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Two best friends trade wildcard questions about possibility, mortality, love, and “enough,” mixing belly laughs with clear-eyed truth. We unpack being overlooked, parenting triggers, belonging in medicine, and building a good life rooted in self-agency and joy.

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Chapter Markers

• 0:00
   Reunion, Exhaustion, and Warm-Up Banter
• 2:54
   Who We Are and Why We’re Here
• 3:45
   The Wildcard Framework Explained
• 5:05
   Possibility vs. Limits: “Nothing’s Unreachable”
• 7:35
   Mortality and Radical Preparedness
• 10:45
   Being Overlooked and Proving Yourself
• 13:07
   Motherhood, Boundaries, and Defensiveness
• 16:00
   Age, Love, and the Art of Letting In
• 19:04
   Belonging in Medicine and Family
• 21:30
   Working With Difference Without Friction
• 24:20
   Defining a Good Life and “Enough”
• 35:40
   Gratitude and Patreon Sign-Off

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