Coldplay, Cheaters & CEOs..., Can I install a tracker in my partners vehicle? Sneaky Pete! What do I do if I am being followed? Counter surveillance tips and tricks.

In this episode, we cover:-

1- Coldplay, Cheaters & CEOs...

2- Can I install a tracker in my partners vehicle?

3- Sneaky Pete!

4- What do I do if I am being followed? Counter surveillance tips and tricks.

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Transcript

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Hi, welcome to the latest podcast episode of Down Under Investigations, The Truth. We discuss all things private investigation, process serving, skip tracing and surveillance. You'll hear all about legal issues, cutting edge techniques, latest news and accurate information about our exciting industry. Let's join our host, Simon.

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So today we're breaking down a story that's got everyone talking around the world, from HR departments to legal teams to your group chat. It's the now infamous Coldplay CEO cheating scandal. And yeah, it sounds wild on the surface, but underneath it, it's a perfect case study in workplace misconduct, legal grey areas, and what happens when private behaviour gets caught in a very public moment. So let's rewind. At a Coldplay concert a few weeks ago, a kiss cam did its usual sweep of the crowd. It landed on a woman and a man, who visibly panicked. They ducked, they hit their faces, the whole arena and later the internet saw it. The moment went wild. Pretty quickly, the two people were identified. The man was the CEO of a mid-sized but high-growth tech company. The woman with him was not his wife. She was the company's head of HR. Both of them were married, but to other people. Not great optics. But this wasn't just personal embarrassment. This was potentially a major liability issue for the company. Why? Because it raised questions about a possible relationship between two high profile, high ranking employees, one of whom had power over the other. Think about it. You've got the CEO and the head of human resources, two people who are literally responsible for overseeing the entire company culture, ethics and workplace policy. Now they're under public scrutiny for what looks like an undisclosed affair. Depending on the company's code of conduct, this could be a violation of internal policies, especially if there was no disclosure to the board. Within 24 to 48 hours, both were placed on leave. Within a week, they resigned. Now, on the legal side, here's where it gets interesting. Resignations are often seen as clean exits. But in situations like this, the board might have offered a severance deal to avoid further damage or a lawsuit. There's speculation the CEO retained some of the is-exit compensation, which is a whole conversation in itself about corporate accountability. Then came phase two of the drama. Reports surfaced that the now former CEO had allegedly spent over$250,000 on OnlyFans. That includes subscriptions, custom content, live video chats. Some of the spending reportedly happened while he was still in his leadership role, raising potential concerns about misuse of funds, conflicts of interest, or at the very least, incredibly, incredibly poor judgment. Legally speaking, unless company funds are involved, which hasn't been confirmed, it's unlikely he's in breach of any criminal statute. But reputational damage? Massive. Investor confidence? Hugely shaken. And internally, it raises tough questions. Did his behaviour reflect a broader pattern of misconduct? Were guardrails in place, or weren't they? And then there's the HR angle. If there was a power imbalance between the CEO and the HR chief, and if one of them felt pressured or vulnerable, it could open the door to future litigation, hostile work environments, sexual harassment claims, or even retaliation. Also, let's not forget about the personal legal fallout. In many states in the USA, adultery can impact divorce proceedings, negotiations, and even custody disputes. And now that this is all public, that could play a role also. So where are they now? The company has new leadership, the former execs are gone, their personal lives appear to be unraveling, and the story has become some kind of corporate parable about ethics, transparency, and how one kiss cam clip can explode into a full-scale leadership crisis with legal consequences on all sides. Whether you're in HR, in-house legal, or just a very online observer, this is one case study worth watching. What we wanted to talk about is some quick tips on how to cheater-proof your relationship. You may remember last year we had Kathy Nickerson. Dr. Kathy Nickerson is an expert in marriage and cheating and building strong relationships and it's still one of the highest rating podcasts that we've ever produced. So here's five tips on how to cheater-proof your relationship. One, communicate like it's your job. Too many couples fall apart because they stop talking about the real stuff. Create regular space to check in emotionally not just about chores or dinner plans but honest conversation which can prevent secrets from becoming scandals number two set boundaries and actually talk about them define what counts as cheating in your relationship is it flirty dms private dinners with colleagues set ground rules before a crisis helps avoid misunderstandings and betrayal Keep romance alive, yes, even after a few years, once the honeymoon period's over. See, emotional damage and distance can lead people to look elsewhere. Prioritise your date nights, physical affection and compliments. If you don't make your partner feel special, someone else might. Number four, be transparent with technology. Well, trust is obviously key. couples can find it healthy to allow shared access to phones, calendars or social media even. It's not