Friedrich Nietzsche once said “He who has a why to live for can bear with almost any how.” 

For the high achievers among us, the purpose and the enormity of our WHY can pull so forcefully and so relentlessly that we are willing to endure almost any HOW.

Competitive athletes are often celebrated for their singleness of focus and for their commitment to making their dreams reality. But sooner or later, those dreams inevitably have to end.

For many, the days, months, and even years that follow a career in sports can be empty and painful with a search for new purpose common in most. Sometimes that "thing" within the high achiever that drives them toward elite performance--at least in retrospect--is the very thing that makes it almost impossible to enjoy the journey while they're on it. 

However, for those who ultimately recognize that their task remains unfinished, that same drive and passion can fuel new successes. It is those who discover that the end of a chapter isn't the same as the end of the story who find true significance. 

Take Nazareth, PA native Kara Fry Meyer for instance. She might have spent two years on the United States Women's Gymnastics team, beating out millions of other aspiring young athletes in the process. She finished seventh in the 1994 World Championship Team Trials , appearing on ESPN one day and sheepishly brushed off questions about it back in her high school classroom the next. She might have even spent a moment of her life just a tantalizing millimeter away from the Olympic stage that had been her singular focus from her earliest years on. 

But it was the six who finished in front of her, not the million-plus behind her and the things that WEREN'T rather than the things that WERE that seemed to consume her efforts and energy. Hear Kara share her inspiring and introspective story with bravery and vulnerability in Episode 2: PERSPECTIVE

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