What if the exhausting chase for love—the overthinking, overgiving, people-pleasing, and shrinking yourself just to be chosen—was never your fault… but the result of a belief system that was handed down to you without your consent?

In this raw and soul-stirring episode of The Femme Cast, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the deepest wounds so many women carry: the belief that love must be earned.

If you've ever asked yourself:

🎤 “Why do I keep chasing emotionally unavailable partners?”
🎤 “Why do I lose myself in relationships that never truly nourish me?”
🎤 “What would it look like to choose myself—really, deeply, unapologetically?”

…this conversation is for you.

We’ll explore how this subconscious conditioning—passed through generations, religion, school systems, and patriarchal programming—has created a dangerous pattern of self-abandonment in the name of love. You’ll hear intimate, never-before-shared stories from my own dating history (hello, circus-in-my-head level overthinking 👀) and how I finally stopped performing, contorting, and settling for breadcrumbs… and reclaimed my wholeness.

In this episode, we dive into:

🎤 The hidden origins of the “I must earn love” wound—and why it’s not your fault
🎤 How this belief leads us to chase chemistry while ignoring compatibility
🎤 The moment I decided to stop performing for love and what shifted after
🎤 What it really means to trust that you are enough, as you are
🎤 How to reverse-engineer this pattern and attract love from a place of wholeness, not hustle

This isn’t just about relationships. It’s a full-body reclamation of your self-worth, your desires, and your sacred “no more.”

You’ll walk away with the clarity to stop asking “How can I get them to love me?” and start asking “Is this even someone I want in my life?”

Because the truth is: you don’t have to earn love. You were born worthy of it. And when you finally stop chasing what’s not aligned… you create space for what deeply is.

🎧 Press play. Share with a sister. And don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review if this episode cracked something open for you.

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What if the girl labeled “jealous” wasn’t insecure… but traumatized?

What if the woman who seems "too sensitive" is actually just learning how to feel safe again in a world that shattered her?

This powerful final part of The Sacred Reclamation Series: The Betrayal Edition here on The Femme Cast is for every woman who has ever had the rug ripped out from under her — who gave her heart to someone she trusted completely, only to be blindsided by deception that fractured not just the relationship… but her very sense of reality.

When betrayal trauma hits, it doesn’t just make you question the people around you. It makes you question yourself. You start to wonder if your intuition can be trusted, if your emotions are valid, and if you’ll ever feel safe loving someone again.

In this deeply raw and healing conversation, I share what rebuilding trust actually looked like for me after betrayal:

🎤 How emotional flashbacks hijacked my nervous system and made normal moments feel dangerous

🎤 Why I took a 7-year relationship hiatus — and how I knew I was ready to try again

🎤 The red flags I ignored, the lessons I learned, and the ways I began to trust myself again

🎤 What it really means to distinguish between a trauma trigger and genuine intuition

🎤 Why you’re not crazy, and how to find your grounding again after chaos

We’re talking about nervous system healing, emotional safety, and the long road back to self-trust. This episode isn’t a five-step checklist or some fluffy “just let go” advice. It’s a reckoning. A remembering. A reclamation.

Because the truth is — love never comes with guarantees. But you can make it feel safer by knowing you have your own back. That you know what red flags look like now. That you won’t abandon yourself next time.

Because not all of us have Chris Martin at a Coldplay concert publicly validating what we already knew deep down.

We’re diving into what it really takes to rebuild trust after being cheated on and manipulated — and how to feel safe loving again after the person you trusted most shattered everything.

This is your invitation to stop gaslighting your own body, honor your lived experiences, and return to the version of you who knows exactly what she deserves.

🎧 Tune in now to hear the truth behind the healing. 

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What if the version of you who was betrayed wasn’t broken — but being rebuilt?

In Day 4 of The Betrayal Series, we're confronting the haunting question so many women ask after betrayal…

“Who am I without him?”

And deeper still…

“Can I ever get back to the confident, radiant woman I used to be when I met him?”

But what if the goal isn’t to go back?

What if she — the woman you were before the heartbreak — attracted that very relationship for a reason?

In this raw and radically honest episode of The Femme Cast, I pull back the curtain on my own experience of losing myself in a relationship, abandoning my dreams, silencing my intuition, and performing just to keep love — only to realize that the true betrayal wasn’t just his... it was my own.

We’ll dive deep into:

🎤 Why trying to "go back" to the woman you were is an injustice to who you're becoming

🎤 The subtle ways we betray ourselves long before anyone else does

🎤 How to use heartbreak as a portal to your next-level identity

🎤 What it means to reclaim your passions, your power, and your real self

🎤 How to stop performing and start aligning — in your relationships, your career, and your everyday life

This episode is a wake-up call. A mirror. A reclamation.
It’s a reminder that the pain wasn’t punishment — it was purpose.

