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I'm Lauren Francis, Ph Double D. I'm a love coach, the author of Dating, Mating, and Manhandling, and the founder of the Institute of Romantic Research. It's often said that first impressions last a lifetime. When it comes to your love life, this adage is usually true. Unfortunately, you can miss a wonderful opportunity to forge a romantic connection with a new suitor out of mere nervousness or a lack of romantic intention. Simply put, many women in the field don't know the subliminal laws of seduction that man magnets absolutely do. These magnetizing techniques will always work with men. It's the real reason why certain women have their phone ringing off the hooks and others don't. They know how to attract the love that they seek from the subconscious minds of men. Because you're now one of my romantic researchers, I'm going to share these man magnetizing secrets now with you. Now, what I'm going to do in this CD is you're going to learn the secrets of attraction that man magnets absolutely know. You're going to learn how to magnetize men into your space, and once you draw them into your space, how to make them gravitate towards you. If any of you out there sometimes feel that you've got a force field around you that is what I call a no-fly zone, what you want to do is you want to energetically make your landing strip free and clear. That may go for your bikini wax too, my dear. So now I'm going to teach you some man magnetizing techniques that I'm sure you'll definitely want under your garter belt. Okay, the first thing that we need to find out in terms of your man magnetization skills is if you're flirting like you're in a coma. Because no matter how hot you are, if you're flirting like you're in a coma, the only men that you're going to be attracting to attracting to you are men who'll think that you're an accessory for their Porsche or their expensive lifestyle. Okay? So we want to make sure that you're really bringing towards you what you really want to receive. The following quiz is going to reveal whether or not you're relying on antiquated flirt technology that was in vogue sometime, I don't know, around the invention of the maxi pad. All right. So here's a flirt test diagnostic. Are you ready? Are you really ready? Okay, here we go. Question one, is this true or false? If a woman makes the first move, she'll never know if a man really likes her or not. True or false? Keep track of these answers. There's only three of them, so you can use them on your right or left hand. Okay. Question two. If a woman initiates a first date, a man will automatically think that she's looking for sex and he won't respect her. True or false? Question three. Men don't like to be asked out by women. They find it emasculating and a turn off. Pencils down, please. All right. Ladies, if you answer true to all of the above questions, you're probably so demoralized by your lack of action that you've stopped bikini waxing. Now, if eating frozen yogurt uh is your idea of Saturday Saturday night fun, which it probably was if you answered true to all of those above questions, then your salvation has finally come, hun. Here's a news flash. There is no man shortage. Your dating technique just needs an upgrade. If you don't understand how to proactively flirt in the field and are just waiting for some suitor to gallop up and solve your problems for you, then what's happened is you are not being what I call uh a modern woman. You are dating like you're a medieval maiden or a sleeping beauty in a coma. Here's the problem. When you date like a sleeping beauty in a coma, you'll usually just wind up spinning your wheels, and the only prick you'll be feeling will be easily averted by a thimble. Although modern women may not be consciously aware of it, most of them have never quite forgotten or recovered from the romantic coaching that they received and still believe from the Brothers Grimm. Remember all of those fairy tale stories that your daddy used to read to you or your mama used to read to you before you went to bed at night? These are usually the root of the a lot of the dysfunctional dating disorder that is affecting most single women or lonely women today. It's the belief that landing their lovebird should be just like a fairy tale, some magical event that requires absolutely no effort on your part whatsoever. Instead, you think that it should feel like it's been preordained for some by some vast romantic superpower and that it'll happen all by itself if it's supposed to, regardless of anything that you do. In fact, if you do anything about it at all, it might seem, I don't know, a little desperate or maybe well, just tacky. Now let's review this idea for a moment together, shall we? Once upon a time, you were hanging out in your home, wearing your sweats when all of a sudden you got a knock, knock, knock on the door. All right, now okay, I forgive any woman for getting completely sucked into this fantasy. What woman could possibly refuse a hot prince in Leotard's, sporting a gift of fabulous shoes? I can barely resist having sex with the Italian shoe salesman in the stock room at Barney's when I'm paying for them. Unfortunately, acting like a sleeping beauty in a coma or aka waiting for a hot prince to rush in and rescue you from a life of intense boredom is a