Welcome to Real Talk With Reginald D. I'm your host, Reginald D.
On today's episode, I'm going to talk about rebuilding your mindset.
Let's go.
Let me start out by asking you a question.
Why do you keep letting your past failures define you?
You keep worrying and thinking about the should haves and good hazards of your life.
You can't keep living in that fixed kind of mindset.
You will never grow from that.
I need you to know that your flaws are not permanent.
Your past failures does not cap your potential.
Your past failures do not trump your potential.
So you too busy living by accident and not living by design.
It's time for you to start living your life the way it's supposed to be lived and start rebuilding your mindset.
Start worrying about your past and start being and walking into who you want to become.
When rebuilding your mindset,
you can't let your past own you.
You got to own your past.
Owning your past does not mean to live in it.
Owning your past means that you are allowing your letdowns and past pain fuel you into creating the foundation for the new you,
the better you.
Your past is nothing but a book full of lessons.
It's not a rejection to the life you dream of.
The only way your past blocks you from having the life you want is because you didn't learn the lesson that your past was trying to teach you.
I need you to understand. When rebuilding your mindset,
it starts with that voice in your head.
So you know what you want for your life. And you know it's going to take work.
But that voice in your head keeps telling you that you are too tired.
The voice in your head keeps telling you that you're not good enough.
I need you to do yourself a favor.
Evict those thoughts out of your mind.
You got everything it takes.
You just gotta stop being interested in what you want for your life and start being obsessed with what you want for your life.
When you rebuild your mindset,
a lot of it comes from the confidence in you.
You have to flip the switch on how you think about things.
Instead of saying that you can't achieve something,
say I'm going to learn and figure out how to achieve it.
Be confident in yourself.
It's time for you to get out of that cycle of thinking that you're not good enough to achieve what you want for your life.
You just got to quit wasting time and do what you say you're going to do.
Most people don't accomplish their dreams and desires all because they don't put in the effort.
It's as simple as that.
They don't lack effort,
they just don't give effort.
Remember this.
No effort,
no outcome.
When rebuilding your mindset, you have to rebuild it piece by piece.
You have to look at yourself in a positive way every day.
Stop doubting yourself.
Let other people doubt you,
but don't you dare doubt yourself.
Let people talk.
You just keep putting in the work.
Being relentless in pursuing what you want for your life is what it's going to take.
Your sweat, blood and tears is the price you pay to become the person that you want to become.
You need to know when rebuilding your mindset.
It's not about being perfect.
It's about knowing that you are capable.
So you got to choose effort over easy.
Program your mind to do the things that you don't want to do.
That will build a stronger mental wall that no setback can tear down.
I need you to rebuild your mindset and understand that the way you manage your time is critical.
You got to make time to strategize on what you're trying to accomplish.
Stop being so busy and start being strategic.
That will save you a lot of time and make you more productive.
Focus more on your impact instead of your inbox.
Only compete with the person you were yesterday and stop competing with the world.
You can't control everything that goes on in the world,
but you can control you.
You can't control your attitude, your discipline and your next move.
Rebuilding your mindset means that you can't wait for the perfect moment to get motivated.
Being motivated is a feeling and discipline is a mindset.
Discipline makes you keep going even though you don't feel like it.
You your own miracle and don't even know it.
The world loves a combat story and you are a comeback story.
You just got to come back and come back stronger.
Rebuilding your mindset requires you to stop just existing and start demanding more from yourself.
You got to understand that the demolition phase of your life is over and now it's time to break ground and build a life that you want.
You cannot build a new version of yourself if you're still holding on to who you used to be.
You got to keep the promises that you made to yourself.
That's how you build self trust.
If you don't trust yourself,
then nobody else will.
So you keep thinking that your dreams are barren.
Your dreams are not buried. It's just the way you're looking at it.
Let me hit you with this.
Don't you know that Barrett is the same thing as being planted?
Your dreams are not buried.
They are planted and waiting for the right season to grow.
When rebuilding your mindset,
it's not about proving them wrong.
It's about proving you right.
Your silence is your power.
Don't announce your next move.
Execute it.
I know that you have been through a lot.
And all this time you've been trying to hide what you've been through.
But I need you to know that your pain is your credentials.
It's proof that you can overcome anything.
You have to rebuild your mindset to think that way.
You are 10 times stronger than a person that's never been tested.
You are battle tested.
And that's where the greatness in you comes from.
Your struggle is your strength.
I'm going to leave you with this.
It's time for you to rebuild your mindset.
You have to change your way of thinking when it comes to your standards and your inner strength.
Imagine what will happen to your life if you become stronger,
bolder, and more confident.
Quit letting your past steal your present.
It's time to rise up,
dust yourself off, and get down Business.
The greatest chapter of your life is being written.
And understand that the world is waiting on you to stay down.
Your haters are waiting on you to quit,
and the old you is waiting on you to give up.
Make sure you disappoint them all.
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