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Navigating Postpartum Fears and Parenting Triumphs
50 Postpartum Journal Prompts
What were you most afraid of before the birth of your child? Join us as we uncover the raw and honest emotions that often accompany the postpartum period, a time many new parents find unexpectedly challenging. We start by reflecting on the birth experience itself, discussing how unforeseen challenges and lingering anxieties can shape early parenthood. Through thought-provoking prompts, we highlight the importance of acknowledging these fears and the role of gratitude in navigating difficult moments. Plus, we delve into the transformative power of journaling as a tool for processing emotions and fostering self-reflection.
As we move forward from the immediate postpartum phase, we switch gears to contemplate the long-term journey of parenting. We discuss the values and legacy we aspire to leave for our children, touching on kindness, empathy, and resilience. Parenting is an ongoing learning curve, and we emphasize the significance of celebrating small victories and finding joy amidst the chaos. This episode serves as a heartfelt reminder of the shared experience of parenting and the special moments that can emerge even during the most challenging times. Tune in for a meaningful conversation that explores both the trials and triumphs of the postpartum period and beyond.
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It's like everyone's obsessed with pregnancy and birth. Right Nine months of attention and then bam baby's here and suddenly it's all about tiny socks and burp cloths.
Speaker 2:And no one really prepares you for what comes after the baby arrives. You know like, yeah, physically things are different, but the emotional and relationship stuff, it's huge.
Speaker 1:That's exactly what we're diving into today, actually.
Speaker 2:Right, what we're doing.
Speaker 1:You sent over these. Well, they're called 50 Postpartum Journal Prompts by Lestallion, so not medical advice or anything but more like conversation starters.
Speaker 2:I like that yeah.
Speaker 1:So whether someone's about to become a parent or they're already supporting someone postpartum, or, honestly, even if they're just curious like me, there's some really interesting insights here about this whole transformation.
Speaker 2:I think that's what I like about these prompts they make you, like, really look inward, and that could be helpful for anyone, not just, you know, new parents. It's a lot of adjustment.
Speaker 1:It really is. It's way more than just bouncing back which, by the way, I hate that phrase.
Speaker 2:Oh, tell me about it.
Speaker 1:But OK. So the first few prompts are all about the birth itself. Now we'll get to the bigger picture, but I think revisiting the birth experience is a good place to start. What do you think?
Speaker 2:For sure. I mean, it kind of sets the stage for everything that follows, don't you think?
Speaker 1:Absolutely. And one prompt asks about like what was the most unexpected part of your birth? Because no matter how prepared you think you are, something always throws you a curveball.
Speaker 2:Oh 100%.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:And everyone deals with those curveballs so differently, right, like some people find that unexpected strength.
Speaker 1:I was just going to say that.
Speaker 2:Well, others need more time to process, you know.
Speaker 1:It's so true, Like that prompt, the one that's like what surprised you most about your birth. It's like it reminds us birth rarely goes exactly as planned, which for anyone involved, not just the person giving birth. I think that's huge to just acknowledge.
Speaker 2:Totally. And speaking of acknowledging things, there's this other prompt about reflecting on fears and anxieties around the birth, like those pre-baby jitters which are totally normal, by the way, but I feel like we don't talk about them enough.
Speaker 1:Right, and sometimes just saying those fears out loud, even if they sound kind of crazy, it helps, you know.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, it's not about getting our day to the feelings, but more about figuring out where they come from, because sometimes and I've seen this a lot those anxieties, if you don't deal with them, they can pop up after the baby is born and even affect how you parent.
Speaker 1:Like that prompt. It asks what were you most afraid of before the birth and how did those fears or did they not like show up during the actual experience?
Speaker 2:It's just acknowledging that those feelings are real.
Speaker 1:And for some people.
Speaker 2:They linger even after the baby's here. There's something so powerful about saying them out loud and then thinking about how you got through it.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's like hey, fear, I see you, but also I've got this tiny human to take care of, so let's do this thing.