Because you didn’t go through all of this just to stay the same.
You went through it to evolve into the woman you were always meant to be.

🎧Let this episode be your sacred permission slip to stop trying to fit into old versions of yourself — and instead, allow the truest version of you to rise.

If this episode cracked something open in you, share it with a sister who needs this truth, and leave a review so this message can reach more women who are ready to rise.

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You survived the betrayal… but now what?

If you’re still cooking the same meals, following the same routines, and trying to squeeze yourself into the exact life you had before it all fell apart — this episode is your wake-up call.

When my relationship ended in betrayal, I clung to the familiar. I stayed in the same job. Bought the same groceries. Maintained the same habits — even when they felt hollow. I think subconsciously part of me was hoping that if I just held it all together, maybe someone new would step in and pick up where he left off.

But one night, standing alone in my tiny downtown apartment with a fridge full of food I didn’t want to cook and a heart full of resentment, I had a breakdown — or rather, a breakthrough.

Why was I fighting to preserve a life that never truly felt like mine?

In this raw, unfiltered episode of The Femme Cast, I’m taking you inside that moment — and what happened next. This is about more than heartbreak. It’s about waking up to the ways you’ve betrayed yourself… and choosing to burn down the life you built around someone else.

We’ll explore:

🎤 Why clinging to “normal” after betrayal keeps you stuck in survival mode

🎤 The difference between healing and holding yourself hostage to the past

🎤 How I went from ordering pizza and wine every night… to dancing, traveling solo, and building a life that finally felt like mine

🎤 What it really means to burn it all down — and how to do it without losing your mind

🎤 The small daily shifts that transformed my entire existence

This episode isn’t about destruction. It’s about reclamation. It’s about building a life that lights you up from the inside out — not one that just looks good on paper.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Who am I without him?”... this is the first step toward finding out.

Let this be your blank canvas. What would you paint?

🎧 Tune in now and get ready to meet the woman you were always meant to be.

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They told you to “let it go.”
To stay soft. Stay positive. Stay silent.
But what if your rage isn’t a problem to fix — what if it’s a portal?

In this raw, unfiltered episode of The Femme Cast, we’ll crack open the misunderstood experience of rage after betrayal — not as a weakness, but as a sacred, intelligent force calling you back to yourself.

Betrayal trauma doesn’t just break your heart — it breaks your trust in your own knowing. And the rage that surfaces in its aftermath? It’s not just anger at them… it’s the buried grief of how deeply you abandoned yourself to stay loved.

🎤 You’ll discover how unprocessed rage leaks out in misplaced aggression, dreams, or chronic tension

🎤 Why suppressed emotions distort your energy and keep attracting more emotional unavailability

🎤 How to safely give rage a voice, so it can stop screaming from the shadows and start guiding your healing

🎤 And the real reason “just forgive him” never sat right with you (and never should have)

I’ll share my own personal experiences — including the explosive ways rage surfaced in dreams, traffic, and everyday life — revealing how years of self-abandonment finally came to a head. And how choosing to listen to that rage became the most holy, transformational act of self-reclamation she ever made.

Rage is not the opposite of love. Sometimes, it is love — the kind that says, never again.

If you’re ready to break the cycle, feel it all, and reclaim the voice you silenced to survive... this episode is your permission slip.

🎧 Listen now and reclaim the very part of you that you that is trying to make you feel whole again. 

Your rage is holy.
Let it lead you home.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

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The signs were there.

The late-night disappearances.
The mystery phone calls.
The way the energy shifted the moment I entered the room.

My gut was screaming that something wasn’t right… but I silenced it.
I believed his words over my body’s wisdom.
And when the truth finally came out?

I was shattered. 
And furious with myself for not seeing it sooner.

In this opening episode of The Sacred Reclamation Series: The Betrayal Edition happening here on The Femme Cast, I take you deep into the question that haunts so many women after betrayal:

How could I not have seen it?
And when I finally did… why didn’t I leave?

I was blindsided. Broken.
It felt like the ground had been ripped out from under me.
But what I didn’t know at the time was that this heartbreak—this betrayal—would become the catalyst for the most profound transformation of my life.

It cracked me open.
Pulled me out of the fog.
And launched me into my deepest reclamation.

What started as devastation became a spiritual awakening—
And ultimately, a return to radical self-trust.

But first? I had to forgive myself.