very bad man plan. There is no data to support that taking long naps and spinning flax will improve your social life whatsoever. This way of dating by a divine intervention seems like a good idea until one remembers that, unlike beauty, I didn't have fairy godmothers leaning over my cradle making sure that my love life would survive PMS and other acts of God. My fairy godmothers were at a gay bar. And there's another big reason these tall tales are so very grim romantic rule. When you flirt like a medieval maiden, you'll wind up spinning your wheels, and the only prick that you'll feel will be easily averted by a thimble. So there's the moral of the story in truth. The only things that most of us were paying attention to were the happy endings, the pointy hats, those gorgeous, beautiful flowing gowns. We just forgot to read the fine print. What we should really have learned from all these tall tales is that there's a happy ending waiting for any woman willing to learn how to be a man magnet. That means you're gonna have to be proactive about your love life. So now I'm gonna teach you the first man magnetizing tip. And it's called throwing men a crumb. Picture this. You're at the supermarket, you're in the produce section, you're kind of squeezing the peaches, all of a sudden you see a really handsome man right next to you, and he's kind of checking out the melons. Well, maybe he's checking out your melons, but he's definitely checking out the honeydews. All right. So what do you do? You're looking at him, he's looking at you, okay. You checked, he's not banded, he's not wearing a wedding ring. He's hanging about. Uh now what you want to do is master what I call, and this will change your love life forever. You're gonna master the art of the phrase nice tie. Now, men are very susceptible to flattery, just like women. This is a little known secret. So what you want to learn how to do to magnetize men to you is to learn how to stroke their feathers with by the art of paying a compliment. It's also called an icebreaker. Now, unfortunately, a lot of women don't know the verbal cues that always work with men. Remember, I talked about those man magnetizing techniques that man magnets always know, the girls that have their phones ringing off the hooks. What they know is that if you look at a man and notice something he's wearing or doing and cast them a little compliment, they'll automatically start chirping back to you. Okay? So we're back at the produce section, he's checking out the melons, you're squeezing the peaches, you look over at him and go, wow, nice sports watch. And he'll go, thank you. I'll go, thanks, thanks a lot. And then you'll start a little chit-chat. You could also look, you know, if there's something to kind of tease him about, let's say he's got a rip in his t-shirt, you can go, wow, air conditioning. Why didn't I think of that? How clever. Okay? It's always good to tease men a little bit. Also, let's talk about tone of voice. If you want to toss out a compliment to a man, one of the best things to do is to slow your voice down a little bit slower than you would normally speak, okay? So instead of talking instead of going like nice tie, right, which is what people do when they get nervous, they start talking a little bit faster and their voice gets a little higher and I don't know, you just sound a little stressed out. So what you want to do is you want to put your best foot forward and you want to slow your voice down and go, nice tie. And while you're talking to men, smile. And you can practice it now. Say nice tie. Say nice tie without smiling. Go, nice tie. Now smile and say it slowly. Nice tie. Do you hear the difference? Men will too. They'll immediately know that you approve of them, that you like them. They won't know what your intentions are, but they'll think, hmm, friendly. And those melons aren't bad either. They'll hop a little closer. All right. Here's how to become a magical man magnet. Casting a small crumb of approval his way will have the most amazing open sesame effect on him. He will happily chir away with any woman that who's smart enough to notice his fine feathers and his waterproof sports watch, or his tennis shoes, or his Porsche Careera, whatever. Now here's a man fact. Men are externally referenced. They cuddle up with magazines about breasts, cards, guns. Conversing with them about any gizmo or an inanimate object is always the best way to draw them out. But here's a warning never compliment men on their physiques when you first meet them. This will only serve to embarrass or confuse him about what your intentions are. Unless he's twenty-two. Then we know what they are. So go right ahead and spell it out for him. Now the secret to breaking the ice is to make sure that your compliments are always once removed. Exceptions are like tattoos or huge biceps. These fall under the purview of man jewelry, too. This is a true story. I once said, nice tie to a gorgeous man on the red carpet of a film premiere. He whipped it off and proudly handed it to me to the amazement of his little entourage. I used it later on to tie him to my bedpost one rainy evening, but I'll tell you that story later. Romantic rule the best way to break the ice with any man is to quickly pay him a compliment. Now, what you want to do is you want to lure your lovebird in. You want to