Fear of Success and Failure | Visibility Glow Up Series Part 1

If you’re a woman terrified that being successful comes with a hefty price, or that trying and failing will humiliate you, this episode of The Femme Cast is for you. Welcome to Part 1 of my 5-part Visibility Block Series for Visibility Glow-Up Month. 

We’re diving into the sneaky, intertwined fears of success and failure that keep ambitious women stuck in hustle, procrastination, self-sabotage, and perfectionism. You’ll hear why strategy alone won’t fix this. Because if you don’t feel safe being seen, every step forward can trigger self-doubt, burnout, or quitting right before your breakthrough.

Inside, we unpack:

🎤 Why your nervous system might equate success with loss, guilt, or envy
🎤 How procrastination and busywork mask avoidance
🎤 The real costs: missed opportunities, energy drains, and unfulfilled potential
🎤 Family, cultural, and societal conditioning around hard work and “deserved” success
🎤 Why alignment over grind and one high-leverage step beats ten forced ones
🎤 Rewriting failure as feedback, not humiliation
🎤 How to navigate envy, boundaries, and true supporters

Through stories, lived lessons, and practical tools, rituals, emotional alchemy, and belief rewrites, you’ll learn how to create safety around visibility, reclaim your power, and move toward impact with ease.

It’s time to clear your blocks, glow up your visibility, and show the world what you’re made of.

Transcript

Welcome To Visibility Glow-Up Month

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Hey you guys, what is up? Welcome back to the show. I'm so excited and grateful to have you here. And I'm super excited if you're watching this in March 2026 because March is officially visibility glow-up month. So we are doing a ton of visibility content and glow-up activities here on the podcast and on my Instagram. So make sure you're following me in both places here and at the Femcast on the gram. I have lots of exciting things planned for you guys. Okay, so if you are a woman who is terrified to death of success, thinking that success means you're gonna have to work really, really hard, bust your butt, and completely wear yourself out in order to get there, and that it's gonna be hard work to maintain, or that you're gonna have to sacrifice all these other areas of your life to be successful. Or if you try to be successful at something that you really want to do, you'll ultimately be an absolute failure at it. Then this episode is absolutely for you. I am so glad that you are here. Welcome to part one of the five-part visibility block series. And this episode is all about the fear of failure and success, which are the exact opposite, but also very much intertwined with one another. So, welcome. This month, like I said, I'm gonna be breaking down the five core visibility wounds, right, that are keeping you stuck and keeping you from really and truly glowing up your brand and being seen in the world and making the impact that you're here to make. These are the blocks that I have seen over and over again, both in myself and in my clients. Sometimes you can have more than one, sometimes you can have them all, sometimes there's hybrids to them. So take everything with a grain of salt. And I can guarantee you, you'll probably see yourself in most if not all. If you're listening to my podcast, you're probably gonna see yourself in not in most, if not all, of these blocks that we're gonna be talking about throughout the month. And again, I'm gonna be sharing more stuff and tools to help you on my Instagram. So there's gonna be like affirmations and journal prompts and little like energetic healing videos and whatnot to support you. So, and lots of conversation over there. So make sure you're following me at the Femcast. And I guess that's it. Let's dive in, you guys. So let's talk about what this block actually is. So the fear of success or failure is again, like I said, it's the fear that if you are successful in whatever it is that you want to do in the world, right? Whatever it is that's on your heart that you want to do, be or create in this life, there's this fear that it's gonna be hard work, right? That any kind of success really means hard work. You've been programmed to believe that if you really want to be successful in this life, you have to work hard, you have to sacrifice, you have to push, you have to hustle, you have to burn yourself out. Oftentimes other areas of your life of your life pay the price. So, like, especially like for women, we feel like we can't be successful in our career if we want to be moms or we can't have a healthy, loving relationship or for too career-focused, right? All a bunch of BS and stuff that we've been taught to believe, right? There's also the fear that if we are successful, that other people around us are gonna envy us, they're gonna hate us, they're gonna be resentful towards us, especially if we feel like there's this fear that I know oftentimes, you know, as women, we often fear, we don't fear like a success to a certain level, but we feel like if it goes above and beyond the success of some of the people that we love, then fine, then at that point we start to feel threatened because if it's okay to have some success, but it's not okay, it's not okay to take up space and have more success than the people around us because then they'll be resentful, they'll be envious, they'll attack us, they'll put us down, they'll may, they'll, they'll, they'll what's it called? They'll belittle us in some way. Or in some time, some cases we may even feel like an obligation or a guilt that they have less than we do, and an obligation to kind of give whatever success we have over to them