How to Get What You Want
Your career isn’t built by waiting for someone to notice your value. It’s built by learning how to advocate for yourself with confidence.
You’ve been told your work will speak for itself. Yet despite doing everything asked of you—and more—you’re still feeling overlooked and uncertain about your next step. Leadership isn’t just about managing a team; it’s navigating the complexities of internal relationships and consistently advocating for your growth.
On Get What You Want, Susie Tomenchok is your silent partner, empowering you with the mindset and tools to negotiate your career—and life—with intention.
Unlike podcasts that focus on climbing the ladder or hustle culture, this show is for women who want to own their careers authentically. You’ll learn practical strategies for everyday negotiations, from asking for what you deserve to confidently handling tough conversations. Because negotiation isn’t just for raises or promotions—it’s how you navigate every opportunity in your career and beyond.
Susie is a negotiation expert who understands the challenges of being in a male-dominated industry and the struggles women face when advocating for themselves. She’s helped countless professionals unlock their potential and will show you how to do the same.
If you’re ready to stop waiting for your career to happen to you and start creating the opportunities you want, hit follow and join Susie each week to build your confidence, advocate for yourself, and finally Get What You Want.
How to Get What You Want
Avoid a negotiation-hangover
Have you ever gotten a promotion, and felt like you could have asked for a higher compensation but didn't? Well, today I’m sharing this real-life story from one of my clients where he asked for more, despite being told many reasons why getting more wasn't possible.
It is so important to understand what our value is to be able to have confidence and advocate for ourselves. People so often settle down for things that aren’t really fair, and then end up getting more responsibilities and not enough compensation, these are the moments when you should stand up for yourself and ask for what you deserve.
A look at what I talked about:
[00:01:10] Asking for more when you get a promotion.
[00:01:25] One of my client’s stories.
[00:03:20] The reasons why you should get more.
[00:04:00] Using their arguments to your advantage.
[00:05:30] Don’t settle for the first thing they offer.
[00:06:02] Understanding your value and advocating for yourself.
[00:07:00] The feelings when you stand up for yourself.
[00:07:51] The key of negotiation - aha moment.
[00:08:44] Walking away satisfied knowing you did all you could.
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Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
💕Susie
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