How to Get What You Want
You already know what you want. The question is, do you know how to get it?
On How to Get What You Want, Susie Tomenchok shows you how to navigate the moments at work that actually determine your career. The conversations, decisions, and situations where what you say and how you show up shapes your career growth, leadership presence, and professional advancement.
Because getting what you want isn’t about being louder or more aggressive. It’s about how you think, how you position yourself, and how you handle those moments at work.
And whether you call it that or not, that’s negotiation.
Not the kind that feels pushy or uncomfortable. The everyday kind you’re already in.
When you decide to speak up in a meeting
When you ask for an opportunity
When you handle workplace conflict
When you position your ideas and advocate for your value
Each week, Susie breaks down real workplace scenarios, communication strategies, and mindset shifts so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start getting what you want in your career and your life.
How to Get What You Want
Am I the only person with imposter syndrome?
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Suffering from impostor syndrome feels like a really lonely experience, but in reality, that’s not entirely true. Many people around us, even successful and worldwide recognized artists like Tom Hanks and Billy Joel have admitted feeling this way at some point in their lives. But, how did they deal with these feelings and moved through them on their journey to success?
Join me in this episode where I’m sharing some tips to silence the little voice in our heads that’s constantly making us feel like we’re not enough. And let me tell you, you’re not alone, you just need to find the process that works for you to feel more confident, and prepared to crush your insecurities.
A look at what I talked about:
[00:01:07] The only one with impostor syndrome.
[00:02:30] Managing the highs and lows to move forward.
[00:03:23] My first tip to manage impostor syndrome.
[00:04:45] The aha moment I had while watching Billy Joel.
[00:06:33] Advice that we give but we can’t apply ourselves.
[00:08:44] We all suffer from impostor syndrome.
[00:09:26] The process I’ve learned to be successful.
[00:11:17] Find your own process to feel more confident.
[00:13:10] My tips for you to overcome your insecurities.
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Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
💕Susie
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