in order to level the playing field so we don't feel guilty anymore, which takes all the joy out of success, right? Not to say that we don't want to help people, of course we want to help people. Um, but when you feel like an obligation and owing a I I need to give this away in order to be okay with myself, that's not a good feeling. That's a whole other icky feeling, right? And again, the fear that if you actually put yourself out there and try to be successful and say, hey, I'm gonna, and especially if you if you think about voicing it, like this is so much a thing if you're trying to start like a business, especially an online business, because now it's like if I fail like this, the whole world is gonna fucking see me fail. Like everybody's gonna see me fail. Everybody's gonna know. And that has this whole other angst attached to it, right? So when we have this fear, when we have this fear of success or this fear of failure that's kind of running our programming behind the scenes, it can show up in so many crazy ways. Like it can show up in, you know, procrastinating on the things that you know that you should be doing, the key things that you know are gonna make you successful. They're gonna be the drivers in your business or your career or your message or whatever it is you're trying to do in the world, right? What are those key things that you need to be doing that you know that you are gonna make you successful? You're probably gonna be procrastinating those things. Those are gonna feel like you you know, those things that kind of eat at the back of your mind, you keep putting off, you keep putting it off, but they just they're they're always there niggling, right? This is where that theory of eat the frog first, I don't know whoever invented that's the worst term I've ever heard, but that's where that comes from, right? Because oftentimes that little niggle is a sign that it's a key to our success. And yet we keep pushing it and silencing it and sweeping it under the rug and and and and putting it aside to work on and pick up on something else. So, which leads me to my next point. If you struggle with fear of success or failure, you often spend a lot of time and energy and focus on the things that don't matter. Like in the end of the day, they're not gonna make you successful. They're just things that we that we do because it makes us feel productive to do them. And we think we can justify in our mind, oh, but look, I'm working, I'm doing the work, I'm hustling, I'm doing all the things you're supposed to do, but actually it's not contributing to your success at all. Or if it is, it's very little. Like it's like the smallest thing in the world that you could be doing, right? And, you know, all the while, you know, you're working, you're getting you're working harder, you're working longer, you're putting more effort in, you're probably getting less and less in return, which kind of you know starts to perpetuate the cycle. Then you get burnt out. You probably end up, if even if you do start to acquire some success, you'll probably end up just sabotaging and and yourself and quitting before the miracle, like quitting at the 11th hour, right before that that success is about to hit. That's when you decide to burn it all down and or go on a hiatus, or you know, you just you just end up just so deflated that you can't do anything at all. And then so you you end up having like missed that window of opportunity. I know I've been there a thousand times. And so we have to think about it as, you know, when we when we look at this fear of success or the fear of failure and what it's actually costing you at the end of the day, right? I mean, if we if we narrow it down, obviously it's costing you money because the longer you take trying to get to those levels of success, the more it costs you financially, right? It's also costing you a lot more energetically because you keep striving, you keep pushing on the wrong things and procrastinating, doing the things you need to be doing, wasting all your time on the things you shouldn't be doing and kind of fighting yourself in the process, right? So you're burning yourself out, you're caught in this cycle of self-doubt. And every time you try to get out there and you know, you sabotage yourself or you quit right before the miracle, you're kind of perpetuating, like I said, that belief that you're just gonna fail. So it's like you're increasing this, you're constantly intensifying this cycle of self-doubt that keeps repeating, right? And so now it's like whatever that belief is, it's like you're adding fuel to it, right? You're you're you're cementing it into your energetic field. And it you can easily end up in a cycle where you feel like you're moving backwards, even though you're working harder, like you'll feel like you're working harder longer, pushing, striving, hustling, and yet the results are becoming less and less and less and less and less each time. And that's because you keep reinforcing this belief that success means hard work and you don't want that, right? And so, yeah, and and I sorry, I lost my train of thought. This happens a lot when I start to do this, and ultimately, you know, it starts to keep you from your happiness and your fulfillment, right? Because let's face it, like if there's something that if there's something out there that we're meant to be doing, that we're meant to be successful at, that we're meant to shine in and to share with the world or to share with our community or to share with our workplace. And we're not doing that, and we're constantly working hard at things we don't want to be doing, that don't feel aligned, that feel forced, that feel like things we have to do in order to