draw him in closer. Draw him closer to your vortex of love. So after you've engaged a man in light conversation about his car, his sneakers, his tie, he may spontaneously just erupt with masculinity and ask you for your phone number. But what if he's flapping around a little bit, like a lot of nice guys would be, and isn't quite confident about coming in for a landing? Right? This is the hard part. How do you make sure that you get asked out on that date? This is what you do. But this is a warning. I only want you to do this if your first compliment was snapped or snapped right up. If it was, let's toss him out a little crumb by saying, We should get a cup of tea sometime. Now, why tea, you might ask? Well, here's why. Tea is a very easy request to fulfill. It's not like asking a man out for dinner, for a drink, or to go to a strip club, okay? You're just asking him out for a cup of tea like any Victorian lass certainly could. Scarlett O'Hara could have asked him out for a cup of tea for God's sakes. And we know how naughty she was. Well, I don't know if that's a good analogy. She would have probably said, why don't you meet me in the back of the bar in red? But that's a different story. All right. And what'll happen is when you ask him out for a cup of tea, no one, you know, unless you're listening to this uh CD in the UK, uh, nobody in America is uh no men in America have been asked out for a cup of tea. A cup of coffee is way too banal, it's boring, and it's trite. You want to ask them out for a cup of tea, it's gonna make them feel kind of uh, you know, delighted and it'll make them feel all sparkly inside. It's also good to confuse men a little bit and catch them off guard. Once you ask them out for a cup of tea and say, hey, would you like to get a cup of tea sometime? He'll go, sure. The very next thing you should do is say, Do you have a card, Bernard? All right, when you ask a man for his card, he'll usually do one of two three things. He'll say, yes, and quickly hand one over. Men will often ask you for your number at this juncture. Et voila, you get a man handling gold star, and he does too. The second thing that he might say is, Let me get a pen. He doesn't have a car but leaps at the opportunity to see you again and he scrounges up a pen. You now have him eating out of the palm of your hand. Brightly say, Great, I'll give you a call, Paul. Have a fabulous day. Now, I want you to always be vague about what when you're calling them. Never try to set up a date with a man at this time unless he instigates it. Just tuck his number into your person, smile, and ladies, this is a rule. All right? Or the other thing that he might do is turntail and disengage before doing so. This almost never happens, but if it does, I don't want you to fret. Don't push. Just let him fly away. It is of absolutely no consequence to you. It simply means that you look like his hot bipolar ex-girlfriend who ruined his life when she went off her meds, or that he's already been banded. AKA married. You won't ever know the reason why he let you slip through his fingers, and quite frankly, we don't want to know, just say while quickly gliding away. Well, it was a delight to meet you, Andre. Have a fabulous day. Now, here is a warning. If a banded or already tagged male tries to set up a date with you at this juncture, do not accept you will incur very bad dating karma if you do. If you entertain these kinds of invitations, or worse, encourage them, call me immediately. You need a little psychic tune-up. I'll probably be out in the field, but I do have a very soothing outgoing message. Please do not leave a message. What I want to tell you, ladies, is if you practice this manhandling maneuver just this, you're going to up the odds of romantic success by 50%. Some of you by 150%. If you're one of those women who have been listening to the CD and uh have not gone out on a date in a year, you know, your salvation has finally come on. Okay. You are about to really increase your romantic roster. It is going to be astounding. Now, one of the questions that I often get is, you know, why should I ask a man out? I want a guy who's got enough balls to ask me out. My answer for this is, you know, well, I wish the polar ice caps weren't melting, but they are. You know, in the real world, men are often rumpled, distracted, need a shave, and sometimes a teeny tiny little nudge. And according to Cosmo magazine, about 78% of the men polled said they loved it when women made the first moves. So there you have it, arrested case. The other question that I get is won't he think I'm a slut if I ask him out for tea? Now, honestly, ladies, he won't think that you're a slut unless you act like you are. So don't behave like one. Unless you really, really want to. And by the way, Manilo Blonek, aka God, once said, sluts are the kindest people in the world. They're obviously very well healed, too. And lastly, the third objection that I usually get to a woman dating, you know, like a modern maiden instead of a sleeping beauty in a coma is sometimes girls will just go, well, maybe the universe doesn't want me to be with anybody. I'm sure that if it does, somebody'll just pop along. Now, for all of you ladies, the universe actually just sent me a note to pass along to you. Dear needing a sign, we, the universal powers that be, want you to be