In this episode, I’m sharing:

🎤 The quiet signs I ignored—and why I ignored them

🎤 How self-abandonment disguised itself as loyalty

🎤 The nuanced truth about forgiveness (hint: it doesn’t mean reconciliation)

🎤 Why forgiving yourself is often harder than forgiving the one who hurt you

🎤 How betrayal forced me to stop outsourcing my intuition and finally trust my own knowing

🎤 The moment I stopped asking, “Why is this happening to me?” and started asking, “How is this happening for me?”

This isn’t about blame.
It’s about honoring the version of you who stayed—
And loving her fiercely.
Because she was doing the best she could with what she knew.

And when you're ready, healing doesn't begin with forgiveness.
It begins with reclamation.

Your power.
Your truth.
Your self-trust.

This episode sets the tone for the full 5-part healing journey inside The Sacred Reclamation Series: The Betrayal Edition.

If you’ve ever felt ashamed for not seeing the truth sooner…
If you’ve struggled to forgive yourself for staying too long…

This is your invitation to finally set yourself free.

🎧 Listen now and join me tomorrow for Day 2: The Rage You’re Afraid to Feel.

You’re not alone—and your healing starts here.

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Why do we keep chasing people who don’t choose us — even when we know better?

In this powerful, soul-baring episode of The Femme Cast, I break down the emotional addiction behind chasing emotionally unavailable partners — and why breaking free from this cycle feels so hard. Drawing from my own experience during a 7-year relationship hiatus, I share how I treated chasing like an addiction… and how this one shift changed everything.

This episode is for the woman who’s tired of begging, convincing, or shrinking herself to be chosen — and is ready to choose herself instead.

Inside, we dive into:

• The emotional voids we try to fill through unavailable partners
• The two questions that helped me stop chasing and start healing
• Why chasing others only makes them run — and what actually makes you magnetic
• The difference between codependent needs vs. healthy relationship desires
• The runner-chaser dynamic and how it’s playing out in your texts, your thoughts, and your energy
• The raw, messy truth about how I stopped outsourcing my worth to men who couldn’t meet me

We also explore what it really means to become the center of your own life — not in a selfish way, but in a self-honoring way. This is the work that helped me call back the parts of myself I had abandoned for love that wasn’t real, and finally make space for love that truly is.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in the loop of performing, proving, and overgiving — this episode is your mirror, your permission slip, and your first step out.

🎧 Listen now to reclaim your energy, shift the dynamic, and attract love that chooses you without the chase.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

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This is your turning point.

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What do anonymous prank calls, elaborate route detours, and fifth-grade crushes have to do with your love life today?

Turns out… everything.

In this raw, soul-baring episode of The Femme Cast, I take you on a time-traveling trip back to junior high, when love first felt like a game I had to win. These seemingly innocent childhood crushes didn’t just capture my heart; they unknowingly initiated me into a decades-long obsession with emotionally unavailable men. From stalking lockers and rehearsing conversations to planning "accidental" run-ins with military precision, I became the Navy SEAL of strategic self-abandonment — all in the name of being seen, chosen, and loved.

But here's the truth I didn’t learn until much later in life. 

"When you're chasing someone else, you're almost always running from yourself."

This episode is for every woman who's ever felt like love was something she had to earn, convince someone of, or perform for.

We’ll unpack: 

• Why chasing emotionally unavailable men gave me the illusion of control
• How early attachment wounds quietly shaped my definition of love and safety
• The grief and liberation of realizing that we cannot control who loves us or when
• The moment I finally stopped chasing and started choosing me

You'll hear the behind-the-scenes of my most humiliating crush stories (yes, they're hilarious and heartbreaking), the emotional aftermath of my most recent long-term breakup, and the deep spiritual reckoning that followed.

If you've ever wondered why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable men, or why you feel addicted to the chase, then this episode is your mirror, your medicine, and your permission slip to stop chasing and start receiving.

Because the truth is, real love doesn’t require a performance.
And your worth was never up for debate.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

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This is your turning point.

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What if I told you that the pattern you call “bad luck in love” is actually a trauma response in disguise?

In this soul-baring episode of The Femme Cast, I take you into the raw, unfiltered moment that shattered my illusions about love — the night I found myself on the floor, begging someone to love me. Not because he was worth it. But because, deep down, I still believed I wasn’t.

What followed was a soul-awakening — a brutal and beautiful unraveling of every belief I had about love, worth, and who I thought I needed to be to be chosen.

Inside this episode, we explore:

• Why you keep chasing emotionally unavailable people — and the surprising dopamine addiction that makes it feel like love
• How this pattern is a sophisticated trauma response designed to protect you from the deeper pain of feeling unworthy
• How your parents (even the ones who “did their best”) shaped your beliefs about what love looks and feels like
• The childhood wounds that make unavailable love feel safe — and the real reason you can’t stop going back
• How to break the cycle by facing the parts of yourself you’ve been running from (and finally reclaim your power)

This isn’t just about romantic relationships. It’s about every place in your life where you’ve outsourced your worth, silenced your truth, and begged to be chosen — instead of choosing yourself.