Speaker 2:Exactly, and you know what I thought was interesting A lot of these prompts. They're about gratitude, even when things are hard. There's one like what are you most grateful for about your birth? Finding even small things to appreciate, I think, during that time can be huge for mental well-being.
Speaker 1:Totally. It's like finding the good even when things are messy can totally change your perspective. Just reading that one made me think about how important gratitude is, and not even just for postpartum, you know.
Speaker 2:Oh, absolutely. I think we could all use a little more gratitude, especially during times when things feel uncertain or are changing a lot.
Speaker 1:For sure. So we've talked about the actual birth, but that's obviously just the beginning.
Speaker 2:Right, what about this next set of prompts, the ones about those first few weeks and months of new parenthood? Anything stand out. You know, what struck me is we focus so much on the birth parent's physical recovery, which of course is important, but these prompts really highlight how much is going on emotionally, and in the relationship too. It's a huge E adjustment.
Speaker 1:So true, it's not just about your body healing, it's about like who you are, and now. Now, as a parent, as a partner too yes, exactly there's this one prompt.
Speaker 2:It asks how has your relationship with your partner evolved since having the baby? And I think it's easy to forget that this transition it impacts both partners. Communication is more important than ever.
Speaker 1:I was so happy to see that one because, right, it's not just about the mom, the other partner is adjusting too.
Speaker 2:Exactly, and the whole dynamic of the relationship is shifting. There's just a lot to figure out, especially those first few weeks when, let's be honest, sleep is like a distant memory and hormones are all over the place.
Speaker 1:And, yeah, the sleep deprivation oof that can make everything harder Communicating, making decisions, all of it for both people. Oh, 100 percent. Speaking of those sleep deprived days, I do like how these prompts they don't shy away from the hard stuff. There's one that's like what are some emotions you felt that you were not expecting, because, I mean, those first few weeks especially are intense.
Speaker 2:It's not all you know. Gurgling and cute baby smells. It's real raw emotions, the whole spectrum.
Speaker 1:Totally, and that's why I think journaling can be so helpful, you know, during that time especially Just having that space to process it all, even the stuff you don't want to admit out loud.
Speaker 2:It's like you're having a conversation with yourself, but on paper, so you can be totally honest about what you're going through, without worrying about saying the right thing or burdening anyone.
Speaker 1:Oh, I love that, and it doesn't even have to be like this big formal journaling thing. Just jotting down a few words here and there can help so much when you feel overwhelmed.
Speaker 2:A hundred percent. Oh, there's this one prompt in this section I thought was really insightful. Have there been times when you felt disconnected from your baby? I think that happens to a lot of parents, but it feels almost taboo to talk about.
Speaker 1:Oh for sure, there's this pressure to present this like perfect picture of bonding, but in reality it's just it's more complicated than that Exactly, and that prompt.
Speaker 2:It lets you acknowledge that bonding takes time. It's not always this immediate thing and just being able to say, hey, I feel unsure or even I don't feel super connected right now, without judgment, that's huge.
Speaker 1:It makes me think of a friend of mine. She was saying how she didn't have that like instant, overwhelming love that everyone talks about. For her it was more like taking care of a tiny stranger at first, but then, you know, over time that bond grew and now she can't imagine life without her son.
Speaker 2:That's such a good example of how these journeys they're just so personal, you know, and it's important to give space for that. Whatever someone's experiencing, it's valid.
Speaker 1:And it's different for everyone, right? Like even just thinking about self-care during that time. Oh, absolutely.
Speaker 2:What works for one person might not work for another. That's why I like the one that says what brings you joy and nourishment during this time. It's about finding what truly fills you up, even when being a new parent is so demanding.
Speaker 1:Finding those bright spots right, Whether it's a hot bath, reading for 10 minutes, whatever.
