How to Get What You Want
You already know what you want. The question is, do you know how to get it?
On How to Get What You Want, Susie Tomenchok shows you how to navigate the moments at work that actually determine your career. The conversations, decisions, and situations where what you say and how you show up shapes your career growth, leadership presence, and professional advancement.
Because getting what you want isn’t about being louder or more aggressive. It’s about how you think, how you position yourself, and how you handle those moments at work.
And whether you call it that or not, that’s negotiation.
Not the kind that feels pushy or uncomfortable. The everyday kind you’re already in.
When you decide to speak up in a meeting
When you ask for an opportunity
When you handle workplace conflict
When you position your ideas and advocate for your value
Each week, Susie breaks down real workplace scenarios, communication strategies, and mindset shifts so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start getting what you want in your career and your life.
How to Get What You Want
[Part 1] Managing your mental wellness with Dr. Michelle Casarella, Psy.D.
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Dr. Michelle Casarella, Psy.D. who specializes in helping working moms build confidence and manage their mental wellness joins the podcast for a two part episode special. In this episode, we talk through how our mindset affects our ability to negotiate and how our emotions can get in the way of taking action. You will learn how to do what Michelle calls “clean out your junk drawer of thoughts” and how to push through when we hear "no".
A look at what we discuss:
[00:01:09] Meet Michelle Casarella
[00:04:03] Mindset around negotiation
[00:07:33] Junk drawer thoughts
[00:12:03] Taking what’s offered and becoming people come to expect of you
[00:16:06] Getting used to being uncomfortable
[00:23:23] Signs of when you are triggered
[00:30:11] Doing proactive work around knowing your value
[00:31:56] where do you want to take it from here
Connect with Michelle:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-michelle-casarella-psy-d-5200304b/
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Get my Book: The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation:
www.susietomenchok.com/our-book--the-art-of-negotiation
Learn more about booking me for a workshop: www.susietomenchok.com/workshops-and-training
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Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
💕Susie
www.linkedin.com/in/susietomenchok