be successful versus the things that we want to do, ultimately it impacts our fulfillment, right? And we don't, we can't, we do not feel fulfilled doing the things that we're doing because we're too busy working hard and hustling, because that's what the world taught us we're supposed to be doing in order to achieve real lasting success. And honestly, like nothing could be farther from the truth. If anything, if the last 15 years have taught me anything, is that pushing, striving, and hustling is not gonna get you where you want to go. And doing the things that you dread doing that don't feel aligned because you think it's the secure, logical thing to do, it's not gonna get you there. I've proven that to myself time and time again. Like, I can't even tell you. I think, and we'll get into how the story is, but or how it showed up for me, but it's it's so funny. Like, I can remember, like, you know, in the beginning when I started my business, like putting all my effort into things like designing my website and rewriting my copy. And I still do this, I still do this from time to time, right? And I have to catch and now I catch myself because I'm like, what dude, what are you doing? Right? Are these things really the things that are gonna make you successful? Or are you just like telling yourself that you're keeping busy because that's what you think that you should be doing in order to be successful, right? Are they really the key things that are gonna actually get you there? So very important. And and by the way, as we get into the series, I will tell you right now, I've had each and every one of these visibility blocks. And I continue, I continue to work through them, and they still come up from time to time. And so, you know, please know that as I share these things with you, it's coming from a very real and authentic place. Like I'm not up here preaching that what's it called? Not that I've I I I know I I know a lot, I know everything that I know about these blocks because I've lived it. Okay. Am I perfect? No, but I am very aware of them and I and I and I'm very conscious about how I move through them, and I share with you guys how I do that. So, okay, so where does the fear of success or failure typically come from, right? Usually it's because you know, you were taught at a very young age, you know, you have to work hard to be successful, that successful people who didn't earn it the hard way are typically bad people. And I don't know about you guys, but I can see that belief being reinforced on a collective scale right now. I'm like, oh my god, can we see this like unfolding in real time? Right. But that is like, I mean, I grew up in, you know, a working class immigrant home. Like, I mean, we we the whole thing was work hard to take care of your family and to put food on the table. And, you know, that people who, you know, got rich quick or or or have found a lot of success without actually having to work hard for it were typically bad, dishonest people, right? And not to be trusted. And that's the belief that so many of us grew up on, right? Especially if you come from a working class family. So oftentimes, you know, that that kind of belief system can really feed into these kinds of fears and patterns as we get older. Oftentimes, you know, it also comes from this belief that we should never be more successful than other people because then we feel bad or guilty for it, right? So that's where that fear of success comes into play. If we fail at say, like if we say that we're gonna go out and we're gonna do something in the world and then we don't do it, we're gonna be humiliated, right? There's this belief that, you know, if we do try to achieve something and we do fail and feel humiliated, that these same people are gonna be kind of standing there going, well, serves you right. Like, who the hell were you to think you could do something like that or be that successful, right? So there's there's so much like there's so much like animation going on in in the brain, right, when it comes to these, these beliefs. And you know, and then again, going back to like societal pressures, like we're conditioned, we're conditioned to believe that we need to work hard, that we need to hustle, that we need to grind, that we need to sacrifice in order to be successful. And I do believe that that was something that was very deliberately planted in our belief system at uh, you know, as we evolve through it a patriarchal society, because that benefited the top, the top 1%, right? If we believed that, which we can see now is ultimately, we have examples in the world of how that is ultimately not true, right? It's a false narrative that we've been taught to believe because it kept us in a disempowered place. And so thankfully, many of us are starting to see this unfold and we're starting to realize, hey, maybe, maybe what we've been believing all this time is actually not the truth, right? Which is which I'm so glad about because I think I think we could all benefit from rethinking a lot of these beliefs that we've grown up on, right? And so when we work together, like if you ever work with me one-on-one, these are some of the beliefs where we go back into like where these stories were imprinted into your childhood, and we start to to we we we clear a lot of the beliefs that were created and we use the emotional alchemy piece to to to code in new beliefs into your system that actually support you achieving the success that you want to achieve in this life, right? But the reason why, like so many times, like when we're struggling with a fear of success or failure, and I always say this, right? If you have a visibility issue, it is almost almost never a strategy problem, almost