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Failure Vs Feedback
Mindset Mastery with Deirdre Maguire
In sport—when something goes wrong…
Do top players see it as:
A) Failure
B) Bad luck
C) Feedback?
Even teams like Manchester City
Even players like Rory McIlroy
They don’t get through careers without mistakes…
They just don’t label them as failure
3. CORE TEACHING
“The moment you call something failure… you shut yourself down.
The moment you call it feedback… you open yourself up.”
“When we think ‘failure’…”
- We tighten
- We doubt ourselves
- We pull back
The body goes into protection
But when we think ‘feedback’…
- We stay open
- We stay curious
- We stay in the game
5. SPORT EXAMPLES (Making it real)
“With Man City…”
A misplaced pass isn’t:
“I’ve failed”
It’s:
“Adjust the angle, reset, go again”
“With Rory…
A missed putt isn’t:
“I can’t do this “It’s:
“What changed there?”
That’s how they stay in flow.
6. THE TURN (Powerful moment)
“Because the problem isn’t the mistake…”
It’s the meaning we attach to it.
7. BRIDGE TO LISTENER
“And this is where people listening will recognise themselves…”
- One bad meeting → “I’m not good enough”
- One mistake → “I’ve messed it all up”
- One wobble → “Here we go again”
That’s failure thinking8. PRACTICAL SHIFT (My solution)
“So here’s the shift…”
1. CATCH THE WORD
Notice when you say:
“I failed”
2. CHANGE THE LANGUAGE
Ask:
“What is this showing me?”
3. TAKE ONE ADJUSTED ACTION
Not 10 things…
One small correction
One better step
“Because when you treat it as feedback…
You stay in motion
You stay in control
You build confidence again
10. CLOSE
In sport—and in life…
The people who win aren’t the ones who never get it wrong…”
They’re the ones who know how to use it.
