don't want. The more we don't own what we want, we stay in a space of what we do not want. What does that do for us? That keeps us restricted. That keeps us, again, not living, not expressing, not being in that true freedom. That keeps us dissatisfied, that keeps us unfulfilled, that keeps us in so many things that we don't wanna be right. So when you say, I want this, you are beginning to close the door to the things that you no longer. Now, when I think about this, most of us, if you ever heard of the. Pato law. It's a principle that applies to probably majority of things in life, Like there's an 80%, there's a 20%. I truly believe that most of us are doing 80% of what we do not wanna do. Versus the 20% we are doing what we wanna do. And if we can switch and say, you know what if the 80%, I own what I want, I go after what I want, I do what I want, and the 20% be the things that I do not wanna do. How more powerful, how more bold would you feel with that? How more happy would you feel when 80% of the things that you are doing is exactly what you want to do because you decided that this is what I want? So audacity truly is really activated when you begin to make that honest decision. Owning what you want takes real, like confidence in yourself. It takes courage more than anything. So courage is also a level of confidence. Most times you may think that you need confidence to get started, you need to have, you just need to have full blown confidence. But confidence is different levels to confidence. E courage is one of those things that you just need to be activated so that you can make that one honest decision. Because sometimes making the honest decision of this is what I want, it can, create discomfort. It creates fear, right? It creates uncertainty. It can create so many things, and courage is something where you allow the desires of your heart to overcome the fear, to overcome the possibility of failing, to overcome the anxiety, to overcome the imposter syndrome. That is what courage is, and so making an honest decision absolutely requires. Courage, but who is an audacious woman? An audacious woman. She is known for her courage. She is known for her boldness. She is known for her daringness to, to to do things, to go against the grain, to be uncomfortable. That is what makes a audacious woman and for you. If you are ready to activate that audacity within yourself, then courage is required to make that one honest decision. So if you are ready to start your business, own it. Say, I decide that this is what I want. If you desire to, share your voice and show up online, own it. This is what I want. If you desire to move across the world. Own it. This is what I want, right? If you desire to change your careers, own it. This is what you want. You get to truly own what you want, but it just takes one simple decision. It takes one simple decision. It takes a courageous decision, but you get to do that. And so again, if you want to. Go and do and make bold moves, and you want to be an audacious queen who you know owns what she wants. Again, I wanna invite you to the course. It is a self-paced course, okay? It's a confidence transformation course where you become the woman who begins to own what you want, right? And remember that this weekend is 15% off because it's my birthday. And so if you wanna take advantage of that special, you go ahead. It does end on April 6th all right ladies, and so that is it for today's video. I'll see you in the next one. Bye.