always a safety problem. It's because you don't feel safe being visible for some reason, right? And and the reason today is that fear of that if we're visible, we're gonna be successful. And if we're successful, we're gonna have to work hard, we're gonna have to sacrifice, we're gonna have to grind. Nobody likes that, really. I know I don't like that, or we're gonna fail, right? And the reason why, you know, so many people that struggle with visibility that, you know, turn to strategy as a solution when really what's blocking them is this fear of success or failure. There's a very good reason why strategy won't work because you'll probably try a thousand of them and you'll try to perfect them and do them again and again and try harder and perfect and implement this strategy and then implement that strategy and then work on this back. Like you will like, you will go down the rabbit hole of strategies, and not a single one will work. You will always get the same results. If anything, you'll probably get worse results. This is especially true if you're a content creator, right? And you're trying to put your content out there. I've uh experienced this a gazillion times where it's like I've tried every strategy under the sun that worked for everybody else but me. And I'm like, why isn't this working for me? Like, I don't understand. I've I've implemented the strategy to a T and it's not freaking working. Okay, try this strategy, try that strategy. And oh my god, like I literally got strategy burnout at one point from doing this work, okay? And the reality is, is because you will keep you will keep in that cycle of working hard and grinding in order to achieve success. And deep down, there's a part of you that just doesn't want that because you don't want the hard work, even though you're actually doing it. It's kind of this like double-edged sword energy thing that happens. It's bizarre. But anyway, and even if you do start to achieve some level of success, you'll probably sabotage it, right? Or you're gonna be focusing on the wrong things or the wrong pieces of the strategy that are really aren't gonna be those key, those key factors to help you to achieve the success. So you're always just gonna be missing the mark, constantly missing the mark. You constantly feel like you're chasing this this carrot you can never ever ever catch. It's insane. And sometimes it feels like the more and more and more you lean into strategy, the worse, worse, worse your results get. Until you, like I said, strategy burnout. I threw it out the window. I couldn't stand it. Don't give me one more fucking strategy. I will burn it. I will burn it all down. Like I was just so strategy, I was so in strategy burnout, I didn't want to look at another freaking strategy, honest to God. And so, you know, how we shift this, right? And how I started to shift this and how I've shifted it in my clients is first of all, acknowledging that success is something that is available to everyone. You do not need to work hard at it. That is a lie that we've been told to keep this patriarchal system alive, okay? When we start to actually break it down, if we look at, if we look at us, each and every one of us as being an energetic creation, right? And we were created to be exactly who we needed to be in this life in order to fulfill the purpose that went here to fulfill, right? And usually whatever it is that we're passionate about, that we want to create in the world, that is totally aligned with the with what it is that we're meant to do, be and create. Ego stuff aside, which we work through and we work together, but sometimes the ego can kind of run amuck in there. But ultimately speaking, you know, the things that are really our heart-centered desire to do in this world, they are absolutely aligned with our the purpose that we're here to fulfill. So when we can start to trust that and trust that, you know, what it is that we're here to do, be and create is something that is innate within us and that we've been naturally equipped with everything that we need to do in order to achieve it. Yes, we can fine-tune, we can learn a little, we can get a little bit of certification, polish up our strategy here and there, but ultimately, ultimately, if you can come back to the belief that you already have within you all the knowledge that you ever will need or ever will need to know in order to implement whatever this is on your heart to implement in the world, then you can start to trust in yourself more. And that really is what this comes down to is trusting in yourself and trusting that it doesn't have to be hard work. It can be easy, it can be natural. Sometimes the things that we're gifted at that we're meant to do can feel like the easiest thing in the world. That doesn't say that they don't come with their own challenges, they do. But in terms, it it feels like the most natural thing to do. And sometimes we it can seem almost too simple, right? We also have to remember, and another mindset shift that I always love to say is that there's a lot of really good people in the world with lots of access to good resources, and the more good people that we have in the world that have access to good resources, the better world we get to create, because then those people get to create amazing things that help other people create amazing things. Like we create this ripple effect of positive change, right? So, yes, there are absolutely good people in this world who are successful, who have resources, who have wealth, who have, you know, tools at their disposal that they can that they can support and help and create more positive change with, right? There's no limit to the amount of success we can have. There is no