Because the moment you stop chasing love that only sees half of you… is the moment you become magnetic to love that stays.

This episode is your mirror. Your permission slip. Your turning point.

If you’ve ever felt addicted to the pain of almost-love, this one will crack you wide open — in the best possible way.

Tap play. Let’s go there.

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We all have that one moment we’ve buried deep.
The one that creeps back in at 2 a.m., leaving a pit in your stomach.
The moment you swore you’d never tell a soul.

This is mine.

In this raw, unfiltered episode of The Femme Cast, I take you back to the moment I found myself on the floor, crying and begging a man to love me—a man I knew, deep down, was cheating and gaslighting me while swearing he loved me. It was humiliating. Cringe-worthy. And yet... It was the beginning of my awakening.

From the outside, it looked like love.

But inside, I was drowning in confusion, emotional neglect, self-abandonment, and the desperate hope that if I could just be “enough,” he would finally choose me.

This wasn’t just about him—it was about a lifetime of chasing emotionally unavailable men.

It was about a father I adored but who didn’t know how to be emotionally present.
It was about the story I had unconsciously lived for decades. 

The story that love must be earned, begged for, and proven worthy of.

Inside this episode, we unpack:

• The runner-chaser dynamic and why it feels so addictive
• How early emotional wounds prime us to mistake pain for passion
• The distorted definition of love I had to unlearn
• Why your “rock bottom” moment might just be your soul trying to wake you up
• The truth about men who say all the right things but never show up
• And the single, most pivotal realization that began my healing journey

This isn’t a fairytale love story.

It’s the story of a woman who got tired of begging to be chosen—and started choosing herself.

If you've ever felt like you had to perform, prove, or plead for someone’s love…
If you're stuck in a cycle of chasing emotionally unavailable people…
If you're ready to reclaim the version of you that knows love shouldn't hurt…

Then this conversation is your mirror, your permission, and maybe even your turning point.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
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We’ve been told to just think positive.

To manifest through our mindset.
To smile through the ache.

But what if the very emotions you've been taught to suppress... are actually your greatest source of power?

In this raw and revolutionary episode of The Femme Cast, I’m finally sharing the story I promised I would—the one about the silent meditation retreat in Thailand that turned out to be anything but healing.

What looked like a spiritual sanctuary quickly revealed itself as a hotbed of emotional repression, toxic control, and disturbing coping mechanisms disguised as “enlightenment.” It was the moment I realized that so much of the spiritual and self-help world doesn’t heal you—it gaslights you.

You’ll hear:

• Why “just be positive” is spiritual bypassing in disguise
• The disturbing truth about what some spiritual leaders teach
• How unprocessed emotions mutate into passive-aggression, rage, and energetic blocks
• The moment I looked around and realized I wasn’t crazy—this was
• And the power of reclaiming your emotional truth as your most sacred feminine superpower

Here's what I want you to know:

You are not broken for feeling deeply.
You are not weak for crying, raging, grieving, or cracking open.

You are a f*cking force.

Your emotions are energy in motion—and when consciously felt and transmuted, they become creative fuel for love, healing, purpose, and manifestation.

We don’t manifest from vision boards.
We manifest from frequency.
And frequency comes from feeling, fully.

This is the episode that will finally help you understand why affirmations fail, why mindset work can’t touch your deeper wounds—and why reclaiming your emotional self is the most revolutionary act of your spiritual evolution.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
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We stay too long.
We hold on too tight.

And sometimes, we love the potential more than the person in front of us.

In this soul-baring episode of The Femme Cast, I open up about the terrifying — and ultimately liberating — moment I realized I was clinging to a relationship that no longer aligned with my truth. 

Not because I didn’t know better… but because I was afraid. 

Afraid he might change — but for someone else.
Afraid this might be as good as it gets. 
Afraid of the unknown that would come after walking away.

Sound familiar?

We explore the emotional weight of:

• Convincing yourself breadcrumbs are enough
• Holding on to empty promises that never lead to real change
• Abandoning yourself just to keep something that’s already fading

I’ll share the mindset shift that changed everything for me:

 "Can I accept this person exactly as they are today — without needing them to change — for the rest of my life?"

If the answer is no, you already have your answer.

Letting go doesn’t mean you’ve failed.
It means you’re finally choosing you.

And when you do?

That’s when the right love — the one that sees, chooses, and honors all of you — can finally find its way in.

🎧 Press play. This might just be the episode that sets you free.

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It hit me like a lightning bolt:
"That’s it. I’m done. I have nothing left to give."