about policing, it's about openness. If something feels secretive, ask why. And number five, don't neglect the friendship side of love. Passion may fade and come back, but friendship is the glue. Share hobbies, laugh often and actually like each other. A strong friendship foundation makes infidelity less tempting. So a final note, while we can laugh at the absurdity of a skeeting scandal breaking during Fix You, there's a lesson underneath the awkward glances and viral views. If your relationship is built on secrets, even Coldplay might accidentally expose you. So before your love life ends up on the internet, take care of it. With honesty, respect, and maybe a little less public displays of affection. Well, it's time for our question of the day. And today's question comes from Maria in Gosford. Maria wants to know, how do I know if I'm being followed? She basically goes on to say that she believes someone's been following her. She's noticed this person thinks that they're keeping an eye on her. So let's unpack that a bit. How do you know if you're being followed? Because whether you're a lawyer managing sensitive cases, a business owner protecting IP or a public figure with a high profile, the risk of surveillance is real. You could just be a nobody or just just regular Joe and you may be being followed. In fact digital and physical surveillance are more common than most people think especially where there's money power or influence involved. So how do you know if you're being followed or monitored? Let's get into the signs both physical and digital that you might be under surveillance. Number one physical surveillance. Are you being followed? We'll start with the old school kind being physically followed here's what to watch for the same car or person showing up multiple times once is random twice might be a coincidence three or more you need to start paying attention look for mirrored movements when you turn left they turn left you stop they stop that's not normal unmarked vehicles near your home or workplace especially if they appear at odd hours unfamiliar individuals hanging around regularly particularly in areas with low foot traffic If you notice a pattern, change your routine, routes, times and locations. People trying to track you rely on predictability. One thing that we do is we do a lap of the block. We call it doing a block. If you think someone's following you and you're doing an odd block or even going around a roundabout more than once, just keep going around. They're going to lose you at some stage. They're going to give up or they're going to realize that you know that you're being followed by them. So just a couple of little hints there. What about digital surveillance? Is your tech being compromised? This is another way to know if you're being followed. Now, it's more subtle, the digital surveillance. It's harder to detect, but there are signs. If you have sudden battery drain or overheating on your phone, especially when you're not using it heavily. Now, I know phones deteriorate over time, but if you suddenly notice that, hey, your battery's gone or your phone's overheating for some odd reason that you can't explain, maybe it's worth checking that out. Maybe weird background noise on phone calls like static or clicking could indicate interception. Apps you didn't install or settings changing without your input. Maybe a camera or mic activating on its own, or that little green and orange lights flickering unexpectedly on your phone. You know that orange light, that little orange dot right at the top near your camera? Maybe for professionals, this could mean someone is attempting to access sensitive data or eavesdrop on confidential conversations. Here's our tip. Regularly check your app permissions, and if you suspect anything, have a cybersecurity professional run a scan on your devices. Number three, what about GPS or tracking devices? Because GPS trackers these days can be as small as a coin and often placed in cars, bags or even jackets. You see those air tags? They're not very big. Signs you might be being tracked. Unexpected changes in your mobile data usage. Maybe your phone or smartwatch constantly searching for location. Finding small magnetic devices under your vehicle. If you suspect this, don't try to remove it yourself. Contact the police or a licensed private investigator. Tampering with a surveillance device can have legal consequences, even if it was placed on you illegally. Number four, behavioral red flags. How do they know that, is the question we're asking. Sometimes the first sign is someone knowing more than they should. This could be a competitor quoting details from a supposedly private conversation. A journalist asking about a meeting that no one else knew about. A client referencing something that was only discussed internally. That could be the result of surveillance. It could be a leak. Either way, it's time to lock things down. So what can you do? If you suspect you're being surveilled, stop talking in unsecured environments. That includes cars, offices and phones. Have your conversations and premises professionally swept. We call it bug sweeping. We provide that service as a great service. Use encrypted communication tools. Apps like Signal, ProtonMail, VPNs can help. Speak to a lawyer or private investigator. Keep a log of suspicious incidents. Keep it in your diary. It helps build a pattern if you need legal action later. Because surveillance isn't just something that happens in spy movies. It happens in courtrooms, bedrooms, boardrooms and living rooms. But being aware is your first line of defence. Whether you're a high-profile barrister, a tech start-up founder or a celebrity dealing with paparazzi, protecting your privacy isn't paranoia. It's smart risk management. Thank you, Maria in Gosford. That is our question of the day. To