like whatever we've been taught about you can only, you know, if you come from from this type of a honey, you can only achieve the X amount of success. Or if you have this type of a job, you can only achieve X amount of salary. Like, all of that is bullshit. When we can follow our internal guidance as our divine intelligence to lead us to what is ultimately in our highest good and the highest good of everyone else, and we can listen to and trust that and have faith in that, we can absolutely be successful. And oftentimes it's when we make those aligned steps where the work doesn't feel as hard. And one step forward, you know, when when we're not aligned, one step forward actually takes you 10 steps back, versus when you're in alignment, one step forward, and you like propel and energetic and energetically leap forward, and everything starts to show up to support you in that process, right? And sometimes in the most abstract ways, too. So and another thing too to remember, and that and that what I always tell people like I've been on this entrepreneurial journey now for 15 years, failure is almost an inevitable part of it. Like, there's always things that you fail at, like, there's always mistakes. That you make and and things that didn't work out, and you had to like you know bury and and and put aside or whatever. But at the end of the day, they weren't actually failures. They were kind of they were just learning experiences and they kind of helped to kind of you know guide your path forward, right? The only real failure is not trying. I mean, that is really the only real failure at the end of the day, right? Just because you tried at something and it didn't work out, it's not actually a failure, right? That's just how we've been taught to look at it or to perceive it, right? But it's not, especially when we can extract the lesson and apply it, then we don't see it as a failure, right? We see it as a learning curve, right? As something that we can learn from and apply and do things differently going forward, right? So, you know, when we can change our perspective of what success and failure actually is and what it means, like we're no longer so afraid of it anymore, you know? And yeah, and so, you know, the people and going back to this belief that if you are successful, that you know, ultimately other people will feel bad if you have more success than they do, or they're gonna be resentful towards you or envy you or whatever in any form of way. Always remember. And this is not always an easy lesson, but it is a very important one to learn, especially if you're somebody who has really a calling on their heart to create an impact in the world and and achieve success. The people who matter are the people who will pop the champagne with you when when you succeed. Those those are the people who matter. The people who are gonna be over the moon excited for you when you succeed at something, those are the people you should care about, you know. The people who are gonna get, you know, sulky about it, they're not your people. It doesn't matter who they are. It does not matter who they are. Now, you know, people it is in human nature to kind of feel sad if you know if we see other if other people if people see other people succeeding at something that they would have wanted. It's okay, it's okay to feel a little, oh, you know, you know, why not me? Blah, blah, blah. And get a little bit in the store. And that's part of the journey, right? Because then we kind of can use that information and say, well, if they're doing it, I can do it too, right? But first a trigger moment has to happen. So in a way, it is kind of a good thing. The bad part is when, you know, they start to attack you for it, they start to make you feel bad for it, they start to make you be, they start to belittle you for it. You know, that's a shit that you don't want. Like, I, you know, I can remember getting my last big promotion at work and having all my friends now start to question me why I got the promotion, what made them think that, you know, they should give that promotion to me. And even almost implying like I got it in a shady way. And that's when I knew that they were not really, you know, on my side and didn't really weren't really celebrating my success, even though they tried to pretend like they were. Because if they were, you know, comments like, well, why would your boss give you that promotion? And oh, are you and your boss close? Oh, how close are you and your boss? And it's like, no, we're not going there, you know? But but this is this, this, this is sometimes, you know, the thing that keeps us from really wanting to be successful is this fear that when we get there, people are gonna just, you know, they're they're gonna be envious, they're gonna make bad judgments on us, they're gonna make us feel bad for it, they're gonna gossip behind our back and tell us, tell stories about why we're successful, right? So, you know, always remember that you are people are the ones that are gonna be so freaking ecstatic for you on the other side of your success. So, again, you know, having worked up in a working class household and believing that hard work was the key, you know, it sent me down this path of constantly having to work harder, right? And the harder I worked, you know, when I was younger, though, oftentimes a lot of these beliefs start to work in the beginning and then slowly scale back. So in the beginning, I started to work hard. I made good money, I got success. Okay, I'm gonna work a little bit harder, made more money, got more success, work a little bit harder, made more money, got more success until you hit about 30 or 40, and then the reverse starts to happen. Then the undoing