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P — Presence 

What it means:
Being with the moment instead of racing through it. 

Practical example:
You’re sitting having a cup of tea, the lights are on, music in the background.
Instead of scrolling or mentally planning tomorrow, you pause and actually notice: 

• the warmth of the mug 
• the sound of laughter 
• the comfort of the moment 

That’s presence — and it costs nothing. 

 E — Expectations (Lower Them) 
Letting go of the “it has to be perfect” story. 

Practical example: 
Dinner isn’t on time. Something burns. Someone’s late. 
Instead of tightening up, you say: 
“Sure, this is still Christmas.” 

Lowering expectations doesn’t lower standards — it raises enjoyment. 

A — Atmosphere (Protect It) 

What it means: 
Not every comment needs your reaction. 

Practical example: 
Someone makes a remark that would normally hook you. 
This time, you smile, take a breath, and change the subject — or step away. 

You protect the atmosphere, not your ego 

C — Calm the Body First 

What it means: 
Regulate before you respond. 

Practical example: 
You feel yourself getting snappy or overwhelmed. 
Instead of reacting, you: 

• slow your breathing drop your shoulders 
• count to 3 (Creating a gap) 

E — Enjoyment (Define Your Own) 

What it means:
Deciding what success looks like for you. 

Practical example: 
You decide: 
“If we have one good laugh, one meaningful chat, and I go to bed feeling peaceful — Christmas is a success.” 

That’s your win. No comparison required. 

 Wrap it up  

“So remember P.E.A.C.E.: 
Presence. 
Expectations. 
Atmosphere. 
Calm. 
Enjoyment. 

That’s your Christmas checklist — for fun, success and peace.” 

 Closing Quote  

“It’s not what’s under the tree that makes Christmas — it’s the presence you bring with you.”