wildly happy, sexually fulfilled, and dating your butts off. But we're extremely busy managing black holes and DNA strands and just trying to ensure that most of you keep driving on the right side of the road. So we'd appreciate it if you took a little uh action about your love life, a little lead in your personal fulfillment. But we do promise to send you little clues when you're on the right track and small unexpected shoves in the right direction. And we, the universe, promise to cry at your wedding. If you're not going to get serious about your love life, your love life is not going to get serious about you. Often women don't think they have to do anything about this area of their lives. Women who work fifty hours a day, women who go to the gym every single morning, women who think that um, you know, it is not a problem for them to do immense hours of charity work will literally put almost zero time and effort into improving the quality of their love lives. We have been trained uh as little girls that we're not supposed to have to do a thing about it. This is a really, really old idea, and it's really not effective for most women. That's why online dating is such a boon, all right? But you also want to learn how to date in your physical space as well as in cyberspace. And that's what I'm going to teach you how to magnetize the men who are at your office, at the mall, why anywhere. Men are everywhere. And one of the reasons why I compared men to birds is because literally all you have to do is just look for them and there they are. You just have to know what to do with them once you see them. You don't want to chase them. You know, men, like most wild things, are easily startled by fast moves. They'll often flee in an attempt to resist emotional arrest. That's why it takes man magnetizing techniques to draw them to you in a way that won't startle them, won't scare them away, and also won't draw them to you for the wrong reasons. You really want to make sure you're putting out a message that is in alignment with what you want. And these man-magnetizing techniques will work whether you want a husband, a boyfriend, or a plaything. Once you draw them to you, you can actually communicate what your intentions are in completely subtle ways. Now that you've lured your lovebird, you've probably got into a first date. Congrats! You get a gold star. Now what to do with them? All right. I'm going to teach you some subliminal man magnetizing techniques that are absolutely guaranteed to make him feel an intense inner rapport with you from date one. Okay? You can actually, when you get really good at this, establish a deep connection with a man within three minutes. Sometimes too. I've gotten pretty good at it. I'm down to about 60 seconds, but that's me. So here's your assignment. I want you to establish an inner rapport with the man of your choice by playing a delightful little game of follow the leader. You've heard it said the birds of a feather flock together. Well, this is what we're gonna do. We're gonna do what I call mirror mirror. Remember that mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the fairest one of all? When you learn how to mirror men by playing follow the leader, he will definitely think you're the fairest one of all. So, for example, this is what I'd like you to do. While out on your date or during a first encounter, let's say, you know, uh, you know, in the grocery store wherever you are, this works also, you know, if you're looking at him and sipping your apple martini and eyeing him up and down, what I want you to do is I want you to take your time and observe your specimen's body language. You're going to subtly follow his lead in terms of physical body movements, okay? When he leans forward, just kind of wait a couple of seconds and then make Make this body movement a couple of seconds afterwards. If he leans back in his chair, mirror this movement by gradually leaning back too. Or if he crosses his legs, or even better yet, if he uncrosses his arms, this is a very good sign, it means he's actually opening up to you. Simply follow suit and uncross your arms too. Don't do it too quickly, but you know, count one Mississippi, two Mississippi, three Mississippi, now you move on four. He'll automatically feel very connected and very relaxed around you. Okay, his inner GPS or girl positioning system will be unimpeded. It will say, she's so wonderful. She's not crowding my airspace one little bit. Okay. Now don't worry if uh you think that he's noticing that you're doing this. If he does, he'll simply think, Whoa, we are so connected. Wow. I wonder if she'll follow me right into the bedroom. Man magnetizing tip three is breathing in unison. Now, this might seem silly to you, but I promise you that every male will respond as if hypnotized when you perform this simple but powerful tantric exercise. And here's how to do it. You'll be able to discern his breathing pattern by watching his shoulders rise and fall. Then, once you do, just kind of sweetly breathe as one to totally enchant him. That's a very powerful tip. Tip number four is making eye contact, direct eye contact. And actually, this is one of the most important things that you can do. All right? Right now you've been mirroring his posture, you've been mirroring his breathing patterns, but to connect with his heart, you