starts to happen, especially if you're somebody who's here to make a massive impact in the world. You're gonna start to see these strategies start to deplete as you as you get older. And now suddenly the harder you work, the less you're making. The harder you work, the less the the the what's it called? Or it feels like you have to work harder to stay the same, to stay afloat, you know? So it constantly feels like you're moving backwards, right? And that's because you have this belief beneath the surface that is telling you you need to work hard to be successful. And on a subconscious level, you do not want that. Nobody really wants that. Who wants to work hard? You know, I mean, unreasonably hard. I mean, I think, I think all of I've I'm I am, I'm not gonna say I'm not a hard worker. I am. But I do it from alignment and not from what's it called, that fear of I'm not gonna be a good standing member of society if I'm not doing this, you know. I work hard when it's aligned and I take breaks when when when that's the aligned thing to do, and I'm okay with either, is I guess the best way to kind of explain that. So I think I, you know, going back to when I started to break down these beliefs, I I think that was exactly the thing. I started to look at, well, when is it really aligned for me? When do I feel like I really want to work hard at something? When do I feel passionate? When do I feel excited? And how can I lean into that? And when it's not, and when it feels forced, or when I feel like I'm pushing or or or overreaching, overforcing, overextending, how can I just kind of lean back and, you know, give it some room to breathe and not make all that extra force and push in order to achieve a result. And it was very uncomfortable at first. I'm not gonna lie, and it took time, you know, and it constantly kept me, you know, reaffirming these beliefs that, you know, if if it's aligned work, it can be, it can be easy. It doesn't have to, you know, hard work, success doesn't have to mean hard work. And there's a lot of people out there that are very successful, doing amazing things in the world. And it doesn't mean that we're they're bad people for being so successful, right? And so constantly reiterating that, leaning into the discomfort of leaning back and fighting the urge to constantly work hard to push, to strive, to hustle, and then trusting the alignment when it clicks and moving forward with that. And it's such a it's such an intricate little dance of energy management and self-awareness, and it still chips me up from time to time, not gonna lie. I still catch myself in like, okay, time to pull back, time to sit down, time to relax, and just trust and come back to faith. And and it is actually a process that'll strengthen your faith above anything else. Anything else, like it has been one of the biggest factors that has really helped to strengthen my faith and my ability to just surrender and trust, and to trust that alignment, forward forward movement and forward action when it's aligned is so much more powerful than anything that you have to force. Even though sometimes you have to sit in the discomfort of waiting for that aligned thing to show up. And that can be very uncomfortable because we're taught if we're not doing, if we're not constantly pushing, that we're not constantly striving, that we're not productive, that we're not constantly being productive, that we're not a contributing, a positive contributor to society, right? Nothing can be farther from the truth. Sometimes resting, allowing, being open to receiving is just as productive as the work that we do, if not more productive, oftentimes, because that's when we get the inspiration and the ideas and and we get the clarity that we need to move forward on our path. So very, very, very important lesson in you know, overcoming that fear of failure, success, really learning to trust that, you know, again, good people can do amazing things in the world, achieve a lot of success, and do so, you know, without a lot of hard work or hustle. Hard work and hustle is not the way to go. In fact, it's the thing that's going to keep you from the success that you truly want and desire, right? We just have to change our minds and our belief about what success means and looks like. And it does not have to mean hard work, sacrifice, pushing, grinding, striving constantly and strategizing. It can look like ease and flow, and it doesn't mean that we're bad people. It just means that we're following our own alignment and what it is that we're here to do in the world and trusting that everything's going to be supported when we can lean into that alignment and that intuition. Okay. So take what resonates, leave the rest. And of course, if you want to go deeper with me in a session, I would be honored to have you book an intensive with me. I am doing a glow-up special for the month of March 2026. So if you purchase your intensive, the link is in the show notes below. There's a you can apply a coupon glow 2026 to get$100 off of your session. And that's it. Let me know how this landed for you. Let me know either in the comments below wherever you're seeing this, DM me over on the gram and let me know how it resonated for you. Make sure you're obviously following the podcast for the upcoming episodes as well. Next week will be part two where we're going to be covering the fear of judgment and rejection and how that plays into visibility. And also make sure you're following me on the Femcast for all the other goodies on the gram for all the other goodies that I'm going to be sharing with you guys. Okay. Sorry, that was a rambly close, but whatever. Okay, you guys, go glow yourselves. And until next time, massive love.