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111:The Damage Of Decolonizing Love & The Polyamory Community,Race, and the Swinger's Lifestyle— with Tiffany @RealPolyLife

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The Damage of Decolonizing Love & Black Polyamory: Tiffany @RealPolyLife on Race, Community & Swinging


Join us for a powerful conversation with Tiffany (@RealPolyLife)

a Black polyamorous educator and influencer, as she unpacks the complex intersections of  race, and intimate relationship structures within the polyamory and swinger communities. We dive into how the not so well-meaning efforts of 'decolonizing love' can inadvertently cause harm, especially for Black women navigating ethical non-monogamy.

In this episode, you'll hear about:

  • The tensions between polyamory, race dynamics, and swinger culture in communities of color.
  • Stories and insights from Black women in poly to broaden understanding and visibility.
  • Tiffany’s work in centering Black voices in polyamorous narratives via her platform RealPolyLife.
  • Resources such as:
    • Black & Poly, a culturally rich poly blog/community designed to foster connection and honest discussion in Black-centered polyamorous spaces
      YouTube

    • Therapy for Black Girls Session 182, featuring Ruby B. Johnson—a polyamorous Black queer therapist—who addresses stigma, communication, and tools for ethical non-monogamy
      Therapy for Black Girls.

    • Psychology of Black Womanhood entry “Black Women & Polyamory”, spotlighting Dr. Jenn M. Jackson’s research on the experiences and challenges of Black women in poly relationships
      Psych of Black Woman



    • Online communities like Black & Poly™ and Black and Poly on Facebook, spaces created to uplift Black-centered polyamory rooted in womanist values and safe conversation

      https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comme

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