Speaker 2:Exactly Making time for those things, no matter how small. It's about recharging, remembering what you need. Self-care is not selfish, it's how you keep going.
Speaker 1:So true. So we've talked about the emotions, the relationship, stuff, but then there's also this whole like logistical side of things to figure out.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, it's like they hand you this baby and are like, ok, go be an expert. With like zero sleep and a whole lot of uncertainty, having a good support system during that time, it's everything.
Speaker 1:It really is. There's actually a prompt about that, asking who are you leaning on for support right now and how are they helping you?
Speaker 2:I was going to say that one. It just highlights how crucial that support is and it acknowledges that it can come from so many places, right? Your partner, family, friends, maybe a postpartum doula, a therapist, even.
Speaker 1:It's about knowing who those key people are, the ones who can help practically, emotionally, and then actually letting them help.
Speaker 2:Because even those little things, like someone bringing you a meal or just listening without judgment, those things are huge when you're feeling overwhelmed.
Speaker 1:It really does take a village right, Even if your village is mostly online these days.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:It really does. It makes you realize you should be building that village, like even before the baby comes, you know.
Speaker 2:Absolutely. And it goes back to that self-care thing we were talking about Asking for help. I mean, that IS self-care, admitting you don't have to do it all yourself.
Speaker 1:It takes a village right, and not just to like raise the kid, but to support the parents who are doing the raising.
Speaker 2:Exactly, and like we keep saying, postpartum it's a huge time of change. Being kind to yourself, giving yourself grace, that's more important than ever.
Speaker 1:Oh for sure, especially with social media and everything, it's so easy to compare yourself to these like perfect parent portrayals. But these next prompts we're going to get into, they're all about looking inward, personal growth, what you want for the future, that kind of thing.
Speaker 2:And that's what's so cool about them. Yeah, there are challenges, but there's also this huge opportunity for you to grow. You know, this experience can really change you.
Speaker 1:It's true, there's one here. I wrote it down because it really stuck with me. What are you most proud of yourself for during this postpartum journey? Honestly, I don't think we ask ourselves that enough, especially new parents.
Speaker 2:We should celebrate those wins more, even the little ones, because let's be real, some days just getting out the door with a newborn, that's a victory.
Speaker 1:Right Like I went to the grocery store, talked to another human and remembered diapers. I am amazing.
Speaker 2:Exactly. And those little things add up, they make you more resilient, they remind you that you can handle whatever comes next.
Speaker 1:Which, speaking of these last few prompts, they're really interesting. It's like okay, you've gone through that initial crazy newborn stage, so now what? What does the future look like for you, for your kid?
Speaker 2:Yeah, you're shifting your perspective, moving from those intense first few weeks to thinking more long-term.
Speaker 1:Totally. This one really got me. What legacy do you hope to leave for your child? I know deep question when you're sleep deprived and covered in spit up, but it's important.
Speaker 2:It really is. It makes you think about your values, what you believe in and what you want to pass on to your kids. What kind of people do you want them to be? What kind of world do you want them to live in?
Speaker 1:Wow, that's a good way to put it. It's like we're not just responsible for raising kids, but for helping to create the future we want for all of us, you know.
Speaker 2:Exactly, and we can't control everything our kids will face, but we can try to give them the tools to deal with it Kindness, empathy, knowing how to bounce back from setbacks and that starts with us showing them how to do that.
Speaker 1:That's so true. It's a constant learning curve being a parent, for everyone involved. Sure Well, we've reached the end of our deep dive and I have to say these postpartum journal prompts they really gave me a lot to think about.
Speaker 2:Me too. It's a reminder that, even though it's tough this postpartum period, it's also a really special time, full of potential. You know, embrace the messy parts celebrate the little wins.
Speaker 1:Don't be afraid to ask for help. Find the joy where you can, even when things are chaotic, and remember you're not alone in this whole parenting thing. It's a wild ride. So to everyone listening, we hope this gave you some things to think about, no matter where you are on.