That moment marked the end of chasing, shape-shifting, and settling. What I thought would be a short break from dating spiraled into a seven-year relationship hiatus—not out of bitterness, but out of something far more sacred: a call to come home to myself.

In this deeply vulnerable episode of The Femme Cast, I share the truth behind my unexpected journey into singlehood. No, I didn’t plan to be single for seven years—but what started as a timeout turned into the most profound spiritual initiation and self-reclamation I’ve ever experienced.

If you’ve ever found yourself overgiving, constantly seeking approval, or shrinking your truth to avoid abandonment, this episode is your mirror. Your invitation. Your medicine.

We explore:

• The exact moment I reached emotional rock bottom—and chose me
• Why I stopped trying to “be chosen” and started choosing myself
• How I reclaimed my energy, voice, and purpose by opting out of relationships
• The surprising gifts that emerged when I stopped performing for love
• How this sacred pause helped me reconnect with my power, passion, and worth
• Why intentional singlehood is the healing portal every over-giver needs
• The slow, messy, beautiful journey back into dating as a fully expressed woman
• And how becoming unavailable for crumbs made me a magnet for emotionally available love

This is not just my story—it’s a blueprint for every woman who’s ever lost herself in love. And it’s not about swearing off connection. It’s about never abandoning yourself again in the name of it.

And when you learn to source your safety, validation, and joy from within, you stop settling. And you attract the kind of love that meets you there.

If you’ve ever said “I have nothing left to give,” this episode is for you.

Because your self-worth isn’t up for negotiation—and neither is your peace.

Let's do this.

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This is your turning point.

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What if the chaos you're resisting is actually the medicine your soul's been asking for?

In this raw, soul-cracking episode of The Femme Cast, I take you behind the scenes of a moment that changed everything—the night I was trapped by a tropical storm on a remote beach in Thailand, no way out, and nowhere to hide… not even from myself.

Cut off from distractions, coping mechanisms, and the outside world, I had no choice but to face the tidal wave of emotions I’d buried for years: heartbreak, betrayal, rage, grief. And what erupted was the beginning of something powerful—my Sacred Reclamation Method ™ —a transformative framework that sees our emotions not as burdens, but as portals to radical healing, soul evolution, and quantum-level change.

This episode is part memoir, part medicine. I’m dismantling the toxic spiritual idea that we "attract" negative experiences because we’re broken, flawed, or not healed enough. Instead, I invite you to see your storms as sacred initiations—DNA-deep invitations to shed, shift, and alchemize the parts of you still clinging to survival, so you can step into the woman you were always meant to be.

Inside this episode:

• The true story of my heartbreak healing trip through Thailand and Bali
• How a wild storm on the edge of the sea cracked me wide open
• Why your emotions aren’t the problem—they’re the pathway
• What spiritual bypassing gets wrong about “positive thinking”
• How soul fragments get lodged in the body and attract experiences that beg to be healed
• The real alchemy that happens when you stop fixing and start feeling
• How emotional chaos can become your greatest catalyst for becoming

This isn’t just a story about travel. It’s a story about truth.

Whether you're in the thick of your own storm or still trembling from the last one, this episode is a permission slip to stop resisting the chaos—and start asking the real question:

How is this storm here to evolve me?

🎧If you’re ready to meet the version of you that’s forged in fire and freedom, press play. This one is for the woman who’s tired of pretending she's fine and is ready to rise—wild, weepy, worthy, and whole.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
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What if the most selfless act you could take… is the one that disappoints everyone else?

If you’ve been conditioned to believe that love is earned through over-giving, self-sacrifice, and constantly pleasing others—this episode of The Femme Cast  might shake something deep within you. I know, because for most of my life, I was the woman who believed that being “good” meant abandoning myself. I gave until I was empty. I performed for approval. I said yes when my soul was screaming no.

And then… I did the unthinkable.

In 2016, I bought a one-way ticket to Southeast Asia. No plan. No approval. Just a whisper from my heart that said: go. That trip cracked open everything I thought I knew about love, worthiness, and what it truly means to live in integrity with yourself.

In this raw and transformational episode, I’m sharing:

• The toxic beliefs women are taught about love, sacrifice, and self-worth
• Why people-pleasing is not love—it’s a survival pattern rooted in fear of rejection
• The truth about being a "good woman" vs. being a sovereign woman
• How to break free from codependent conditioning and reclaim your desires
• The power of doing the "unpleasing thing" and why it’s the most courageous, selfless thing you can do
• How one bold decision changed the entire trajectory of my life
• A daily challenge to help you reclaim your voice, your truth, and your freedom

This episode is your permission slip to disappoint everyone else—so you can finally stop abandoning yourself.

