How to Get What You Want
You already know what you want. The question is, do you know how to get it?
On How to Get What You Want, Susie Tomenchok shows you how to navigate the moments at work that actually determine your career. The conversations, decisions, and situations where what you say and how you show up shapes your career growth, leadership presence, and professional advancement.
Because getting what you want isn’t about being louder or more aggressive. It’s about how you think, how you position yourself, and how you handle those moments at work.
And whether you call it that or not, that’s negotiation.
Not the kind that feels pushy or uncomfortable. The everyday kind you’re already in.
When you decide to speak up in a meeting
When you ask for an opportunity
When you handle workplace conflict
When you position your ideas and advocate for your value
Each week, Susie breaks down real workplace scenarios, communication strategies, and mindset shifts so you can stop second-guessing yourself and start getting what you want in your career and your life.
How to Get What You Want
Turning Opponents into Partners
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What if your fiercest opponent could become your strongest ally? In this episode, I dive deep into the power of reframing conflicts, adopting a negotiator’s mindset, and building trust for lasting collaboration. Whether it’s a difficult colleague or a high-stakes negotiation, I’ll share stories, research, and actionable tips to help you turn confrontation into partnership. Let’s explore how small mindset shifts can create big breakthroughs!
In this episode, I'll cover:
1. How to reframe conflicts by shifting your mindset from “me against you” to “us against the problem.”
2. The importance of trust and reciprocity in fostering collaboration and building meaningful relationships.
3. Practical strategies to turn opponents into allies through curiosity, small wins, and active listening.
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📖 Continue Your Professional Growth with These Resources:
Get my Book: The Art of Everyday Negotiation without Manipulation:
www.susietomenchok.com/our-book--the-art-of-negotiation
Learn more about booking me for a workshop: www.susietomenchok.com/workshops-and-training
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Remember, negotiation is more than a skill—it’s a mindset.
💕Susie
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