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Just wanted to tell you about a TV series that's really got our attention. It's on Netflix at the moment. It's a very interesting show. Lots of sort of investigator themes, a lot of fraud, a lot of dodginess. It's called Sneaky Pete. Sneaky Pete. And it's a hilarious show that a few of our team have been watching lately. Basically, it's about, I'm not going to give away too many spoilers, but it's about a con artist whose name's Marius. He's freshly out of prison, and he assumes the identity of his former cellmate, whose name is Pete. He just happens to be estranged from his own family, this Pete. So what does Marius do when he's let out of prison? He shows up at Pete's family home, pretending to be their long-lost relative, and they take him in. But guess what? The family themselves is a big family. They've got their own secrets. And Marius quickly realizes that he may have conned his way into a much bigger mess than he bargained for. So yeah, it's not your typical identity swap drama. This is a show that is full of slick crime, con games, family dysfunction with smart writing and plenty of twists. I think sort of Breaking Bad meets the Americans, but with much more charm and a bit less blowback. And let's talk the cast. The lead is played by Giovanni Ribisi, and he nails the role. He's funny, he's intense, he's vulnerable, and he's actually always thinking two steps ahead. You'll also see some TV heavy hitters like Bryan Cranston who actually co-created the show and he plays an intimidating villain early on. There's drama, there's suspense and there's that satisfying how the heck is he going to pull this one off tension in every episode. So it was originally released on Amazon Prime. Sneaky Pete is now on Netflix in many regions. It ran for three seasons so it's bingeable but not overwhelming. The writing is tight, the cons are clever and the character's work is solid. This isn't just about crime, it's about identity, family and survival. So if you're into shows where no one is quiet as they seem, where everyone plays a different role and everyone's suspicious of each other, every lie stacks onto the next and the con is always just one slip away from collapse, then you really need to check out Sneaky Pete on Netflix. We're not getting paid for this, we just love the show. So right now, we're going to dive into a topic that affects all of us, whether we realize it or not. We're going to talk about surveillance devices. We're going to talk about hidden cameras, phone recordings, tracking devices, and more. We've probably all seen those viral videos from doorbell cams and heard stories about people secretly recording conversations. But in Australia, the rules around surveillance are strict. And if you're not careful, you could be breaking the law without even knowing it. So let's break it down. What's the basics? What is a surveillance device? In Australia, a surveillance device is any device used to listen to, record, monitor, or track people without their knowledge or consent. This includes listening devices like voice recorders or apps that capture conversations, or optical devices like cameras, webcams or drones, or tracking devices, GPS trackers in cars for example, or data surveillance, anything that monitors data like keystrokes or online activity. Now each state and each territory in Australia has its own legislation, but most fall under what's known as the Surveillance Devices Act, which is laws that protect individuals from being secretly recorded or monitored. Here's the key rules you need to know. When it comes to recording conversations, you can't secretly record a conversation unless you're a party to the conversation and you're doing it for lawful purposes. In some states, even being part of a conversation doesn't give you the right to record without consent. So you need to check your laws because they differ in each state. When it comes to using cameras, using a camera in public is generally illegal, but in private spaces like bathrooms, hotel rooms or someone's home, it's illegal without permission. Tracking someone's location, using a GPS tracker on someone's car or phone without their knowledge is almost always illegal, unless you're law enforcement and you have a warrant. When it comes to employers monitoring their staff, in most states, employers must inform employees if they're being monitored at work. This involves emails, phone calls or surveillance cameras. When it comes to sharing or publishing recordings, even if you recorded something legally, you can't share it without consent. Doing so might breach privacy laws or even defamation laws. And just a heads up, penalties can be serious. We're talking fines, criminal charges and lawsuits, depending on the breach. So what's the top five pros of surveillance devices in society? What's the best five things? Let's talk about crime prevention and evidence collection. Cameras can deter crime and help solve cases. Another one, public safety. Monitoring in public areas and spaces can help manage emergencies or security threats. Another positive thing about surveillance devices is workplace transparency. Surveillance can protect employees and prevent misconduct. Another one, home security. Devices like doorbell cams and alarms can protect personal property. And the fifth positive thing is accountability. When people know they're being recorded, they tend to behave more responsibly. So what are some of the negatives? The top five negative things about surveillance devices in society are A privacy invasion. Surveillance can lead to overreach and loss of personal freedom. There can be abuse of power. Authorities or individuals can misuse surveillance for control or manipulation. There can be surveillance creep. What starts as safety can grow into something more constant. Number four negative thing is data security risks. Devices can be hacked, exposing private footage or information. And the fifth negative impact is mental health impacts. Knowing you're always being watched can increase anxiety and stress. So that's the big picture. Surveillance devices can offer security and accountability, but they can also raise serious legal and ethical questions when it comes to privacy and when it comes to consent. The bottom line with surveillance devices, before you hit record or install that camera or track someone's location, you need to know the law. You need to think twice. That's why we always recommend if you need to follow someone or know where someone is or anything like that, get a licensed private investigator and you will be protected and they should know the law.

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