know, you've all we've all heard that eyes are the windows of the soul. Okay? If you look directly into a man's eyes and slowly inhale and maintain steady eye contact for several seconds longer than you normally would, you will be able to make any man fall in love with you. It's miraculous. This also works with women as well. It makes people feel very connected to you. They know that you're special and they know that you're seeing them. Everybody wants to be seen. So what you want to do is you want to look them directly in the eye, and while you do it, smile. That's tip number five. Everyone likes a friendly smile. Okay? It actually uplifts your energy. Okay, as you're listening to this, I want you to put your face in repose. Ho hum ho hum. Now I want you to smile. Do you feel your whole energy lifted up with corners of your mouth? So that's what you want to do. You want to lift your energy up and smile and look men directly in the eye. This will make men feel that you're confident, that you don't have anything to hide, and they will be incredibly impressed with you, and they will almost always comment upon it either on that date or on a subsequent date. Within the first three dates, you'll hear, wow, I was so impressed. You look me right in the eye. Okay? That's a very powerful, powerful man magnetizing tool. You have to realize that most women out there are trained to look away like shy violets. Most women don't have enough confidence to meet a man's gaze eye to eye that they don't know. But here's the deal, you've already decided that you like him. Or you wouldn't be out on the date. So look at him. All right? And you can eye him up and down, you know, on your own time. Sneak a peek. Also, the art of parroting is very important. You'll want to notice if he's talking in a quick, excited, chirpy kind of way, you want to talk in a quick, excited, chirpy kind of way too. If he's laid back and speaks in a more slow, melodious kind of way, parrot that slow, melodious kind of tone too. And remember to smile while you talk. Here are some other ways to bewitch, you know, bewitch your bird, draw his attention to you. Any movement done deliberately and slowly is absolutely fascinating. And actually, you know, you can get in front of a mirror right now if you like, and you can practice this. Okay, are you there? I know you got a full-length mirror. If you don't, I want you to buy one. Okay, you want to make sure your shoes match that skirt. So now, any movement done slowly and deliberately is absolutely fascinating. So, you know, you could try slowly, if you're out of dinner, try slowly spreading your napkin on your lap and smoothing it down, or slowly drinking from your glass while looking into his eyes and smiling. You can also eat languorously with your mouth closed, ladies. You knew that, I didn't have to give you that tip. You could lick your lips, that is a bit much on a first date, unless uh you are really interested unless you're date unless he's 22. Then who cares? We know why you're there. Enjoy yourself. Unless you're in high school. Then uh don't lick your lips and uh I don't know, run this tape by your mother. Okay. Um licking your lips or twirling your hair slowly around your finger. Man magnetizing tip number seven. I want you to signal your attraction to him. And you can easily communicate your attention and your attraction to a man with tiny affectionate gestures like you can touch his sleeve or smile at him or brushing up against him accidentally on purpose. He'll definitely get the message and respond by taking your hand and moving closer to you and closer still. And here's the deal: once you play follow the leader for a short while, men will definitely think you're the fairest one of all. You'll have beautifully set the stage for him to feel like he's really found somebody incredibly special and you will have warmed his heart and made him feel very, very connected to you. Okay? And here's a note people who are deeply in love mirror one another automatically without giving it any conscious thought at all. They're just simply in tune with each other because they've been having sex all day. Once you practice these techniques, you will too. Romantic rule remember, birds of a feather flock together. Now that you know how to magnetize any man towards you, you'll also want to learn what you may do to inadvertently create a psychic no-fly zone around you. Now, here's some things that you may inadvertently do that may be pushing him away. So you want to up your odds for romantic success by doing the do's and not doing any of these following don'ts. Okay? The first don't, all right, is number one, do not get drunk, okay? You always want to maintain enough sobriety to assess your date's character. You always want to stay sober enough to remember how naughty you were the night before. He might like it if you get really frisky, but you might not like the results of it. You want to be in control of yourself and your faculties so that you can really make a good decision about when the right time might be for you to actually share intimate moments with a man. You don't want to just uh, you know, hop in his explorer with your skirt around your head after doing jello shots in a bar. Don't number two. Don't talk about your personal problems. Many women make a terrible mistake, they get nervous, and