You don’t need a logical reason to follow your heart. You just need to trust that your inner knowing is reason enough.

Let this be the sign you’ve been waiting for.

🎧 Press play. And if this moved something in you, please leave a review or share it with someone who needs to hear this today.

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This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

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What if the very behaviors we were praised for—being “nice,” giving endlessly, and putting everyone else first—are the same ones keeping us disconnected from our power, our purpose, and the love we truly deserve?

In this unapologetically honest and soul-stirring episode of The Femme Cast, I go way deeper than just toxic relationships and surface-level healing. We’re pulling back the curtain on generations of conditioning that taught women our worth lies in how well we perform, caretake, overgive—and most of all—please.

Spoiler alert: Operating from overdrive, masculine energy, and constant self-abandonment is not the vibe anymore. 

The world doesn’t need more women pretending to be invincible. It needs women who are rooted in their truth, brave enough to do the “unpleasing” thing, and wildly devoted to following the whispers of their heart—even when it means disappointing others.

In this episode, we dive into:

• How generational people-pleasing got embedded in our DNA—and how to break it
• The cultural myths that made “being chosen” feel like life or death
• Why burnout is not a badge of honor but a wake-up call
• The sacred rebellion of saying “no,” honoring your needs, and choosing yourself
• Why embracing your divine feminine energy is the medicine the world is starving for
• What becomes possible when you trust that you were already chosen—just by being born

This episode is a call to every cycle breaker, every woman questioning the old rules, every heart that’s done performing for love and ready to live in alignment with truth. You are not here to be pleasing—you are not here to be pleasing—you are here to break the cycle by doing the unpleasing thing.

If you’re ready to finally stop abandoning yourself in the name of being “enough,” this is your invitation to come home to who you truly are.

🎧 Tune in now and share this with a sister who needs to hear it. Because when one of us heals, we all rise.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

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This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

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Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, draining situationships, or friendships that leave you feeling unseen—even though you’ve been doing so much inner work?

In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’m taking you deep into the four relationship shifts that completely transformed my love life, my friendships, and the way I relate to myself. These weren’t quick mindset hacks or fluffy self-help tips. These were hard-won shifts that cost me comfort, certainty, and some relationships—but gifted me peace, truth, and alignment.

Here’s a peek at what we explore:

• Why “being the nice girl” is keeping you disconnected—from yourself and from others
• The sneaky ways people-pleasing and approval-seeking show up, even after you think you’ve healed
• How bypassing your anger, grief, and resentment blocks your ability to access your power and deeper love
• The difference between healthy compromise and self-abandonment (and how to stop sacrificing your needs just to keep the peace)

We’ll explore how each of these shifts peeled back the layers of my own performative love patterns and helped me rebuild from a place of deep self-worth and emotional safety.

This episode is raw. It’s real. And it’s probably going to challenge some long-held beliefs about what makes a “good” partner, daughter, friend, or woman.

But if you're tired of playing small, being misunderstood, or over-functioning just to be loved—this conversation is going to feel like a breath of truth.

🎧 Listen now and let these powerful shifts plant new seeds in your relationships.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
https://thefemmecast.kit.com/masterclass

Have you been feeling an overwhelming resistance to the very life you’ve worked so hard to build?

You're not alone—and it’s not just burnout.

In this raw, soul-stirring episode of The Femme Cast, I’m pulling back the curtain on a collective uprising happening in women’s bodies, minds, and spirits—a full-body no more to the self-sacrificing systems we’ve been conditioned to uphold for generations.

This isn’t about needing a break.

This is about your soul shutting down the performance. It’s a sacred rebellion against the lie that your worth is measured by how much you give, do, and endure.

Inside this episode, I share:

• A channeled message I received during the full moon that cracked me wide open
• The deeply personal story of how I walked away from a 15-year relationship, my career, and a life that looked “perfect” on paper—but felt like slow soul-death
• The truth behind this resistance: it’s not weakness—it’s awakening
• Why logic, pushing, and productivity hacks only deepen the ache
• A gentle 3-step process to start breaking free: Let go. Create space. Follow joy.

You’ll also hear real takeaways from women in my community—those who feel like they’re breaking down, but are actually breaking free.

If you've tried to "push through" and it's only made things worse…
If your body, your heart, your energy are screaming “I just can't do this anymore”...

This is your permission slip. Your wake-up call. Your divine redirection.

You are not lazy. You are not broken. You are waking up.

There’s also a powerful journaling invitation waiting for you inside—one that might shift everything.

🎧 Tune in now and discover what’s waiting for you on the other side of resistance.

