Ep157 How do you make peace last when life moves on fast?

Black Boomer Besties from Brooklyn

Black Boomer Besties from Brooklyn
Ep157 How do you make peace last when life moves on fast?
Dec 16, 2025 Season 16 Episode 6
Angella Fraser & Leslie Osei-Tutu

Ever notice how after the prayers and the crescendo of miracles, the next wave of worry comes to snatch it away? Our family just lived through a medical crisis and a hard-won turn for the better, and we’re honest about the whiplash that followed—insurance calls, care decisions, a home being modified, and the ache of meeting a new reality for a once independent son. Gratitude is real. Grief is real. Both want space. In this episode Besties Angella and Leslie ponder ways to make that space.


Whether you’re navigating recovery, supporting a loved one, or just trying to hold onto good news longer than a weekend, this conversation offers language, practices, and companionship for the middle—where the miracle and the paperwork often meet.


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