when they're nervous, they start getting insecure, and when you get insecure, you start thinking about all the things that are wrong with you. And sometimes women will start talking about the things that they feel insecure about because they're actually trying to say, well, you know, will you like me anyway? All right. Therapists get butterflies inside when you talk about your alcoholic relatives or how traumatized you are by the number of germs thriving in the public restroom. Your date will be horrified. If you're prone to making this manhandling mistake, you need a therapist, not a boyfriend. Or a boyfriend who's a therapist. Romantic rule. You already know all about yourself. Keep your problems to yourself and get to know about him. You want to know about his problems. You want to find out who he is so you can make a good decision. Number three, dating don't. Don't be negative about dating. Why should any man pursue a woman who's miserable about dating? It doesn't make any sense. This is kind of a no-brainer, but you have no idea how many women will go out there and start talking about how terrible it is out there and you know how rotten the last three dates. It's just it makes you sound uh, you know, like you're a loser. I hate to say it. And it makes you uh look like you're uh, you know, really not having any fun. And there's no reason for a man to date someone who's complaining all the time. So you want to be a romantic challenge, not a mental health challenge. Don't spook your man. Do not point out your physical flaws to your lover, only bring these complaints to people who can actually do something about them. You can go to the beauty parlor to uh, you know, fix that frizzy part of your hair, you know, lingerie sales ladies, there's a whole fleet of aestheticians, cosmeticians, et cetera, that will be happy to talk about your body dysmorphia. You know, ad infinitum. But do not talk about your defects to your lover because really, once you draw a lover's attention to that little mole that you secretly despise, he'll find it impossible to overlook it too. Forever. And forever is a very long time. So, romantic rule, remember, sometimes thoughts are for the inside. Dating don't number five, don't talk badly about your exes. All right. I don't care. If he cheated on you with your sister at your bar mitzvah, don't recite a laundry list of grievances about your exes. This will only make you sound unavailable or at worst, wounded. Reveal your secrets when you're both on a beach in Hawaii or better yet, engaged. By then he'll want to tend to your sniffles, and then he can blow him. Romantic rule. Remember, we all have baggage, but just keep yours in the closet on the first couple of dates. Dating dote number seven, don't chase your man. Never deprive a man. And this is a romantic rule. Never deprive a man the thrill of the chase. Besides, it's so much fun being caught, right? A woman can always initiate a first tea date, but after that, it's really up to a man to decide if he really wants to nest with you, okay? So you can entice them, play with them, and then release them out into the wild. You want to uh allow them to initiate their forward assault, like moving your relationship forward, asking you out on a second or third date. When you allow them to pursue you, they will often wind up chasing you right around the bed and straight up the altar. Here's a romantic rule: when you lure men in, they're much less likely to fly away. Dating, don't don't keep squawking. Don't feel pressured to fill up every second with meaningless chit-chat. If the conversation falls silent between you for a moment, don't panic, let it happen, because natural pauses are sexy. And body language, like we talked about, you'll be doing mirroring, breathing, eye contact. Okay? You've got a lot to do in the pauses. You might be very surprised if during a pause he blurts out in the middle of a delicious pregnant pause, come here and kiss me. Romantic rule sometimes less conversation really is more. So to regroup and to recap our man magnetizing techniques today, you've learned how to pick up a man anywhere, anytime by saying, Nice tie, casting him a compliment. We've also learned how to get a date with any man anywhere, anytime, by saying, Would you like to get a cup of tea sometime? You've learned the art of mirroring, eye contact, parroting his vocal tempo, the art of physical body mirroring to make him feel like you're on the same page. You've learned how to make direct and soulful eye contact while smiling, to get right into the inner depths of his soul, and you have learned the dating don'ts. In conclusion, you've learned the secrets to magnetizing men towards you and turning you into the man magnet the goddess intended you be. You now hold the keys to your romantic future in magnetizing and attracting the love you truly desire and deserve. I want to thank you for becoming a part of my expert and well-dressed research team. Please email me your findings at Laurenfrancis.com. That's L-A-U-R-E-N F-R-A-N-C-E-S.com. I'd love to hear from you. To purchase dating, mating, and manhandling the ornithological guide to men, you can go to my website at Laurenfrancis.com or wherever fine books are sold. I promise you it will be a complete boom to your love of life. Thank you for joining the Romantic Revolution. Onward Ho.