Your heart already knows the way.
Now it’s time to listen.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
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If you’ve been feeling deeply exhausted, disoriented, and like you don’t recognize yourself lately — you’re not alone. I’ve been feeling it too. In this episode of The Femme Cast, I’m sharing a raw, unscripted, channeled message about what I believe is really going on beneath the surface.

So many of us are going through what I’m calling a “quiet reset.” It’s not a breakdown. It’s not self-sabotage. It’s your soul calling you to slow down, tune in, and surrender the patterns that have been weighing you down — many of which didn’t even begin with you.

This season is inviting us to let go of who we thought we had to be, so we can remember who we really are — underneath the trauma, people-pleasing, perfectionism, and pressure to prove ourselves.

I’m speaking to the spiritual exhaustion so many of us are carrying — the weight of healing, of breaking generational cycles, and of constantly trying to keep it all together. If your body is saying “rest” but your mind is yelling “push through,” I hope this episode brings the permission, perspective, and peace you’ve been needing.

Inside this episode:

• Why burnout often signals spiritual misalignment, not failure
• The connection between inherited trauma and our relationships
• Why your soul chose this life, this path, these lessons
• What it really means to rest and let the Universe meet you halfway
• How to stop filling the emptiness and make space for the miraculous

You’re not broken — you’re becoming. This isn’t the end. It’s the beginning of your next level.

🎧 Press play, take a deep breath, and know that you’re not alone.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
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Have you ever driven somewhere and realized you don't have a single clue how you got there? That’s exactly how people pleasing can steer your life — silently, unconsciously — until one day you wake up wondering, "How the hell did I get here?"

In today’s episode of The Femme Cast, I’m diving deep into the invisible but massive impact people pleasing has on the trajectory of your life — and how to break free.

As a recovering people pleaser, I share:

• Why even small, daily decisions to please others create huge momentum away from your true path
• How the 35,000+ decisions we make each day either align us with our soul — or pull us deeper into disconnection
• How people pleasing feeds on our core wounds of abandonment and rejection — and what to do about it
• The surprising truth: People pleasing has more power to sabotage your life than even major traumas or life events
• How to tell the difference between fear-based discomfort (fear of disappointing others) and true intuition
• How my bold decision to disappoint others and follow my body’s "yes" transformed my life

Each time you make a tiny choice to betray yourself for approval, you hand over the wheel. You coast through life on autopilot, until one day you look around at relationships, careers, and a life that feels completely misaligned — and realize you didn’t consciously choose any of it.

The good news? You can take your power back. It starts with small, courageous choices. It starts with being willing to do "the unpleasing thing" — the thing that honors your soul over others' expectations.

Recovery isn’t about perfection. It’s about consistent awareness, messy courage, and radical self-trust.

You are one brave decision away from changing your entire life trajectory.

Let's do this. 

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
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Have you ever found yourself obsessively drawn to someone you knew wasn’t right for you—and then judged yourself for it?

This episode of The Femme Cast is about to blow the lid off what attraction really means.

The truth is: attraction isn't random. It’s coded into your spiritual DNA as a divine mechanism for healing and evolution. Those magnetic pulls? They're not mistakes—they're soul compasses pointing you toward the lessons you most need to grow.

Let’s be real. 

That emotionally unavailable ex?
That situationship you knew was a dead end but couldn’t quit?
That person who waved every red flag in the book and still had you hooked?

They were never random. They were assignments.

In this vulnerable and eye-opening conversation, I'll share my raw personal journey of being irresistibly attracted to all the wrong people—until the day it all changed. From feeling butterflies for toxic partners to now experiencing the “ick” response when faced with the same dynamics, I unpack what happens when you finally learn the lesson, integrate it, and shift your energetic signature.

No more attracting what wounds you.
No more settling out of fear of being alone.

Just wholeness, boundaries, and magnetism that only calls in what’s aligned with your highest good.

Get ready for an empowering reminder that healing changes your taste—and that’s a good thing.

Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

• Why attraction is your soul’s GPS—and how to read it
• The real reason you're drawn to red flags (and how to stop)
• How healing shifts your desires from toxic patterns to healthy love
• What it really means when someone suddenly gives you the “ick”
• The importance of curiosity, not shame, in examining your attraction patterns
• Why boundaries aren’t walls—they’re magnets for emotionally available partners
• How to tell when you’re choosing from fear vs. choosing from wholeness
• Why the willingness to be alone is the ultimate power move in love

Let’s normalize healing, conscious attraction, and waiting for the love that chooses you back—every single time.

Let's do this. 

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
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TRIGGER WARNING: This is the advice I avoided for YEARS because I knew it would force me to face every insecurity I had. But the truth? It was the ONLY thing that finally broke the cycle of toxic relationships and made me a magnet for healthy, loving relationships.

