169: Parenting, Tantra & Kink: How Pleasure, Presence & Play Can Transform Modern Parenting

This week Elle and Vee chat with Aviva (aka Leora) about the raw and unexpected intersection of parenting, tantra, and kink. They explore how divorce became a gateway to self-discovery, pleasure, and reclaiming personal power—while unpacking how core principles of kink and tantra (like attunement, boundaries, and presence) can actually enhance the way we parent. The conversation weaves through emotional regulation, dominance vs. control, and finding pleasure in everyday parenting moments. It’s a provocative look at what becomes possible when parents stop separating their desires from their role as caregivers.

Investing in Pleasure: A Path to Self-Discovery. (00:00)

The Intersection of Parenthood and Kink. (05:04)

Finding Playfulness in Parenting. (10:08)

Navigating Emotions: Parenting and Kink Dynamics. (15:02)

The Role of Attunement in Parenting and Kink. (19:48)

Gentle Parenting vs. Authoritative Parenting. (25:02)

Testing Boundaries: The Nature of Child and Sub Behavior. (30:27)

Authoritative Parenting: Balancing Love and Discipline. (33:20)

Holding Space for Big Feelings: Emotional Regulation in Parenting. (36:55)

Sensory Play: Connecting Through Touch and Presence. (41:15)

Kink and Parenting: Embracing Playfulness in Raising Children. (50:48)

Emotional Intelligence: Teaching Kids to Navigate Feelings. (57:41)

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Instagram: @aviva.aurora

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