If you keep attracting the same emotionally unavailable partners—the ghosters, the breadcrumbers, the ones who leave you on standby until something “better” comes along—it’s not a coincidence. It’s a pattern. And it’s one I know all too well.

For years, I recycled the same five guys over and over, convinced that this time things would be different. They never were. The game changed when I finally stopped running—from relationships, from my fears, from myself.

The uncomfortable truth? The most transformative thing you can do is to intentionally be alone for a season. Not because you have to, but because your healing depends on it.

This episode of The Femme Cast is your wake-up call. We’re diving deep into:

•  Why we chase unavailable partners (and what it really says about us)
•  The generational wounds that keep us trapped in toxic cycles
• How being alone becomes your greatest superpower, not your punishment
•  The exact steps to shift from chasing love to becoming a magnet for it

Listen now—because if you’re tired of the heartbreak, the disappointments, and the endless cycle of “maybe this time,” this episode might just change everything.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
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Ghosting can feel like a punch to the gut—leaving you questioning what went wrong and spiraling into self-doubt. But here’s the thing: your energy is too valuable to waste on someone who can't communicate with respect. In this episode of The Femme Cast, I challenge the common advice to "play it cool" when a ghoster comes crawling back. True empowerment isn't about acting unaffected—it's about recognizing your worth and not engaging with someone who’s emotionally immature. 

We'll discuss: 

• Ghosting often triggers a spiral of self-doubt and questioning what you did wrong
• How influencers suggest playing it cool when a ghoster returns, but this approach misses the mark
• True high-value behavior means not investing energy in someone who has shown disrespect
• Refusing to engage with someone who ghosted you isn't about what they think—it's about valuing your energy
• The person who's right for you would communicate honestly even if it's uncomfortable
• Moving through the discomfort of being ghosted eventually leads to genuine unbothered confidence
• Focus on knowing what you deserve rather than trying to change how others treat you

I share how I’ve navigated being ghosted countless times, what I’ve learned, and why the right person for you would never disappear without explanation. Tune in for a no-BS approach to protecting your energy, reclaiming your worth, and setting boundaries that honor your self-love. Remember: If someone ghosts you, it says more about them than it does about you. Don't chase validation—your next relationship will honor you from the start.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
https://thefemmecast.kit.com/masterclass

Why do we chase after people who can’t fully love us back? The answer runs deeper than we think.

In this powerful episode of The Femme Cast, I take you inside my personal journey—how a childhood spent longing to hear “I love you” from my father unknowingly shaped my adult relationships. Every emotionally unavailable man I chased was a reflection of that little girl inside me, still hoping for validation, still craving those three simple words.

• How childhood experiences with emotionally unavailable fathers shape our love lives
• Why our nervous systems become wired to chase instead of receive love
• The hidden reason we keep seeking validation from those who can’t give it
• The moment I realized I had to stop running—and start healing
• How to break free from the chase and attract true emotional availability

This isn’t just about my story—it’s about all of us who have ever felt unworthy of love, who have chased instead of received, and who are finally ready to rewrite the script. If you’re tired of the painful cycle, this episode is your wake-up call.

🎧 Press play now. The love you seek is already seeking you—but first, you have to stop running.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
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Have you ever felt like the harder you chase love, the further it seems to run from you? Like every time you try to prove your worth, convince someone to choose you, or hold on tighter, they only slip further away? And faster.

In this episode of The Femme Cast, we’re diving deep into the energetics of chasing, why it never works, and how this pattern is actually by divine design—pushing you toward the real lesson or pain you’ve been avoiding. Because the truth is, every time you run after someone, you’re not just chasing them… you’re running from yourself.

We'll talk about: 

• Why anything that is pursued instinctively moves away (and how this plays out in relationships)
• The subconscious craving for external validation and how to break the cycle
•  How your relationships mirror your inner wounds, forcing you to confront the parts of yourself you’ve been avoiding
• How moving through your emotions rather than running from them transforms your energy field and makes you effortlessly attractive

If you’ve spent years chasing unavailable love, waiting for someone to finally choose you, or feeling stuck in the exhausting cycle of wanting what doesn’t want you back—this episode is for you. We’re tearing down the illusions and getting to the core truth of what actually makes you magnetic.

🎧 Press play now. The love you seek is already seeking you—but first, you have to stop running.

Ready to stop abandoning yourself for love? To finally rise from the wreckage of betrayal and become the woman you were born to be?

The Sacred Reclamation Series: Betrayal Edition now playing right here on The Femme Cast.

5 soul-stirring podcast episodes + a FREE live healing + activation on July 29th @ 8PM EST

This is your sign.
This is your turning point.

Claim your seat now at the FREE live healing + activation now.
https://thefemmecast.kit.com/masterclass